I think that us guys don't show much appreciation for what girls do for us and that's why i think most of girls freak out on there bf's or they leave them. girls if i can speak for the boys we do appreciate what u do for us we really do but we don't show it really because we think its not manly but guys honestly there's almost nothing more manlier than telling a girl how much she means to u and what she does for u. so do some things for her like cook, clean, ect. just do something to show that u appreciate them and what they do for u or u can even tell them that u love them and the reasons why and what they do for u so girls please dont be mad if we don't show it like i said we just think its unmanly to do that but we really do appreciate what u do for u and we love u very much thank u for reading this and comment what u think boys and girls.
I think you're making a generalization of 3.5 billion guys out there. Everyone's different, whether it's a guy or girl. Some are more expressive than others. You have to realize that there are many girls who don't appreciate their SOs. While most men stay away from cooking, cleaning, talking care of the children, etc, it's a lot to do with work stress. Men in general are in the workplace and are the primary source of income for the family. Women usually take the house responsibilities such as cooking, cleaning, etc. This is especially true in in non-Western countries. So, do husbands appreciate what their wives do? Yes. But every man has a way he expresses himself so who are we to judge.
well yes i agree us guys have to do a lot but when we stay at home and there are at work since we are so used to working we should do some things for them. What i meant by show our appreciation is when the women do something for us that took forever and we dont show how much we appreciate what they do for us. Like say she dresses up for you or or she cleans the house for u and she cooks for u then we need to say you look beautiful, or the house looks really nice, and thank your for dinner you know as you go to work and she stays at home and does these things then we should tell her that we appreciate what she did for u so that way u dont have to worry about that later since its done already.
I understand your point. However, all guys aren't the same. I know for a fact because many guys really do appreciate their wives and some express it, some don't. A way a lot of guys show their appreciation is by taking her out to dinner or helping her cook, clean, etc. When divorces and break-ups happen, it's not because of a lack of appreciation. It's because of a lack of commitment and communication. I think women understand they way their husbands work and know they are appreciated for their work.
i understand that many guys appreciate their wives and girlfriends but you gotta think about the guys that don't and they complain why their wives or girlfriends left them and that's why i made this debate because i think that guys think too much about themselves to think about their wives or girlfriends leaving them and they don't think why they left them that's why i think guys don't appreciate their girlfriends or wives but that's just my opinion
I agree but you can't deny there are women who are the same. A lot of women don't appreciate their husbands for what they do at work and feel they have it the easy way. This is not true of course as both housework and work outside take a lot to do. A healthy relationship isn't always about making each other feel special, it's about being special together. I personally don't believe in divorce because if two people break up because of a problem, it means they're too weak to solve it. In any marriage, there's always the good and there's the bad. It's easy to go through the good times but making it through the bad requires real courage and commitment.
Reasons for voting decision: Pro speaks from his own personal and cultural experience, saying, "We don't show it really because we thing its [sic] not manly," but offers no evidence. Con points out that everyone is different and making such generalizations is illogical. The burden of proof in this debate is on Pro as he is making a generalization of half of the world's population, and since Pro offers no evidence other than anecdotal, he fails to fulfill his BoP. Con wins by default.
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