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9/19/2015 9:46:15 PM
Posted: 1 year ago
Well I gusse some people on this site hate me and want me gone. On top of that they talk behind my back. Well just one thing I am disappointed in your lack of open mindness along with not having the balls the say it so my face.
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9/19/2015 10:06:58 PM
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It's just a debating website...
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9/19/2015 10:22:49 PM
Posted: 1 year ago
At 9/19/2015 9:46:15 PM, stargate wrote:
Well I gusse some people on this site hate me and want me gone. On top of that they talk behind my back. Well just one thing I am disappointed in your lack of open mindness along with not having the balls the say it so my face.

It's not you, its them, this same thing happens to everyone except Taylor Swift...
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9/19/2015 11:02:32 PM
Posted: 1 year ago
At 9/19/2015 9:46:15 PM, stargate wrote:
Well I gusse some people on this site hate me and want me gone. On top of that they talk behind my back. Well just one thing I am disappointed in your lack of open mindness along with not having the balls the say it so my face.

Please take these points in the spirit they are intended.

People talk. If you are putting yourself out there in any real way, people will be MORE inclined to talk about you. This is not a bad thing, and surely not a reason to get "hurt".

Several times I have seen you post about how harmed you feel. If this sort of sensitivity is going to plague you, then you only have a couple routes. One, grow a thicker skin. Two, don't engage in controversy. Really, these are the only choices.
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9/19/2015 11:13:15 PM
Posted: 1 year ago
At 9/19/2015 11:02:32 PM, TBR wrote:
At 9/19/2015 9:46:15 PM, stargate wrote:
Well I gusse some people on this site hate me and want me gone. On top of that they talk behind my back. Well just one thing I am disappointed in your lack of open mindness along with not having the balls the say it so my face.

Please take these points in the spirit they are intended.

People talk. If you are putting yourself out there in any real way, people will be MORE inclined to talk about you. This is not a bad thing, and surely not a reason to get "hurt".

Several times I have seen you post about how harmed you feel. If this sort of sensitivity is going to plague you, then you only have a couple routes. One, grow a thicker skin. Two, don't engage in controversy. Really, these are the only choices.

Oh I really don't care.
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9/19/2015 11:30:29 PM
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Aw, I don't hate you or want you gone.

Though as you know, you do need to improve your grammar and make more *informed* arguments as well as opening your mind to different political viewpoints.
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9/19/2015 11:30:58 PM
Posted: 1 year ago
At 9/19/2015 11:02:32 PM, TBR wrote:
At 9/19/2015 9:46:15 PM, stargate wrote:
Well I gusse some people on this site hate me and want me gone. On top of that they talk behind my back. Well just one thing I am disappointed in your lack of open mindness along with not having the balls the say it so my face.

Please take these points in the spirit they are intended.

People talk. If you are putting yourself out there in any real way, people will be MORE inclined to talk about you. This is not a bad thing, and surely not a reason to get "hurt".

Several times I have seen you post about how harmed you feel. If this sort of sensitivity is going to plague you, then you only have a couple routes. One, grow a thicker skin. Two, don't engage in controversy. Really, these are the only choices.

Funny thing is I brush them off usually. It is just I find these personal attacks rather well disappointing is all. I belive if you hate someone then at least tell it to there face or in this case avatar.
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9/19/2015 11:34:25 PM
Posted: 1 year ago
At 9/19/2015 11:30:29 PM, Emilrose wrote:
Aw, I don't hate you or want you gone.

Though as you know, you do need to improve your grammar and make more *informed* arguments as well as opening your mind to different political viewpoints.

Thank you, I agree on those two things. The reason I misspell is due to I like to type fast and that comes at the cost of spelling. I try to understand peoples view points. I even think they have an good point sometimes like healthcare. It is just I have such an strong opinion sometimes anlong with my pride and vanity I do not chnage my stances on that issue that is why. Heck look at my profile if you can tell I have changed some things on the issues. One being torture
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9/19/2015 11:45:09 PM
Posted: 1 year ago
At 9/19/2015 11:34:25 PM, stargate wrote:
At 9/19/2015 11:30:29 PM, Emilrose wrote:
Aw, I don't hate you or want you gone.

