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8/22/2012 12:08:16 PM
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What men think:
1. If I date a girl that likes girls, ...we could have a 3some.
2. the chances of her cheating on me or leaving me for a girl are high.
3. if shes bisexual than she is a freak.
these are some of things i have heard guys say and I would like to get some more input fellas.
Would you date a bisexual female?
What would be your reasons for dating a bisexual female?
What is your input on Bisexuality.?
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8/22/2012 1:03:52 PM
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At 8/22/2012 12:08:16 PM, crystalharris101 wrote:
What men think:
1. If I date a girl that likes girls, ...we could have a 3some.

*signs up with bisexualdating.org*
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8/22/2012 1:22:49 PM
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At 8/22/2012 1:03:52 PM, Koopin wrote:
At 8/22/2012 12:08:16 PM, crystalharris101 wrote:
What men think:
1. If I date a girl that likes girls, ...we could have a 3some.

*signs up with bisexualdating.org*

Totally read that as 'bisexualdebating.org.'
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8/22/2012 1:25:02 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 8/22/2012 12:08:16 PM, crystalharris101 wrote:
What men think:
1. If I date a girl that likes girls, ...we could have a 3some.
2. the chances of her cheating on me or leaving me for a girl are high.
3. if shes bisexual than she is a freak.
these are some of things i have heard guys say and I would like to get some more input fellas.
Would you date a bisexual female?
What would be your reasons for dating a bisexual female?
What is your input on Bisexuality.?

There is no such thing as a bi-sexual my friend. Once you are casually and frequently interacting with a person of the same sex in an intimate manner, you are gay. The term
bi-sexual is just a political thing.
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8/22/2012 1:51:18 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 8/22/2012 12:08:16 PM, crystalharris101 wrote:
What men think:
1. If I date a girl that likes girls, ...we could have a 3some.
SICK
2. the chances of her cheating on me or leaving me for a girl are high.
If she is with another person even if your there and approve she has cheated.
3. if shes bisexual than she is a freak.
Not nessasarily.
these are some of things i have heard guys say and I would like to get some more input fellas.
Would you date a bisexual female?
NEVER
What would be your reasons for dating a bisexual female?
I WOULDNT
What is your input on Bisexuality.?
They are very very confused about themselves or just whores.
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8/22/2012 7:20:19 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 8/22/2012 12:08:16 PM, crystalharris101 wrote:
What men think:
1. If I date a girl that likes girls, ...we could have a 3some.
2. the chances of her cheating on me or leaving me for a girl are high.
3. if shes bisexual than she is a freak.
these are some of things i have heard guys say and I would like to get some more input fellas.
Would you date a bisexual female?

I'd date a bisexual female, bisexual male, gay male, straight female, list goes on.

What would be your reasons for dating a bisexual female?

Because I'd like her...?

What is your input on Bisexuality.?

It's a perfectly true/valid sexual orientation, for any person.
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8/23/2012 1:18:15 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 8/22/2012 1:25:02 PM, inferno wrote:
At 8/22/2012 12:08:16 PM, crystalharris101 wrote:
What men think:
1. If I date a girl that likes girls, ...we could have a 3some.
2. the chances of her cheating on me or leaving me for a girl are high.
3. if shes bisexual than she is a freak.
these are some of things i have heard guys say and I would like to get some more input fellas.
Would you date a bisexual female?
What would be your reasons for dating a bisexual female?
What is your input on Bisexuality.?

There is no such thing as a bi-sexual my friend. Once you are casually and frequently interacting with a person of the same sex in an intimate manner, you are gay. The term
bi-sexual is just a political thing.

