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lannan13
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1/14/2013 11:58:50 AM
Posted: 3 years ago
Well my long lasting relationship has come to an end when I went to a forensics tourney and found my girl friend kiss some other boy... Now I'm very depressed and don't know what to do... I don't believe that me listenin' to depressing suicidal music is help... but I can't help it. So I ask for help since later that day she told me herself that she was with someone else and was draped all over him when she told me. The sad thing is the guy she's going out with was a friend of mine...
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1/14/2013 12:00:22 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
I suggest you talk to them both about how you feel and resolve the matter peacefully. An alternative is to stone them both to death.
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1/14/2013 12:05:19 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 1/14/2013 12:00:22 PM, Mirza wrote:
I suggest you talk to them both about how you feel and resolve the matter peacefully. An alternative is to stone them both to death.

She is quote on quote, "Madly in love with him." She isn't in the mood for talkin'... I wish it wasn't this way... Life sucks right now... if I had the choice between life and death I would welcome death with welcome arms... though the only thing stopping me is that I would burn in Hell if I kill myself... *sigh*
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1/14/2013 12:07:50 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 1/14/2013 12:05:19 PM, lannan13 wrote:
She is quote on quote, "Madly in love with him." She isn't in the mood for talkin'... I wish it wasn't this way... Life sucks right now... if I had the choice between life and death I would welcome death with welcome arms... though the only thing stopping me is that I would burn in Hell if I kill myself... *sigh*
I wasn't serious about the first part. Of course you shouldn't talk to her, let alone her fella. Understand that she isn't into a relationship and will most likely turn her back again if given the chance. Think of her as trash. Move on with life. There are smart and pretty girls all around. Maybe they won't turn their backs for white trash like your friend.
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1/14/2013 12:13:56 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 1/14/2013 12:00:22 PM, Mirza wrote:
I suggest you talk to them both about how you feel and resolve the matter peacefully.

An alternative is to stone them both to death.

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1/14/2013 12:27:40 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 1/14/2013 12:07:50 PM, Mirza wrote:
At 1/14/2013 12:05:19 PM, lannan13 wrote:
She is quote on quote, "Madly in love with him." She isn't in the mood for talkin'... I wish it wasn't this way... Life sucks right now... if I had the choice between life and death I would welcome death with welcome arms... though the only thing stopping me is that I would burn in Hell if I kill myself... *sigh*
I wasn't serious about the first part. Of course you shouldn't talk to her, let alone her fella. Understand that she isn't into a relationship and will most likely turn her back again if given the chance. Think of her as trash. Move on with life. There are smart and pretty girls all around. Maybe they won't turn their backs for white trash like your friend.

... Did I miss a part of the story?
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1/14/2013 12:31:05 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 1/14/2013 12:07:50 PM, Mirza wrote:
At 1/14/2013 12:05:19 PM, lannan13 wrote:
She is quote on quote, "Madly in love with him." She isn't in the mood for talkin'... I wish it wasn't this way... Life sucks right now... if I had the choice between life and death I would welcome death with welcome arms... though the only thing stopping me is that I would burn in Hell if I kill myself... *sigh*
I wasn't serious about the first part. Of course you shouldn't talk to her, let alone her fella. Understand that she isn't into a relationship and will most likely turn her back again if given the chance. Think of her as trash. Move on with life. There are smart and pretty girls all around. Maybe they won't turn their backs for white trash like your friend.

I assume the second part of the advice was the more serious one.
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1/14/2013 1:25:09 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 1/14/2013 12:46:53 PM, johnnyboy54 wrote:
Burn their houses down.

With lemons good sir, with lemons
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1/14/2013 2:28:24 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 1/14/2013 1:25:09 PM, Buddamoose wrote:
At 1/14/2013 12:46:53 PM, johnnyboy54 wrote:
Burn their houses down.

With lemons good sir, with lemons

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1/14/2013 2:31:25 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 1/14/2013 2:28:24 PM, FrackJack wrote:
At 1/14/2013 1:25:09 PM, Buddamoose wrote:
At 1/14/2013 12:46:53 PM, johnnyboy54 wrote:
Burn their houses down.

With lemons good sir, with lemons

And porn.

Good man
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1/14/2013 2:43:27 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
The pain passes. I know that's hard to believe but it does. My girlfriend of four years dumped me in June. My summer sucked. Yes. You'll feel sad and lonely and you'll have the stabbing pain of heartache but it will pass in time.

