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Are emotional relationships really cheating ?

interrogator
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2/15/2011 1:48:33 PM
Posted: 5 years ago
Or is it just hypothetical. I mean. There are so many people out here who have
online relationships. And there is nothing wrong about that now.
But where do you draw the line. What if you are with someone.
And you are also having an online relationship.
Then all of a sudden you develope feelings for this person.
You are now what we call emotional.
Is this really considered to be cheating or not.
CosmicAlfonzo
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2/15/2011 1:54:32 PM
Posted: 5 years ago
All is fair in love and war.
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2/15/2011 2:18:05 PM
Posted: 5 years ago
At 2/15/2011 1:48:33 PM, interrogator wrote:
Or is it just hypothetical. I mean. There are so many people out here who have
online relationships. And there is nothing wrong about that now.
But where do you draw the line. What if you are with someone.
And you are also having an online relationship.
Then all of a sudden you develope feelings for this person.
You are now what we call emotional.
Is this really considered to be cheating or not.:

Yes, it's cheating. The question as to whether or not that is a bad thing to do is entirely up to you. But the fact that you posted means on some level you are conflicted. You already know the answer.

It's really going to depend on whether or not the relationship you're in now is worth having.

But I would also make sure that you aren't chasing the Golden-Haired Woman.
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vardas0antras
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2/15/2011 2:49:43 PM
Posted: 5 years ago
At 2/15/2011 2:21:12 PM, nonentity wrote:
To me, anything you wouldn't want your partner to do to you counts as cheating.

Play twister? I hate that game.
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2/15/2011 2:50:02 PM
Posted: 5 years ago
At 2/15/2011 2:21:12 PM, nonentity wrote:
To me, anything you wouldn't want your partner to do to you counts as cheating.:

Had a discussion about this with some friends last weekend.

What if your boyfriend wanted to view porn but you felt threatened by it? Would you consider that cheating?
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gavin.ogden
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2/15/2011 4:23:23 PM
Posted: 5 years ago
At 2/15/2011 2:50:02 PM, PARADIGM_L0ST wrote:
At 2/15/2011 2:21:12 PM, nonentity wrote:
To me, anything you wouldn't want your partner to do to you counts as cheating.:

Had a discussion about this with some friends last weekend.

What if your boyfriend wanted to view porn but you felt threatened by it? Would you consider that cheating?

Good one... I know, because even I'm on the fence with that one. Although, it is kind of cool to be with a girl who is turned on by porn. I can still understand where maybe a spouse would not be cool with it.
nonentity
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2/15/2011 5:33:27 PM
Posted: 5 years ago
At 2/15/2011 2:50:02 PM, PARADIGM_L0ST wrote:
At 2/15/2011 2:21:12 PM, nonentity wrote:
To me, anything you wouldn't want your partner to do to you counts as cheating.:

Had a discussion about this with some friends last weekend.

What if your boyfriend wanted to view porn but you felt threatened by it? Would you consider that cheating?

I should clarify: anything you wouldn't want your partner to do to you with someone else.


I personally don't consider viewing porn cheating :/
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2/15/2011 8:33:21 PM
Posted: 5 years ago
At 2/15/2011 2:49:43 PM, vardas0antras wrote:
At 2/15/2011 2:21:12 PM, nonentity wrote:
To me, anything you wouldn't want your partner to do to you counts as cheating.

Play twister? I hate that game.

Ahhahaaaa
good one. :D
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2/15/2011 9:59:32 PM
Posted: 5 years ago
At 2/15/2011 1:48:33 PM, interrogator wrote:
Or is it just hypothetical. I mean. There are so many people out here who have
online relationships. And there is nothing wrong about that now.
But where do you draw the line. What if you are with someone.
And you are also having an online relationship.
Then all of a sudden you develope feelings for this person.
You are now what we call emotional.
Is this really considered to be cheating or not.

Nonentity said it right. But would also like to add that if your doing anything that you feel you must hide from your significant other is probably not a "good" thing in general.
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