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Sitara
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9/26/2013 7:55:54 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
So on this one site (not DDO), some dude sent a penis picture without asking my permission. I count this as visual rape and told him so, after informing him that I was reporting him. I am pissed. How can I learn to predict this in advance?
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9/26/2013 8:05:51 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 9/26/2013 7:55:54 PM, Sitara wrote:
So on this one site (not DDO), some dude sent a penis picture without asking my permission. I count this as visual rape and told him so, after informing him that I was reporting him. I am pissed. How can I learn to predict this in advance?

"visual rape"? Is that a thing? It's horribly obnoxious to send people unrequested dick pics, and you were right to report him, but wut?
Sitara
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9/26/2013 8:07:03 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 9/26/2013 8:05:51 PM, Andromeda_Z wrote:
At 9/26/2013 7:55:54 PM, Sitara wrote:
So on this one site (not DDO), some dude sent a penis picture without asking my permission. I count this as visual rape and told him so, after informing him that I was reporting him. I am pissed. How can I learn to predict this in advance?

"visual rape"? Is that a thing? It's horribly obnoxious to send people unrequested dick pics, and you were right to report him, but wut?

Another word for sexual harassment, sorry.
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9/26/2013 8:09:23 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 9/26/2013 8:07:03 PM, Sitara wrote:
At 9/26/2013 8:05:51 PM, Andromeda_Z wrote:
At 9/26/2013 7:55:54 PM, Sitara wrote:
So on this one site (not DDO), some dude sent a penis picture without asking my permission. I count this as visual rape and told him so, after informing him that I was reporting him. I am pissed. How can I learn to predict this in advance?

"visual rape"? Is that a thing? It's horribly obnoxious to send people unrequested dick pics, and you were right to report him, but wut?

Another word for sexual harassment, sorry.

Oh, okay. See, you could have just said that. :p
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9/26/2013 8:13:00 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 9/26/2013 7:55:54 PM, Sitara wrote:
So on this one site (not DDO), some dude sent a penis picture without asking my permission. I count this as visual rape and told him so, after informing him that I was reporting him. I am pissed. How can I learn to predict this in advance?

Just think about all the school children who have had this visual raped forced upon them....

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9/26/2013 9:06:23 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
I'd say don't open files from someone you don't know.
I don't even trust files from some people I do know
though in all fairness I know they are computer incompetent and the file they are forwarding is most likely a virus. Ha
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9/26/2013 9:07:31 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 9/26/2013 7:55:54 PM, Sitara wrote:
So on this one site (not DDO)

It was reddit wasn't it? Those guys over there...
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9/26/2013 9:09:57 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 9/26/2013 7:55:54 PM, Sitara wrote:
So on this one site (not DDO), some dude sent a penis picture without asking my permission. I count this as visual rape and told him so, after informing him that I was reporting him. I am pissed. How can I learn to predict this in advance?

Did you make fun of it? Nothing gets a guy to stop sending dick pics faster then saying stuff like

"Awww hes so teeny!"
"If he sees his shadow does that mean we'll have 6 more weeks of summer?"
"LOL, it looks like the half-a-cheeto i found under my bed"
"If youre d*ck was an ipod, it would be an Ipod Nano"
"LOL, my d*ck is bigger then THAT" <------------------- Also freaks them out because they may think they sent their pic to a guy pretending to be a chick
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9/26/2013 9:16:53 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 9/26/2013 9:09:57 PM, imabench wrote:
At 9/26/2013 7:55:54 PM, Sitara wrote:
So on this one site (not DDO), some dude sent a penis picture without asking my permission. I count this as visual rape and told him so, after informing him that I was reporting him. I am pissed. How can I learn to predict this in advance?

Did you make fun of it? Nothing gets a guy to stop sending dick pics faster then saying stuff like

"Awww hes so teeny!"
"If he sees his shadow does that mean we'll have 6 more weeks of summer?"
"LOL, it looks like the half-a-cheeto i found under my bed"
"If youre d*ck was an ipod, it would be an Ipod Nano"
"LOL, my d*ck is bigger then THAT" <------------------- Also freaks them out because they may think they sent their pic to a guy pretending to be a chick

You're not a real man if you let a few minor insults get to you, gotta power through
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9/26/2013 9:33:50 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 9/26/2013 8:07:03 PM, Sitara wrote:
At 9/26/2013 8:05:51 PM, Andromeda_Z wrote:
At 9/26/2013 7:55:54 PM, Sitara wrote:
So on this one site (not DDO), some dude sent a penis picture without asking my permission. I count this as visual rape and told him so, after informing him that I was reporting him. I am pissed. How can I learn to predict this in advance?