Find a hobby, some friends who will hang out with you frequently etc to pass the time.

Time heals all wounds.
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1/14/2013 2:56:40 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 1/14/2013 11:58:50 AM, lannan13 wrote:
Well my long lasting relationship has come to an end when I went to a forensics tourney and found my girl friend kiss some other boy...
That girl is nuckin futs! Slut!

Now I'm very depressed and don't know what to do... I don't believe that me listenin' to depressing suicidal music is help... but I can't help it.
It's a good release but don't get too hung up.

So I ask for help since later that day she told me herself that she was with someone else and was draped all over him when she told me.
That's so douche-baggy of her! Says a lot about who she really is.

The sad thing is the guy she's going out with was a friend of mine...
Says a lot about who he is.

She is quote on quote, "Madly in love with him."
Extra douche-points against her.

She isn't in the mood for talkin'...
That's cause there's no excuse for what she's done. Awe, fvck her! Well, I guess not anymore but I meant it figuratively.

I wish it wasn't this way... Life sucks right now...
Yes and yes, but that's what life's all about: crap and more crap and if your lucky some good times in between! Regardless, it sure beats the alternative.

if I had the choice between life and death I would welcome death with welcome arms... though the only thing stopping me is that I would burn in Hell if I kill myself... *sigh*
Most certainly will burn in Hell...or is it purgatory? Not sure but it's a permanent solution to a temporary problem. You should completely cut both of them out of your life and continue on your merry way!

BTW, what's "a forensics tourney"?

Perhaps some humor will lift your spirits?

A man has a sickly wife and he takes her to the doctor and they run many tests. A few weeks later the doctor calls the man up and requests him in person in order to talk to him about the results.

Alarmed, the man goes to the doctor's office the next day.
The doctor said "we have a serious problem."
"Well what is it," said the man.
"The tests results are in but the paperwork got mixed up so were sure of one of two things."
"What's that," asked the man.
"Your wife has either AIDS or Alzheimer's," answered the doctor.
"My God, that's terrible! What should I do," said the man.
"Well," said the doctor, "you should get your wife and take her for a long, long drive up the mountains and into the woods, and then leave her there."
"And then what," asked the man.
To which the doctor replied, "Well, if she comes back home, DON'T fvck her!"
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1/14/2013 3:18:24 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
1.> Order a Dominos pizza.
2.> Get the entire Star Trek Voyager saga on Netflix.
3.> Watch three episodes.
4.> Skip the rest until 7 of 9 makes her appearance mid-series.
5.> Realize how incredibly hot 7 of 9 is.
6.> Realize how incredibly short your ex falls from looking like 7 of 9.
7.> Pizza...
8.> ....on to the next....(vagina)
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1/14/2013 3:50:40 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 1/14/2013 3:18:24 PM, Heineken wrote:
1.> Order a Dominos pizza.
2.> Get the entire Star Trek Voyager saga on Netflix.
3.> Watch three episodes.
4.> Skip the rest until 7 of 9 makes her appearance mid-series.
5.> Realize how incredibly hot 7 of 9 is.
6.> Realize how incredibly short your ex falls from looking like 7 of 9.
7.> Pizza...
8.> ....on to the next....(vagina)

Steps 1-7 ensure step 8 doesn't occur.
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1/14/2013 3:56:28 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 1/14/2013 3:50:40 PM, darkkermit wrote:
At 1/14/2013 3:18:24 PM, Heineken wrote:
1.> Order a Dominos pizza.
2.> Get the entire Star Trek Voyager saga on Netflix.
3.> Watch three episodes.
4.> Skip the rest until 7 of 9 makes her appearance mid-series.
5.> Realize how incredibly hot 7 of 9 is.
6.> Realize how incredibly short your ex falls from looking like 7 of 9.
7.> Pizza...
8.> ....on to the next....(vagina)

Steps 1-7 ensure step 8 doesn't occur.
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1/14/2013 3:57:44 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
In the end, loneliness is your only true friend.
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1/14/2013 3:59:39 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 1/14/2013 3:25:46 PM, ConservativePolitico wrote:
At 1/14/2013 3:13:16 PM, Koopin wrote:
Plenty of other chickens in the barn.