That may be true for men, but not for women. In fact it can be argued that most women are bisexual, at least moreso than men are. Im on a phone right now so ill send the link tmr.
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8/23/2012 1:28:02 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 8/22/2012 1:51:18 PM, ScottyDouglas wrote:
At 8/22/2012 12:08:16 PM, crystalharris101 wrote:
What men think:
1. If I date a girl that likes girls, ...we could have a 3some.
SICK
No, the correct response is 'AWESOME!"
2. the chances of her cheating on me or leaving me for a girl are high.
If she is with another person even if your there and approve she has cheated.
3. if shes bisexual than she is a freak.
Not nessasarily.
these are some of things i have heard guys say and I would like to get some more input fellas.
Would you date a bisexual female?
NEVER
Well, you sure are open minded.
What would be your reasons for dating a bisexual female?
I WOULDNT
What is your input on Bisexuality.?
They are very very confused about themselves or just whores.
Your understanding of sexuality is so ignorant it's almost scary.
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8/23/2012 1:45:25 AM
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A fair amount of bisexuals are just confused...
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8/23/2012 6:40:10 PM
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I feel like I wouldn't care but who knows. I'd probably have a lot of questions.
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8/23/2012 8:14:49 PM
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At 8/23/2012 1:45:25 AM, R0b1Billion wrote:
A fair amount of bisexuals are just confused...

Hm.

The only thing I could think of for them being confused is: which sex do they prefer over the other?
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8/23/2012 8:17:40 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 8/22/2012 12:08:16 PM, crystalharris101 wrote:
What men think:
1. If I date a girl that likes girls, ...we could have a 3some.
2. the chances of her cheating on me or leaving me for a girl are high.
3. if shes bisexual than she is a freak.
these are some of things i have heard guys say and I would like to get some more input fellas.
Would you date a bisexual female?
What would be your reasons for dating a bisexual female?
What is your input on Bisexuality.?

The only thing you will get from a relationship with a bisexual is regrets and most likely an STD to go with it. Live by the sword die by the sword. You will be judged by who you associate with. Depravity is not a positive thing. You can convince yourself that being sexually promiscuous isn't bad but you aren't fooling anyone but yourself. I already have a negative impression of you.
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8/23/2012 8:21:23 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 8/22/2012 12:08:16 PM, crystalharris101 wrote:
What men think:
1. If I date a girl that likes girls, ...we could have a 3some.

Lol, not necessarily, by a long shot. I think a lot more girls are bi than they let off. They were curious about it, ate of the fruit for al little while, and settled with one or the other eventually. This doesn't have any implications about the rest of their sexuality -- women come in all kinds. I'm sure there's a great many self respecting women that wouldn't mind sleeping with another woman, that frequently dates men, and still has no interest in an orgy.

2. the chances of her cheating on me or leaving me for a girl are high.

I think that's probably contingent on how that specific girl feels. If she's with a man, but happens to like women more, and that man knows that, then it makes sense for him to concern himself with such things. However, if they decide to be with one another, I don't think there's any reason to believe that she would necessarily have any sort of dynamic with other women that she wouldn't have with other men.

In other words, that would be purely contingent on the likelihood that she would cheat in general; it has nothing to do with the fact that she's bisexual.

3. if shes bisexual than she is a freak.

Yeah, probably, given that being bisexual in and of itself lends itself to some degree of openess about sex, leading to greater explanation and a more thorough palate. That's really not a bad thing, though.

these are some of things i have heard guys say and I would like to get some more input fellas.
Would you date a bisexual female?

I have.

What would be your reasons for dating a bisexual female?

Because we like each other.

What is your input on Bisexuality?

I'm not a bisexual, so I don't really have any. Has some meanderings led me to have relations with more than one other person? Yes, but certainly not every time. Has it led to more interesting and diverse sexual experiences? Absolutely, and I appreciate that. Is it, overall, very different from dating entirely straight girls? No, not really, generally speaking.
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8/23/2012 8:26:42 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 8/22/2012 12:08:16 PM, crystalharris101 wrote:
What men think:
1. If I date a girl that likes girls, ...we could have a 3some.
2. the chances of her cheating on me or leaving me for a girl are high.
3. if shes bisexual than she is a freak.
these are some of things i have heard guys say and I would like to get some more input fellas.
Would you date a bisexual female?
What would be your reasons for dating a bisexual female?
What is your input on Bisexuality.?

