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2/15/2012 10:41:19 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
My girlfriend recently told me that she feels like "something's missing" but she couldn't say what and that it's been that way for a while.

It broke my heart... I don't know what it means or what to do...
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2/16/2012 12:28:23 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 2/15/2012 10:41:19 PM, ConservativePolitico wrote:
My girlfriend recently told me that she feels like "something's missing" but she couldn't say what and that it's been that way for a while.

It broke my heart... I don't know what it means or what to do...

Lets see, First look at profile and check age, 18 Um move on your to young to be in a serious relationship. She's bagge holding you back. There are 3 billion other fish in the sea to chose from. Why choose one that just bites the leggs off your hand pick shrimp.
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2/16/2012 12:39:15 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 2/16/2012 12:38:42 AM, FREEDO wrote:
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2/16/2012 12:42:02 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
inb4 thadeus, burn her house down.
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2/16/2012 10:25:30 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 2/16/2012 12:42:02 AM, phantom wrote:
inb4 thadeus, burn her house down.

You spelt my name wrong, doesn't count.
Burn her house down. With a machete!
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2/16/2012 12:34:59 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 2/16/2012 10:25:30 AM, Thaddeus wrote:
At 2/16/2012 12:42:02 AM, phantom wrote:
inb4 thadeus, burn her house down.

You spelt my name wrong, doesn't count.
Burn her house down. With a machete!

Technicalities is what caused Rome to burn my friend.
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2/16/2012 5:35:48 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 2/15/2012 10:41:19 PM, ConservativePolitico wrote:
My girlfriend recently told me that she feels like "something's missing" but she couldn't say what and that it's been that way for a while.

It broke my heart... I don't know what it means or what to do...

Nobody can assess your relationship blindly over the internet. But sadolite is correct, you are really in no position to expect a good relationship at your age. You don't know how to please a woman, you don't know how to handle the trials and tribulations of a relationship, and you don't know what you really want out of life. I'll be 31 in a couple weeks and I still can't figure out what I want. I'm hoping that by 40 I start to get a good idea...

If you've never been through a heartbreak before, then you're most likely headed for a doozy. My guess is that she's observing other people out there and being hit with the realization that there are infinite possibilities and you are just the guy who was conveniently there at the time who she got attached to. A lot of highschoolers live in the paradigm that their school represents the whole world. She is about to be exposed to the actual whole world and unfortunately it's more than you. And it would be terrible if she didn't realize this - it's pitiful to think that you two are going to give up the next few exciting decades of meeting new people and experiencing the wonders and thrills of dating just because of your misplaced loyalties to the first person you dated.

There's no way to sugarcoat it - she's probably going to start dating other people and it's going to feel like someone stabbed you, twisted the knife, and then kept you on life support just so you can live through the suffering without dying. It's a natural part of life and we all go through it. Everything has a balance; you probably felt like she was the world to you and brought you a lot of happiness - well, that happiness is borrowed, not given. It's time for you to return it in one fell swoop.

You do have a chance to save your dignity, although you won't be able to care about it much once the emotion sets in. Tell her she is free to date other people and you're willing to give her the space she needs to find what she feels she's missing. Unfortunately you won't, because you're human - you'll hang on to the bitter end and probably make some particularly undignified acts out of desperation which will do nothing but humiliate yourself. It's sort of like that "jump" scene on the first Matrix, where they explain that nobody makes their first jump. In the same respect, nobody can remain calm and collected during their first heartbreak - there's just too much desperation.

You'll feel the worst you ever have for a few days, really bad for a few weeks (which could go up and down depending on how well you can let her go) and then you'll wake up one day and realize that you feel fine again and you'll meet a girl that you realize is even better than she was (yes, yes, I know she's the best ever - I've heard that more times than I can count and there's no convincing you otherwise) and sit and wonder how you could have gotten that low. Why did I care so much? You can't control these feelings; you are afloat an angry sea of emotion and you'll just have to ride it out.
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2/16/2012 6:00:17 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 2/16/2012 10:25:30 AM, Thaddeus wrote:
At 2/16/2012 12:42:02 AM, phantom wrote:
inb4 thadeus, burn her house down.

