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The "L" word

Sans_the_Ander
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4/19/2012 9:03:24 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
It seems like the word "love" is being said regardless if it is felt. There are a lot of people at my school that get in a relationship and like two weeks later they're telling each other "I love you". How on earth can you fall completely in love with somebody in TWO WEEKS?????? And then, sure enough, almost all of these couples "in love" break up after a month or so.

So what do you guys think? How long should one wait before saying the "l" word?
M.Torres
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4/19/2012 9:35:45 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
This issue is an over inflated matter of language. People make it a bigger deal than it is.
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: M. Torres said it, so it must be right.

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4/19/2012 9:37:31 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
I love you bro.
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4/19/2012 9:42:56 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/19/2012 9:35:45 PM, M.Torres wrote:
This issue is an over inflated matter of language. People make it a bigger deal than it is.

+1
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4/19/2012 9:46:07 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
I was once going out with this person and we immediatly started saying we love each other. Like RIGHT when we started going out the person told me they loved me. In a sense.
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4/19/2012 9:47:37 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/19/2012 9:35:45 PM, M.Torres wrote:
This issue is an over inflated matter of language. People make it a bigger deal than it is.

People make the word love a bigger deal than it is?
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4/19/2012 9:48:35 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/19/2012 9:46:07 PM, kyro90 wrote:
I was once going out with this person and we immediatly started saying we love each other. Like RIGHT when we started going out the person told me they loved me. In a sense.

I heard that from a friend too. They had been dating for like a day and the guy said he loved her
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4/19/2012 11:14:24 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/19/2012 9:47:37 PM, Sans_the_Ander wrote:
At 4/19/2012 9:35:45 PM, M.Torres wrote:
This issue is an over inflated matter of language. People make it a bigger deal than it is.

People make the word love a bigger deal than it is?

Absolutely. The word specifically, yes. It's really only a problem due to our language - like many many concepts our language forces upon us. I think people forget just how incredibly powerful linguistics are when it comes to human behavior and understanding.
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: M. Torres said it, so it must be right.

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4/19/2012 11:15:20 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/19/2012 11:14:24 PM, M.Torres wrote:
At 4/19/2012 9:47:37 PM, Sans_the_Ander wrote:
At 4/19/2012 9:35:45 PM, M.Torres wrote:
This issue is an over inflated matter of language. People make it a bigger deal than it is.

People make the word love a bigger deal than it is?

Absolutely. The word specifically, yes. It's really only a problem due to our language - like many many concepts our language forces upon us. I think people forget just how incredibly powerful linguistics are when it comes to human behavior and understanding.

Just like the n word.
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4/19/2012 11:16:08 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/19/2012 9:49:18 PM, Sans_the_Ander wrote:
At 4/19/2012 9:37:31 PM, thett3 wrote:
I love you bro.

Love you too man.

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4/19/2012 11:27:00 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/19/2012 11:16:08 PM, OberHerr wrote:
At 4/19/2012 9:49:18 PM, Sans_the_Ander wrote:
At 4/19/2012 9:37:31 PM, thett3 wrote:
I love you bro.

Love you too man.

*pats on butt*

Had to be done.

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Oryus
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4/20/2012 1:12:00 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/19/2012 9:35:45 PM, M.Torres wrote:
This issue is an over inflated matter of language. People make it a bigger deal than it is.

That. But I think the bigger issue is not understanding what it is in the first place.
: : :Tulle: The fool, I purposely don't engage with you because you don't have proper command of the English language.
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4/20/2012 1:12:37 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/20/2012 1:12:00 AM, Oryus wrote:
At 4/19/2012 9:35:45 PM, M.Torres wrote:
This issue is an over inflated matter of language. People make it a bigger deal than it is.

That. But I think the bigger issue is not understanding what it is in the first place.

or more specifically, especially for teenagers, confusing sexual attraction and/or infatuation with love.
: : :Tulle: The fool, I purposely don't engage with you because you don't have proper command of the English language.
: :
: : The Fool: It's my English writing. Either way It's okay have a larger vocabulary then you, and a better grasp of language, and you're a woman.
:
: I'm just going to leave this precious struggle nugget right here.
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4/20/2012 1:13:44 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/20/2012 1:12:00 AM, Oryus wrote:
At 4/19/2012 9:35:45 PM, M.Torres wrote:
This issue is an over inflated matter of language. People make it a bigger deal than it is.

That. But I think the bigger issue is not understanding what it is in the first place.
Oryus
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4/20/2012 1:16:21 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/20/2012 1:13:44 AM, Greyparrot wrote:
At 4/20/2012 1:12:00 AM, Oryus wrote:
At 4/19/2012 9:35:45 PM, M.Torres wrote:
This issue is an over inflated matter of language. People make it a bigger deal than it is.

That. But I think the bigger issue is not understanding what it is in the first place.



HAHAHAHAHA!!!!!
: : :Tulle: The fool, I purposely don't engage with you because you don't have proper command of the English language.
: :
: : The Fool: It's my English writing. Either way It's okay have a larger vocabulary then you, and a better grasp of language, and you're a woman.
:
: I'm just going to leave this precious struggle nugget right here.
Sans_the_Ander
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4/20/2012 12:27:19 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/20/2012 1:12:37 AM, Oryus wrote:
At 4/20/2012 1:12:00 AM, Oryus wrote:
At 4/19/2012 9:35:45 PM, M.Torres wrote:
This issue is an over inflated matter of language. People make it a bigger deal than it is.

That. But I think the bigger issue is not understanding what it is in the first place.

or more specifically, especially for teenagers, confusing sexual attraction and/or infatuation with love.

I agree
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4/20/2012 12:30:05 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
Love is relative. Just because a partner from a more developed relationship can look back to a past relationship and subjectively measure the difference in the amount of love experienced , doesn't mean that the past relationship wasn't love.
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4/20/2012 12:43:01 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
Sometimes I wonder if Love is a genuine emotion or just a social construct..I am in agreement with the fact that one minute a couple is head over hills and then dating other people a month later. One is lead to wonder, are we truly in love, or is this quest for a soulmate just an illusion sustained by society norms? Do we truly love them or just used to the way they make us feel? .... We live in an era where Love seemed to have lost its substance because no one fights for it anymore and the devastation of a breakup is eliminated by moving on & getting used to the way another person makes us feel.,.....
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4/20/2012 9:36:12 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
I love lamp
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