Having safe sex is one of the most important things that we have to be in this era where the sexual transmitted diseases are all around us. Other problems that are emerging is overpopulation and premature pregnancy. Many of you are going to say that we have to do abstinence but saying that is like trying to teach a fish how to walk its in our nature. The solution is to use contraceptives since it has birth control and it stops the transition of diseases.
Well, first of all, I believe that abstinence is the best way to avoid all these STDs and unwanted pregnancies, after all it is 100& percent accurate. Also, if you are trying to do the analogy of the fish with the human nature it is obvious that our instinct is to just have sexual relations, and don't think about any contraceptives. Obviously, we don't want underage kids to follow their instincts and have a bunch of unwanted babies. The best solution is to show them that if you want to have sex you need to be able to have a family and be responsible enough. There is a lot of reason why they say the 2000 generation is ruined, and one of them is because we don't think about the consequences. And, I really don't want to be a part of that bad role modeling, I want to show kids their consequences of their actions and how can they affect their lives. I really think that we should go towards the abstinence way, it is a hundred percent effective and promotes sentimental relations instead of physical ones.
Maybe you aren't aware that sexual raltions are fundamental part of the human growing, if it wouldn't we shouldn't have the necssity to have it. Also, it is really important to know that maybe it isnt on our power to control the sexual desire of the teens, so what oder thing can we do? Well, at lest give them an option to experience this and avoid having unwanted babies. Also if they start lerning now they will be well prepared for everything.
Prepared for what? Why are we just generating a society in which the only thing we focus is in our physical desires? We need to star focusing in the things that matter; feelings. Ourselves are creating a generation sexopaths that may lead to many and many loveless marriage that can end in divorce. Let's remember that sex is the acting of making love and it should be done with the only person that you love and wish to stay forever and commit to each other. Just ask yourself, what do we want a self-conscious generation or a savage instinct-following one?
Its our instincts after all, we cannot do anything to change them. That is one thing we need to start dealing with, WE CAN NOT CONTROL THEM. And if we do manage to control them it will be 10,000 times more difficult to control the desires of others. As the saying says: "if you can't beat them, join them" Lets put a condom in that diseas and stop them, but always let our desires and passion win
If we followed our instincts we will still live in caverns. Sometimes we need to learn how can we control ourselves. Many important decision in the history of mankind required lots of time of h"thinking. We need to teach that philosophy to our children. After all, we want to make mankind full of remarkable people, not full of unwanted babies.