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Chinese-style family education

winkie
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9/16/2013 9:12:29 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
Chinese -style family education will undoubtedly have many advantages , history is littered with examples of successful tutor , but the Chinese -style family education, its disadvantages are also obvious . In general, there are three major Chinese-style family education sorrow , the child 's growth caused a lot of adverse effects.

Here we take a look at the specific family education of the three Chinese-style tragedy.

China Family Education sad one : Why teach kids to "good "

At present, China 's family education exists a big misunderstanding - to teach kids to "good ." Evaluation of a child, always say "You Zhenguai " or "You naughty ", the " good " as a benchmark in education , specifically obedient , according to teachers and parents want to do things . But it is worth mentioning that the "good " in English which is not the appropriate word .

In shaping this batch of "good boy" in the process, often deprived children build self-confidence and a good self-image of the independent space, even virtually stifled their ability to innovate , which is a one-sided emphasis on children 's social educational philosophy .

The school is now named roll student , why ten seven or eight girls ? In the so-called " outstanding student ", the naughty child why never figure ? This fact is well understood, because a good move than boys , and girls more likely to stop and learn from it, no noise no trouble , do not stir up trouble , in full compliance with our social recognition of the " well-behaved " Children standards.

Such a good student certainly worthy of recognition , but I think that those naughty disobedient children have merit. Such as those school students who love to do tricks , although often taught by the teacher , but every time after being criticized , can immediately Dousoujingshen continue naughty. So, they are anti- "to strike " capability compared to those " good student " is much better , but the mentality of self-regulation is the ability to withstand setbacks , can make it a positive and optimistic attitude towards future life , which their future into the community is a great advantage .

Expert viewpoint : "disobedient" is not absolutely bad thing

In fact , the children sometimes do not follow the requirements of parents do not obey your parents in the directive , which is the physical and mental development of young children characterized . Some psychologists believe that the three -year-old children do not resist , it is not normal children . Even five -year-old children against behavior is also very obvious. Moreover, today's children are living in the information -rich society , every day a lot of information to absorb , Duirenduishi will have their own ideas. If the parents prematurely to go with the standard requirements of adult children, is inconsistent with the law of the child 's physical and mental development , and easy to stifle the nature of children , so that kids have lost the most precious children creative personality , this will give parents leave irreparable remorse .

The famous German psychologist sea investigation have done the following experiment: he was 2-5 years of age have a strong tendency to resist the 100 children with no such tendency tracked 100 children observed adolescence. The results showed that 84% of the former strong-willed , strong-minded , independent analysis, judgment and decision-making ability of things . While the latter only 26 % of people strong-willed , and the rest failing not make a decision, not independently liable. This study shows that a strong oppositional defiant child, growing up tend to have a strong independent will , and this is the 21st century, people should have quality.

China Family Education sorrow two : Why Children narrow minded

In the context of globalization , today's family education is not the traditional " wall " type of family education , school is not a traditional physical sense of the campus , the children have more than ever, a good teacher , and hardware devices.

But we need to reflect on is this: Why do children become narrow -minded , but the ? Only care about their own things around in the past that " cooking wine Heroes " type of spirit, for the future of the country , for the ideals of human aspirations , in today's younger generation has been hard to find.

Because our family education will be too much focus on the growth of knowledge , and have no time to be a hero's ideals instilled in children .

Internationally, China home to highly supportive school education was recognized that such a high degree of attention to knowledge , but also the child's mind becomes narrow one important reason.

China Family Education sorrow three : Why children do not want to go home

Most of the parents' conversations or "child" is reduced to the concept of "student ." Child's life is one such aspect is compressed into one , in order to exchange successful , the price is too much . We should keep in mind: "child" connotation of the concept is much larger than the "student" , children in school to be a good addition to a student outside , at home, in society, there are more kinds of roles require " play ."

Therefore, the family is not just the children create "learning home" , it should be their " spiritual home ." Why are so many college students do not want to leave home ? Because in his eyes , the family is a "civilized prison " , the parents urged him to study all day just know .

Now some parents love to accompany their children with homework , I think this practice is questionable.

In short , the child should be suitable for family education, family education for children but also to make , which is a process of interaction . May be pointed out that the current education most parents make family relationship with the school becomes one-way , just know that family education schools around the turn , the result is a lot of sacrifice quality to cultivate children 's opportunities. In fact, the school can also help family education, parents should take random excellent educational opportunities .

Do not use too many rules restrict the child's freedom. Let their child to do his favorite thing to do , so they have a play world. If you have concerns, use the " joint decision " approach induces him: for example, children like to play on the computer , do not say "no play", told him that if your grades are good enough , or you can play with homework done , but one week only play two hours . Put every "no " into a " chance ", the autonomy from your body transferred to the child. This will not only be able to develop independent capabilities, but also for their own children more interested in trying to do those " must do " thing.
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9/18/2013 3:18:48 AM
Posted: 3 years ago
I believe that Chinese are hard working people and have a craze for gaining education not only just from China, but also round the world. These people love to share valuable information within their family while have a cup of tea so these people are no doubt hard working people.
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10/15/2013 9:36:00 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
I think chinese education is too rigid which is not good for childs to develop hisself to suit this society.