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mauricio2
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3/17/2012 12:39:33 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
I recently started having sex with My girlfriend and it was great but she keeps asking for more. she says stuff like "I feel real close to you when we have sex" and "I want to f*** your brains out" and more. I'm starting to get a feeling maybe sex isn't all that and that maybe having too much could ruin the good relationship we have cause before sex it was a lot different and now it's all she wants most of the time. is that good or bad?
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3/17/2012 12:45:51 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
Oh yeah that's terrible. I'd sure hate to have a girlfriend who wanted to have sex with me all the time. Yes sir, you've got a real problem on your hands.
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3/17/2012 12:47:31 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
It really really must suck to be you.

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3/17/2012 12:54:23 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 3/17/2012 12:39:33 PM, mauricio2 wrote:
I recently started having sex with My girlfriend and it was great but she keeps asking for more. she says stuff like "I feel real close to you when we have sex" and "I want to f*** your brains out" and more. I'm starting to get a feeling maybe sex isn't all that and that maybe having too much could ruin the good relationship we have cause before sex it was a lot different and now it's all she wants most of the time. is that good or bad?

A 16 year old boy complaining about too much sex? Maybe the world WILL end this year.

JK, anyway. There are some important things to note about sex and how it effects the brain.

Sex releases tons of dopamine. Anything that releases dopamine has the potential to become addicting, and those that release more, have higher chances. If there is an addicting factor that is forming, that increases the chance of filling that need elsewhere if her current supplier is not sufficient. Another thing is that sex causes the release of Oxytocin (mostly in women, though it is released after sex, not during), which causes pair bonding. This is also known as the cuddle hormone.

If you really want your relationship to work and last, then you will want to make sure that you two bond in more ways than just sex. You'll also want to make sure that you two are bonding together, and not have one person be bonding while the other is not. The best thing would be communication and not bottling it up because it will only get worse and worse until it snaps.
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3/17/2012 1:16:02 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
^ what ore said.

take her out to do activities with you. Go fishing. Go to the park. Go rollerblading. Take a picnic. Go fly kites. Go to the Zoo or the aquarium. Go to a museum. Go to a restaurant that plays live music. I don't know if you have one of these in your neighborhood, but in the spring time in DC they have movies that play outside in front of a big lawn. For free.

Those are all things that are relatively inexpensive.

Some girls just have a high libido and you have to find a balance. Sometimes they will want sex to try and fill up a sense of void. If she feels close to you in other ways, the sex isnt AS necessary. Ask her about what other ways she would feel more connected to you and expand on those.
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3/17/2012 1:41:25 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 3/17/2012 12:39:33 PM, mauricio2 wrote:
I recently started having sex with My girlfriend and it was great but she keeps asking for more. she says stuff like "I feel real close to you when we have sex" and "I want to f*** your brains out" and more. I'm starting to get a feeling maybe sex isn't all that and that maybe having too much could ruin the good relationship we have cause before sex it was a lot different and now it's all she wants most of the time. is that good or bad?

There is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so.

You simply want sex less often than she does. The answer is the same as for most relationship issues- be honest with her. Tell her that while you like having sex with her (I assume) you don't want it to be the only thing you do.

Tell her that sex is what you do when you feel close to someone, it is not something to do to make you feel close to someone. You should feel close already.
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3/17/2012 1:43:52 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
Lol stop trolling him guys. I understand where you are coming from. I had a girlfriend who was like that once, except I never had sex with her. Mainly due to the fact that I was virgin, and she wasn't and she wanted it so bad. Currently the only person I have ever had sex with is my girlfriend of almost 2 years. I am in love with her, and she with me.

I don't know what you consider too much sex. But we keep it on a low. Maybe once or twice a week.

Just make sure it is moderate, and not too much. A relationship can very easily become all about sex. Don't let it take you guys.
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3/17/2012 1:43:54 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 3/17/2012 1:16:02 PM, Lickdafoot wrote:
^ what ore said.

take her out to do activities with you. Go fishing. Go to the park. Go rollerblading. Take a picnic. Go fly kites. Go to the Zoo or the aquarium. Go to a museum. Go to a restaurant that plays live music. I don't know if you have one of these in your neighborhood, but in the spring time in DC they have movies that play outside in front of a big lawn. For free.

