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10/1/2011 1:57:49 PM
Posted: 5 years ago
Would men be better lovers if they were pegged or had experienced anal stimulation? The orgasm resulting from the male g-spot is sometimes referred to as a "female orgasm" because of the similarity to the female orgasm.The notion of being anally penetrated makes straight men run for the hills, but is there any truth in the idea that it would help a couples sex life?

Consider:
-A man who has never had his g-spot stimulated perceives ejaculation as the highest pleasure. Sex is then largely about reaching that pleasure.
-Additionally, he has zero conception of the female orgasm so he has trouble relating to his partner's experience. The notion of the female orgasm is a foreign concept and he knows little more that "women really like it."
-The first hand experience at g-spot penetration gives the man a greater appreciation at the idea of getting his partner "off" now that he understands "real satisfaction."
-In terms of anal sex he is much more tuned in.

Thoughts DDO?
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10/1/2011 2:30:24 PM
Posted: 5 years ago
At 10/1/2011 1:57:49 PM, OMGJustinBieber wrote:
Would men be better lovers if they were pegged or had experienced anal stimulation? The orgasm resulting from the male g-spot is sometimes referred to as a "female orgasm" because of the similarity to the female orgasm.The notion of being anally penetrated makes straight men run for the hills, but is there any truth in the idea that it would help a couples sex life?

Consider:
-A man who has never had his g-spot stimulated perceives ejaculation as the highest pleasure. Sex is then largely about reaching that pleasure.
-Additionally, he has zero conception of the female orgasm so he has trouble relating to his partner's experience. The notion of the female orgasm is a foreign concept and he knows little more that "women really like it."
-The first hand experience at g-spot penetration gives the man a greater appreciation at the idea of getting his partner "off" now that he understands "real satisfaction."
-In terms of anal sex he is much more tuned in.

Thoughts DDO?

Well, um....... yeah.
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10/1/2011 2:35:22 PM
Posted: 5 years ago
At 10/1/2011 1:57:49 PM, OMGJustinBieber wrote:
Would men be better lovers if they were pegged or had experienced anal stimulation? The orgasm resulting from the male g-spot is sometimes referred to as a "female orgasm" because of the similarity to the female orgasm.The notion of being anally penetrated makes straight men run for the hills, but is there any truth in the idea that it would help a couples sex life?

Consider:
-A man who has never had his g-spot stimulated perceives ejaculation as the highest pleasure. Sex is then largely about reaching that pleasure.
-Additionally, he has zero conception of the female orgasm so he has trouble relating to his partner's experience. The notion of the female orgasm is a foreign concept and he knows little more that "women really like it."
-The first hand experience at g-spot penetration gives the man a greater appreciation at the idea of getting his partner "off" now that he understands "real satisfaction."
-In terms of anal sex he is much more tuned in.

Thoughts DDO?:

Yeah, why are you a 14-year old girl discussing male anal sex and G-spots?!?! This is all very worrisome for me, as I have a 12-year old daughter.
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10/1/2011 2:37:58 PM
Posted: 5 years ago
At 10/1/2011 2:35:22 PM, PARADIGM_L0ST wrote:
At 10/1/2011 1:57:49 PM, OMGJustinBieber wrote:
Would men be better lovers if they were pegged or had experienced anal stimulation? The orgasm resulting from the male g-spot is sometimes referred to as a "female orgasm" because of the similarity to the female orgasm.The notion of being anally penetrated makes straight men run for the hills, but is there any truth in the idea that it would help a couples sex life?

Consider:
-A man who has never had his g-spot stimulated perceives ejaculation as the highest pleasure. Sex is then largely about reaching that pleasure.
-Additionally, he has zero conception of the female orgasm so he has trouble relating to his partner's experience. The notion of the female orgasm is a foreign concept and he knows little more that "women really like it."
-The first hand experience at g-spot penetration gives the man a greater appreciation at the idea of getting his partner "off" now that he understands "real satisfaction."
-In terms of anal sex he is much more tuned in.

Thoughts DDO?:

Yeah, why are you a 14-year old girl discussing male anal sex and G-spots?!?! This is all very worrisome for me, as I have a 12-year old daughter.