I have dated two bisexual girls..they were both sluts, and one cheated on me..I think I would rather deal with straights because then I only have to watchout for half of the human population rather then all
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8/23/2012 9:16:43 PM
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At 8/23/2012 8:17:40 PM, sadolite wrote:
At 8/22/2012 12:08:16 PM, crystalharris101 wrote:
What men think:
1. If I date a girl that likes girls, ...we could have a 3some.
2. the chances of her cheating on me or leaving me for a girl are high.
3. if shes bisexual than she is a freak.
these are some of things i have heard guys say and I would like to get some more input fellas.
Would you date a bisexual female?
What would be your reasons for dating a bisexual female?
What is your input on Bisexuality.?

The only thing you will get from a relationship with a bisexual is regrets and most likely an STD to go with it. Live by the sword die by the sword. You will be judged by who you associate with. Depravity is not a positive thing. You can convince yourself that being sexually promiscuous isn't bad but you aren't fooling anyone but yourself. I already have a negative impression of you.

I notice that you're associating attraction to both sexes with sexual promiscuity. But I am, sir, completely clueless as to WHY you would think that.
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8/24/2012 1:02:17 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 8/22/2012 12:08:16 PM, crystalharris101 wrote:
What men think:
1. If I date a girl that likes girls, ...we could have a 3some.
^_^

2. the chances of her cheating on me or leaving me for a girl are high.
It's not cheating when it's two females and I get to watch. If I'm afraid she'll live me for a girl, then I'm also afraid of other she's that will leave me for dudes, it zeroes out.
3. if shes bisexual than she is a freak.
What is this I don't even any dude that thinks this needs to get pegged hard.

these are some of things i have heard guys say and I would like to get some more input fellas.
Would you date a bisexual female?
Yes.

What would be your reasons for dating a bisexual female?
The same reasons I'd date any other female, plus the whole possibility of threesomes/ watching.

What is your input on Bisexuality.?
Well, let's see, I'm counting at least six places to put my input.
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8/24/2012 1:19:12 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 8/22/2012 12:08:16 PM, crystalharris101 wrote:
What men think:
1. If I date a girl that likes girls, ...we could have a 3some.

Nothin wrong with that

2. the chances of her cheating on me or leaving me for a girl are high.

VERY high, Bisexual girls have the ENTIRE population to choose from, male AND female. If you want her to be loyal your gonna need something that not many guys OR girls could have.

3. if shes bisexual than she is a freak.

A freak in bed would be nice but being freaky is a double edged sword...

these are some of things i have heard guys say and I would like to get some more input fellas.
Would you date a bisexual female?

Nah I only date furniture (cause imabench)

What would be your reasons for dating a bisexual female?

Lack of a better option or ridiculously good looking.

What is your input on Bisexuality.?

Women can get away with being Bisexual, men most certainly cannot.
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9/22/2012 1:02:38 AM
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Hm this topic suddenly applies to me. I don't particularly need advice, but it would be funny to see who else happens to be in the same type of relationship. And of course being a progressive, I couldn't possible find anything wrong with it.
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9/22/2012 10:58:11 AM
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At 8/22/2012 1:25:02 PM, inferno wrote:

There is no such thing as a bi-sexual my friend. Once you are casually and frequently interacting with a person of the same sex in an intimate manner, you are gay. The term
bi-sexual is just a political thing.

The Heterosexual-Homosexual Rating Scale (Kinsey Scale), sometimes referred to as the "Kinsey Scale," was developed by Alfred Kinsey and his colleagues Wardell Pomeroy and Clyde Martin in 1948, in order to account for research findings that showed people did not fit into neat and exclusive heterosexual or homosexual categories.
http://www.kinseyinstitute.org...

