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CierraNicole
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5/15/2013 11:48:55 AM
Posted: 3 years ago
I know I'm not the only one who doesn't know how to tell my crush that I like him. Anyone else have this sort of problem? What do I do about it?
ConservativePolitico
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5/15/2013 12:25:02 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
You just tell them. Write them a letter if need be (much easier).

In the end there are two outcomes...

A. They feel the same.
B. They don't.

These outcomes won't deviate. It's going to be one or the other. But hiding your feelings doesn't solve anything or get you closer to what you want.
Cermank
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5/15/2013 10:19:32 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
Telling your crush you like him is too mainstream. Talk to him, become his good friend, set him up with a girlfriend, break him up with his gf, become the available person when he's emotionally vulnerable, and strike.

Its a foolproof strategy.
Buddamoose
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5/15/2013 11:42:30 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 5/15/2013 11:33:20 PM, johnnyboy54 wrote:
Burn his house down

Dont forget the lemons
"Reality is an illusion created due to a lack of alcohol"
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"You were the moon all this time, and he was always there to make you shine."

"Was he the sun?"

"No honey, he was the darkness"

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5/15/2013 11:44:40 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 5/15/2013 11:42:30 PM, Buddamoose wrote:
At 5/15/2013 11:33:20 PM, johnnyboy54 wrote:
Burn his house down

Dont forget the lemons

Lemons?
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Buddamoose
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5/15/2013 11:46:48 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 5/15/2013 11:44:40 PM, YYW wrote:
At 5/15/2013 11:42:30 PM, Buddamoose wrote:
At 5/15/2013 11:33:20 PM, johnnyboy54 wrote:
Burn his house down

Dont forget the lemons

Lemons?

Yes
"Reality is an illusion created due to a lack of alcohol"
-Airmax1227

"You were the moon all this time, and he was always there to make you shine."

"Was he the sun?"

"No honey, he was the darkness"

-Kazekirion
johnnyboy54
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5/16/2013 12:03:24 AM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 5/15/2013 11:46:48 PM, Buddamoose wrote:
At 5/15/2013 11:44:40 PM, YYW wrote:
At 5/15/2013 11:42:30 PM, Buddamoose wrote:
At 5/15/2013 11:33:20 PM, johnnyboy54 wrote:
Burn his house down

Dont forget the lemons

Lemons?

Yes

Indeed
I didn't order assholes with my whiskey.
Buddamoose
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5/16/2013 3:11:52 AM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 5/15/2013 10:19:32 PM, Cermank wrote:
Telling your crush you like him is too mainstream. Talk to him, become his good friend, set him up with a girlfriend, break him up with his gf, become the available person when he's emotionally vulnerable, and strike.

Its a foolproof strategy.

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"Reality is an illusion created due to a lack of alcohol"
-Airmax1227

"You were the moon all this time, and he was always there to make you shine."

"Was he the sun?"

"No honey, he was the darkness"

-Kazekirion
leojm
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5/16/2013 9:36:33 AM
Posted: 3 years ago
Crushes happen to everybody. Believe it or not I had a crush once, I got over it though. Also if he says no, just move on, there are a lot more fish in the sea. Don't get hung up on one guy. Don't pressure him into it either. Just let it happen. You got this girl. I have faith in you. :) Good luck, hopefully you go out with him.
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5/16/2013 10:45:29 AM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 5/15/2013 11:33:20 PM, johnnyboy54 wrote:
Burn his house down

Best thing I have heard all day
Turn around, go back.
ConservativePolitico
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5/16/2013 12:03:18 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 5/16/2013 9:36:33 AM, leojm wrote:
Crushes happen to everybody. Believe it or not I had a crush once, I got over it though. Also if he says no, just move on, there are a lot more fish in the sea. Don't get hung up on one guy. Don't pressure him into it either. Just let it happen. You got this girl. I have faith in you. :) Good luck, hopefully you go out with him.

You had a crush?!

No. Freaking. Way.
CierraNicole
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5/16/2013 12:10:57 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 5/16/2013 12:03:18 PM, ConservativePolitico wrote:
At 5/16/2013 9:36:33 AM, leojm wrote:
Crushes happen to everybody. Believe it or not I had a crush once, I got over it though. Also if he says no, just move on, there are a lot more fish in the sea. Don't get hung up on one guy. Don't pressure him into it either. Just let it happen. You got this girl. I have faith in you. :) Good luck, hopefully you go out with him.

You had a crush?!

No. Freaking. Way.

