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ESocialBookworm
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11/9/2014 5:15:30 PM
Posted: 2 years ago
Would you leave someone you're happy with because you felt a "spark" with another?
Solonkr~
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In essence, the world is fucked up and you can either ignore it, become cynical or bitter about it.

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MY SHIP SAILEY MUST SAIL"

SCREW THAT SHIZ #BANNIE = BAILEY & ANNIE

P.S. Shipped Sailey before it was cannon bitches.
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11/9/2014 8:13:18 PM
Posted: 2 years ago
I would leave only if I felt unhappy or neutral with the person I was currently with.
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11/9/2014 8:18:52 PM
Posted: 2 years ago
I've never had a relationship, mainly because I see it as overrated and it wouldn't last for even four months, and I wanted to spare myself from all the drama when you had to inevitably break up with them. Smh. >.>

I suppose I'd leave my partner if someone else made me more happier, and if someone else made her happier, too, and if we both agree. Other than that, definitely not. Or if one of us made the other unhappy.
vheax
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11/9/2014 9:20:09 PM
Posted: 2 years ago
For me, I wouldn't even let it get that far where I would like someone else while in a dull relationship. If I feel like my current relationship doesn't have "the sparks" anymore or if it's not going anywhere and the love is simply not there, then it's done. I don't see any reason to resolve if there isn't anyone trying anyway. After that, that's when I would find someone I would be into.
Cermank
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11/10/2014 12:02:51 AM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 11/9/2014 5:15:30 PM, ESocialBookworm wrote:
Would you leave someone you're happy with because you felt a "spark" with another?

Honestly, no. From experience. The fact that I'm happy with someone is a pretty good sign the relationship is working well.
ESocialBookworm
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11/10/2014 12:04:00 AM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 11/10/2014 12:02:51 AM, Cermank wrote:
At 11/9/2014 5:15:30 PM, ESocialBookworm wrote:
Would you leave someone you're happy with because you felt a "spark" with another?

Honestly, no. From experience. The fact that I'm happy with someone is a pretty good sign the relationship is working well.

<3 u
Solonkr~
I don't care about whether an ideology is "necessary" or not,
I care about how to solve problems,
which is what everyone else should also care about.

Ken~
In essence, the world is fucked up and you can either ignore it, become cynical or bitter about it.

Me~
"BAILEY + SOLON = SAILEY
MY SHIP SAILEY MUST SAIL"

SCREW THAT SHIZ #BANNIE = BAILEY & ANNIE

P.S. Shipped Sailey before it was cannon bitches.
Defro
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11/10/2014 12:07:26 AM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 11/9/2014 5:15:30 PM, ESocialBookworm wrote:
Would you leave someone you're happy with because you felt a "spark" with another?

Define "spark"

I'd leave someone if it got boring, regardless of their feelings for me. It sounds mean, but it's really not. If you feel bored in a relationship, there's no point in staying together because you don't feel attraction.

Actually, one of the main reasons I broke up with my ex is because I was interested in another girl and realized that I never really "like" liked her. We got together in the heat of the moment and because we had high levels of hormones. I was actually pretty bored of her.
ElCorazonAma
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11/10/2014 12:09:52 AM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 11/9/2014 5:15:30 PM, ESocialBookworm wrote:
Would you leave someone you're happy with because you felt a "spark" with another?

Dating or marriage relationship?
The verb is real but the adjective is only a hypothetical ideal. ~ Freedo
ESocialBookworm
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11/10/2014 12:10:32 AM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 11/10/2014 12:09:52 AM, ElCorazonAma wrote:
At 11/9/2014 5:15:30 PM, ESocialBookworm wrote:
Would you leave someone you're happy with because you felt a "spark" with another?

Dating or marriage relationship?

both
Solonkr~
I don't care about whether an ideology is "necessary" or not,
I care about how to solve problems,
which is what everyone else should also care about.

Ken~
In essence, the world is fucked up and you can either ignore it, become cynical or bitter about it.

Me~
"BAILEY + SOLON = SAILEY
MY SHIP SAILEY MUST SAIL"

SCREW THAT SHIZ #BANNIE = BAILEY & ANNIE

P.S. Shipped Sailey before it was cannon bitches.
ElCorazonAma
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11/10/2014 12:12:21 AM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 11/10/2014 12:10:32 AM, ESocialBookworm wrote:
At 11/10/2014 12:09:52 AM, ElCorazonAma wrote:
At 11/9/2014 5:15:30 PM, ESocialBookworm wrote:
Would you leave someone you're happy with because you felt a "spark" with another?

Dating or marriage relationship?

both

I believe in loyalty and devotion. So those are my answers.
A willingness to keep loving is the key to a healthy and sustained relationship.
The verb is real but the adjective is only a hypothetical ideal. ~ Freedo