What do you know? The American Psychological Association agrees! http://www.apa.org...

Would you like to debate on the subject, or will you cower back like a forum troll? :)
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9/22/2012 11:33:10 AM
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At 8/22/2012 1:51:18 PM, ScottyDouglas wrote:
At 8/22/2012 12:08:16 PM, crystalharris101 wrote:
What men think:
1. If I date a girl that likes girls, ...we could have a 3some.
SICK
2. the chances of her cheating on me or leaving me for a girl are high.
If she is with another person even if your there and approve she has cheated.
3. if shes bisexual than she is a freak.
Not nessasarily.
these are some of things i have heard guys say and I would like to get some more input fellas.
Would you date a bisexual female?
NEVER
What would be your reasons for dating a bisexual female?
I WOULDNT
What is your input on Bisexuality.?
They are very very confused about themselves or just whores.

You're an idiot.
Just because a female is attracted to both sexes does NOT make her confused, and DEFINITELY doesn't make her a whore. I know plenty of virgin bisexuals who have only liked several people in their lives, and who have strict values when it comes to sex and relationships. If you're going to judge girls by sexuality, I suggest you get off and learn to be less closed-minded and stereotypical before you return.
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9/22/2012 2:19:24 PM
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At 8/23/2012 9:16:43 PM, DetectableNinja wrote:
At 8/23/2012 8:17:40 PM, sadolite wrote:
At 8/22/2012 12:08:16 PM, crystalharris101 wrote:
What men think:
1. If I date a girl that likes girls, ...we could have a 3some.
2. the chances of her cheating on me or leaving me for a girl are high.
3. if shes bisexual than she is a freak.
these are some of things i have heard guys say and I would like to get some more input fellas.
Would you date a bisexual female?
What would be your reasons for dating a bisexual female?
What is your input on Bisexuality.?

The only thing you will get from a relationship with a bisexual is regrets and most likely an STD to go with it. Live by the sword die by the sword. You will be judged by who you associate with. Depravity is not a positive thing. You can convince yourself that being sexually promiscuous isn't bad but you aren't fooling anyone but yourself. I already have a negative impression of you.

I notice that you're associating attraction to both sexes with sexual promiscuity. But I am, sir, completely clueless as to WHY you would think that.

"completely clueless as to WHY you would think that."

Doesn't surprise me one bit.
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9/22/2012 2:21:12 PM
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At 9/22/2012 10:58:11 AM, Wallstreetatheist wrote:
At 8/22/2012 1:25:02 PM, inferno wrote:

There is no such thing as a bi-sexual my friend. Once you are casually and frequently interacting with a person of the same sex in an intimate manner, you are gay. The term
bi-sexual is just a political thing.

The Heterosexual-Homosexual Rating Scale (Kinsey Scale), sometimes referred to as the "Kinsey Scale," was developed by Alfred Kinsey and his colleagues Wardell Pomeroy and Clyde Martin in 1948, in order to account for research findings that showed people did not fit into neat and exclusive heterosexual or homosexual categories.
http://www.kinseyinstitute.org...

What do you know? The American Psychological Association agrees! http://www.apa.org...

Would you like to debate on the subject, or will you cower back like a forum troll? :)

I was going to make a repartee in much the same manner, but you've beaten me to it.
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9/22/2012 2:27:46 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 9/22/2012 2:19:24 PM, sadolite wrote:
At 8/23/2012 9:16:43 PM, DetectableNinja wrote:
At 8/23/2012 8:17:40 PM, sadolite wrote:
At 8/22/2012 12:08:16 PM, crystalharris101 wrote:
What men think:
1. If I date a girl that likes girls, ...we could have a 3some.
2. the chances of her cheating on me or leaving me for a girl are high.
3. if shes bisexual than she is a freak.
these are some of things i have heard guys say and I would like to get some more input fellas.
Would you date a bisexual female?
What would be your reasons for dating a bisexual female?
What is your input on Bisexuality.?