Those are all things that are relatively inexpensive.

Some girls just have a high libido and you have to find a balance. Sometimes they will want sex to try and fill up a sense of void. If she feels close to you in other ways, the sex isnt AS necessary. Ask her about what other ways she would feel more connected to you and expand on those.

I like that idea. thanks
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3/17/2012 1:45:31 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 3/17/2012 1:43:52 PM, TUF wrote:
Lol stop trolling him guys. I understand where you are coming from. I had a girlfriend who was like that once, except I never had sex with her. Mainly due to the fact that I was virgin, and she wasn't and she wanted it so bad. Currently the only person I have ever had sex with is my girlfriend of almost 2 years. I am in love with her, and she with me.

I don't know what you consider too much sex. But we keep it on a low. Maybe once or twice a week.

Just make sure it is moderate, and not too much. A relationship can very easily become all about sex. Don't let it take you guys.

Recently it's like 3 times a day but on average it is like 10 times a week.
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3/17/2012 2:11:15 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 3/17/2012 1:43:52 PM, TUF wrote:
Lol stop trolling him guys. I understand where you are coming from. I had a girlfriend who was like that once, except I never had sex with her. Mainly due to the fact that I was virgin, and she wasn't and she wanted it so bad. Currently the only person I have ever had sex with is my girlfriend of almost 2 years. I am in love with her, and she with me.

I don't know what you consider too much sex. But we keep it on a low. Maybe once or twice a week.


You live together and only once or twice a week? I'd die!

Just make sure it is moderate, and not too much. A relationship can very easily become all about sex. Don't let it take you guys.
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3/17/2012 2:17:01 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
My advice, make sure she's clean and stop being a homosexual.
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3/17/2012 2:17:25 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 3/17/2012 2:11:15 PM, nonentity wrote:
At 3/17/2012 1:43:52 PM, TUF wrote:
Lol stop trolling him guys. I understand where you are coming from. I had a girlfriend who was like that once, except I never had sex with her. Mainly due to the fact that I was virgin, and she wasn't and she wanted it so bad. Currently the only person I have ever had sex with is my girlfriend of almost 2 years. I am in love with her, and she with me.

I don't know what you consider too much sex. But we keep it on a low. Maybe once or twice a week.


You live together and only once or twice a week? I'd die!

Yeah we did it a lot more in the beginning, but we don't need it. We don't want our relationship to be all about it and that lot.
Plus she is scared of getting prego. Even when there is protection involved. She is very paranoid.
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3/17/2012 2:23:51 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 3/17/2012 12:39:33 PM, mauricio2 wrote:
I recently started having sex with My girlfriend and it was great but she keeps asking for more. she says stuff like "I feel real close to you when we have sex" and "I want to f*** your brains out" and more. I'm starting to get a feeling maybe sex isn't all that and that maybe having too much could ruin the good relationship we have cause before sex it was a lot different and now it's all she wants most of the time. is that good or bad?

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3/17/2012 2:25:34 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 3/17/2012 12:39:33 PM, mauricio2 wrote:
I recently started having sex with My girlfriend and it was great but she keeps asking for more. she says stuff like "I feel real close to you when we have sex" and "I want to f*** your brains out" and more. I'm starting to get a feeling maybe sex isn't all that and that maybe having too much could ruin the good relationship we have cause before sex it was a lot different and now it's all she wants most of the time. is that good or bad?

this dude is trolling
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3/17/2012 2:33:06 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 3/17/2012 2:25:34 PM, 000ike wrote:
At 3/17/2012 12:39:33 PM, mauricio2 wrote:
I recently started having sex with My girlfriend and it was great but she keeps asking for more. she says stuff like "I feel real close to you when we have sex" and "I want to f*** your brains out" and more. I'm starting to get a feeling maybe sex isn't all that and that maybe having too much could ruin the good relationship we have cause before sex it was a lot different and now it's all she wants most of the time. is that good or bad?

this dude is trolling

Thank you for this serious, and very heartfelt response.

