what's better to simply die or to live as a failure ?
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. it's quite hard to decide due to our ignorance as humans concerning everything linked to the future : we can only predict but we can never know for sure whether to end our lives and risk the possibility that we might rise another day
or to live on knowing that you risk living a sad life full of problems and difficulties
1 relative and comparison
now its up for everybody to choose on what position he is picking and what concerns he setting for himself. if u want to be the happiest person dont compare your status to anyone (material things) be yourself and thank for what u have because always remember millions above millions of people will be happy to exchange with u. the second thing is make a goal (i prefer spritual one) that will not 'end', what i mean by that is for example the religious man is always working for the afterlife, if u r not religious find a way like helping people or studing new things, and always hope until u gone off.
here some good qoutes:
If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal, not to people or things." - Albert Einstein
Every adversity, every failure, every heartache carries with it the seed on an equal or greater benefit". - Napoleon Hill
Do not look to those above you. Look to those below you, as it will more likely remind you of the favors Allah has bestowed upon you. - Prophet Muhammad, may the peace and blessings of Allah be upon him.
So if someone is a failure, actually he is not the person is choosing that..
enter this one see and compare the west/rich and middle east/poor ! http://chartsbin.com...
europe/america/rich counteries: (male;female)
UKRAINE 37.8 ;7.0
SWITZERLAND 24.8 ; 11.4
SWEDEN 18.7 ; 6.8
SLOVAKIA22.3 ; 3.4
SLOVENIA34.6 ; 9.4
SERBIA28.1 ; 10.0
RUSSIAN FEDERATION53.9 ; 9.5
ROMANIA21.0 ; 3.5
REPUBLIC OF KOREA39.9 ; 22.1
REPUBLIC OF MOLDOVA30.1 ; 5.6
POLAND26.4 ; 4.1
PORTUGAL15.6 ; 4.0
NORWAY17.3 ; 6.5
NETHERLANDS13.1 ; 5.5
NEW ZEALAND18.1 ; 5.5
LITHUANIA61.3 ; 10.4
JAPAN36.2 ; 13.2
HUNGARY40.0 ; 10.6
ICELAND0816.5 ; 7.0
ESTONIA0830.6 ; 7.3
FINLAND0929.0 ; 10.0
FRANCE0724.7 ; 8.5
CZECH REPUBLIC23.9 ; 4.4
DENMARK17.5 ; 6.4
CROATIA0928.9 ; 7.5
look this countries the most developed and the richest ones.. the most 'beautiful' people r the nations of europe (their girls make me so crazy im going mad) see how high thier suicide rate... the depression raving thier asses there, because many of many lost thier family relations.. they lost the spiritual and today they leaving religion and becoming an athiests... this westren countries now become a material life (in anyway u come - job, freinds etc...) u have status u succeed if not u r going to die and nobody give a sh1t cuz they love only their @ss ONLY, people have sh1t in thier brains with material thought. now lets see the inferior countries:
AZERBAIJAN1.0 ; 0.3
BAHRAIN4.0 ; 3.5- rich from oil stuff but this is the goverment , poor masses..(compare of earning)
EGYPT0.1 ; 0.0 - i dont know if this real but if its true that amazing egypt have millions of poor population!
INDIA13.0 ; 7.8
JORDAN 0.2 ; 0.0
JAMAICA 0.3; 0.0
ARMENIA 2.8 ; 1.1
ISRAEL7.0 ; 1.5
(http://chartsbin.com...) there r more statistics about other stuffs... anyway im showing u that the metarials ones r the most depressed nations compare to poor ones (ofcourse there r exceptions but talking about average...) many going to practice spiritual stuff like yoga, the budhua stuff, searching for peace of mind and converting to islam/budahism/christainity etc... if u want to find some relationship its hard to find in this material society so try the spiritaul people trust me they dont care about this american dream bullsh1t and from them u will find real happiness, love and trust. and why u losing hope??? find new way to your life change it...
u need to understand how much your life is really worth, dude there r people with some diseases like lepresy u cant imagine until u experience it by your ownself... some living life of paralyzed body from toe to head, only eyes they can the ability to move, and believe me u dont experience their hardship even a tiny scratch... go visit them for 1 hour,help them with a little service gladden their heart your life will change.
i personally had real sh1t stuff in my life, i was the only guy who was raoming all day and night place to place passing the time with stupid people like all people were my friend i love to chatting without end was runing away from schools and coming home late at night sleeping wake up going outside roaming coming home back playing cod4 and the same sh1t was realy stupid ^^ anyway when health problem (serious one) got me (i didnt leave my home for long time) NOBODY ZERO OF those f@cking sh1t motherf@cking friends (some friends of many years) even come to ask me how im feeling they gone like poops... i love to help people on daily basis and u realizing that people r just sh1t walking same mind the metarial people, at the begining i was slightly sad but ok life goes on, it not effect my at all because my really concerns is my religion my belief dont give a sh1t on people... u talking about beauty i have long beard like vikings xDDDD everybody saying to me to shave im its ugly and stuff like that.. ok if poeple dont like it they can bang thier head against the wall until next year...dude u choose your concern and goal only u can choose. my mentality is according to islam and not materail things so if u want what islam says about that here some few:
some qoutes of prophet mohhamed s,a,w and Quran:
-A woman may be married by four qualifications: one on account of her money; another, on account of the nobility of her pedigree; another on account of her beauty; the fourth, on account of her virtue. Therefore, look out for a woman that hath virtue: but if you do it from any other consideration, your hands be rubbed in dirt.
-"The worldly life is nothing but substance of deception." Quran
-Riches are not from an abundance of wordly goods but from a contented mind.
-"The best richness is the richness of the soul."
- "Never a believer is stricken with a discomfort, an illness, an anxiety, a grief or mental worry or even the pricking of a thorn but Allah will expiate his sins on account of his patience".
-Those who are patient in adversity and forgive wrongs are the doers of excellence.
-The love of the world is the root of all evil.
-"The human being does not fill up any vessel worse than his stomach."
-"If you put your whole trust in Allah, as you ought, He most certainly will satisfy your needs, as He satisfies those of the birds. They come out hungry in the morning, but return full to their nests.
-"If the value of the world was equal to that of the wing of a mosquito by Allah, He would not have allowed any disbeliever even a drink of water from it." Quran
- "Truly, in remembering God do hearts find rest. Quran
-"No one can give a better or more abundant gift than patience."
-"Whosoever would be chaste and modest; Allah will keep him chaste and modest and whosoever would seek self-sufficiency, God will make him self-sufficient; and whosoever would be patient, God will give him patience, and no one is granted a gift better and more comprehensive than patience".
- "How wonderful is the case of a believer; there is good for him in everything and this applies only to a believer. If prosperity attends him, he expresses gratitude to God and that is good for him; and if adversity befalls him, he endures it patiently and that is better for him".
-: `When I afflict my slave in his two dear things ( meaning is his eyes), and he endures patiently, I shall compensate him for them with paradise.".
-"Keep yourselves far from envy; because it eats up and takes away good actions, like a fire eats up and burns wood.
-"He, who wishes to enter paradise at the best gate, must please his father and mother."
anyway my point is t forget about materials its only a delusion, the real happiest comes from satisfied mind, i know it easy to throw here words but u have to change your mentality.. i hope it will be benefit wishing u the best.
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