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muslimnomore
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1/4/2014 4:40:04 PM
Posted: 2 years ago
before you ask your partner for a break up?

is there a rule you follow for this? 1 month, 2 months, 3? What if the partner is your spouse/fiance?
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1/4/2014 10:22:16 PM
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At 1/4/2014 4:40:04 PM, muslimnomore wrote:
before you ask your partner for a break up?

is there a rule you follow for this? 1 month, 2 months, 3? What if the partner is your spouse/fiance?

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1/4/2014 10:33:04 PM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 1/4/2014 4:40:04 PM, muslimnomore wrote:
before you ask your partner for a break up?

is there a rule you follow for this? 1 month, 2 months, 3? What if the partner is your spouse/fiance?

For me... maybe a nanosecond. My friends say it isn't scientifically possible what I do.
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1/4/2014 11:52:09 PM
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At 1/4/2014 10:33:04 PM, dtaylor971 wrote:
At 1/4/2014 4:40:04 PM, muslimnomore wrote:
before you ask your partner for a break up?

is there a rule you follow for this? 1 month, 2 months, 3? What if the partner is your spouse/fiance?

For me... maybe a nanosecond. My friends say it isn't scientifically possible what I do.

Didn't you say you were twelve?
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1/4/2014 11:53:47 PM
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At 1/4/2014 11:52:09 PM, ClassicRobert wrote:
At 1/4/2014 10:33:04 PM, dtaylor971 wrote:
At 1/4/2014 4:40:04 PM, muslimnomore wrote:
before you ask your partner for a break up?

is there a rule you follow for this? 1 month, 2 months, 3? What if the partner is your spouse/fiance?

For me... maybe a nanosecond. My friends say it isn't scientifically possible what I do.

Didn't you say you were twelve?

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1/5/2014 12:38:32 AM
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Depends on the context. If they have a medical reason, it would be pretty shallow to ever break up with them over it. If they're using sex as leverage for getting their way, that's not a relationship I'll probably want to stay in. If they just don't like sex, it's still shallow to dump them but I probably wouldn't have gotten together with them in the first place.
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1/5/2014 1:11:23 AM
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At 1/5/2014 12:38:32 AM, FREEDO wrote:
Depends on the context. If they have a medical reason, it would be pretty shallow to ever break up with them over it. If they're using sex as leverage for getting their way, that's not a relationship I'll probably want to stay in. If they just don't like sex, it's still shallow to dump them but I probably wouldn't have gotten together with them in the first place.

This. I usually have sex with a girl within 24 hours of meeting her anyway, so I wouldn't get into a sexless relationship to begin with. If you keep a dominant, masculine polarity such terror won't happen to you, brah. But if you've been together for a year and then her vagina turns into a radioactive wasteland, it would still be shallow to leave her. Plus you could have Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles for kids, so lose-win.
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1/5/2014 1:12:55 AM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 1/5/2014 12:38:32 AM, FREEDO wrote:
Depends on the context. If they have a medical reason, it would be pretty shallow to ever break up with them over it. If they're using sex as leverage for getting their way, that's not a relationship I'll probably want to stay in. If they just don't like sex, it's still shallow to dump them but I probably wouldn't have gotten together with them in the first place.

What if they like sex, but you really suck at it, but they like the rest of you.
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1/5/2014 1:24:41 AM
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At 1/5/2014 1:12:55 AM, Ore_Ele wrote:
At 1/5/2014 12:38:32 AM, FREEDO wrote:
Depends on the context. If they have a medical reason, it would be pretty shallow to ever break up with them over it. If they're using sex as leverage for getting their way, that's not a relationship I'll probably want to stay in. If they just don't like sex, it's still shallow to dump them but I probably wouldn't have gotten together with them in the first place.

What if they like sex, but you really suck at it, but they like the rest of you.

Lol. Well, that would be another shallow reason. You could either get over sex, since you suck anyway, or find a way to get better.
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1/5/2014 9:47:02 AM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 1/4/2014 4:40:04 PM, muslimnomore wrote:
before you ask your partner for a break up?

is there a rule you follow for this? 1 month, 2 months, 3? What if the partner is your spouse/fiance?

how old are you asking this ? the answer is simple, if the relationship is based on sex then you break up when it is no longer convenient to you (as soon as you get bothered for not getting any), cos the relationship aint gonna last anyway.
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1/5/2014 3:13:50 PM
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At 1/4/2014 4:40:04 PM, muslimnomore wrote:
before you ask your partner for a break up?

is there a rule you follow for this? 1 month, 2 months, 3? What if the partner is your spouse/fiance?

It depends on whether your relationship depends on it. Sex becomes overrated as time passes for both parties. For the young, I know this seems impossible.
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1/5/2014 3:15:21 PM
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At 1/5/2014 9:47:02 AM, de.france wrote:
At 1/4/2014 4:40:04 PM, muslimnomore wrote:
before you ask your partner for a break up?

is there a rule you follow for this? 1 month, 2 months, 3? What if the partner is your spouse/fiance?

how old are you asking this ? the answer is simple, if the relationship is based on sex then you break up when it is no longer convenient to you (as soon as you get bothered for not getting any), cos the relationship aint gonna last anyway.

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1/6/2014 1:47:56 PM
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just entered my 30s

oh, you got into this relationship rather recently then I guess. well, the answer is still simple, either sex is more important to you than companionship in which case you should break up if you notice that the absence of it is a problem. these things come and go, if your partner is having an off period, it will happen again. although keep in mind that there usually are reasons when a woman has an off period (unless she's in menopause :)). the duration of the relationship is also a factor. how long are you together for? if its not over a year I'd guess that she's not getting that much pleasure out of it, that's why she's lost interest. there's a limit to how long a woman will pretend she's enjoying herself just to please the man she loves. women get just as much out of sex as men do, when its done right...
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1/6/2014 3:40:11 PM
Posted: 2 years ago
Typically people get with other people who have the same sexual needs, so this, in theory, shouldn't be a problem. In practice it obviously can be, and the answer is to probably find somebody who wants it just as much as you do.

I've heard of men taking their spouses to court and getting court-ordered to have sex at least once a week.

Also, sex tends to drop away when relationships go bad, and it's often a harbinger of things to come...
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1/6/2014 4:16:20 PM
Posted: 2 years ago
no time at all, SEX is a virtue. take advantage of it before it slips out of your grasp.
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