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how to mend a broken heart?

mauricio2
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6/3/2011 9:31:36 AM
Posted: 5 years ago
i have been friends with this fantastic girl called lily for a while and we became more then friends since she kissed me and we both like each other a lot but the thing is that she is moving to north carolina and im moving to california (we both currently live in florida) and we are both broken hearted about it. what exactly is the best thing to do? forget her and move on (wich is going to be extremly hard),stay friends with her (wich wont be the same as before) or try to keep a relationship with her?
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6/3/2011 10:35:30 AM
Posted: 5 years ago
I'd go with B: stay friends with her.
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6/3/2011 10:40:08 AM
Posted: 5 years ago
At 6/3/2011 9:31:36 AM, mauricio2 wrote:
i have been friends with this fantastic girl called lily for a while and we became more then friends since she kissed me and we both like each other a lot but the thing is that she is moving to north carolina and im moving to california (we both currently live in florida) and we are both broken hearted about it. what exactly is the best thing to do? forget her and move on (wich is going to be extremly hard),stay friends with her (wich wont be the same as before) or try to keep a relationship with her?

Keep lightly in touch, but don't read too much into it.
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6/3/2011 11:10:08 AM
Posted: 5 years ago
From personal experience, the girl is going to get bored with you over time if you just talk to her or text her every so often. You have to keep her on her toes by either introducing another girl or pretending to be a stalker by calling her from different phones (and then comforting her afterwards). Girls just want to have fun.
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6/9/2011 9:13:19 AM
Posted: 5 years ago
Forget her and move on. Plenty of who... girls in the sea. Odds are it will never work out long distance.
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6/9/2011 11:49:49 AM
Posted: 5 years ago
At 6/9/2011 5:09:06 AM, J.Kenyon wrote:
http://en.wikipedia.org...

I was about to post that. lmao
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mauricio2
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6/9/2011 12:06:20 PM
Posted: 5 years ago
well ofcourse ill keep incontact but i guess the best thing to do is move on and if there is a chance then catch up to her when we are both grown up and let things fly from there. thanks you guys are the best and helped me feel better about the subject.
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6/9/2011 12:33:21 PM
Posted: 5 years ago
They say only time will heal a broken heart.

Whoever "they" are, they are wrong. A broken heart never heals, although the passage of time does numb the pain somewhat.

But the first cut is the deepest, you'll never ever love anyone the same way you did your first true love.

Does that help?
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mauricio2
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6/9/2011 12:38:23 PM
Posted: 5 years ago
At 6/9/2011 12:33:21 PM, brian_eggleston wrote:
They say only time will heal a broken heart.

Whoever "they" are, they are wrong. A broken heart never heals, although the passage of time does numb the pain somewhat.

But the first cut is the deepest, you'll never ever love anyone the same way you did your first true love.

Does that help?



yeah haha but it wasn't serious like that but we both are hurt cause we just got to being realy close to each other and fond each other realy special.
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6/9/2011 12:42:22 PM
Posted: 5 years ago
At 6/9/2011 12:38:23 PM, mauricio2 wrote:

yeah haha but it wasn't serious like that but we both are hurt cause we just got to being realy close to each other and fond each other realy special.

Do not let her forget about you. Go outside of her house and spray paint your name. Spend three hours taking pictures of her though her window. Kill her dog (and write a letter that says "this is only the beginning.") Then, when she goes outside, give her a kiss. She will then fall back in love with you. I did this to my girlfriend, and it works.
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6/9/2011 12:49:14 PM
Posted: 5 years ago
At 6/9/2011 11:49:49 AM, CosmicAlfonzo wrote:
At 6/9/2011 5:09:06 AM, J.Kenyon wrote:
http://en.wikipedia.org...