The only thing you will get from a relationship with a bisexual is regrets and most likely an STD to go with it. Live by the sword die by the sword. You will be judged by who you associate with. Depravity is not a positive thing. You can convince yourself that being sexually promiscuous isn't bad but you aren't fooling anyone but yourself. I already have a negative impression of you.

I notice that you're associating attraction to both sexes with sexual promiscuity. But I am, sir, completely clueless as to WHY you would think that.

"completely clueless as to WHY you would think that."

Doesn't surprise me one bit.

I think you've missed the facetious nature of her retort. It appears to me that she is asking for the justification of your statement.
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9/23/2012 5:00:24 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 8/22/2012 12:08:16 PM, crystalharris101 wrote:
What men think:
1. If I date a girl that likes girls, ...we could have a 3some.
This is probably a common thought for those that care about sex more than other things.
2. the chances of her cheating on me or leaving me for a girl are high.
After the rush of landing such a girl, this thought will seep in to those that are jealous, which seems to be most men.
3. if shes bisexual than she is a freak.
She's obviously open-minded with her body.
these are some of things i have heard guys say and I would like to get some more input fellas.
Would you date a bisexual female?
Not with my experience.
What would be your reasons for dating a bisexual female?
Mutual attraction.
What is your input on Bisexuality.?
In my experience, the few bi females I have known have being easy, dramatic, and damaged. I was friends with them all, and no longer friends now. Not because of their bi lifestyle, but because they have all been train wrecks waiting to happen.

Personally, I have never understood bisexuals. I am straight, but I can understand that some men are attracted to other men. I don't know why or how, but I know this is a fact. I also know that women are more emotional, and sex has more to do with intimacy than attraction.

Regardless, I still cannot fathom how one cannot "choose" one sex to be attracted to. I understand living a lie for decades, or experimenting to understand yourself, but it seems whorish to me to be potentially attracted to everyone. I think this is a sign of damage, as sociopaths are charasmatic indiscriminately, and bisexuals seem to be co-dependant or needing a relationship badly (like they're afraid to be alone), or simply being a slut. And in my experience, these have been the cases.
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9/23/2012 8:51:40 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 9/23/2012 5:00:24 AM, Chaos88 wrote:
At 8/22/2012 12:08:16 PM, crystalharris101 wrote:
What men think:
1. If I date a girl that likes girls, ...we could have a 3some.
This is probably a common thought for those that care about sex more than other things.
2. the chances of her cheating on me or leaving me for a girl are high.
After the rush of landing such a girl, this thought will seep in to those that are jealous, which seems to be most men.
3. if shes bisexual than she is a freak.
She's obviously open-minded with her body.
these are some of things i have heard guys say and I would like to get some more input fellas.
Would you date a bisexual female?
Not with my experience.
What would be your reasons for dating a bisexual female?
Mutual attraction.
What is your input on Bisexuality.?
In my experience, the few bi females I have known have being easy, dramatic, and damaged. I was friends with them all, and no longer friends now. Not because of their bi lifestyle, but because they have all been train wrecks waiting to happen.

Personally, I have never understood bisexuals. I am straight, but I can understand that some men are attracted to other men. I don't know why or how, but I know this is a fact. I also know that women are more emotional, and sex has more to do with intimacy than attraction.

Regardless, I still cannot fathom how one cannot "choose" one sex to be attracted to. I understand living a lie for decades, or experimenting to understand yourself, but it seems whorish to me to be potentially attracted to everyone. I think this is a sign of damage, as sociopaths are charasmatic indiscriminately, and bisexuals seem to be co-dependant or needing a relationship badly (like they're afraid to be alone), or simply being a slut. And in my experience, these have been the cases.

