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royalpaladin
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4/5/2012 9:08:24 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
Ok, so there is this guy across the hall whom I am attracted to. He is really quiet, nice, and spends all of his time inside of his room (I'll fix that, don't worry). The problem is that he kind of refuses to talk to me. Like, whenever I try to talk to him, he never looks directly at me and does not seem to be very motivated to be in a conversation with me.

What do I do?
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4/5/2012 9:08:56 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/5/2012 9:08:24 AM, royalpaladin wrote:
Ok, so there is this guy across the hall whom I am attracted to. He is really quiet, nice, and spends all of his time inside of his room (I'll fix that, don't worry). The problem is that he kind of refuses to talk to me. Like, whenever I try to talk to him, he never looks directly at me and does not seem to be very motivated to be in a conversation with me.

What do I do?

Burn his room down.
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4/5/2012 9:09:23 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/5/2012 9:08:56 AM, Thaddeus wrote:
At 4/5/2012 9:08:24 AM, royalpaladin wrote:
Ok, so there is this guy across the hall whom I am attracted to. He is really quiet, nice, and spends all of his time inside of his room (I'll fix that, don't worry). The problem is that he kind of refuses to talk to me. Like, whenever I try to talk to him, he never looks directly at me and does not seem to be very motivated to be in a conversation with me.

What do I do?

Burn his room down.

LOL
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4/5/2012 9:09:28 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/5/2012 9:08:24 AM, royalpaladin wrote:
Ok, so there is this guy across the hall whom I am attracted to. He is really quiet, nice, and spends all of his time inside of his room (I'll fix that, don't worry). The problem is that he kind of refuses to talk to me. Like, whenever I try to talk to him, he never looks directly at me and does not seem to be very motivated to be in a conversation with me.

What do I do?

You should barge inside his room and ask him out! :DDDD That would REALLY get a guy flustered. :333
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4/5/2012 9:10:04 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/5/2012 9:08:24 AM, royalpaladin wrote:
Ok, so there is this guy across the hall whom I am attracted to. He is really quiet, nice, and spends all of his time inside of his room (I'll fix that, don't worry). The problem is that he kind of refuses to talk to me. Like, whenever I try to talk to him, he never looks directly at me and does not seem to be very motivated to be in a conversation with me.

What do I do?

My gf was the same way. Try to catch him When hes eating or when hes a captive audience and just talk, chances are hes nervous to talk because he finds you attractive ma'am.
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4/5/2012 9:10:42 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
Flirt with him, and if he doesn't respond, then he's gay.

And even if he's not, then trust me -- you will think sex is repulsive and end up a lesbian.

So. Just sayin'.
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4/5/2012 9:10:43 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/5/2012 9:09:45 AM, royalpaladin wrote:
OK, I'll make you guys a deal. If you help me attract him, I'll post HIS pics ;)

Awwww Cant we see the wedding pics instead? :333
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4/5/2012 9:11:19 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/5/2012 9:10:42 AM, Ren wrote:
Flirt with him, and if he doesn't respond, then he's gay.

And even if he's not, then trust me -- you will think sex is repulsive and end up a lesbian.

So. Just sayin'.

LOL

Dont say that! She doesnt need to know the truth!!
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4/5/2012 9:11:25 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/5/2012 9:10:16 AM, Thaddeus wrote:
Though seriously, if you've made the effort and he hasn't responded, he probably isn't that into you.

Not necesarily true Thad, altho its likely. He could just be a shy person.
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4/5/2012 9:12:00 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/5/2012 9:11:25 AM, Buddamoose wrote:
At 4/5/2012 9:10:16 AM, Thaddeus wrote:
Though seriously, if you've made the effort and he hasn't responded, he probably isn't that into you.

Not necesarily true Thad, altho its likely. He could just be a shy person.

If your a shy person then your shy to everyone not just a single person.
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4/5/2012 9:12:17 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/5/2012 9:11:25 AM, Buddamoose wrote:
At 4/5/2012 9:10:16 AM, Thaddeus wrote:
Though seriously, if you've made the effort and he hasn't responded, he probably isn't that into you.

Not necesarily true Thad, altho its likely. He could just be a shy person.

No. Shy people who like others respond to effort. Especially males. They don't make the first step, but they do respond positively. There is nearly no chance that it is down to shyness.
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4/5/2012 9:12:23 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/5/2012 9:09:45 AM, royalpaladin wrote:
OK, I'll make you guys a deal. If you help me attract him, I'll post HIS pics ;)

1) Don't get in a political, religious, or wtvr discussion.

2) Remember, he is a guy, AKA, he is clueless. So let him know you like him.

3) Be nice, and don't get all wrapped up in issues like politics, and religion.

4) Make him a sammich.
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4/5/2012 9:12:44 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/5/2012 9:10:16 AM, Thaddeus wrote:
Though seriously, if you've made the effort and he hasn't responded, he probably isn't that into you.

http://www.imdb.com...

That, or he has so much baggage vis-a-vis women that you'll probably be in over your head the second you dip a toe into those issue-laden waters.

Or you could take the barge into his room approach, but naked.

Whatever works.
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4/5/2012 9:13:31 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/5/2012 9:12:44 AM, drafterman wrote:
At 4/5/2012 9:10:16 AM, Thaddeus wrote:
Though seriously, if you've made the effort and he hasn't responded, he probably isn't that into you.

http://www.imdb.com...

That, or he has so much baggage vis-a-vis women that you'll probably be in over your head the second you dip a toe into those issue-laden waters.

