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Vendel22890
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D-Justice
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Should your bf/gf be more important than friends?

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D-Justice
Voting Style: Open Point System: 7 Point
Started: 1/26/2015 Category: People
Updated: 2 years ago Status: Post Voting Period
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Vendel22890

Pro

I think that your boyfriend/girlfriend should be slightly more important. I mean, you two are dating, right?
D-Justice

Con

Your bf/gf is a person you meet and love. Even though you two 'love' each other. You have extra stuff to worrie about. But with a friend you two are friends and don't have to worry about 'he looked at her the wrong way' or 'you don't live me anymore'. There is less to think about and put between the each other. But if you were in a relationship that a whole new level of topics to think about.
Debate Round No. 1
Vendel22890

Pro

As you said, you love them. Wouldn't you want to spend more time with them?
D-Justice

Con

Loving them dosent mean you spend time with them. There are people here in the United states that love people in Africa, even though they never meet them, yet they still love them. Love can be a variety of things, mental love, emotional love, physical love. You can love a person in any way you want, and yet you may have never met the person before.
Debate Round No. 2
Vendel22890

Pro

You can't love someone you have never met. I will agree that you can love people far away. But you would still jump at a chance to talk to them.
D-Justice

Con

It's basically like theres a slight chance that you're gonna date a guy you had just met forever, but there's a higher chance that your best friend since like kindergarten will be your friend longer than the relationship that you have with this guy. And you have to think about the person who will be there for you and with you through anything, no matter the situation. Like if the guy got you pregnant, if he's an but hole, he'll leave you, but your best friend will be there for you and go through it with you. Though that was just an example.
Debate Round No. 3
Vendel22890

Pro

Vendel22890 forfeited this round.
D-Justice

Con

Over all your friends are more important than you boyfriend or girlfriend.
Debate Round No. 4
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Vote Placed by Paleophyte 2 years ago
Paleophyte
Vendel22890D-JusticeTied
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