"visual rape"? Is that a thing? It's horribly obnoxious to send people unrequested dick pics, and you were right to report him, but wut?

Another word for sexual harassment, sorry.

Not to nitpick, but it isn't sexual harassment if it is a one time thing. (assault, maybe, but not harassment)

How can you predict this?
You really can't online.
Some people make it their purpose to befriend others only to betray/annoy them.

Did you feel you knew this person? If so, should you have expected it?
If you feel you didn't know this person well, then take comfort in the fact that you weren't betrayed, and make it a point to not open PMs/links from those you don't know/trust.
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9/26/2013 10:36:20 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 9/26/2013 9:33:50 PM, Khaos_Mage wrote:
At 9/26/2013 8:07:03 PM, Sitara wrote:
At 9/26/2013 8:05:51 PM, Andromeda_Z wrote:
At 9/26/2013 7:55:54 PM, Sitara wrote:
So on this one site (not DDO), some dude sent a penis picture without asking my permission. I count this as visual rape and told him so, after informing him that I was reporting him. I am pissed. How can I learn to predict this in advance?

"visual rape"? Is that a thing? It's horribly obnoxious to send people unrequested dick pics, and you were right to report him, but wut?

Another word for sexual harassment, sorry.

Not to nitpick, but it isn't sexual harassment if it is a one time thing. (assault, maybe, but not harassment)

How can you predict this?
You really can't online.
Some people make it their purpose to befriend others only to betray/annoy them.

Did you feel you knew this person? If so, should you have expected it?
If you feel you didn't know this person well, then take comfort in the fact that you weren't betrayed, and make it a point to not open PMs/links from those you don't know/trust.

Advice taken. Thanks. :)
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9/27/2013 1:41:33 AM
Posted: 3 years ago
Visual rape? Yes sending a picture like that is wrong in the extreme but I highly doubt that the picture raped you.
Turn around, go back.
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9/27/2013 4:21:17 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
That is the sort of thing that should be immediately reported to Airmax, whereupon he will use all of the resources at his disposal to ensure that it won't happen ever again. As to predicting that, hard to say, but sexual harassment I think is never tolerated on DDO.
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9/27/2013 4:27:45 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 9/27/2013 1:41:33 AM, Mysterious_Stranger wrote:
Visual rape? Yes sending a picture like that is wrong in the extreme but I highly doubt that the picture raped you.

That would be the funniest sy-fy movie ever made though..... 'The raping picture'
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9/27/2013 4:59:11 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 9/27/2013 4:21:17 PM, YYW wrote:
That is the sort of thing that should be immediately reported to Airmax, whereupon he will use all of the resources at his disposal to ensure that it won't happen ever again. As to predicting that, hard to say, but sexual harassment I think is never tolerated on DDO.

i think you missed the part when she said it was not ddo
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9/27/2013 4:59:40 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 9/27/2013 4:59:11 PM, cybertron1998 wrote:
At 9/27/2013 4:21:17 PM, YYW wrote:
That is the sort of thing that should be immediately reported to Airmax, whereupon he will use all of the resources at his disposal to ensure that it won't happen ever again. As to predicting that, hard to say, but sexual harassment I think is never tolerated on DDO.

i think you missed the part when she said it was not ddo

lol... yes I did. Whoops!
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9/28/2013 6:26:49 AM
Posted: 3 years ago
Oh yeah someone sending you a picture of their penis is just as bad as someone raping you. Please don't insult rape victims by saying you've been 'raped' but this picture.
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9/28/2013 9:43:03 AM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 9/28/2013 6:26:49 AM, Atrag wrote:
Oh yeah someone sending you a picture of their penis is just as bad as someone raping you. Please don't insult rape victims by saying you've been 'raped' but this picture.

it was a wrong choice of words cool your jets you bloody internet stalker
Epsilon: There are so many stories where some brave hero decides to give their life to save the day, and because of their sacrifice, the good guys win, the survivors all cheer, and everybody lives happily ever after. But the hero... never gets to see that ending. They'll never know if their sacrifice actually made a difference. They'll never know if the day was really saved. In the end, they just have to have faith.
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9/28/2013 9:56:58 AM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 9/26/2013 9:16:53 PM, lewis20 wrote:
At 9/26/2013 9:09:57 PM, imabench wrote:
At 9/26/2013 7:55:54 PM, Sitara wrote:
So on this one site (not DDO), some dude sent a penis picture without asking my permission. I count this as visual rape and told him so, after informing him that I was reporting him. I am pissed. How can I learn to predict this in advance?

