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7/6/2013 10:55:26 AM
Posted: 3 years ago
I'm 15 and have never had a girlfriend in my life. The closest I've come to a real relationship is telling a friend that she is pretty. It was received with a poker face. Maybe a "okay cool" with a smile kind of poker face. The fact that I have never had a relationship doesn't bother me at all. I'm just curious as to why :D
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7/6/2013 11:12:03 AM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 7/6/2013 10:55:26 AM, mathdebator wrote:
I'm 15 and have never had a girlfriend in my life. The closest I've come to a real relationship is telling a friend that she is pretty. It was received with a poker face. Maybe a "okay cool" with a smile kind of poker face. The fact that I have never had a relationship doesn't bother me at all. I'm just curious as to why :D

Welcome to the club, bro. Japanese tentacle porn is that way.

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Cermank
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7/6/2013 11:15:20 AM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 7/6/2013 10:55:26 AM, mathdebator wrote:
I'm 15 and have never had a girlfriend in my life. The closest I've come to a real relationship is telling a friend that she is pretty. It was received with a poker face. Maybe a "okay cool" with a smile kind of poker face. The fact that I have never had a relationship doesn't bother me at all. I'm just curious as to why :D

Well, if it doesn't bother you, no need questioning the reason for the normalcy. It's actually dependent on your social environment, your culture, and your personal state of mind. It's all right.
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7/6/2013 11:24:11 AM
Posted: 3 years ago
Seriously though, it's all cool. You shouldn't be bothered at all. If kids laugh at you or something for that, don't listen to them.
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7/6/2013 11:25:45 AM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 7/6/2013 10:55:26 AM, mathdebator wrote:
I'm 15 and have never had a girlfriend in my life. The closest I've come to a real relationship is telling a friend that she is pretty. It was received with a poker face. Maybe a "okay cool" with a smile kind of poker face. The fact that I have never had a relationship doesn't bother me at all. I'm just curious as to why :D

Do you barf rainbows in real life too? That could be a turn-off.

Other than that, I've been single for 15 1/2 years of my 16 years of life and things are pretty good. No arguments. Happiness and bliss. i don't know for sure but... I think I might be the one.
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7/6/2013 11:26:08 AM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 7/6/2013 10:55:26 AM, mathdebator wrote:
I'm 15 and have never had a girlfriend in my life. The closest I've come to a real relationship is telling a friend that she is pretty. It was received with a poker face. Maybe a "okay cool" with a smile kind of poker face. The fact that I have never had a relationship doesn't bother me at all. I'm just curious as to why :D

Do you barf rainbows in real life too? That could be a turn-off.

Other than that, I've been single for 15 1/2 years of my 16 years of life and things are pretty good. No arguments. Happiness and bliss. i don't know for sure but... I think I might be the one.
-Justin K. Graves, Demon Hunter
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7/6/2013 11:56:52 AM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 7/6/2013 10:55:26 AM, mathdebator wrote:
I'm 15 and have never had a girlfriend in my life. The closest I've come to a real relationship is telling a friend that she is pretty. It was received with a poker face. Maybe a "okay cool" with a smile kind of poker face. The fact that I have never had a relationship doesn't bother me at all. I'm just curious as to why :D

Your 15. Get over it. You should start getting worried in your early 20s. If your still single then, something might be wrong.
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7/6/2013 11:57:33 AM
Posted: 3 years ago
I haven't had one either. Not a big deal.
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7/6/2013 12:10:45 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 7/6/2013 11:57:33 AM, DetectableNinja wrote:
I haven't had one either. Not a big deal.

I have. Once... that was enough. lol
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7/6/2013 12:30:33 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 7/6/2013 10:55:26 AM, mathdebator wrote:
I'm 15 and have never had a girlfriend in my life. The closest I've come to a real relationship is telling a friend that she is pretty. It was received with a poker face. Maybe a "okay cool" with a smile kind of poker face. The fact that I have never had a relationship doesn't bother me at all. I'm just curious as to why :D

I have lived many years with no desire to have a relationship, they only lead to stress and disappointment.
Turn around, go back.
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7/6/2013 12:49:14 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
The question is about what's "normal." Teenagers worry too much about conforming to the perceived norm. There is a very wide spectrum of behavior in human relationships, so what's average is really not a meaningful measure. It's like asking what the average size of a tree is in the forest, and then fretting about all the ones that are not average.

I didn't marry until my thirties. I was happy before I married and have been happy since. I don't claim my path is best, but it's one of many options that works for those who choose it.
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7/6/2013 2:49:15 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 7/6/2013 11:56:52 AM, Jordan56 wrote:
At 7/6/2013 10:55:26 AM, mathdebator wrote:
I'm 15 and have never had a girlfriend in my life. The closest I've come to a real relationship is telling a friend that she is pretty. It was received with a poker face. Maybe a "okay cool" with a smile kind of poker face. The fact that I have never had a relationship doesn't bother me at all. I'm just curious as to why :D

Your 15. Get over it. You should start getting worried in your early 20s. If your still single then, something might be wrong.