Everybody has had a crush at some point in time. :D
Mysterious_Stranger
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5/16/2013 12:19:14 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 5/16/2013 12:10:57 PM, CierraNicole wrote:
At 5/16/2013 12:03:18 PM, ConservativePolitico wrote:
At 5/16/2013 9:36:33 AM, leojm wrote:
Crushes happen to everybody. Believe it or not I had a crush once, I got over it though. Also if he says no, just move on, there are a lot more fish in the sea. Don't get hung up on one guy. Don't pressure him into it either. Just let it happen. You got this girl. I have faith in you. :) Good luck, hopefully you go out with him.

You had a crush?!

No. Freaking. Way.

Everybody has had a crush at some point in time. :D

I am living proof that the notion that every person experiences is crush is not true in the slightest. For I have never experienced feelings that one would describe as a "crush"
Turn around, go back.
leojm
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5/16/2013 1:11:43 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 5/16/2013 9:36:33 AM, leojm wrote:
Crushes happen to everybody. Believe it or not I had a crush once, I got over it though. Also if he says no, just move on, there are a lot more fish in the sea. Don't get hung up on one guy. Don't pressure him into it either. Just let it happen. You got this girl. I have faith in you. :) Good luck, hopefully you go out with him.

Be friends with him first then he will find interest in you, then he will be comfortable with you dating him. That's what I do when I am interested in someone; I'm not interested in anybody right now. But go for it, just be careful, and don't act desperate. You will just make him feel awkward. You don't want that, because you will loose your chance of him going out with you. Also, be yourself and don't try to impress him. (You would just make yourself look like and idiot.) Be confident too, guys like that. Some guys don't like girls chasing them, it should be the other way around. Anyways I hope you take this into consideration, glad to help. Anytime you want advice PM me. ;)
P.S. I have had a lot of experience. (No guy has ever dumped me, and when I did this, it went as I planned it would.) :D
There is more advice I would give you, but as you can see here; there are guys on here that post too, and I would like the other stuff to be private, between you and me. (I got good advice to offer) It's up to you what you wana do. Just remember, not all guys who post here prabably had a girlfriend in their life. I had a best friend who I hooked up with a guy. She made the mistake asking other guys. Every guy is different. She ended up not going out with him, because of what she was doing. A.K.A what the guys told her to do.
darkkermit
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5/16/2013 1:21:04 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
-Flirt with him.
-Initiate Touch w/ him as much as possible.
-Wear red. Something about the color red makes guys super interested in girls.
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leojm
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5/16/2013 11:53:17 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 5/16/2013 1:21:04 PM, darkkermit wrote:
-Flirt with him.
-Initiate Touch w/ him as much as possible.
-Wear red. Something about the color red makes guys super interested in girls.

Oh really?
Smithereens
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5/17/2013 2:10:22 AM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 5/16/2013 11:53:17 PM, leojm wrote:
At 5/16/2013 1:21:04 PM, darkkermit wrote:
-Flirt with him.
-Initiate Touch w/ him as much as possible.
-Wear red. Something about the color red makes guys super interested in girls.

Oh really?

Oh now you're interested XD
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leojm
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5/17/2013 2:44:53 AM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 5/17/2013 2:10:22 AM, Smithereens wrote:
At 5/16/2013 11:53:17 PM, leojm wrote:
At 5/16/2013 1:21:04 PM, darkkermit wrote:
-Flirt with him.
-Initiate Touch w/ him as much as possible.
-Wear red. Something about the color red makes guys super interested in girls.

Oh really?

Oh now you're interested XD

no, I said this is a sarcastic voice. ;)
leojm
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5/17/2013 2:46:01 AM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 5/17/2013 2:44:53 AM, leojm wrote:
At 5/17/2013 2:10:22 AM, Smithereens wrote:
At 5/16/2013 11:53:17 PM, leojm wrote:
At 5/16/2013 1:21:04 PM, darkkermit wrote:
-Flirt with him.
-Initiate Touch w/ him as much as possible.
-Wear red. Something about the color red makes guys super interested in girls.

Oh really?


Oh now you're interested XD

no, I said this is a sarcastic voice. ;) I have my own ways of attracting guys. and it works too.
Smithereens
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5/17/2013 6:08:10 AM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 5/17/2013 2:46:01 AM, leojm wrote:
At 5/17/2013 2:44:53 AM, leojm wrote:
At 5/17/2013 2:10:22 AM, Smithereens wrote:
At 5/16/2013 11:53:17 PM, leojm wrote:
At 5/16/2013 1:21:04 PM, darkkermit wrote:
-Flirt with him.
-Initiate Touch w/ him as much as possible.
-Wear red. Something about the color red makes guys super interested in girls.

