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5/21/2014 12:20:37 AM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 5/21/2014 12:18:53 AM, SONOFGOD2013 wrote:
Ok so I like this girl but I don't know,how to come up,to her and talk to her. Anyone have advice?

"Hi" in a friendly, not creepy way would be a good place to start.
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5/21/2014 12:24:21 AM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 5/21/2014 12:20:37 AM, YYW wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:18:53 AM, SONOFGOD2013 wrote:
Ok so I like this girl but I don't know,how to come up,to her and talk to her. Anyone have advice?

"Hi" in a friendly, not creepy way would be a good place to start.

Ya that's probably the most reasonable way. Thx bro
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5/21/2014 12:25:58 AM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 5/21/2014 12:18:53 AM, SONOFGOD2013 wrote:
Ok so I like this girl but I don't know,how to come up,to her and talk to her. Anyone have advice?

As a gay guy, I'm not sure how useful my advice will be. My suggestion would be to approach her in a public setting, and just to be conversational. Avoid being pushy, appearing "too interested," and of course, don't be creepy. Keep things in a friendzone at first, and--hopefully--they will grow to something more over time.
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5/21/2014 12:28:32 AM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 5/21/2014 12:25:58 AM, bsh1 wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:18:53 AM, SONOFGOD2013 wrote:
Ok so I like this girl but I don't know,how to come up,to her and talk to her. Anyone have advice?

As a gay guy, I'm not sure how useful my advice will be. My suggestion would be to approach her in a public setting, and just to be conversational. Avoid being pushy, appearing "too interested," and of course, don't be creepy. Keep things in a friendzone at first, and--hopefully--they will grow to something more over time.

I actually think I got a chance with her.
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5/21/2014 12:29:25 AM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 5/21/2014 12:24:21 AM, SONOFGOD2013 wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:20:37 AM, YYW wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:18:53 AM, SONOFGOD2013 wrote:
Ok so I like this girl but I don't know,how to come up,to her and talk to her. Anyone have advice?

"Hi" in a friendly, not creepy way would be a good place to start.

Ya that's probably the most reasonable way. Thx bro

Cheers. Just talk to her. It doesn't have to be deep and meaningful, and should probably be casual. Start off gently at first, but subtly let her know you're interested. Maybe you talk to one of her friends (if you have the opportunity to do so without being intrusive or creepy) about how you think she's "pretty cool," but be very casual and "chill" about it. Don't comment on her hair, shoes, clothes, etc. though because she'll think you're gay if you do. Be friendly, polite and above all "chill."
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5/21/2014 12:29:35 AM
Posted: 2 years ago
Go up to her, say hi, then beat her to death with a watermelon. Hope that helps!
(Although really, what the guy said above me is good advice)
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5/21/2014 12:31:44 AM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 5/21/2014 12:28:32 AM, SONOFGOD2013 wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:25:58 AM, bsh1 wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:18:53 AM, SONOFGOD2013 wrote:
Ok so I like this girl but I don't know,how to come up,to her and talk to her. Anyone have advice?

As a gay guy, I'm not sure how useful my advice will be. My suggestion would be to approach her in a public setting, and just to be conversational. Avoid being pushy, appearing "too interested," and of course, don't be creepy. Keep things in a friendzone at first, and--hopefully--they will grow to something more over time.

I actually think I got a chance with her.

Great!
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5/21/2014 12:34:50 AM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 5/21/2014 12:30:32 AM, Zaradi wrote:
Burn her house down. With lemons.

Oh wow... it's been a while since we've seen that haha
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5/21/2014 12:37:13 AM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 5/21/2014 12:18:53 AM, SONOFGOD2013 wrote:
Ok so I like this girl but I don't know,how to come up,to her and talk to her. Anyone have advice?

If YouTube is to be believed, you can say almost anything to her, and it'll still work out. You can even dress up as a super hero.
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5/21/2014 12:39:44 AM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 5/21/2014 12:35:50 AM, EndarkenedRationalist wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:30:32 AM, Zaradi wrote:
Burn her house down. With lemons.

I'm making a note here. Huge success.

It's hard to overstate my satisfaction.
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5/21/2014 12:42:09 AM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 5/21/2014 12:18:53 AM, SONOFGOD2013 wrote:
Ok so I like this girl but I don't know,how to come up,to her and talk to her. Anyone have advice?