I'm 20. Noooooooooooooo. :P
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7/6/2013 3:14:29 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
I found a pretty good online test that pinpoints the issue of why a given guy can't get a girlfriend. Here it is:

The "WHY DON'T I HAVE A GIRL" Test:

Question 1: Do you even lift, bro?
Yes/No

If you answered "No to any of the above questions, that's the reason why you don't have a QT 3.14 GF. If you answered "Yes" to all of the above questions, try not to drown in all that pvssy! Experts say you can drown in as little as 2 inches of pvssy.
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7/6/2013 4:01:15 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 7/6/2013 3:14:29 PM, RyuuKyuzo wrote:
I found a pretty good online test that pinpoints the issue of why a given guy can't get a girlfriend. Here it is:

The "WHY DON'T I HAVE A GIRL" Test:

Question 1: Do you even lift, bro?
Yes/No

If you answered "No to any of the above questions, that's the reason why you don't have a QT 3.14 GF. If you answered "Yes" to all of the above questions, try not to drown in all that pvssy! Experts say you can drown in as little as 2 inches of pvssy.

LOL

Typical...
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7/6/2013 4:49:56 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 7/6/2013 12:10:45 PM, YYW wrote:
At 7/6/2013 11:57:33 AM, DetectableNinja wrote:
I haven't had one either. Not a big deal.

I have. Once... that was enough. lol

Ooh do tell.
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7/6/2013 5:12:26 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 7/6/2013 4:01:15 PM, ConservativePolitico wrote:
At 7/6/2013 3:14:29 PM, RyuuKyuzo wrote:
I found a pretty good online test that pinpoints the issue of why a given guy can't get a girlfriend. Here it is:

The "WHY DON'T I HAVE A GIRL" Test:

Question 1: Do you even lift, bro?
Yes/No

If you answered "No to any of the above questions, that's the reason why you don't have a QT 3.14 GF. If you answered "Yes" to all of the above questions, try not to drown in all that pvssy! Experts say you can drown in as little as 2 inches of pvssy.

LOL

Typical...

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7/6/2013 5:15:51 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
I prefer not to have steady romantic relationships. Once-off sexual encounters are better at satisfying my immediate needs, not to mention being more accessible, and my academic work is sufficiently stimulating that I neither require long-term romantic companionship nor would likely be able to give such a companion a satisfying amount of attention.
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7/6/2013 5:34:27 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 7/6/2013 4:49:56 PM, Noumena wrote:
At 7/6/2013 12:10:45 PM, YYW wrote:
At 7/6/2013 11:57:33 AM, DetectableNinja wrote:
I haven't had one either. Not a big deal.

I have. Once... that was enough. lol

Ooh do tell.

I dated a girl in high school, when I sort of thought I might be into girls. We were friends before until she, through one of her friends, asked me out. Our "relationship" -if you could call it that- lasted for about ten months or so. We became "really close" friends, until we weren't. Eventually things started to go downhill because she thought I wanted to sleep with one of her friends (which was not at all true). Because I could see that we were going nowhere I broke up with her, and she was very uncivil about it. There are more details, of course, but even though she hated me for a very long time (actually, until we both were in our third years in college). We eventually reconciled with one another. She is pursuing a Ph.D. now in something to do with feminist theory, and I'm happy for her.
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7/6/2013 6:04:34 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
I didn't get my first girlfriend till I was 16. If you want advice on the subject, then tell us more about yourself, and we'll be happy to help.
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7/7/2013 1:22:51 AM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 7/6/2013 5:15:51 PM, Cody_Franklin wrote:
I prefer not to have steady romantic relationships. Once-off sexual encounters are better at satisfying my immediate needs, not to mention being more accessible, and my academic work is sufficiently stimulating that I neither require long-term romantic companionship nor would likely be able to give such a companion a satisfying amount of attention.

Hey, I like banging random sluts as much as the next guy, but you can't beat dat luv.
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7/7/2013 3:38:40 AM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 7/6/2013 5:15:51 PM, Cody_Franklin wrote:
I prefer not to have steady romantic relationships. Once-off sexual encounters are better at satisfying my immediate needs, not to mention being more accessible, and my academic work is sufficiently stimulating that I neither require long-term romantic companionship nor would likely be able to give such a companion a satisfying amount of attention.
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7/7/2013 6:43:29 AM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 7/7/2013 3:39:42 AM, johnnyboy54 wrote:
I'll be 23 this week. Never had a girlfriend.

Well, are you a virgin? I'm almost 17 and I've never so much as hugged a girl.
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7/7/2013 3:59:20 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 7/7/2013 6:43:29 AM, Eitan_Zohar wrote:
At 7/7/2013 3:39:42 AM, johnnyboy54 wrote:
I'll be 23 this week. Never had a girlfriend.

Well, are you a virgin? I'm almost 17 and I've never so much as hugged a girl.

Does Lefty Handerson count?
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7/7/2013 4:57:36 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 7/6/2013 11:15:20 AM, Cermank wrote:
At 7/6/2013 10:55:26 AM, mathdebator wrote:
I'm 15 and have never had a girlfriend in my life. The closest I've come to a real relationship is telling a friend that she is pretty. It was received with a poker face. Maybe a "okay cool" with a smile kind of poker face. The fact that I have never had a relationship doesn't bother me at all. I'm just curious as to why :D

Well, if it doesn't bother you, no need questioning the reason for the normalcy. It's actually dependent on your social environment, your culture, and your personal state of mind and your good-looks (or lack thereof). It's all right.
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7/7/2013 6:37:45 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
It's all about confidence.

The title of this thread shouldn't be "Haven't had a girlfriend yet..."

It should be "Haven't had a girlfriend... Yet! ;)"
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7/8/2013 9:56:29 AM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 7/7/2013 6:43:29 AM, Eitan_Zohar wrote:
At 7/7/2013 3:39:42 AM, johnnyboy54 wrote:
I'll be 23 this week. Never had a girlfriend.

Well, are you a virgin? I'm almost 17 and I've never so much as hugged a girl.
Can't you just, hug a friend or something? We do it all the time...
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