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mostlogical
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SpeedyLapis
Con (against)

It should be okay for men to cheat but not women

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Started: 11/3/2016 Category: People
Updated: 1 month ago Status: Debating Period
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mostlogical

Pro

I Pro will argue that it should be okay for men but not women to cheat in relationships

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SpeedyLapis

Con

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Debate Round No. 1
mostlogical

Pro

In an ideal world a man meets a woman, they both fall in love and thus never need anyone else (other than friends and family). However we live in a world full of feminists and feminist supporters.

My argument is split into two parts

1. It is okay for men to cheat
2. It is not okay for women to cheat.

1. Women who cheat are scrum, whores, or whatever name you want to call them. They certainly are not worthy of respect because they abuse their power - it doesn't matter if a woman is fat, shy, or horrible she can have sex with pretty much any guy she likes within 5 minutes, it requires her zero effort. So, when women cheat they want to hurt their boyfriend maybe not right away but at least when they are dumped, and they obviously do not care about having a relationship with the other guy otherwise they'd end the relationship first instead of cheating. Men who cheat might not have that opportunity again. There is pressure on men to be good at sex, they might not want to lose their girlfriend or just want to please her.

2. In an ideal world of course it would be best for men to end a relationship before starting a new one, and find a woman they love and want to spend their life with. Unfortunately, when a man does end a relationship because he doesn't feel it is working, women make that man feel socially low value, they say things like "all the good guys are taken, there is a reason why men are single and nobody wants them". Women actually believe a man who cheats is better than one who doesn't since a man who cheats must have something good going for them. Men feel degraded by being single, and not just by women either. When a man is in a failing relationship and a once in a lifetime opportunity exists, should he take it and potentially be happy forever? Or should he miss out, try but fail at breaking up gently, and then feel like rubbish for doing the right thing according to women.

It is difficult for men to end a relationship for many reasons, one is that they are ending a friendship too. A lot of men feel they have to tell women they are gay or something similar as it tends to work out better if a woman loses interest in them opposed to themself losing interest. Ending a relationship by cheating on a woman is far less painful for a woman than ending it due to not seeing a future together as a result of lacking strength to cope with her depression etc. Cheating makes it much easier for a woman to move on, meaning she is likelier to be a friend, and creates a greater chance of being back together when things do change, because cheating is only a mistake.
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Posted by FanboyMctroll 4 weeks ago
FanboyMctroll
Men and women are both human, why should men get special privileges and not women. It's all about how you treat each other. This type of thinking is what we have had for thousands of years and it still goes on in half the world.

Let's just admit men are dirty bastards who can't keep it in their pants and it's all cool, but if women are like that they are sluts. I don't get this type of thinking. Men and women should be treated equal, after all if it wasn't for a women you would not even exist.
Posted by stay_trippy 1 month ago
stay_trippy
Pizza rolls not gender roles
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