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iamsano
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MeoWeRiNG
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This house believes men should make the first move.

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Voting Style: Open Point System: 7 Point
Started: 12/20/2007 Category: Society
Updated: 9 years ago Status: Voting Period
Viewed: 1,178 times Debate No: 746
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iamsano

Con

This is an open motion and i will let the proposition decide where to take it. you can talk about a relationship, anything.
first come first serve
MeoWeRiNG

Pro

Good day to you. I'm kinda new here, so....

I've clearly noticed that you didn't define the motion, set the parameters, and other blah blah...

So I have nothing to say coz you have nothing to say. . .
Debate Round No. 1
iamsano

Con

hi
Thanks for your reply and i gave you the opportunity to set up the debate because you are the proposition.
ok lets go back to the debate. I believe that women should make the first move and i am gonna give you my reason.
if we go back to history, women had not right and they were considered as second class citizen. Things have changed a lot and today women are playing important roles in our societies.
I focus this debate on a relationship or love. I have always seen that whenever a woman comes to a man and confessed to him, she kind of loses her value or dignity and people might think she is a serious woman or she is a prostitute and that is wrong.
We believe that only men should make the first move. for example proposing to a woman and i belive women should now make a move and that move should be seen as normal.
The main reasons for this is that i believe women have feelings like we men do, they have the right to express their feeligns as we do, they have emotions, they have love and they can fall for men too like we fall for them and since we all have the same needs, they should then have the right to make a move first and nobody should criticize them for that.
I believe men should chnage their behavior on that issue. i mean just imagine sitting in a restaurant and a lady comes to you, talk to you, take your number, call you and invite you out and then you know let you know of how she feels.. how will you feel? most men will not feel good about that and it might even be difficult for the man to love her back because he will be thinking that she is like that. I believe that is not right and that is why i say women should also make the first move too and the whole is that i believe that move should be normal.
They should be allow to divorce a man first like in most culture, only the men can do that. anyway there so many issues but i focus the expression of one's love.
Thank you
MeoWeRiNG

Pro

MeoWeRiNG forfeited this round.
Debate Round No. 2
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Posted by AREA 9 years ago
AREA
>just imagine sitting in a restaurant and a lady comes to >you, talk to you, take your number, call you and invite >you out and then you know let you know of how she feels.. >how will you feel?

sounds like any given Sunday to me.
I would like to see a society where everyone thought that the norm. THis goes for business, etc, as well. Of course, men should be allowed to take initiative as well.
Posted by IraqiStateOfAmerica 9 years ago
IraqiStateOfAmerica
The most intresting debate ever.
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