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Do I need empathy or sympathy

stanleymilgram1959
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4/9/2014 1:56:35 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
Empathy and sympathy are not just two different approaches to confronting the emotional challenges of others; they are diametrically opposite responses in many important ways. Sympathy places another's problems at a distance from us, places us in a position of superiority, and "drives separation", Dr. Bren" Brown. Empathy, on the other hand, requires that one internalize the feelings of another. That shared experience drives interpersonal connection, she says. "What makes things better is connection." I am experiencing a deep emotional pain without support, so how can I seek out help and which would be more comforting should I find either?
sadolite
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4/9/2014 5:07:35 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/9/2014 1:56:35 PM, stanleymilgram1959 wrote:
Empathy and sympathy are not just two different approaches to confronting the emotional challenges of others; they are diametrically opposite responses in many important ways. Sympathy places another's problems at a distance from us, places us in a position of superiority, and "drives separation", Dr. Bren" Brown. Empathy, on the other hand, requires that one internalize the feelings of another. That shared experience drives interpersonal connection, she says. "What makes things better is connection." I am experiencing a deep emotional pain without support, so how can I seek out help and which would be more comforting should I find either?

In the end, only you can solve your problem. In the end people will stop caring about your problem. In the end you should just suck it up and move on. As that is what you have to do to get rid of your problem. All the words in the world will do nothing. You must act to rid yourself of the problem. Seeking sympathy or empathy only prolongs the problem.
Beware of the people who are in your circle but are not in your corner.

And with the stroke of a pen people 18 to 21 who own a gun became criminals and public enemy #1 having committed no crime and having said nothing. Just like the Jews in Germany during WW2. Must be a weird feeling.

When I hear people crying and whining about their first world problems I think about the universe with everything in it and people in wheelchairs and all of their problems go away.