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Tell me, why do Black Men date White Women ?

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2/9/2011 3:00:04 PM
Posted: 5 years ago
I want to know. I am a brotha. I wonder why are there so many Black Men
dating White Men. I was at the coastline the other day here in the Carolinas.
And I saw quite a few interracial couples that were mostly Black Men and
White Women. They had baby carriages and were holding hands. I was
shocked at what I saw. I did not see this many in my community before.
This was a true culture shock though. And this is down South, now.
The ladies were nice looking. They werent fat or anything like that.
They seem to be enjoying the company of their Black husbands and boyfriends.
I mean. Im not racist now. I am just wondering where is the interest in that ?
Black Women are fine as heck. White Women, are ok. But what gives ?
Do you know why ?
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2/9/2011 3:08:27 PM
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I'm going out on a limb here, but it might be their personality, rather then their skin color.
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2/9/2011 3:15:00 PM
Posted: 5 years ago
Ooops. I made a misprint there. I meant White Women, not White Men.
Please take notice. But this is an intereting question here.
What are the main reasons why you see this more than ever in todays world.
And not just here in the US, but around the globe.
Is it because of the mainstream media ?
Is it rebellion ?
It is racial harmony creating a planet that will someday be colorblind ?
Is it taboo ?
Is it a fad ?
Tell me what do you think about this ladies and gents. Thank you.
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2/9/2011 3:20:31 PM
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At 2/9/2011 3:08:27 PM, OreEle wrote:
I'm going out on a limb here, but it might be their personality, rather then their skin color.
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2/9/2011 3:24:27 PM
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At 2/9/2011 3:08:27 PM, OreEle wrote:
I'm going out on a limb here, but it might be their personality, rather then their skin color.

Sure, but when they only date specifically outside of their own race then it becomes a bigger social issue.
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2/9/2011 3:44:02 PM
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At 2/9/2011 3:31:43 PM, InsertNameHere wrote:
At 2/9/2011 3:27:24 PM, badger wrote:
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2/9/2011 3:49:37 PM
Posted: 5 years ago
At 2/9/2011 3:24:27 PM, nonentity wrote:
At 2/9/2011 3:08:27 PM, OreEle wrote:
I'm going out on a limb here, but it might be their personality, rather then their skin color.

Sure, but when they only date specifically outside of their own race then it becomes a bigger social issue.

Yeah, but when do you make that assumption? After they've dated 1 white woman? 2 white women? 3? How many before you say "it is because of skin color and is an issue?"
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2/9/2011 5:43:43 PM
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I've dated three black guys and I'm a white woman... I really don't see the shock in that. My skin color does not determine which race I would be "best" with. It doesn't even factor into my decision to date a black guy nor my soon-to-be boyfriend's decision. One guy had a mother who wanted him to date only black girls since she had bad experiences with white girls, but that was changed by me being upfront with her and saying, "I'm dating your son. I respect him, I care for him. And that won't change even if we DO breakup." Lol, it melted her heart. :P

And yes, some of his friends were confused at first since they weren't used to white girls being around "their hood" (LOL) -- but it doesn't take long for them to get used to it. :)

Point is, if the couple cares for each other -- race doesn't matter. And there's no reason for it to be a "deal breaker" since it's usually predicated on prejudices, negative experiences or ignorance. But none of those are objective reasons for why a black man should not date a white woman.
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2/9/2011 5:47:45 PM
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At 2/9/2011 5:45:23 PM, OreEle wrote:
"soon-to-be boyfried"? Never heard that terminology.

Lol, well... I was trying to explain with one term that at the time he was deciding whether to ask me out or not, race did not factor into his decision -- and since he DID ask me out, he was my "soon-to-be" boyfriend since he knew I liked him. :P
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2/9/2011 5:55:37 PM
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At 2/9/2011 5:45:23 PM, OreEle wrote:
"soon-to-be boyfried"? Never heard that terminology.

It means their relationship isn't FBO yet :P
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2/9/2011 5:58:25 PM
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At 2/9/2011 5:47:45 PM, annhasle wrote:
At 2/9/2011 5:45:23 PM, OreEle wrote:
"soon-to-be boyfried"? Never heard that terminology.

Lol, well... I was trying to explain with one term that at the time he was deciding whether to ask me out or not, race did not factor into his decision -- and since he DID ask me out, he was my "soon-to-be" boyfriend since he knew I liked him. :P

Okay, I'm thinking of a guy saying something like "I really want to go out with you, but now is not a good time, let start going steady in May, that would work better." lol.
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2/9/2011 6:08:16 PM
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At 2/9/2011 5:58:25 PM, OreEle wrote:
At 2/9/2011 5:47:45 PM, annhasle wrote:
At 2/9/2011 5:45:23 PM, OreEle wrote:
"soon-to-be boyfried"? Never heard that terminology.

Lol, well... I was trying to explain with one term that at the time he was deciding whether to ask me out or not, race did not factor into his decision -- and since he DID ask me out, he was my "soon-to-be" boyfriend since he knew I liked him. :P

Okay, I'm thinking of a guy saying something like "I really want to go out with you, but now is not a good time, let start going steady in May, that would work better." lol.

Lol, if he said that -- I'd say, "Good thing you have your right hand 'cause I'm not waiting around." :P
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2/9/2011 6:25:03 PM
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At 2/9/2011 3:24:27 PM, nonentity wrote:
Sure, but when they only date specifically outside of their own race then it becomes a bigger social issue.