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1/14/2013 4:32:52 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 1/14/2013 3:57:44 PM, Man-is-good wrote:
In the end, loneliness is your only true friend.
May I correct you -- Loneliness is a mental state, a depressive one in fact. Being alone is what's good. Hopefully the Ma'am in question is introvert though.
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1/14/2013 4:34:40 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 1/14/2013 3:57:44 PM, Man-is-good wrote:
In the end, solitude is your only true friend.

Corrected, as indicated by Mirza's prompt and judicious reply. :)
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1/14/2013 4:46:15 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
I think that you wished to abstain from carrying out the not so merry or pulchritude connotation of "loneliness." In any case, however, I think that the condition of being a loner itself may carry some sort of inexorable sadness, perhaps directed to the condition, though the different words of the language afford us different degrees of connotation. In any case, introversion is the only one that is both nuanced--for it conveys, in the general sense, a directing to self, and combines the implication of loneliness or at best voluntary seclusion (or perhaps a reaction to an involuntary one), though I fear it would do the sentence justice..O.o
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1/14/2013 4:47:11 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 1/14/2013 12:05:19 PM, lannan13 wrote:
At 1/14/2013 12:00:22 PM, Mirza wrote:
I suggest you talk to them both about how you feel and resolve the matter peacefully. An alternative is to stone them both to death.

She is quote on quote, "Madly in love with him." She isn't in the mood for talkin'... I wish it wasn't this way... Life sucks right now... if I had the choice between life and death I would welcome death with welcome arms... though the only thing stopping me is that I would burn in Hell if I kill myself... *sigh*

Relax, man. It might be cliche but there really are plenty of fish in the sea, and trust me when I say you'll snag a better one than that cheating bitchh. Obviously I have no idea how long yall were together or how serious it was, but believe me a girl like that isnt worth fussing over. These things are just part of life--the shittty part granted, but still a part of our growth. Shes a bitchh for doing that and Im sorry, but youll get another, better companion. In fact, you'll likely get several better ones.
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1/14/2013 4:49:19 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 1/14/2013 4:46:15 PM, Man-is-good wrote:
I think that you wished to abstain from carrying out the not so merry or pulchritude connotation of "loneliness." In any case, however, I think that the condition of being a loner itself may carry some sort of inexorable sadness, perhaps directed to the condition, though the different words of the language afford us different degrees of connotation. In any case, introversion is the only one that is both nuanced--for it conveys, in the general sense, a directing to self, and combines the implication of loneliness or at best voluntary seclusion (or perhaps a reaction to an involuntary one), though I fear it would not do the sentence justice..O.o

Amended.
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1/14/2013 4:51:38 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 1/14/2013 3:50:40 PM, darkkermit wrote:
At 1/14/2013 3:18:24 PM, Heineken wrote:
1.> Order a Dominos pizza.
2.> Get the entire Star Trek Voyager saga on Netflix.
3.> Watch three episodes.
4.> Skip the rest until 7 of 9 makes her appearance mid-series.
5.> Realize how incredibly hot 7 of 9 is.
6.> Realize how incredibly short your ex falls from looking like 7 of 9.
7.> Pizza...
8.> ....on to the next....(vagina)

Steps 1-7 ensure step 8 doesn't occur.

...says the guy fvcking a pig.
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1/14/2013 4:52:04 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 1/14/2013 4:34:40 PM, Man-is-good wrote:
At 1/14/2013 3:57:44 PM, Man-is-good wrote:
In the end, solitude is your only true friend.

Corrected, as prompted by Mirza's judicious reply. :)
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"I believe that the mind can be permanently profaned by the habit of attending to trivial things, so that all our thoughts shall be tinged with triviality."--Thoreau
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1/14/2013 4:56:32 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 1/14/2013 4:46:15 PM, Man-is-good wrote:
I think that you wished to abstain from carrying out the not so merry or pulchritude connotation of "loneliness." In any case, however, I think that the condition of being a loner itself may carry some sort of inexorable sadness, perhaps directed to the condition, though the different words of the language afford us different degrees of connotation. In any case, introversion is the only one that is both nuanced--for it conveys, in the general sense, a directing to self, and combines the implication of loneliness or at best voluntary seclusion (or perhaps a reaction to an involuntary one), though I fear it would do the sentence justice..O.o
Great post! I don't think anyone is introvert to the point where being alone is satisfactory for unlimited terms. All things in balance, eh?
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1/14/2013 5:01:03 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
You're 16.
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