Should our schools and colleges be Co-educational?
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I am fine, if the stress during schooling is not on Academics, if enough space is given for the rest, in which case, we should advocate early marriage, that will also solve the problem, because the commitment will have happened, then tighten the social security system, and narrow down the choices, then the focus will be brought back to the expected priority.
We are now thinking of solving a problem, with the perceived notion of increased competition, and with the decreased number of children per family, and with the increased anxiety of the parents, and with the increased number of electronic and social gadgets, on the one hand, the pressure on academic performance increases, and the amount of distraction too has increased, with the changing attitude about, sex and marriage, along with the social norms, it is becoming increasing difficult for the student to balance all this.
This argument is intended to open up in one direction to see whether something could be done to ease the pressure on the child, who is studying.
Postponing that experience will likely only make it harder. As a rule people are better able to adjust to new circumstances when they are younger. There is no point in life when it is a "good time" to learn to deal with the opposite sex. There will always be difficulties; there will always anxieties; there will always be hormones.
School and studies are important. But LIFE is important. Single-sex school might well make studying a little easier, but they would make the transition into a fuller life much more difficult. It would be taking a small short term gain in exchange for much larger loss later on, and it would postpone living a full life.
Let me tell you how serious this question is, in a co-ed class room, when a boy or a girl has a doubt, in what is being taught, they seldom get up and pose the question, this is because of the fear that they carry on the impression that they may create with the other sex. This definitely hinders their learning.
It is of utmost importance for the student to open up with the teacher in the class for clearing the doubts and for the learning to continue, and we should not allow, any other distractions, I do not know how old are you, and what is your experience, I am in the field of education for the past 33 years, and now I can feel the difference in the attitude of the students in learning, and here I am trying to find out how much of this shift in the attitude is because of the presence of the other gender in the class.
It is true that some people are fearful of posing questions because of the impression it might make with the other sex. Everyone needs to learn to deal with that fear. If they don"t learn to deal with this in school, they will have to learn to deal with it in their profession where the stakes are higher and the transition is more difficult.
I am not denying that school is more difficult because it is co-ed. Life is more difficult because it is co-ed (though being more difficult is not always a bad thing). Co-ed school teach students how to interact with members of the opposite sex. This is a lesson that everyone must eventually learn. If we put this lesson of until later in life when school is over then we make the transition more difficult and in practice we cause people to put off living a full life. While there are advantages to single gender school, co-ed schools are far superior.
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Vote Placed by iholland95 6 months ago
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Reasons for voting decision: "Life is co-ed" which is so true. You deal with co-ed every day, whether through work or activities
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