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Why people should allow gay marriages.

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Started: 1/9/2018 Category: Miscellaneous
Updated: 6 months ago Status: Post Voting Period
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coolgirl105

Pro

People should allow gay marriages because they don't do harm to anyone to see a man with another man or a women with another women it really doesn't matter if they are gay people should allow it. It says in an article "Denying some people the option to marry is discriminatory and creates a second class of citizens." it also says "The concept of "traditional marriage" has changed over time, and the definition of marriage as always being between one man and one woman is historically inaccurate. " It also says "Marriage is an internationally recognized human right for all people. " there is a lot more than you think like gay marriages are protected by the government. Also there is another reason " Proponents argue that equal rights must mean equal rights. A civilized society does not discriminate on grounds of race, religion, sex or sexuality and denial of marriage rights is clear discrimination. Gay and heterosexual couples both deserve the legal rights associated with marriage " on taxes, property ownership, inheritance or adoption. No matter how you try to dress it up, denying equal rights to gays and lesbians is homophobia." there are a lot of reasons why there should be gay marriages. Like " The state should have no say on how consenting adults conduct their lives. If two people love each other and want to get married they should be allowed to do so regardless of the color, religion, nationality or sex of their partner. Love and marriage should be a purely personal choice. When governments interfere in the private lives of people, dictating who can marry who, individual freedoms are compromised with potentially dangerous implications." there is also this reason " Homosexuality is a normal variant of adult sexuality; gay men and lesbians possess the same potential and desire for sustained loving and lasting relationships as heterosexuals, including loving and parenting children. This is supported by hard data, not just opinion."
Maryam_mosawy

Con

Gay/lesbian/homosexual/bi/transgender is a problem and I'll tell you why from my own personal point of view.
(I've already debated with two other people in this concept, and they both have fortified. )

The government shouldn't even be legalizing gay marriage or even encouraging it to society. Marriage is a privilege, not a right. And if you don't wanna look at it in a religious point of view, that's how mother nature is; marriage can only be made between a man and a woman, and all these people are doing is disrupting the nature with their sick mentalities. If you're saying that a " civilized society does not discriminate on grounds of race, religion, sex or sexuality and denial of marriage rights is clear discrimination", then what about polygamy? Why does the society allow gay marriage but not polygamy? A civilized society doesn't encourage immoral values.
It does bring harm to the society and it will. Do you think it's fair for the younger generations, who will neither have a mother nor a father? Girls who are raised apart from their fathers will more likely be involved with early sexual activity. Children without a mother are deprived of their security and unique advice. That's why two parents from different genders is very important. A 2012 study was made in Texas, found that children who have been raised in a same sex relationship faced more difficulties in life, such as sexual abuse and unemployment later in life. It could even lead to a child being bullied and humiliated in school. Evidence also suggests that children who are raised by homosexuals are more likely to experience gender and sexual disorders.
Now that gay marriage has been legalized in some countries like America and Australia, it advances the homosexuality agenda and unfairly paints opponents as bigots. How are further generations going to know the difference between friendship and love if they're just gonna keep looking at gay couples everywhere. And because of it's legalization, the number of gays and lesbians will increase and the traditional way of marriage will be destroyed.
Like common sense its wrong anyways, you can't have sex with the same gender; your genitals don't work like that. And even if you adopt children, as I mentioned before it'll be unfair for the child.
Debate Round No. 1
coolgirl105

Pro

There are a lot of reasons that people should allow gay marriages like this one "Marriage is a successful institution and it makes sense to open it to as many people as possible. Since the beginning of history, couples have sought to seal their love and solemnly bind themselves together through marriage. Opening that bond to all will strengthen society. Legalization recognizes reality: there are gay people, they love each other and they want to commit to each other through marriage in the same way as straight couples," that would be a reason to allow gay marriages but there are some bad things like this "Critics argue that marriage is defined as the union of a man and a woman, and to change that would go against natural law and risk undermining both the institution of marriage and the family’s role in holding society together. Legalization denies marriage’s central role as a step towards procreation. There are civil partnerships available for gays, but marriage is a step too far. In the French context, the changes in the law will remove the terms “mother and father” from the civil code weakening the rights of heterosexual families." I may be voting for gay marriages but lots of people say it is only for man and women like this quote has just exlamed for everyone but the quote before gives a good reason to vote for gay marriages instead of against it. Even churches should allow it here is why "Gay marriage should be allowed for anyone who wants to enter into gay marriage. If a member of any church, Catholic or otherwise, is in good standing with the church, they should be able to have their marriage recognized by their church. Times have changed and the Pope could make it happen." That is why people should allow gay marriages.
Maryam_mosawy

Con

Well I like it how you just copied and pasted from the internet
If you're gonna debate don't just use somebody else's work as your own that's not how it works.
But since you're 13, then that's probably understandable.
Debate Round No. 2
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Posted by coolgirl105 6 months ago
coolgirl105
like i said i MIGHT know you i don't know if i actually do or not geeeeeeez!
Posted by Maryam_mosawy 6 months ago
Maryam_mosawy
ohh really???
girl I don't know you.. tell me whatcha know about me
Posted by coolgirl105 6 months ago
coolgirl105
you could be a person i know i am not quite sure yet
Posted by Maryam_mosawy 6 months ago
Maryam_mosawy
wdym???
Posted by coolgirl105 6 months ago
coolgirl105
because I am thinking of somebody that you could be.
Posted by Maryam_mosawy 6 months ago
Maryam_mosawy
sorry it sent twice
Posted by Maryam_mosawy 6 months ago
Maryam_mosawy
why do you want to know that?
Posted by Maryam_mosawy 6 months ago
Maryam_mosawy
why do you want to know that?
Posted by coolgirl105 6 months ago
coolgirl105
how old are you maryam_mosawy?
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