You spelt my name wrong, doesn't count.
Burn her house down. With a machete!
You can't burn a house down with a machete, you idiot! You're supposed to use the lemons! Combustible lemons.
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2/16/2012 8:44:15 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 2/16/2012 6:00:17 PM, MarquisX wrote:
At 2/16/2012 10:25:30 AM, Thaddeus wrote:
At 2/16/2012 12:42:02 AM, phantom wrote:
inb4 thadeus, burn her house down.

You spelt my name wrong, doesn't count.
Burn her house down. With a machete!
You can't burn a house down with a machete, you idiot! You're supposed to use the lemons! Combustible lemons.

Yeah stupid, When Life gives you lemons, burn her house down
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2/16/2012 8:47:11 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 2/16/2012 8:44:15 PM, imabench wrote:
At 2/16/2012 6:00:17 PM, MarquisX wrote:
At 2/16/2012 10:25:30 AM, Thaddeus wrote:
At 2/16/2012 12:42:02 AM, phantom wrote:
inb4 thadeus, burn her house down.

You spelt my name wrong, doesn't count.
Burn her house down. With a machete!
You can't burn a house down with a machete, you idiot! You're supposed to use the lemons! Combustible lemons.

Yeah stupid, When Life gives you lemons, burn her house down

By the way, I'm the chemical engineer that will build a device to combust lemons to burn her house down.
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2/16/2012 8:53:50 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 2/16/2012 8:44:15 PM, imabench wrote:
At 2/16/2012 6:00:17 PM, MarquisX wrote:
At 2/16/2012 10:25:30 AM, Thaddeus wrote:
At 2/16/2012 12:42:02 AM, phantom wrote:
inb4 thadeus, burn her house down.

You spelt my name wrong, doesn't count.
Burn her house down. With a machete!
You can't burn a house down with a machete, you idiot! You're supposed to use the lemons! Combustible lemons.

Yeah stupid, When Life gives you lemons, burn her house down

I like it lol

I was wrong to come here, everyone was just negative >.>

Typical DDOites

Anyways, I've been dating the girl for 4 years so it's kinda serious for all you people "oh you're so young" blah blah.

Thread closed unless someone actually wants to be positive about something.
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2/16/2012 9:06:57 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 2/16/2012 8:53:50 PM, ConservativePolitico wrote:
At 2/16/2012 8:44:15 PM, imabench wrote:
At 2/16/2012 6:00:17 PM, MarquisX wrote:
At 2/16/2012 10:25:30 AM, Thaddeus wrote:
At 2/16/2012 12:42:02 AM, phantom wrote:
inb4 thadeus, burn her house down.

You spelt my name wrong, doesn't count.
Burn her house down. With a machete!
You can't burn a house down with a machete, you idiot! You're supposed to use the lemons! Combustible lemons.

Yeah stupid, When Life gives you lemons, burn her house down

I like it lol

I was wrong to come here, everyone was just negative >.>

Typical DDOites

Anyways, I've been dating the girl for 4 years so it's kinda serious for all you people "oh you're so young" blah blah.

Thread closed unless someone actually wants to be positive about something.

My girl and I started dating at 14. It happens, it just isn't common, so you can expect more of the same when you reach out to strangers on the internet. You could offer up more info here in hopes of more detailed or even-keeled responses, but you're probably better off talking to friends, family, and most importantly, her about all this.
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2/16/2012 9:22:25 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 2/16/2012 8:53:50 PM, ConservativePolitico wrote:

I like it lol

I was wrong to come here, everyone was just negative >.>

Typical DDOites

Anyways, I've been dating the girl for 4 years so it's kinda serious for all you people "oh you're so young" blah blah.

Thread closed unless someone actually wants to be positive about something.

Well, I can say that you will probably hurt for a little while, but you WILL get over it.

You DO NOT NEED her to live.

Sh*t happens.