Here's what you do:

1. Meditate on it.
2. Form a multiple regression equation to calculate your odds and single out any statistically significant variables.
3. Address them accordingly.
4. ????

I guess 4 is make a move?

You could just skip all of this utter nonsense and start with 4, but that's no fun, right? The fun is in the chase....err..the procrastination.

But yeah, YYW and bsh are right on this one -- I'd trust the two of them on this. (Is there any reason they haven't flirted in this particular thread? I'm stunned).
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5/21/2014 12:43:42 AM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 5/21/2014 12:42:09 AM, JohnMaynardKeynes wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:18:53 AM, SONOFGOD2013 wrote:
Ok so I like this girl but I don't know,how to come up,to her and talk to her. Anyone have advice?

Here's what you do:

1. Meditate on it.
2. Form a multiple regression equation to calculate your odds and single out any statistically significant variables.
3. Address them accordingly.
4. ????

I guess 4 is make a move?


You could just skip all of this utter nonsense and start with 4, but that's no fun, right? The fun is in the chase....err..the procrastination.


But yeah, YYW and bsh are right on this one -- I'd trust the two of them on this. (Is there any reason they haven't flirted in this particular thread? I'm stunned).

Lol. Ya I guess the fun is in the "chase"
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5/21/2014 12:44:07 AM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 5/21/2014 12:42:09 AM, JohnMaynardKeynes wrote:

But yeah, YYW and bsh are right on this one -- I'd trust the two of them on this. (Is there any reason they haven't flirted in this particular thread? I'm stunned).

I mean, we don't flirt ALL the time. Just most of the time...
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5/21/2014 12:44:42 AM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 5/21/2014 12:39:44 AM, airmax1227 wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:35:50 AM, EndarkenedRationalist wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:30:32 AM, Zaradi wrote:
Burn her house down. With lemons.

I'm making a note here. Huge success.

It's hard to overstate my satisfaction.

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5/21/2014 12:45:26 AM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 5/21/2014 12:44:07 AM, bsh1 wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:42:09 AM, JohnMaynardKeynes wrote:

But yeah, YYW and bsh are right on this one -- I'd trust the two of them on this. (Is there any reason they haven't flirted in this particular thread? I'm stunned).

I mean, we don't flirt ALL the time. Just most of the time...

How do you define "most?" 90 percent of the time? 95?

Yes, this is somehow relevant.
~JohnMaynardKeynes

"The sight of my succulent backside acts as a sedative for the beholder. It soothes the pain of life and makes all which hurts seem like bliss. I urge all those stressed by ridiculous drama on DDO which will never affect your real life to gaze upon my cheeks for they will make you have an excitement and joy you've never felt before." -- Dr. Dennybug

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5/21/2014 12:45:28 AM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 5/21/2014 12:44:42 AM, EndarkenedRationalist wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:39:44 AM, airmax1227 wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:35:50 AM, EndarkenedRationalist wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:30:32 AM, Zaradi wrote:
Burn her house down. With lemons.

I'm making a note here. Huge success.

It's hard to overstate my satisfaction.

Aperture Science
We do what we must because we can

For the good of all of us.

Except the ones who are dead.
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5/21/2014 12:47:12 AM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 5/21/2014 12:45:26 AM, JohnMaynardKeynes wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:44:07 AM, bsh1 wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:42:09 AM, JohnMaynardKeynes wrote:

But yeah, YYW and bsh are right on this one -- I'd trust the two of them on this. (Is there any reason they haven't flirted in this particular thread? I'm stunned).

I mean, we don't flirt ALL the time. Just most of the time...

How do you define "most?" 90 percent of the time? 95?

Maybe 65% of the time. We also have serious conversations about a broad variety of things, from the crisis in Ukraine, to cuisine, to our tastes in Music...

Yes, this is somehow relevant.

Sure...lol
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5/21/2014 12:49:19 AM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 5/21/2014 12:47:12 AM, bsh1 wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:45:26 AM, JohnMaynardKeynes wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:44:07 AM, bsh1 wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:42:09 AM, JohnMaynardKeynes wrote:

But yeah, YYW and bsh are right on this one -- I'd trust the two of them on this. (Is there any reason they haven't flirted in this particular thread? I'm stunned).

