Guys can not be just friends with girls
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Now girls on the other hand do not buy into this argument because they believe that they can have a guy who is sweet and wants to hang out and do all the things mentioned above like dress or purse shopping or going to the Opera. But unfortunately ladies that is incorrect, guys really want you if they are hanging out with you as friends. This might come as a shocker but watch how fast a guy friend disappears when the woman gets a new boyfriend. All of a sudden the guy friend is nowhere to be found or he is busy or whatever excuse he gives you. It's because he realizes the woman is not interested in him that way and he is gone.
Guys can't JUST be friends with women, let me know if you don't agree
I personally know many guys who really liked a girl but where to afraid to ask her out on a real date so they just hung around for years as friends hoping to get the courage or hoping the girl would some day just say she wants the guy, but most times the girls have no idea about the guy friend or just ignores the fact that there might be more, girls want guy friends but I don't believe guys think the same way.
For a guy it's "she is hot I want her" and the girl thinks the guy is sweet but she is not interested in him that way, they can still be good friends as she sees it, but he is just there waiting for the next move to happen so in the mean time he will hang out and do all the girl stuff.
The sure sign is always when the girl gets a new boyfriend, the guy friend is just gone
Now I don't know anything about gay guys or how they are with girls, maybe I should have clarified my opening statement a little clearer "Straight guys will not be just friends with girls" Straight guys do not want the friend zone, if they get put into that they are gone, if they see there is no shot because the girl has a new boyfriend, they are gone. I have seen many of my friends do it, I myself give women I'm dating one month, I don't get some booty in a month, I'm gone. Now you can call me shallow or whatever you want to call me but that is the way it is with guys. Straight guys and girls just don't have that much in common, it comes down to basic predatorial instincts, hunt, gather, eat, mate, do it all over. That is my evidence, over 8000 years of human evolution, the need to mate. This is why guys always say about women "Can't live with them, can't live without them" They tick us off and drive us crazy but, we love the sex so we stay" Being friends there is no sex so there is no point in hanging around. I don't want to watch the "Bachelor or the Voice" but I will if there is booty after.
I know, I know, some Sensitive Steve will be upset with these comments but that is the way it is with guys my friend. I'm just telling you how it is, there will always be exceptions but for the most part that's how it is. Guys give me a vote if you agree "Huuaahhh"!!!! Semper Fi !!!
I am a straight male, and I have had a few relationships with females in the past that I had absolutely no interest in any sexual contact. Either they were not attractive or they were not single but we were friends for a different reason. For example there was this girl C that I was very close friends with for about 2 years. I never once had any feelings for her and we were mainly friends because we hung out and smoked together. We talked to each other and we had a lot of common interests but there was never anything sexual between us.
I think you use the word evolution here wrongly, as evolution has to do with small changes over time as a result of natural selection but you are referencing human history I assume. Also if you actually talk to a girl you will find out that they really like having sex and are often just as horny as guys. You being a dick is not really evidence to support your case, and you can't really make a generalization of an entire gender just because of one person.
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