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Charles0103
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4/25/2012 7:27:25 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
So, like, it's been a long time since I broke up with my ex, and there's this girl that I'm starting to like. She's really sweet, pretty, smart, kind, etc. We have one class together (band.. lol), and she usually doesn't talk to anybody except her really close friends because she's kinda' shy. I'll see her look at me sometimes, and we've had a couple of small-talk conversations, but not a real one.

At any rate, how on earth can I go up to this girl and talk to her without looking like a stalker? :D
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4/25/2012 7:40:39 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/25/2012 7:27:25 PM, Charles0103 wrote:
So, like, it's been a long time since I broke up with my ex, and there's this girl that I'm starting to like. She's really sweet, pretty, smart, kind, etc. We have one class together (band.. lol), and she usually doesn't talk to anybody except her really close friends because she's kinda' shy. I'll see her look at me sometimes, and we've had a couple of small-talk conversations, but not a real one.

At any rate, how on earth can I go up to this girl and talk to her without looking like a stalker? :D

Grow some balls and tell her that you are quite fond of a gal such as her and would be honored if she would go for a walk with you. Just make the situation light and easy-going. Use a british accent or something.
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4/25/2012 8:11:27 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/25/2012 7:27:25 PM, Charles0103 wrote:
So, like, it's been a long time since I broke up with my ex, and there's this girl that I'm starting to like. She's really sweet, pretty, smart, kind, etc. We have one class together (band.. lol), and she usually doesn't talk to anybody except her really close friends because she's kinda' shy. I'll see her look at me sometimes, and we've had a couple of small-talk conversations, but not a real one.

At any rate, how on earth can I go up to this girl and talk to her without looking like a stalker? :D

Accidentally bump into her causing her to fall over and break her head open. That way, she'll be in the hospital and you can visit her every day with your excuse being that you feel bad for what you've done.
Wnope
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4/25/2012 8:11:59 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/25/2012 7:27:25 PM, Charles0103 wrote:
So, like, it's been a long time since I broke up with my ex, and there's this girl that I'm starting to like. She's really sweet, pretty, smart, kind, etc. We have one class together (band.. lol), and she usually doesn't talk to anybody except her really close friends because she's kinda' shy. I'll see her look at me sometimes, and we've had a couple of small-talk conversations, but not a real one.

At any rate, how on earth can I go up to this girl and talk to her without looking like a stalker? :D

Shared experience. The reason museums and movies are great for dates is you don't have to answer a list of 20 questions, you can both comment on a shared experience (how is the art/how is the movie).

You're in band, talk band gossip or ask about some music. Mention something witty about how much Oboe players sucked in the last round of music.
Ren
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4/25/2012 10:18:28 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/25/2012 7:27:25 PM, Charles0103 wrote:
So, like, it's been a long time since I broke up with my ex, and there's this girl that I'm starting to like. She's really sweet, pretty, smart, kind, etc. We have one class together (band.. lol), and she usually doesn't talk to anybody except her really close friends because she's kinda' shy. I'll see her look at me sometimes, and we've had a couple of small-talk conversations, but not a real one.

At any rate, how on earth can I go up to this girl and talk to her without looking like a stalker? :D

Invite her to lunch on a day you feel talkative or when something interesting happened to you, so you have something to share with her or talk about. Then, let her know that, of all people, you wanted to share that time with her, whether it was because you were feeling loquacious, or because of something interesting. Obviously, don't put it that way, but that should be the obvious gist.

Some of this is left to chance. Unless you intend to manipulate her (and, you shouldn't), then whether you guys will get along well and easily make conversation is up to your synchronicity, her state of mind, whether she's interested in anyone else, her mood, etc. However, if you make her laugh and lightly flatter her, you will at least have her attention and open the opportunity for more events like that (having lunch, going somewhere after school, hanging out, etc.), which is essentially the teenage analogue to dating, eventually leading to a relationship.

So, flip a coin and go. Don't be weird about it.
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4/25/2012 10:21:49 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/25/2012 9:07:36 PM, Cermank wrote:
At 4/25/2012 7:40:39 PM, CrazyPerson wrote:

Use a british accent or something.

... Don't.

Haha it could be cute and if she likes him at all she will find it funny, regardless. My guy did a terrible, terrible Jamaican accent once but it was so funny.
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4/25/2012 10:27:55 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
Tell her how beautiful she is, and how much you love her, and how your life would be so awful without her multiple times EVERY DAY. Come up with ridiculous nick names for her like "babbycakes" or something, and constantly post on her wall on facebook. TRUST ME bro, she will be ALL OVER YOU if you do that. All over you. Always text her goodnight, goodmorning, and good afternoon, and say "I love you" at least 45 times each day. Shower her with love ^.^
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4/26/2012 12:23:58 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/25/2012 10:27:55 PM, thett3 wrote:
Tell her how beautiful she is, and how much you love her, and how your life would be so awful without her multiple times EVERY DAY. Come up with ridiculous nick names for her like "babbycakes" or something, and constantly post on her wall on facebook. TRUST ME bro, she will be ALL OVER YOU if you do that. All over you. Always text her goodnight, goodmorning, and good afternoon, and say "I love you" at least 45 times each day. Shower her with love ^.^

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4/26/2012 8:28:10 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
Serenade her the new Acacia Strain

"Grab life by the throat and tear out its eyes.
Victims of the myth that everyone dies.
Buried alive from the inside out.
The maggots will crawl from your pretty mouth."

She'll be eating out of your hand... or from a tube the rest of her life.
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4/26/2012 8:44:16 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/26/2012 6:01:57 AM, royalpaladin wrote:
Bully her. Apparently men on this site think that bullying women makes them attracted to you.

Your living proof of that.

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