I mean, we don't flirt ALL the time. Just most of the time...

How do you define "most?" 90 percent of the time? 95?

Maybe 65% of the time. We also have serious conversations about a broad variety of things, from the crisis in Ukraine, to cuisine, to our tastes in Music...

Interesting...I thought the rule of thumb is that the two things you never discuss on a date -- I guess, in this case, it's a pseudo-date -- are politics and religion. But hey, if it works for you guys, more power to you.

Yes, this is somehow relevant.

Sure...lol
~JohnMaynardKeynes

"The sight of my succulent backside acts as a sedative for the beholder. It soothes the pain of life and makes all which hurts seem like bliss. I urge all those stressed by ridiculous drama on DDO which will never affect your real life to gaze upon my cheeks for they will make you have an excitement and joy you've never felt before." -- Dr. Dennybug

Founder of the BSH-YYW Fan Club
Founder of the Barkalotti
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5/21/2014 12:50:44 AM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 5/21/2014 12:45:28 AM, airmax1227 wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:44:42 AM, EndarkenedRationalist wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:39:44 AM, airmax1227 wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:35:50 AM, EndarkenedRationalist wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:30:32 AM, Zaradi wrote:
Burn her house down. With lemons.

I'm making a note here. Huge success.

It's hard to overstate my satisfaction.

Aperture Science
We do what we must because we can

For the good of all of us.

Except the ones who are dead.

But there's no sense crying over every mistake

You just keep on trying till you run out of cake!
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5/21/2014 12:51:55 AM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 5/21/2014 12:49:19 AM, JohnMaynardKeynes wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:47:12 AM, bsh1 wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:45:26 AM, JohnMaynardKeynes wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:44:07 AM, bsh1 wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:42:09 AM, JohnMaynardKeynes wrote:

But yeah, YYW and bsh are right on this one -- I'd trust the two of them on this. (Is there any reason they haven't flirted in this particular thread? I'm stunned).

I mean, we don't flirt ALL the time. Just most of the time...

How do you define "most?" 90 percent of the time? 95?

Maybe 65% of the time. We also have serious conversations about a broad variety of things, from the crisis in Ukraine, to cuisine, to our tastes in Music...

Interesting...I thought the rule of thumb is that the two things you never discuss on a date -- I guess, in this case, it's a pseudo-date -- are politics and religion. But hey, if it works for you guys, more power to you.

We don't hit much on religion...but for politics wonks it can be hard not to talk about current affairs. IDK...we did meet on a debate website...
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5/21/2014 12:53:00 AM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 5/21/2014 12:50:44 AM, EndarkenedRationalist wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:45:28 AM, airmax1227 wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:44:42 AM, EndarkenedRationalist wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:39:44 AM, airmax1227 wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:35:50 AM, EndarkenedRationalist wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:30:32 AM, Zaradi wrote:
Burn her house down. With lemons.

I'm making a note here. Huge success.

It's hard to overstate my satisfaction.

Aperture Science
We do what we must because we can

For the good of all of us.

Except the ones who are dead.

But there's no sense crying over every mistake

You just keep on trying till you run out of cake!

And the science gets done.

And you make a neat gun
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5/21/2014 12:54:31 AM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 5/21/2014 12:53:00 AM, airmax1227 wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:50:44 AM, EndarkenedRationalist wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:45:28 AM, airmax1227 wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:44:42 AM, EndarkenedRationalist wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:39:44 AM, airmax1227 wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:35:50 AM, EndarkenedRationalist wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:30:32 AM, Zaradi wrote:
Burn her house down. With lemons.

I'm making a note here. Huge success.

It's hard to overstate my satisfaction.

Aperture Science
We do what we must because we can

For the good of all of us.

Except the ones who are dead.

But there's no sense crying over every mistake

You just keep on trying till you run out of cake!

And the science gets done.