I think that it is a MAJOR stretch to say that bisexuals like sociopaths. I hate to be the person who says this, but I'm actually extremely offended.

Can all those people who berated me for saying that someone I knew was a slut weigh in on this?
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9/23/2012 8:52:21 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 9/23/2012 8:51:40 AM, Frederick53 wrote:
At 9/23/2012 5:00:24 AM, Chaos88 wrote:
At 8/22/2012 12:08:16 PM, crystalharris101 wrote:
What men think:
1. If I date a girl that likes girls, ...we could have a 3some.
This is probably a common thought for those that care about sex more than other things.
2. the chances of her cheating on me or leaving me for a girl are high.
After the rush of landing such a girl, this thought will seep in to those that are jealous, which seems to be most men.
3. if shes bisexual than she is a freak.
She's obviously open-minded with her body.
these are some of things i have heard guys say and I would like to get some more input fellas.
Would you date a bisexual female?
Not with my experience.
What would be your reasons for dating a bisexual female?
Mutual attraction.
What is your input on Bisexuality.?
In my experience, the few bi females I have known have being easy, dramatic, and damaged. I was friends with them all, and no longer friends now. Not because of their bi lifestyle, but because they have all been train wrecks waiting to happen.

Personally, I have never understood bisexuals. I am straight, but I can understand that some men are attracted to other men. I don't know why or how, but I know this is a fact. I also know that women are more emotional, and sex has more to do with intimacy than attraction.

Regardless, I still cannot fathom how one cannot "choose" one sex to be attracted to. I understand living a lie for decades, or experimenting to understand yourself, but it seems whorish to me to be potentially attracted to everyone. I think this is a sign of damage, as sociopaths are charasmatic indiscriminately, and bisexuals seem to be co-dependant or needing a relationship badly (like they're afraid to be alone), or simply being a slut. And in my experience, these have been the cases.

I think that it is a MAJOR stretch to say that bisexuals are like sociopaths. I hate to be the person who says this, but I'm actually extremely offended.

Can all those people who berated me for saying that someone I knew was a slut weigh in on this?
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9/23/2012 9:59:20 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 9/22/2012 2:27:46 PM, Polaris wrote:
At 9/22/2012 2:19:24 PM, sadolite wrote:
At 8/23/2012 9:16:43 PM, DetectableNinja wrote:
At 8/23/2012 8:17:40 PM, sadolite wrote:
At 8/22/2012 12:08:16 PM, crystalharris101 wrote:
What men think:
1. If I date a girl that likes girls, ...we could have a 3some.
2. the chances of her cheating on me or leaving me for a girl are high.
3. if shes bisexual than she is a freak.
these are some of things i have heard guys say and I would like to get some more input fellas.
Would you date a bisexual female?
What would be your reasons for dating a bisexual female?
What is your input on Bisexuality.?

The only thing you will get from a relationship with a bisexual is regrets and most likely an STD to go with it. Live by the sword die by the sword. You will be judged by who you associate with. Depravity is not a positive thing. You can convince yourself that being sexually promiscuous isn't bad but you aren't fooling anyone but yourself. I already have a negative impression of you.

I notice that you're associating attraction to both sexes with sexual promiscuity. But I am, sir, completely clueless as to WHY you would think that.

"completely clueless as to WHY you would think that."

Doesn't surprise me one bit.

I think you've missed the facetious nature of her retort. It appears to me that she is asking for the justification of your statement.

It would not matter what justification I gave, You either approve of homosexuality and gay marrige as being a thing of virtue to be put on a pedestal or you are a bigot.
It's not your views that divide us, it's what you think my views should be that divides us.