What, are you afraid your daughter is going to sneak up and peg you?
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10/1/2011 2:42:23 PM
Posted: 5 years ago
I once got a PM from someone here asking about this, from one of the least expected members of our little organization here. I'll never tell who, but the question was exactly related to this.
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10/1/2011 2:43:45 PM
Posted: 5 years ago
At 10/1/2011 2:42:23 PM, innomen wrote:
I once got a PM from someone here asking about this, from one of the least expected members of our little organization here. I'll never tell who, but the question was exactly related to this.

Was this a dude or a chick asking?

(this doesn't tell us who, mind you.)
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10/1/2011 2:44:44 PM
Posted: 5 years ago
At 10/1/2011 2:35:22 PM, PARADIGM_L0ST wrote:
At 10/1/2011 1:57:49 PM, OMGJustinBieber wrote:
Would men be better lovers if they were pegged or had experienced anal stimulation? The orgasm resulting from the male g-spot is sometimes referred to as a "female orgasm" because of the similarity to the female orgasm.The notion of being anally penetrated makes straight men run for the hills, but is there any truth in the idea that it would help a couples sex life?

Consider:
-A man who has never had his g-spot stimulated perceives ejaculation as the highest pleasure. Sex is then largely about reaching that pleasure.
-Additionally, he has zero conception of the female orgasm so he has trouble relating to his partner's experience. The notion of the female orgasm is a foreign concept and he knows little more that "women really like it."
-The first hand experience at g-spot penetration gives the man a greater appreciation at the idea of getting his partner "off" now that he understands "real satisfaction."
-In terms of anal sex he is much more tuned in.

Thoughts DDO?:

Yeah, why are you a 14-year old girl discussing male anal sex and G-spots?!?! This is all very worrisome for me, as I have a 12-year old daughter.

I would also like to recommend high quality indica or hybrid strands such as OG Kush or Tangarine Dream to heighten sensation. Never been a big fan of sativa.

Oh, well, you still got like 1-2 more years.
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10/1/2011 2:45:46 PM
Posted: 5 years ago
At 10/1/2011 2:43:45 PM, Ragnar_Rahl wrote:
At 10/1/2011 2:42:23 PM, innomen wrote:
I once got a PM from someone here asking about this, from one of the least expected members of our little organization here. I'll never tell who, but the question was exactly related to this.

Was this a dude or a chick asking?

(this doesn't tell us who, mind you.)

Dude, a girl wouldn't ask me that. ACtually i was shocked a guy here would ask me this.
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10/1/2011 2:47:37 PM
Posted: 5 years ago
At 10/1/2011 2:45:46 PM, innomen wrote:
At 10/1/2011 2:43:45 PM, Ragnar_Rahl wrote:
At 10/1/2011 2:42:23 PM, innomen wrote:
I once got a PM from someone here asking about this, from one of the least expected members of our little organization here. I'll never tell who, but the question was exactly related to this.

Was this a dude or a chick asking?

(this doesn't tell us who, mind you.)

Dude, a girl wouldn't ask me that.
A girl posted this thread no?

What kind of straight dude goes and asks a gay dude about it instead of finding a toy and trying it out? :P
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10/1/2011 2:50:22 PM
Posted: 5 years ago
At 10/1/2011 2:47:37 PM, Ragnar_Rahl wrote:
At 10/1/2011 2:45:46 PM, innomen wrote:
At 10/1/2011 2:43:45 PM, Ragnar_Rahl wrote:
At 10/1/2011 2:42:23 PM, innomen wrote:
I once got a PM from someone here asking about this, from one of the least expected members of our little organization here. I'll never tell who, but the question was exactly related to this.

Was this a dude or a chick asking?

(this doesn't tell us who, mind you.)

Dude, a girl wouldn't ask me that.
A girl posted this thread no?

What kind of straight dude goes and asks a gay dude about it instead of finding a toy and trying it out? :P

Someone you would never guess in a million years. So don't try. Someone who might be thinking about more than just a toy.