Did you make fun of it? Nothing gets a guy to stop sending dick pics faster then saying stuff like

"Awww hes so teeny!"
"If he sees his shadow does that mean we'll have 6 more weeks of summer?"
"LOL, it looks like the half-a-cheeto i found under my bed"
"If youre d*ck was an ipod, it would be an Ipod Nano"
"LOL, my d*ck is bigger then THAT" <------------------- Also freaks them out because they may think they sent their pic to a guy pretending to be a chick

You're not a real man if you let a few minor insults get to you, gotta power through

Some would say the same about restraining orders and pepper spray.
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9/28/2013 1:03:38 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 9/28/2013 9:56:58 AM, Naysayer wrote:
At 9/26/2013 9:16:53 PM, lewis20 wrote:
At 9/26/2013 9:09:57 PM, imabench wrote:
At 9/26/2013 7:55:54 PM, Sitara wrote:
So on this one site (not DDO), some dude sent a penis picture without asking my permission. I count this as visual rape and told him so, after informing him that I was reporting him. I am pissed. How can I learn to predict this in advance?

Did you make fun of it? Nothing gets a guy to stop sending dick pics faster then saying stuff like

"Awww hes so teeny!"
"If he sees his shadow does that mean we'll have 6 more weeks of summer?"
"LOL, it looks like the half-a-cheeto i found under my bed"
"If youre d*ck was an ipod, it would be an Ipod Nano"
"LOL, my d*ck is bigger then THAT" <------------------- Also freaks them out because they may think they sent their pic to a guy pretending to be a chick

You're not a real man if you let a few minor insults get to you, gotta power through

Some would say the same about restraining orders and pepper spray.

Exactly, how's she supposed to know how much you love her if you give up at the first court order or macing.
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9/28/2013 1:38:24 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 9/28/2013 6:26:49 AM, Atrag wrote:
Oh yeah someone sending you a picture of their penis is just as bad as someone raping you. Please don't insult rape victims by saying you've been 'raped' but this picture.

Do you and her have like a bad history together?
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9/28/2013 3:08:24 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 9/28/2013 1:38:24 PM, Cermank wrote:
At 9/28/2013 6:26:49 AM, Atrag wrote:
Oh yeah someone sending you a picture of their penis is just as bad as someone raping you. Please don't insult rape victims by saying you've been 'raped' but this picture.

Do you and her have like a bad history together?

he's from createdebate, the site that sitara got kicked off from. he tracked her down to try to show how "bad" she is. he's basically trying to provoke her and get her kicked from here
Epsilon: There are so many stories where some brave hero decides to give their life to save the day, and because of their sacrifice, the good guys win, the survivors all cheer, and everybody lives happily ever after. But the hero... never gets to see that ending. They'll never know if their sacrifice actually made a difference. They'll never know if the day was really saved. In the end, they just have to have faith.
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9/30/2013 12:16:35 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 9/28/2013 6:26:49 AM, Atrag wrote:
Oh yeah someone sending you a picture of their penis is just as bad as someone raping you. Please don't insult rape victims by saying you've been 'raped' but this picture.

I never once said that it was as bad as rape and I was raped in my life, thank you very much.
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9/30/2013 12:17:29 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 9/28/2013 1:38:24 PM, Cermank wrote:
At 9/28/2013 6:26:49 AM, Atrag wrote:
Oh yeah someone sending you a picture of their penis is just as bad as someone raping you. Please don't insult rape victims by saying you've been 'raped' but this picture.

Do you and her have like a bad history together?

I do not want to get into that. I am not trying to have drama here.
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9/30/2013 1:03:46 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 9/26/2013 9:09:57 PM, imabench wrote:
At 9/26/2013 7:55:54 PM, Sitara wrote:
So on this one site (not DDO), some dude sent a penis picture without asking my permission. I count this as visual rape and told him so, after informing him that I was reporting him. I am pissed. How can I learn to predict this in advance?

Did you make fun of it? Nothing gets a guy to stop sending dick pics faster then saying stuff like

"Awww hes so teeny!"
"If he sees his shadow does that mean we'll have 6 more weeks of summer?"
"LOL, it looks like the half-a-cheeto i found under my bed"
"If youre d*ck was an ipod, it would be an Ipod Nano"
"LOL, my d*ck is bigger then THAT" <------------------- Also freaks them out because they may think they sent their pic to a guy pretending to be a chick

THIS
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9/30/2013 1:11:44 PM
Posted: 3 years ago
At 9/30/2013 1:08:43 PM, AnDoctuir wrote:
I'm very tempted to post a pic of my cock here.

Please do not embarrass yourself like that kid.