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Ren
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5/3/2012 9:02:47 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
I've offended you.

I'm sorry.

You've given me no avenue to do this privately, particularly because you "defriended" me.

I guess it doesn't really make a difference, because we never really interacted. But, the fact that you went through the trouble to add me, was actually significant to me. I respect the intellect and persona you've projected, however accurate the persona may be, and thus, in this context, your opinion matters to me.

So, I'm going to assure you that you've misunderstood me, although it doesn't matter, and hope against hope that I haven't allowed the irreverent and sometimes caustic way I put things (consistent with my terribly dry humor) irreparably damage a positive opinion of me that I actually value (although when you said that you'd meet me, I didn't go so far as to take that seriously. I'm sure you've noticed that it wouldn't be impossible ;) -- so, we are still being realistic, here.)

Anyway, this is too long already and it really does feel quite attention slutty, but I didn't know how else. I don't even know why I care. Perhaps we're all artists and this internet projection is simply our artwork -- well, I really appreciate your artwork. Thassall.

So, I'm sorry. I didn't mean it that way.

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Ameriman
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5/3/2012 3:17:01 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
I forgive you.
We spend too much our time measuring compassion for those in needs by measuring inputs. How much money are we spending? How many programs are we creating? But we are not focusing on outcomes. Are these programs working? Are people getting out of poverty?
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OberHerr
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5/3/2012 3:17:55 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
Well, I sure as heck don't.
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sadolite
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5/3/2012 4:58:22 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
I don't think anyone really cared in the first place. I mean really, who gives a crap if someone unfriends you on DDO. How insecure and vanity oriented could one be to worry about being unfriended on DDO or any other web site. You don't even personally know or have never met 99% of them.
It's not your views that divide us, it's what you think my views should be that divides us.

If you think I will give up my rights and forsake social etiquette to make you "FEEL" better you are sadly mistaken

If liberal democrats would just stop shooting people gun violence would drop by 90%
imabench
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5/3/2012 5:37:41 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 5/3/2012 4:58:22 PM, sadolite wrote:
I don't think anyone really cared in the first place. I mean really, who gives a crap if someone unfriends you on DDO. How insecure and vanity oriented could one be to worry about being unfriended on DDO or any other web site. You don't even personally know or have never met 99% of them.

How have you been here for four years and have 0 DDO friends?
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OberHerr
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5/3/2012 5:40:30 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 5/3/2012 5:37:41 PM, imabench wrote:
At 5/3/2012 4:58:22 PM, sadolite wrote:
I don't think anyone really cared in the first place. I mean really, who gives a crap if someone unfriends you on DDO. How insecure and vanity oriented could one be to worry about being unfriended on DDO or any other web site. You don't even personally know or have never met 99% of them.

How have you been here for four years and have 0 DDO friends?

He mass defriended.

Reason: He's Sad O lite!

(for the slow: Pun, because his name sounds somewhat like sad a lot)
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Oryus
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5/3/2012 6:38:48 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
You can offend people, Ren?
I did not know you had this characteristic. Interesting...
: : :Tulle: The fool, I purposely don't engage with you because you don't have proper command of the English language.
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: : The Fool: It's my English writing. Either way It's okay have a larger vocabulary then you, and a better grasp of language, and you're a woman.
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sadolite
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5/3/2012 10:18:44 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 5/3/2012 5:37:41 PM, imabench wrote:
At 5/3/2012 4:58:22 PM, sadolite wrote:
I don't think anyone really cared in the first place. I mean really, who gives a crap if someone unfriends you on DDO. How insecure and vanity oriented could one be to worry about being unfriended on DDO or any other web site. You don't even personally know or have never met 99% of them.

How have you been here for four years and have 0 DDO friends?

I get requests all the time, I ignore them as they are not my "Friends". I don't throw the term around or take the term "friend" so nonchalantly like 99.99% of the people surfing web sites do. No one on here is my "friend" I have never personally met a single sole on this site. "Friendship" is something that must be "earned" over time. I have maybe two real "friends". All the rest of the people I know are just acquaintances. They may think we are friends, but they are not.
It's not your views that divide us, it's what you think my views should be that divides us.

If you think I will give up my rights and forsake social etiquette to make you "FEEL" better you are sadly mistaken

If liberal democrats would just stop shooting people gun violence would drop by 90%
sadolite
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5/3/2012 10:28:10 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
A "friend" is ten times more likly to throw you under the bus or stab you in the back than an aquintence is.
It's not your views that divide us, it's what you think my views should be that divides us.

If you think I will give up my rights and forsake social etiquette to make you "FEEL" better you are sadly mistaken

If liberal democrats would just stop shooting people gun violence would drop by 90%
Oryus
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5/4/2012 12:34:21 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 5/4/2012 12:22:27 AM, vmpire321 wrote:
How does one "unfriend" a person?

Why do you wanna know? http://www.ddotomen.com...
: : :Tulle: The fool, I purposely don't engage with you because you don't have proper command of the English language.
: :
: : The Fool: It's my English writing. Either way It's okay have a larger vocabulary then you, and a better grasp of language, and you're a woman.
:
: I'm just going to leave this precious struggle nugget right here.
imabench
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5/4/2012 1:28:26 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 5/4/2012 12:22:27 AM, vmpire321 wrote:
How does one "unfriend" a person?

click "my friends" under "my messages"

go through the list to find the person you want to unfriend

click the x all the way to the right of their page

the deed is done.
Kevin24018 : "He's just so mean it makes me want to ball up my fists and stamp on the ground"
Geogeer: "Nobody is dumb enough to become my protege."

7/14/16 = The Presidency Dies

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imabench
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5/4/2012 3:49:38 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 5/4/2012 12:34:21 AM, Oryus wrote:
At 5/4/2012 12:22:27 AM, vmpire321 wrote:
How does one "unfriend" a person?

Why do you wanna know? http://www.ddotomen.com...

lol
Kevin24018 : "He's just so mean it makes me want to ball up my fists and stamp on the ground"
Geogeer: "Nobody is dumb enough to become my protege."

7/14/16 = The Presidency Dies

DDO: THE MOVIE = http://www.debate.org...
http://www.debate.org...

VP of DDO from Dec 14th 2014 to Jan 1st 2015