Or you could take the barge into his room approach, but naked.

Whatever works.

DO. IT.
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4/5/2012 9:13:59 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/5/2012 9:12:23 AM, OberHerr wrote:
At 4/5/2012 9:09:45 AM, royalpaladin wrote:
OK, I'll make you guys a deal. If you help me attract him, I'll post HIS pics ;)

1) Don't get in a political, religious, or wtvr discussion.

Definitely (unless that is his kind of thing, find out first)

2) Remember, he is a guy, AKA, he is clueless. So let him know you like him.

Also yes. I don't get people who aren't forward in this sort of thing. You can be forward with charm y'now?

3) Be nice, and don't get all wrapped up in issues like politics, and religion.
Second part is redundant with 1

4) Make him a sammich.

Hell yes. The way to a man's heart is through his stomach.
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4/5/2012 9:14:18 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/5/2012 9:12:17 AM, Thaddeus wrote:
At 4/5/2012 9:11:25 AM, Buddamoose wrote:
At 4/5/2012 9:10:16 AM, Thaddeus wrote:
Though seriously, if you've made the effort and he hasn't responded, he probably isn't that into you.

Not necesarily true Thad, altho its likely. He could just be a shy person.

No. Shy people who like others respond to effort. Especially males. They don't make the first step, but they do respond positively. There is nearly no chance that it is down to shyness.

^^^
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4/5/2012 9:14:55 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/5/2012 9:13:31 AM, kyro90 wrote:
At 4/5/2012 9:12:44 AM, drafterman wrote:
At 4/5/2012 9:10:16 AM, Thaddeus wrote:
Though seriously, if you've made the effort and he hasn't responded, he probably isn't that into you.

http://www.imdb.com...

That, or he has so much baggage vis-a-vis women that you'll probably be in over your head the second you dip a toe into those issue-laden waters.

Or you could take the barge into his room approach, but naked.

Whatever works.

DO. IT.

The naked woman manoeuvre works.
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4/5/2012 9:14:59 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/5/2012 9:13:59 AM, Thaddeus wrote:
At 4/5/2012 9:12:23 AM, OberHerr wrote:
At 4/5/2012 9:09:45 AM, royalpaladin wrote:
OK, I'll make you guys a deal. If you help me attract him, I'll post HIS pics ;)

1) Don't get in a political, religious, or wtvr discussion.

Definitely (unless that is his kind of thing, find out first)

2) Remember, he is a guy, AKA, he is clueless. So let him know you like him.

Also yes. I don't get people who aren't forward in this sort of thing. You can be forward with charm y'now?

3) Be nice, and don't get all wrapped up in issues like politics, and religion.
Second part is redundant with 1

4) Make him a sammich.

Hell yes. The way to a man's heart is through his stomach.

I thought it was through his face? Hmm...
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4/5/2012 9:15:20 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/5/2012 9:14:55 AM, Thaddeus wrote:
At 4/5/2012 9:13:31 AM, kyro90 wrote:
At 4/5/2012 9:12:44 AM, drafterman wrote:
At 4/5/2012 9:10:16 AM, Thaddeus wrote:
Though seriously, if you've made the effort and he hasn't responded, he probably isn't that into you.

http://www.imdb.com...

That, or he has so much baggage vis-a-vis women that you'll probably be in over your head the second you dip a toe into those issue-laden waters.

Or you could take the barge into his room approach, but naked.

Whatever works.

DO. IT.

The naked woman manoeuvre works.

If it doesnt work then you KNOW hes gay.
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4/5/2012 9:17:26 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
Get him drunk.

VERY drunk.

And yeah.....tell him your carrying his baby after that, there ya are.

Just make sure he doesn't catch on until he likes you.
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4/5/2012 9:17:43 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/5/2012 9:15:20 AM, kyro90 wrote:
At 4/5/2012 9:14:55 AM, Thaddeus wrote:
At 4/5/2012 9:13:31 AM, kyro90 wrote:
At 4/5/2012 9:12:44 AM, drafterman wrote:
At 4/5/2012 9:10:16 AM, Thaddeus wrote:
Though seriously, if you've made the effort and he hasn't responded, he probably isn't that into you.

http://www.imdb.com...

That, or he has so much baggage vis-a-vis women that you'll probably be in over your head the second you dip a toe into those issue-laden waters.

Or you could take the barge into his room approach, but naked.

Whatever works.

DO. IT.

The naked woman manoeuvre works.

If it doesnt work then you KNOW hes gay.

Seeing as this problem is pretty much wrapped up lets move on to another matter. When are you planning on coming out of the closet?
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4/5/2012 9:19:13 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
Also, make sure your hot when you first meet him.

Thats very important.
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4/5/2012 9:25:48 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/5/2012 9:19:13 AM, OberHerr wrote:
Also, make sure your hot when you first meet him.

Thats very important.

Nah you can look cool too. Its just youll have a higher chance if your hot. I still think you should go with the nude plan.
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4/5/2012 9:35:35 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/5/2012 9:34:11 AM, royalpaladin wrote:
I get the sense that he does not have much baggage vis-a-vis women.

Well, if he's not like this toward anyone else, or any other women...

...that kinda narrows down the issue, sorry to say.
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4/5/2012 9:35:36 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/5/2012 9:34:11 AM, royalpaladin wrote:
I get the sense that he does not have much baggage vis-a-vis women.

Is he religious?
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"Was he the sun?"

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