If anyone ever took a peek at my PM's....well let's just say i could write a tell all book.....BUT I WOULD NEVER EVER, because you can trust me, i'm not like the others.
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10/1/2011 2:51:53 PM
Posted: 5 years ago
Ah, in other words a not-so-straight dude.

That was rhetorical btw, not trying to pry.
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10/1/2011 2:52:38 PM
Posted: 5 years ago
At 10/1/2011 2:50:22 PM, innomen wrote:
At 10/1/2011 2:47:37 PM, Ragnar_Rahl wrote:
At 10/1/2011 2:45:46 PM, innomen wrote:
At 10/1/2011 2:43:45 PM, Ragnar_Rahl wrote:
At 10/1/2011 2:42:23 PM, innomen wrote:
I once got a PM from someone here asking about this, from one of the least expected members of our little organization here. I'll never tell who, but the question was exactly related to this.

Was this a dude or a chick asking?

(this doesn't tell us who, mind you.)

Dude, a girl wouldn't ask me that.
A girl posted this thread no?

What kind of straight dude goes and asks a gay dude about it instead of finding a toy and trying it out? :P

Someone you would never guess in a million years. So don't try. Someone who might be thinking about more than just a toy.

If anyone ever took a peek at my PM's....well let's just say i could write a tell all book.....BUT I WOULD NEVER EVER, because you can trust me, i'm not like the others.

What if it were anonymous?

Ragnar, do you think anal play makes a guy "not so straight?"
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10/1/2011 2:54:11 PM
Posted: 5 years ago
At 10/1/2011 2:52:38 PM, OMGJustinBieber wrote:
At 10/1/2011 2:50:22 PM, innomen wrote:
At 10/1/2011 2:47:37 PM, Ragnar_Rahl wrote:
At 10/1/2011 2:45:46 PM, innomen wrote:
At 10/1/2011 2:43:45 PM, Ragnar_Rahl wrote:
At 10/1/2011 2:42:23 PM, innomen wrote:
I once got a PM from someone here asking about this, from one of the least expected members of our little organization here. I'll never tell who, but the question was exactly related to this.

Was this a dude or a chick asking?

(this doesn't tell us who, mind you.)

Dude, a girl wouldn't ask me that.
A girl posted this thread no?

What kind of straight dude goes and asks a gay dude about it instead of finding a toy and trying it out? :P

Someone you would never guess in a million years. So don't try. Someone who might be thinking about more than just a toy.

If anyone ever took a peek at my PM's....well let's just say i could write a tell all book.....BUT I WOULD NEVER EVER, because you can trust me, i'm not like the others.

What if it were anonymous?

Ragnar, do you think anal play makes a guy "not so straight?"

No, and I've engaged in such. See the bolded text to see the premise leading to not-so-straight
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10/1/2011 3:01:49 PM
Posted: 5 years ago
At 10/1/2011 2:54:11 PM, Ragnar_Rahl wrote:
At 10/1/2011 2:52:38 PM, OMGJustinBieber wrote:
At 10/1/2011 2:50:22 PM, innomen wrote:
At 10/1/2011 2:47:37 PM, Ragnar_Rahl wrote:
At 10/1/2011 2:45:46 PM, innomen wrote:
At 10/1/2011 2:43:45 PM, Ragnar_Rahl wrote:
At 10/1/2011 2:42:23 PM, innomen wrote:
I once got a PM from someone here asking about this, from one of the least expected members of our little organization here. I'll never tell who, but the question was exactly related to this.

Was this a dude or a chick asking?

(this doesn't tell us who, mind you.)

Dude, a girl wouldn't ask me that.
A girl posted this thread no?

What kind of straight dude goes and asks a gay dude about it instead of finding a toy and trying it out? :P

Someone you would never guess in a million years. So don't try. Someone who might be thinking about more than just a toy.

If anyone ever took a peek at my PM's....well let's just say i could write a tell all book.....BUT I WOULD NEVER EVER, because you can trust me, i'm not like the others.

What if it were anonymous?

Ragnar, do you think anal play makes a guy "not so straight?"