And you make a neat gun

For the people who are http://i1.sndcdn.com...
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5/21/2014 12:55:11 AM
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At 5/21/2014 12:54:31 AM, EndarkenedRationalist wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:53:00 AM, airmax1227 wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:50:44 AM, EndarkenedRationalist wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:45:28 AM, airmax1227 wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:44:42 AM, EndarkenedRationalist wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:39:44 AM, airmax1227 wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:35:50 AM, EndarkenedRationalist wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:30:32 AM, Zaradi wrote:
Burn her house down. With lemons.

I'm making a note here. Huge success.

It's hard to overstate my satisfaction.

Aperture Science
We do what we must because we can

For the good of all of us.

Except the ones who are dead.

But there's no sense crying over every mistake

You just keep on trying till you run out of cake!

And the science gets done.

And you make a neat gun

For the people who are http://i1.sndcdn.com...

I'm not even angry...

I'm being so sincere right now.
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5/21/2014 12:56:38 AM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 5/21/2014 12:55:11 AM, airmax1227 wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:54:31 AM, EndarkenedRationalist wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:53:00 AM, airmax1227 wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:50:44 AM, EndarkenedRationalist wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:45:28 AM, airmax1227 wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:44:42 AM, EndarkenedRationalist wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:39:44 AM, airmax1227 wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:35:50 AM, EndarkenedRationalist wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:30:32 AM, Zaradi wrote:
Burn her house down. With lemons.

I'm making a note here. Huge success.

It's hard to overstate my satisfaction.

Aperture Science
We do what we must because we can

For the good of all of us.

Except the ones who are dead.

But there's no sense crying over every mistake

You just keep on trying till you run out of cake!

And the science gets done.

And you make a neat gun

For the people who are http://i1.sndcdn.com...

I'm not even angry...

I'm being so sincere right now.

Even though you broke my heart and killed me.
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5/21/2014 12:56:44 AM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 5/21/2014 12:18:53 AM, SONOFGOD2013 wrote:
Ok so I like this girl but I don't know,how to come up,to her and talk to her. Anyone have advice?

This is the truth. You get chicks by being an arrogant jerk. If you don't believe me than try it and see what happens.

You keep women by beating the hell out of them, and since that is immoral, it's better you become an arrogant jerk and start getting laid, left and right.
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5/21/2014 12:57:31 AM
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At 5/21/2014 12:56:38 AM, EndarkenedRationalist wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:55:11 AM, airmax1227 wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:54:31 AM, EndarkenedRationalist wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:53:00 AM, airmax1227 wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:50:44 AM, EndarkenedRationalist wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:45:28 AM, airmax1227 wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:44:42 AM, EndarkenedRationalist wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:39:44 AM, airmax1227 wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:35:50 AM, EndarkenedRationalist wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:30:32 AM, Zaradi wrote:
Burn her house down. With lemons.

I'm making a note here. Huge success.

It's hard to overstate my satisfaction.

Aperture Science
We do what we must because we can

For the good of all of us.

Except the ones who are dead.

But there's no sense crying over every mistake

You just keep on trying till you run out of cake!

And the science gets done.

And you make a neat gun

For the people who are http://i1.sndcdn.com...

I'm not even angry...

I'm being so sincere right now.

Even though you broke my heart and killed me.

And tore me to pieces.
And threw every piece into a fire.
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5/21/2014 12:58:58 AM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 5/21/2014 12:57:31 AM, airmax1227 wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:56:38 AM, EndarkenedRationalist wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:55:11 AM, airmax1227 wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:54:31 AM, EndarkenedRationalist wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:53:00 AM, airmax1227 wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:50:44 AM, EndarkenedRationalist wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:45:28 AM, airmax1227 wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:44:42 AM, EndarkenedRationalist wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:39:44 AM, airmax1227 wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:35:50 AM, EndarkenedRationalist wrote:
At 5/21/2014 12:30:32 AM, Zaradi wrote:
Burn her house down. With lemons.

I'm making a note here. Huge success.

It's hard to overstate my satisfaction.

Aperture Science
We do what we must because we can

For the good of all of us.

Except the ones who are dead.

But there's no sense crying over every mistake

You just keep on trying till you run out of cake!

And the science gets done.

And you make a neat gun

For the people who are http://i1.sndcdn.com...

I'm not even angry...

I'm being so sincere right now.

Even though you broke my heart and killed me.

And tore me to pieces.
And threw every piece into a fire.

As they burned, it hurt because, I was so happy for you.