Though as you know, you do need to improve your grammar and make more *informed* arguments as well as opening your mind to different political viewpoints.

Thank you, I agree on those two things. The reason I misspell is due to I like to type fast and that comes at the cost of spelling. I try to understand peoples view points. I even think they have an good point sometimes like healthcare. It is just I have such an strong opinion sometimes anlong with my pride and vanity I do not chnage my stances on that issue that is why. Heck look at my profile if you can tell I have changed some things on the issues. One being torture

You're welcome ;) And I understand about the spelling and typing fast as I sometimes do that myself but in a debate good grammar is considered one of the most *important* things and it considerably benefits a person's argument. Actually I can spell a few thinsg wrong which is why I use spellchecker.

As for viewpoints--that's okay to be passionate or have strong feelings on a subject but for the development of your own opinions and/or views it's really useful to expand and moderate them a little. It only serves to provide you with more-well rounded arguments. I find in a lot of your own you repeat the same points (which I used to do) and ignore the other persons or fail to evaluate them objectively...which is something else I used to do. Having too much pride undoubtedly does that.

It's just about improving.
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9/19/2015 11:46:14 PM
Posted: 1 year ago
I don't know you and don't know of anything bad said about you (not that I've noticed anyway). The nature of this site, everyone will dislike someone and everyone will be disliked by someone. Focus on the people and parts you like. Hang in there.
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9/19/2015 11:47:31 PM
Posted: 1 year ago
At 9/19/2015 11:45:09 PM, Emilrose wrote:
At 9/19/2015 11:34:25 PM, stargate wrote:
At 9/19/2015 11:30:29 PM, Emilrose wrote:
Aw, I don't hate you or want you gone.

Though as you know, you do need to improve your grammar and make more *informed* arguments as well as opening your mind to different political viewpoints.

Thank you, I agree on those two things. The reason I misspell is due to I like to type fast and that comes at the cost of spelling. I try to understand peoples view points. I even think they have an good point sometimes like healthcare. It is just I have such an strong opinion sometimes anlong with my pride and vanity I do not chnage my stances on that issue that is why. Heck look at my profile if you can tell I have changed some things on the issues. One being torture

You're welcome ;) And I understand about the spelling and typing fast as I sometimes do that myself but in a debate good grammar is considered one of the most *important* things and it considerably benefits a person's argument. Actually I can spell a few thinsg wrong which is why I use spellchecker.

As for viewpoints--that's okay to be passionate or have strong feelings on a subject but for the development of your own opinions and/or views it's really useful to expand and moderate them a little. It only serves to provide you with more-well rounded arguments. I find in a lot of your own you repeat the same points (which I used to do) and ignore the other persons or fail to evaluate them objectively...which is something else I used to do. Having too much pride undoubtedly does that.

It's just about improving.

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9/19/2015 11:57:38 PM
Posted: 1 year ago
At 9/19/2015 9:46:15 PM, stargate wrote:
Well I gusse some people on this site hate me and want me gone. On top of that they talk behind my back. Well just one thing I am disappointed in your lack of open mindness along with not having the balls the say it so my face.

I don't hate you. You just need to present yourself better and try to post comments with a high level of grammar.

Just a tip, instead of saying "we had to do it" back it up with facts and try to make your opinion strong. People will not agree with you, but at least they can respect you for being informed on the topic.

I know you can do it, its not very hard. try to read debates, expand your knowledge and become a better DDO user.

I seriously don't think anybody hates you, I think its just some find you annoying, but its mostly your grammar.
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9/20/2015 1:35:35 AM
Posted: 1 year ago
At 9/19/2015 9:46:15 PM, stargate wrote:
Well I gusse some people on this site hate me and want me gone. On top of that they talk behind my back. Well just one thing I am disappointed in your lack of open mindness along with not having the balls the say it so my face.

I like you.
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9/20/2015 2:22:32 AM
Posted: 1 year ago
At 9/20/2015 1:35:35 AM, Wylted wrote:
At 9/19/2015 9:46:15 PM, stargate wrote:
Well I gusse some people on this site hate me and want me gone. On top of that they talk behind my back. Well just one thing I am disappointed in your lack of open mindness along with not having the balls the say it so my face.