No, and I've engaged in such. See the bolded text to see the premise leading to not-so-straight

If it's not a toy then it crosses a line? What if the not toy is more stimulating than the toy?
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10/1/2011 3:03:36 PM
Posted: 5 years ago
At 10/1/2011 2:50:22 PM, innomen wrote:
If anyone ever took a peek at my PM's....well let's just say i could write a tell all book.....

LOL, I would definitely be a chapter.
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10/1/2011 3:04:49 PM
Posted: 5 years ago
At 10/1/2011 3:01:49 PM, innomen wrote:
At 10/1/2011 2:54:11 PM, Ragnar_Rahl wrote:
At 10/1/2011 2:52:38 PM, OMGJustinBieber wrote:
At 10/1/2011 2:50:22 PM, innomen wrote:
At 10/1/2011 2:47:37 PM, Ragnar_Rahl wrote:
At 10/1/2011 2:45:46 PM, innomen wrote:
At 10/1/2011 2:43:45 PM, Ragnar_Rahl wrote:
At 10/1/2011 2:42:23 PM, innomen wrote:
I once got a PM from someone here asking about this, from one of the least expected members of our little organization here. I'll never tell who, but the question was exactly related to this.

Was this a dude or a chick asking?

(this doesn't tell us who, mind you.)

Dude, a girl wouldn't ask me that.
A girl posted this thread no?

What kind of straight dude goes and asks a gay dude about it instead of finding a toy and trying it out? :P

Someone you would never guess in a million years. So don't try. Someone who might be thinking about more than just a toy.

If anyone ever took a peek at my PM's....well let's just say i could write a tell all book.....BUT I WOULD NEVER EVER, because you can trust me, i'm not like the others.

What if it were anonymous?

Ragnar, do you think anal play makes a guy "not so straight?"

No, and I've engaged in such. See the bolded text to see the premise leading to not-so-straight

If it's not a toy then it crosses a line? What if the not toy is more stimulating than the toy?

If it's a finger or a tongue it's not "more than a toy," even if it's not a toy-- insertion of a finger is easier than insertion of most objects (toys) and a tongue, though I haven't tried that, seems obviously easier than either. If it's a cock, what's usually meant when someone says more than a toy... well, you see the problem, women don't normally possess such things.
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10/1/2011 3:07:49 PM
Posted: 5 years ago
At 10/1/2011 2:52:38 PM, OMGJustinBieber wrote:
Ragnar, do you think anal play makes a guy "not so straight?"

At first I was thinking that the few guys I know who openly admit to being into anal have in fact either experimented with men before, or were not entirely opposed to the idea. It would seem to me that if you liked being penetrated, then I don't see why you wouldn't consider letting a guy do it - especially a guy who might be into it (whereas I imagine not every female sex partner would be comfortable with that).

Then I realized that's lulz. Silly me. Having a woman use a strap-on with me would be totally different than letting a guy penetrate me, so duh, it doesn't necessarily mean you want a guy just because you might like penetration. We're biologically designed to like it - yes that includes men, obviously.
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10/1/2011 3:08:36 PM
Posted: 5 years ago
At 10/1/2011 3:04:49 PM, Ragnar_Rahl wrote:
At 10/1/2011 3:01:49 PM, innomen wrote:
At 10/1/2011 2:54:11 PM, Ragnar_Rahl wrote:
At 10/1/2011 2:52:38 PM, OMGJustinBieber wrote:
At 10/1/2011 2:50:22 PM, innomen wrote:
At 10/1/2011 2:47:37 PM, Ragnar_Rahl wrote:
At 10/1/2011 2:45:46 PM, innomen wrote:
At 10/1/2011 2:43:45 PM, Ragnar_Rahl wrote:
At 10/1/2011 2:42:23 PM, innomen wrote:
I once got a PM from someone here asking about this, from one of the least expected members of our little organization here. I'll never tell who, but the question was exactly related to this.

Was this a dude or a chick asking?

(this doesn't tell us who, mind you.)

Dude, a girl wouldn't ask me that.
A girl posted this thread no?