I was about to post that. lmao

What, the suicide pact suggestion? Or Frank Zappa?
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6/9/2011 12:59:48 PM
Posted: 5 years ago
What Brian said. The first one you really love, you never really get over, it always hangs in the back somewhere as a 'what if...' There will always be a place in your heart for her. Sounds really saccharine and mushy, but it is true.
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6/9/2011 1:35:02 PM
Posted: 5 years ago
At 6/3/2011 9:31:36 AM, mauricio2 wrote:
i have been friends with this fantastic girl called lily for a while and we became more then friends since she kissed me and we both like each other a lot but the thing is that she is moving to north carolina and im moving to california (we both currently live in florida) and we are both broken hearted about it. what exactly is the best thing to do? forget her and move on (wich is going to be extremly hard),stay friends with her (wich wont be the same as before) or try to keep a relationship with her?

Where in CA?
mauricio2
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6/9/2011 1:54:37 PM
Posted: 5 years ago
At 6/9/2011 1:35:02 PM, Rockylightning wrote:
At 6/3/2011 9:31:36 AM, mauricio2 wrote:
i have been friends with this fantastic girl called lily for a while and we became more then friends since she kissed me and we both like each other a lot but the thing is that she is moving to north carolina and im moving to california (we both currently live in florida) and we are both broken hearted about it. what exactly is the best thing to do? forget her and move on (wich is going to be extremly hard),stay friends with her (wich wont be the same as before) or try to keep a relationship with her?

Where in CA?

moreno valley
mauricio2
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6/9/2011 1:56:16 PM
Posted: 5 years ago
At 6/9/2011 12:42:22 PM, Koopin wrote:
At 6/9/2011 12:38:23 PM, mauricio2 wrote:

yeah haha but it wasn't serious like that but we both are hurt cause we just got to being realy close to each other and fond each other realy special.

Do not let her forget about you. Go outside of her house and spray paint your name. Spend three hours taking pictures of her though her window. Kill her dog (and write a letter that says "this is only the beginning.") Then, when she goes outside, give her a kiss. She will then fall back in love with you. I did this to my girlfriend, and it works.

she is not dumping me and we never got that close. and btw everything you siad sounds stalker like lol i have a feeling you where just kidding tho.
Rockylightning
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6/9/2011 5:02:44 PM
Posted: 5 years ago
At 6/9/2011 1:54:37 PM, mauricio2 wrote:
At 6/9/2011 1:35:02 PM, Rockylightning wrote:
At 6/3/2011 9:31:36 AM, mauricio2 wrote:
i have been friends with this fantastic girl called lily for a while and we became more then friends since she kissed me and we both like each other a lot but the thing is that she is moving to north carolina and im moving to california (we both currently live in florida) and we are both broken hearted about it. what exactly is the best thing to do? forget her and move on (wich is going to be extremly hard),stay friends with her (wich wont be the same as before) or try to keep a relationship with her?

Where in CA?

moreno valley

far from me
askbob
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6/9/2011 5:31:51 PM
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At 6/3/2011 9:31:36 AM, mauricio2 wrote:
she is moving to north carolina which is close to georgia and im moving to california (we both currently live in florida) and we are both broken hearted about it. what exactly is the best thing to do?

I would explain, but I think it's best for Glady's to do this.
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6/9/2011 5:34:01 PM
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At 6/9/2011 12:49:14 PM, J.Kenyon wrote:
At 6/9/2011 11:49:49 AM, CosmicAlfonzo wrote:
At 6/9/2011 5:09:06 AM, J.Kenyon wrote:
http://en.wikipedia.org...

I was about to post that. lmao

What, the suicide pact suggestion? Or Frank Zappa?

Zappa.

I'm a Zappa nut.
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6/9/2011 10:21:07 PM
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Me -Phil left the site in my charge. I have a recorded phone conversation to prove it.
kohai -If you're the owner, then do something useful like ip block him and get us away from juggle and on a dofferent host!
Me -haha you apparently don't know my history
Kohai - Maybe not, but that doesn't matter! You shoukd still listen to your community and quit being a tyrrant!
Me - i was being completely sarcastic
Kohai - then u misrepresented yourself by impersonating the owner—a violation of the tos