Resolved: Girls in abusive relationships are too involved, not too scared to get out. I'm not going to be formal with this topic, because I really don't like formal things, and this isn't for school. If you look at the stories, the interviews, the dead bodies etc. you can see the result of girls refusing to get out of a relationship. Even when they know that they can be seriously physically, emotionally, or mentally hurt, they still stay. Usually the girls who do get out just get right back in with some jewelry or sweet words. I know everyone's tired of this example, so am I, but take Rihanna. Her and Chris were together for a while. Another girl texted him, she got mad, through it out the window, and Chris beat her like she was the Devil. We've all seen the pictures. What I don't understand is even though she pressed charges, she still went back to him. For what? Publicity, and an expensive diamond ring. Jewelry doesn't raise the dead! Sweet words and chocolate don't take away the pain. I truly feel sorry for girls in abusive relationships. They know they're in danger and they don't leave. There was a woman in Indiana. She was in an abusive relationship with her boyfriend. He beat her so hard, he rearranged her face. Literally. She had to have her nose taken off. He's in jail, and says he still loves her. She's alive, and she still wants him back! Now you tell me, what kind of love is that? Or if that doesn't suit you, how about this? There was a young woman, a student at Texas A&M. She and her boyfriend lived together. Whenever he got mad, he would hit her. She knew she was in an abusive relationship, and her family did too. When she finally had sense enough to figure out she needed to get out, it was too late. He got mad one night, and killed her. I forgot whether or not he stabbed her, beat her, or shot her, but there was blood everywhere in their bathroom. To get rid of the evidence, he chopped up her body and grilled it! Why can't women see that they need to get out of relationships before it's too late? Shhe thought it was love. One should never get so involved with a relationship that they can't see past the smile and the mirage. I don't mean all girls, just the ones in the vast majority of the ones in the abusive relationships. My debate is, is the reason girls don't get out of abusive relationships because they're too scared or are they too involved? I say that they are too involved.
Women in abusive relationships don't really many choices. Men are bigger and stronger. Of course the girls are too scared to do anything, or maybe they're just in denial. What are they going to do? Beat the guy up? Shoot him in his sleep and go to jail for life?
Women that put up with this are spineless. Tell someone!