Oh really?



Oh now you're interested XD

no, I said this is a sarcastic voice. ;) I have my own ways of attracting guys. and it works too.

Share your tactics, its not like I will ever need them.
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YYW
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5/17/2013 6:20:43 AM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 5/16/2013 1:21:04 PM, darkkermit wrote:
-Flirt with him.
-Initiate Touch w/ him as much as possible.

That's actually really good advice. Guys are clueless.
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darkkermit
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5/17/2013 10:12:49 AM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 5/16/2013 11:53:17 PM, leojm wrote:
At 5/16/2013 1:21:04 PM, darkkermit wrote:
-Flirt with him.
-Initiate Touch w/ him as much as possible.
-Wear red. Something about the color red makes guys super interested in girls.

Oh really?

http://psychcentral.com...

The color red works.
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5/17/2013 10:30:33 AM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 5/15/2013 10:19:32 PM, Cermank wrote:
Telling your crush you like him is too mainstream. Talk to him, become his good friend, set him up with a girlfriend, break him up with his gf, become the available person when he's emotionally vulnerable, and strike.

Its a foolproof strategy.
Yes, every Katherine Heigel movie is living proof!

And don't burn his house, burn his car.
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5/17/2013 11:09:28 AM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 5/17/2013 6:20:43 AM, YYW wrote:
At 5/16/2013 1:21:04 PM, darkkermit wrote:
-Flirt with him.
-Initiate Touch w/ him as much as possible.

That's actually really good advice. Guys are clueless.

http://www.debate.org...
"Reality is an illusion created due to a lack of alcohol"
-Airmax1227

"You were the moon all this time, and he was always there to make you shine."

"Was he the sun?"

"No honey, he was the darkness"

-Kazekirion
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5/17/2013 11:19:23 AM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 5/16/2013 11:53:17 PM, leojm wrote:
At 5/16/2013 1:21:04 PM, darkkermit wrote:
-Flirt with him.
-Initiate Touch w/ him as much as possible.
-Wear red. Something about the color red makes guys super interested in girls.

Oh really?

As ridiculous as it sounds, it's actually true. That's why I avoid wearing red when I'm out cause I don't need help with guys tryna talk to me. (And I'm not saying that because I'm saying I'm all tht either I'm saying it more outta annoyance).
"What is sin? It is the glory of God not honored. Holiness of God not reverenced. Greatness of God not admired. Power of God not praised. Truth of God not sought. Wisdom of God not esteemed. Beauty of God not treasured. Goodness of God not savored. Faithfulness of God not trusted. Commandments of God not obeyed. Justice of God not respected. Wrath of God not feared. Grace of God not cherished. Presence of God not prized. Person of God not loved. That is sin." ~John Piper
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5/17/2013 11:24:46 AM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 5/15/2013 11:48:55 AM, CierraNicole wrote:
I know I'm not the only one who doesn't know how to tell my crush that I like him. Anyone else have this sort of problem? What do I do about it?

My advice which is going to be completely different than everyone else's is, don't go to him. Wait to see if he goes to you. If he doesn't then don't bother. It should be the guys pursuing the girls not the girls pursuing the guys. Protect yourself too. There's nothing wrong with crushes but I sincerely think you should guard your heart and wait. If you rush and it doesn't turn out how you like it you'll probably end up hurting. And I know you don't wanna hurt. :/
Think about it :)
"What is sin? It is the glory of God not honored. Holiness of God not reverenced. Greatness of God not admired. Power of God not praised. Truth of God not sought. Wisdom of God not esteemed. Beauty of God not treasured. Goodness of God not savored. Faithfulness of God not trusted. Commandments of God not obeyed. Justice of God not respected. Wrath of God not feared. Grace of God not cherished. Presence of God not prized. Person of God not loved. That is sin." ~John Piper
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5/17/2013 11:39:07 AM
Posted: 3 years ago
Guys like girls touching them? Isn't that creepy?

Playful hitting is cool, though I don't think that's what's being talked about here. Hitting is often reserved for friendzoned guys anyway,so that can't be a turn on.

I think.
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5/17/2013 11:50:25 AM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 5/17/2013 11:39:07 AM, Cermank wrote:
Guys like girls touching them? Isn't that creepy?

Playful hitting is cool, though I don't think that's what's being talked about here. Hitting is often reserved for friendzoned guys anyway,so that can't be a turn on.

I think.

No he meant like, touch her arm in line for a movie or like give a playful shove once in a while, just to initiate casual contact.