If you think I will give up my rights and forsake social etiquette to make you "FEEL" better you are sadly mistaken

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9/23/2012 2:38:50 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 9/22/2012 2:27:46 PM, Polaris wrote:
At 9/22/2012 2:19:24 PM, sadolite wrote:
At 8/23/2012 9:16:43 PM, DetectableNinja wrote:
At 8/23/2012 8:17:40 PM, sadolite wrote:
At 8/22/2012 12:08:16 PM, crystalharris101 wrote:
What men think:
1. If I date a girl that likes girls, ...we could have a 3some.
2. the chances of her cheating on me or leaving me for a girl are high.
3. if shes bisexual than she is a freak.
these are some of things i have heard guys say and I would like to get some more input fellas.
Would you date a bisexual female?
What would be your reasons for dating a bisexual female?
What is your input on Bisexuality.?

The only thing you will get from a relationship with a bisexual is regrets and most likely an STD to go with it. Live by the sword die by the sword. You will be judged by who you associate with. Depravity is not a positive thing. You can convince yourself that being sexually promiscuous isn't bad but you aren't fooling anyone but yourself. I already have a negative impression of you.

I notice that you're associating attraction to both sexes with sexual promiscuity. But I am, sir, completely clueless as to WHY you would think that.

"completely clueless as to WHY you would think that."

Doesn't surprise me one bit.

I think you've missed the facetious nature of her retort. It appears to me that she is asking for the justification of your statement.

I'm a male, Polaris.
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Or any man that breathes on earth.

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9/23/2012 4:23:56 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 9/23/2012 8:52:21 AM, Frederick53 wrote:
At 9/23/2012 8:51:40 AM, Frederick53 wrote:
At 9/23/2012 5:00:24 AM, Chaos88 wrote:
At 8/22/2012 12:08:16 PM, crystalharris101 wrote:
What men think:
1. If I date a girl that likes girls, ...we could have a 3some.
This is probably a common thought for those that care about sex more than other things.
2. the chances of her cheating on me or leaving me for a girl are high.
After the rush of landing such a girl, this thought will seep in to those that are jealous, which seems to be most men.
3. if shes bisexual than she is a freak.
She's obviously open-minded with her body.
these are some of things i have heard guys say and I would like to get some more input fellas.
Would you date a bisexual female?
Not with my experience.
What would be your reasons for dating a bisexual female?
Mutual attraction.
What is your input on Bisexuality.?
In my experience, the few bi females I have known have being easy, dramatic, and damaged. I was friends with them all, and no longer friends now. Not because of their bi lifestyle, but because they have all been train wrecks waiting to happen.

Personally, I have never understood bisexuals. I am straight, but I can understand that some men are attracted to other men. I don't know why or how, but I know this is a fact. I also know that women are more emotional, and sex has more to do with intimacy than attraction.

Regardless, I still cannot fathom how one cannot "choose" one sex to be attracted to. I understand living a lie for decades, or experimenting to understand yourself, but it seems whorish to me to be potentially attracted to everyone. I think this is a sign of damage, as sociopaths are charasmatic indiscriminately, and bisexuals seem to be co-dependant or needing a relationship badly (like they're afraid to be alone), or simply being a slut. And in my experience, these have been the cases.

I think that it is a MAJOR stretch to say that bisexuals are like sociopaths. I hate to be the person who says this, but I'm actually extremely offended.

Can all those people who berated me for saying that someone I knew was a slut weigh in on this?

As usual, people don't realize my point because they overanalyze my analogy. I merely compared charactaristics of each group to draw a similarity between them (in this case, potential deeper mental issues).

I did not say bisexuals are sociapaths, I did not even say they are like them. I stated that bisexuals are indiscriminate in their attractions (based on gender). This is akin to a sociopaths' charm, which he uses on everyone. These two identifing characteristics of these two groups of people are similar, and in my opinion, are evidence of a deeper mental issue (sociopaths care only about themselves, while bisexuals perhaps are afraid of being alone, or value themselves through sex, or something). Even though these characteristics are similar, I did not say this makes the individuals similar, nor did I imply it.

Why is it wrong to compare charateristics which I think are evidence of a weak mental pysche?