I like you.

I am never quite sure if I like you or not, however, I have never had a "private" discussion talking about you, and can't ever imagine that happening or you caring.
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9/20/2015 3:47:02 AM
Posted: 1 year ago
At 9/19/2015 9:46:15 PM, stargate wrote:
Well I gusse some people on this site hate me and want me gone. On top of that they talk behind my back. Well just one thing I am disappointed in your lack of open mindness along with not having the balls the say it so my face.

What brought this up?
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9/20/2015 3:57:22 AM
Posted: 1 year ago
At 9/20/2015 2:22:32 AM, TBR wrote:
At 9/20/2015 1:35:35 AM, Wylted wrote:
At 9/19/2015 9:46:15 PM, stargate wrote:
Well I gusse some people on this site hate me and want me gone. On top of that they talk behind my back. Well just one thing I am disappointed in your lack of open mindness along with not having the balls the say it so my face.

I like you.

I am never quite sure if I like you or not, however, I have never had a "private" discussion talking about you, and can't ever imagine that happening or you caring.

No I don't care. It's okay if people talk about me behind my back. I'm actually confused as to why that offends people.
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9/20/2015 1:17:14 PM
Posted: 1 year ago
At 9/19/2015 9:46:15 PM, stargate wrote:
Well I gusse some people on this site hate me and want me gone. On top of that they talk behind my back. Well just one thing I am disappointed in your lack of open mindness along with not having the balls the say it so my face.

I don't know you, and I don't have an opinion of you. But in general I find that most people on DDO are pleasant to interact with. There are exceptions, of course, but the general rule is that very few are bad people on here. I can count the "bad eggs" on one hand. All the others have left the site.

I'd suggest, though, that you not say stiff like "I'm disappointed in your lack of open mindedness along with not having the balls [to] say it [to] my face." As a general rule, that kind of comment isn't going to get people to like you. It's the kind of thing that basically announces to the world that you want to retaliate, and people don't like retaliation (even though it may or may not be justified).

Now, *I* totally get retaliation and I have no problem with it, but I'm not 'people' in general. Most 'people' (whether they cause problems for others or not) do not like problems for themselves.
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9/20/2015 1:19:43 PM
Posted: 1 year ago
At 9/19/2015 9:46:15 PM, stargate wrote:
Well I gusse some people on this site hate me and want me gone. On top of that they talk behind my back. Well just one thing I am disappointed in your lack of open mindness along with not having the balls the say it so my face.

I don't know you, and don't think I've ever seen you around, so I don't "dislike you."

I also don't know if there are people giving you trouble, but I wouldn't be surprised if there were some. I'd counsel you to avoid those people and focus on the vast majority of people here who aren't incorrigible douchenozzles.
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9/20/2015 1:23:54 PM
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I didn't hate you and want you gone until I saw this thread
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9/20/2015 2:13:09 PM
Posted: 1 year ago
At 9/19/2015 11:34:25 PM, stargate wrote:
At 9/19/2015 11:30:29 PM, Emilrose wrote:
Aw, I don't hate you or want you gone.

Though as you know, you do need to improve your grammar and make more *informed* arguments as well as opening your mind to different political viewpoints.

Thank you, I agree on those two things. The reason I misspell is due to I like to type fast and that comes at the cost of spelling. I try to understand peoples view points. I even think they have an good point sometimes like healthcare. It is just I have such an strong opinion sometimes anlong with my pride and vanity I do not chnage my stances on that issue that is why. Heck look at my profile if you can tell I have changed some things on the issues. One being torture

I can type fast and spell just fine.
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9/20/2015 3:28:48 PM
Posted: 1 year ago
At 9/20/2015 2:13:09 PM, triangle.128k wrote:
At 9/19/2015 11:34:25 PM, stargate wrote:
At 9/19/2015 11:30:29 PM, Emilrose wrote:
Aw, I don't hate you or want you gone.

Though as you know, you do need to improve your grammar and make more *informed* arguments as well as opening your mind to different political viewpoints.