Your getting better and better at these.
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3/17/2012 2:33:42 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 3/17/2012 2:17:25 PM, TUF wrote:
At 3/17/2012 2:11:15 PM, nonentity wrote:
At 3/17/2012 1:43:52 PM, TUF wrote:
Lol stop trolling him guys. I understand where you are coming from. I had a girlfriend who was like that once, except I never had sex with her. Mainly due to the fact that I was virgin, and she wasn't and she wanted it so bad. Currently the only person I have ever had sex with is my girlfriend of almost 2 years. I am in love with her, and she with me.

I don't know what you consider too much sex. But we keep it on a low. Maybe once or twice a week.


You live together and only once or twice a week? I'd die!

Yeah we did it a lot more in the beginning, but we don't need it. We don't want our relationship to be all about it and that lot.
Plus she is scared of getting prego. Even when there is protection involved. She is very paranoid.


I guess you could say "Better safe than sorry!"
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3/17/2012 4:25:13 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 3/17/2012 1:16:02 PM, Lickdafoot wrote:
take her out to do activities with you. Go have sex while fishing. Go to the park to have sex. Go rollerblading while having sex. Take a picnic and bring a condom. Go fly kites while having sex. Go to the Zoo or the aquarium and have sex. Go to a museum and have sex. Go to a restaurant that plays live music and have her go down on you. I don't know if you have one of these in your neighborhood, but in the spring time in DC they have movies that play outside in front of a big lawn. For free. And you get to have sex.

Fix'd.

Seriously though, even though i only have sex with my girlfriend, at most, 4 times a week, i remember a time when we did it like bunnies. Its like puberty, you kind of grow out of it eventually.
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3/17/2012 4:28:01 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 3/17/2012 2:17:25 PM, TUF wrote:
At 3/17/2012 2:11:15 PM, nonentity wrote:
At 3/17/2012 1:43:52 PM, TUF wrote:
Lol stop trolling him guys. I understand where you are coming from. I had a girlfriend who was like that once, except I never had sex with her. Mainly due to the fact that I was virgin, and she wasn't and she wanted it so bad. Currently the only person I have ever had sex with is my girlfriend of almost 2 years. I am in love with her, and she with me.

I don't know what you consider too much sex. But we keep it on a low. Maybe once or twice a week.


You live together and only once or twice a week? I'd die!

Yeah we did it a lot more in the beginning, but we don't need it. We don't want our relationship to be all about it and that lot.
Plus she is scared of getting prego. Even when there is protection involved. She is very paranoid.


Get a vasectomy? Or have her undergo Tubal ligation. Problem solved.
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3/17/2012 7:02:45 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
Burn her house down.
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3/17/2012 7:55:55 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 3/17/2012 7:02:45 PM, DetectableNinja wrote:
Burn her house down.

But then she'll need someone to stay with. Last thing you want is her sleeping in your bed on a regular basis.
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3/17/2012 8:04:44 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 3/17/2012 7:55:55 PM, socialpinko wrote:
At 3/17/2012 7:02:45 PM, DetectableNinja wrote:
Burn her house down.

But then she'll need someone to stay with. Last thing you want is her sleeping in your bed on a regular basis.

Make sure she is in the house?
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3/17/2012 10:42:33 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
burn her house down when she has kids by accident, then send the remaining children to become slaves in Lesotho >:D
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3/18/2012 7:06:10 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
Sex is just fine. The problem is probobly when your gf keeps asking, If she keeps asking then thats definitly too much.
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3/18/2012 1:50:51 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
You're obviously tiring out. Try giving her oral.
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3/19/2012 10:13:27 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 3/19/2012 9:55:39 AM, mauricio2 wrote:
At 3/18/2012 1:50:51 PM, Ragnar_Rahl wrote:
You're obviously tiring out. Try giving her oral.

ew

Clearly you aren't man enough to be having sex.