I know plenty of women who find black guys to be particularly sexy (I'm one of em). I have a black lesbian friend whose really into white girls in particular. I don't think it's really weird... lots of people have a things for blondes or Asians, so I don't see why something so frivolous as skin color should be any different from any other 'attraction' preference *shrugs*
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2/9/2011 9:19:59 PM
Posted: 5 years ago
At 2/9/2011 3:00:04 PM, interrogator wrote:
I want to know. I am a brotha. I wonder why are there so many Black Men
dating White Men... Do you know why:

Because opposites often attract. I'm a white boy, and I like a lot of black women, and a lot seem to like me.

Just go with it, brother. No need to question it.
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2/9/2011 9:23:27 PM
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No one can make a generalization about attraction for an entire race. Every person is different, there's no possible way to give a satisfactory answer to this question.
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2/9/2011 9:49:20 PM
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At 2/9/2011 9:23:27 PM, Aibohphobia wrote:
No one can make a generalization about attraction for an entire race. Every person is different, there's no possible way to give a satisfactory answer to this question.

This.
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2/9/2011 10:51:11 PM
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At 2/9/2011 3:00:04 PM, interrogator wrote:
I want to know. I am a brotha. I wonder why are there so many Black Men
dating White Men
. I was at the coastline the other day here in the Carolinas.
And I saw quite a few interracial couples that were mostly Black Men and
White Women. They had baby carriages and were holding hands. I was
shocked at what I saw. I did not see this many in my community before.
This was a true culture shock though. And this is down South, now.
The ladies were nice looking. They werent fat or anything like that.
They seem to be enjoying the company of their Black husbands and boyfriends.
I mean. Im not racist now. I am just wondering where is the interest in that ?
Black Women are fine as heck. White Women, are ok. But what gives ?
Do you know why ?

You don't find white women attractive?

http://lastheplace.com...

http://www.cryosites.com...

http://25.media.tumblr.com...

http://www.freecelebritygraphics.com...

If you don't find these attractive, maybe your little Freudian slip wasn't a mistake.
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2/9/2011 11:09:43 PM
Posted: 5 years ago
At 2/9/2011 3:00:04 PM, interrogator wrote:
I want to know. I am a brotha. I wonder why are there so many Black Men
dating White Men. I was at the coastline the other day here in the Carolinas.
And I saw quite a few interracial couples that were mostly Black Men and
White Women. They had baby carriages and were holding hands. I was
shocked at what I saw. I did not see this many in my community before.
This was a true culture shock though. And this is down South, now.
The ladies were nice looking. They werent fat or anything like that.
They seem to be enjoying the company of their Black husbands and boyfriends.
I mean. Im not racist now. I am just wondering where is the interest in that ?
Black Women are fine as heck. White Women, are ok. But what gives ?
Do you know why ?

Sometimes I thank God I was raised in California. :P
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2/10/2011 11:06:28 AM
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At 2/9/2011 10:51:11 PM, bluesteel wrote:
At 2/9/2011 3:00:04 PM, interrogator wrote:
I want to know. I am a brotha. I wonder why are there so many Black Men
dating White Men
. I was at the coastline the other day here in the Carolinas.
And I saw quite a few interracial couples that were mostly Black Men and
White Women. They had baby carriages and were holding hands. I was
shocked at what I saw. I did not see this many in my community before.
This was a true culture shock though. And this is down South, now.
The ladies were nice looking. They werent fat or anything like that.
They seem to be enjoying the company of their Black husbands and boyfriends.
I mean. Im not racist now. I am just wondering where is the interest in that ?
Black Women are fine as heck. White Women, are ok. But what gives ?
Do you know why ?

You don't find white women attractive?

http://lastheplace.com...

http://www.cryosites.com...

http://25.media.tumblr.com...

http://www.freecelebritygraphics.com...

If you don't find these attractive, maybe your little Freudian slip wasn't a mistake.

Wow, I didn't find any of them attractive. We all have different tastes, I suppose.
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2/10/2011 11:46:02 AM
Posted: 5 years ago
I asked a black guy that once he told me its because black women are bitches.
No joke i laughed my butt off.
Objection!!!! thats baseless conjecture!!
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2/10/2011 1:47:17 PM
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Everyone has different tastes, I am mostly interested in my own race. Some people have equal or greater preference for another race. Evolution may have hardwired two competing instincts in which some actively seek out their own race, others actively seek out another.
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2/10/2011 2:06:36 PM
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Poor Biracial children. You have to think about what you are doing to them! It is cruel to have them. I would hate to be biracial! The whole world hates you, and I have heard you have bad looks. I have only met lie, 2 or 3 of these children and they're always sad. Thank God I am not one of them.
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2/10/2011 2:17:48 PM
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Interestingly enough I was talking to a guy at work today, a black guy from Jamaica who said he "doesn't date black girls". I challenged him as to why and his explanation was that in his experience they are often more materialistic than the white girls he's met, incidently he's married to a white Englsh woman now. He reckons when he was poor and unfashionably dressed in Jamaica, black girls weren't interested in him but the white girls he met were less bothered. Extreme cultural generalisation of course but I guess there could be something in it.
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2/10/2011 2:20:04 PM
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At 2/10/2011 2:06:36 PM, Koopin wrote:
Poor Biracial children. You have to think about what you are doing to them! It is cruel to have them. I would hate to be biracial! The whole world hates you, and I have heard you have bad looks. I have only met lie, 2 or 3 of these children and they're always sad. Thank God I am not one of them.

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