Thank you, I agree on those two things. The reason I misspell is due to I like to type fast and that comes at the cost of spelling. I try to understand peoples view points. I even think they have an good point sometimes like healthcare. It is just I have such an strong opinion sometimes anlong with my pride and vanity I do not chnage my stances on that issue that is why. Heck look at my profile if you can tell I have changed some things on the issues. One being torture

I can type fast and spell just fine.
We are all different.
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9/20/2015 3:47:30 PM
Posted: 1 year ago
At 9/20/2015 3:28:48 PM, stargate wrote:
At 9/20/2015 2:13:09 PM, triangle.128k wrote:
At 9/19/2015 11:34:25 PM, stargate wrote:
At 9/19/2015 11:30:29 PM, Emilrose wrote:
Aw, I don't hate you or want you gone.

Though as you know, you do need to improve your grammar and make more *informed* arguments as well as opening your mind to different political viewpoints.

Thank you, I agree on those two things. The reason I misspell is due to I like to type fast and that comes at the cost of spelling. I try to understand peoples view points. I even think they have an good point sometimes like healthcare. It is just I have such an strong opinion sometimes anlong with my pride and vanity I do not chnage my stances on that issue that is why. Heck look at my profile if you can tell I have changed some things on the issues. One being torture

I can type fast and spell just fine.
We are all different.

Or maybe you just suck at typing...
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9/20/2015 4:05:58 PM
Posted: 1 year ago
At 9/20/2015 3:47:30 PM, triangle.128k wrote:
At 9/20/2015 3:28:48 PM, stargate wrote:
At 9/20/2015 2:13:09 PM, triangle.128k wrote:
At 9/19/2015 11:34:25 PM, stargate wrote:
At 9/19/2015 11:30:29 PM, Emilrose wrote:
Aw, I don't hate you or want you gone.

Though as you know, you do need to improve your grammar and make more *informed* arguments as well as opening your mind to different political viewpoints.

Thank you, I agree on those two things. The reason I misspell is due to I like to type fast and that comes at the cost of spelling. I try to understand peoples view points. I even think they have an good point sometimes like healthcare. It is just I have such an strong opinion sometimes anlong with my pride and vanity I do not chnage my stances on that issue that is why. Heck look at my profile if you can tell I have changed some things on the issues. One being torture

I can type fast and spell just fine.
We are all different.

Or maybe you just suck at typing...
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9/20/2015 5:40:39 PM
Posted: 1 year ago
At 9/19/2015 9:46:15 PM, stargate wrote:
Well I gusse some people on this site hate me and want me gone. On top of that they talk behind my back. Well just one thing I am disappointed in your lack of open mindness along with not having the balls the say it so my face.

There is only one thing worse than being talked about... and that is NOT being talked about. ;)

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9/20/2015 6:30:16 PM
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At 9/20/2015 5:40:39 PM, zmikecuber wrote:
At 9/19/2015 9:46:15 PM, stargate wrote:
Well I gusse some people on this site hate me and want me gone. On top of that they talk behind my back. Well just one thing I am disappointed in your lack of open mindness along with not having the balls the say it so my face.

There is only one thing worse than being talked about... and that is NOT being talked about. ;)

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9/20/2015 8:51:26 PM
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At 9/19/2015 9:46:15 PM, stargate wrote:
Well I gusse some people on this site hate me and want me gone. On top of that they talk behind my back. Well just one thing I am disappointed in your lack of open mindness along with not having the balls the say it so my face.

Zmike is right.
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9/20/2015 9:00:44 PM
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At 9/20/2015 8:51:26 PM, MisterMittens wrote:
At 9/19/2015 9:46:15 PM, stargate wrote:
Well I gusse some people on this site hate me and want me gone. On top of that they talk behind my back. Well just one thing I am disappointed in your lack of open mindness along with not having the balls the say it so my face.

Zmike is right.
There's no such thing as bad publicity, as the saying goes.

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9/20/2015 11:39:54 PM
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9/21/2015 12:03:40 AM
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At 9/19/2015 9:46:15 PM, stargate wrote:
Well I gusse some people on this site hate me and want me gone. On top of that they talk behind my back. Well just one thing I am disappointed in your lack of open mindness along with not having the balls the say it so my face.

Spend about a year here and you will stop caring what people think about you, unless you have thin skin. The worst thing someone can do is exclude you here. If that happens, so what? They have power over you on a little known website.
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