What kind of straight dude goes and asks a gay dude about it instead of finding a toy and trying it out? :P

Someone you would never guess in a million years. So don't try. Someone who might be thinking about more than just a toy.

If anyone ever took a peek at my PM's....well let's just say i could write a tell all book.....BUT I WOULD NEVER EVER, because you can trust me, i'm not like the others.

What if it were anonymous?

Ragnar, do you think anal play makes a guy "not so straight?"

No, and I've engaged in such. See the bolded text to see the premise leading to not-so-straight

If it's not a toy then it crosses a line? What if the not toy is more stimulating than the toy?

If it's a finger or a tongue it's not "more than a toy," even if it's not a toy-- insertion of a finger is easier than insertion of most objects (toys) and a tongue, though I haven't tried that, seems obviously easier than either. If it's a cock, what's usually meant when someone says more than a toy... well, you see the problem, women don't normally possess such things.

Yeah, that's often the problem i have with women too.
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10/1/2011 3:09:30 PM
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At 10/1/2011 1:57:49 PM, OMGJustinBieber wrote:
-In terms of anal sex he is much more tuned in.

I was also thinking that the first few times a guy tried it would show them what it feels like to lose their virginity (uh, PAINFUL) lol... not that any guy would want to experience that (sissies), but I might get some sick feminist satisfaction out of it ;P

Kidding.
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10/1/2011 3:13:02 PM
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Does losing a hymen really feel that similar? I mean, unless you're doing it right off the bat with no lube...

(and women without a hymen losing their virginity I could see more plausibly feeling similar to that, but...)
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10/1/2011 3:25:25 PM
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At 10/1/2011 3:13:02 PM, Ragnar_Rahl wrote:
Does losing a hymen really feel that similar? I mean, unless you're doing it right off the bat with no lube...

(and women without a hymen losing their virginity I could see more plausibly feeling similar to that, but...)

I dunno if it feels similar because I've never been anally penetrated with more than fingers.

I imagine it would feel similar for a guy with a toy insofar as the unfamiliarity of that sensation would make you uncomfortable, in addition to whatever pain you might feel from the initial tightness. Sure, women are typically naturally lubricated when they lose their virginity (we hope), but it doesn't really help because women tend to 'tighten up' when they're uncomfortable and especially nervous. I don't think I know any woman who wasn't at least a little scared while losing their v-card, so the wetness doesn't actually help. Well, yes it definitely does lol but it's still painful.
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10/1/2011 3:30:36 PM
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At 10/1/2011 2:42:23 PM, innomen wrote:
I once got a PM from someone here asking about this, from one of the least expected members of our little organization here. I'll never tell who, but the question was exactly related to this.:

Full disclosure, please.

GodSands? DAT? Mirza? Some other holy roller?
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10/1/2011 5:06:07 PM
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The main difference I'm thinking of is the membrane of skin breaking. I'd think that's a significant difference in the kind of pain. There's no real stopping point where you have to break something or don't go past in the anus, if something does break it's because of inadequate lube, sharp corners or other sharp texture, unusual skin, or unusual vigor.

the closest to such a thing is having to negotiate curves of the sigmoid colon on especially deep penetration-- which are unusual to have to mess with, and people who aren't porn stars basing their career off of impressively large insertions are probably better off mostly leaving alone-- ask Kenneth Pinyan: http://en.wikipedia.org...
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10/1/2011 7:00:07 PM
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this is a field in which I have much experience. (:
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10/1/2011 8:30:05 PM
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At 10/1/2011 3:30:36 PM, PARADIGM_L0ST wrote:
At 10/1/2011 2:42:23 PM, innomen wrote:
I once got a PM from someone here asking about this, from one of the least expected members of our little organization here. I'll never tell who, but the question was exactly related to this.:

Full disclosure, please.

GodSands? DAT? Mirza? Some other holy roller?
No!
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10/2/2011 3:36:24 PM
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At 10/1/2011 2:42:23 PM, innomen wrote:
I once got a PM from someone here asking about this, from one of the least expected members of our little organization here. I'll never tell who, but the question was exactly related to this.

Freedo?