Hopefully you will meet a better girl. :P

Oh, and if you need to burn anything(her house) then I have all this unused napalm in my garage and I would just hate for it to go to waste...
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2/16/2012 9:24:43 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 2/16/2012 8:53:50 PM, ConservativePolitico wrote:
At 2/16/2012 8:44:15 PM, imabench wrote:
At 2/16/2012 6:00:17 PM, MarquisX wrote:
At 2/16/2012 10:25:30 AM, Thaddeus wrote:
At 2/16/2012 12:42:02 AM, phantom wrote:
inb4 thadeus, burn her house down.

You spelt my name wrong, doesn't count.
Burn her house down. With a machete!
You can't burn a house down with a machete, you idiot! You're supposed to use the lemons! Combustible lemons.

Yeah stupid, When Life gives you lemons, burn her house down

I like it lol

I was wrong to come here, everyone was just negative >.>

Typical DDOites

Anyways, I've been dating the girl for 4 years so it's kinda serious for all you people "oh you're so young" blah blah.

Thread closed unless someone actually wants to be positive about something.

Oh. Get the fvck outta here.
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2/16/2012 9:25:47 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 2/16/2012 9:24:43 PM, Cobo wrote::

SH!T HAPPENS!

Plagiarism!
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2/16/2012 9:27:48 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 2/16/2012 9:25:47 PM, OberHerr wrote:
At 2/16/2012 9:24:43 PM, Cobo wrote::

SH!T HAPPENS!

Plagiarism!

You posted 1-2 minutes before me....
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2/16/2012 9:31:58 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 2/16/2012 8:44:15 PM, imabench wrote:
At 2/16/2012 6:00:17 PM, MarquisX wrote:
At 2/16/2012 10:25:30 AM, Thaddeus wrote:
At 2/16/2012 12:42:02 AM, phantom wrote:
inb4 thadeus, burn her house down.

You spelt my name wrong, doesn't count.
Burn her house down. With a machete!
You can't burn a house down with a machete, you idiot! You're supposed to use the lemons! Combustible lemons.

Yeah stupid, When Life gives you lemons, burn her house down

Especially when Cave Johnson does it! :3
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2/17/2012 1:52:02 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
There are far greater things in life than love.
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2/17/2012 2:03:12 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
You need rohYpnol

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2/18/2012 3:04:02 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 2/15/2012 10:41:19 PM, ConservativePolitico wrote:
My girlfriend recently told me that she feels like "something's missing" but she couldn't say what and that it's been that way for a while.

It broke my heart... I don't know what it means or what to do...

Man if you was seriously in love with that girl, I got something for you.

Think about her while listening to that song.
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2/18/2012 12:08:18 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 2/16/2012 6:00:17 PM, MarquisX wrote:
At 2/16/2012 10:25:30 AM, Thaddeus wrote:
At 2/16/2012 12:42:02 AM, phantom wrote:
inb4 thadeus, burn her house down.

You spelt my name wrong, doesn't count.
Burn her house down. With a machete!
You can't burn a house down with a machete, you idiot!
Smack machete against some rocks. Whee, sparks.
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2/18/2012 1:40:35 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
When Life gives you lemons, burn her house down:

I find that incidendiary explosives are usually the answer to most of life's problems.
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2/18/2012 1:57:15 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
I'm sorry to say, but I know what happened.

She met me, and realized that compared to me you, like everyone else, just can't compare. I'm really sorry, I cant help it believe me :(

But there IS a silver lining: this was all part of my master plan. She needed to fall for someone else so that I had my chance to make my move on you. This is our chance to be together.

No but really, if there's something missing than there really is nothing you can do about it. It's just a part of life, like Lasanga said its a trade off, the only way you can feel so sad now is because you felt really happy before. Here is an explanation of this complex concept: http://www.southparkstudios.com...

Do you truly care about her? If the answer is yes, then you know in your heart that you wouldn't want her to be in a relationship that doesnt work.
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2/19/2012 11:05:20 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
Screw burning her house down.

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