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Cermank
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7/2/2014 10:21:27 AM
Posted: 2 years ago
I know this seems attention whorey but I really don't care right now. I need somebody to talk to, who doesn't know me and thus can't judge. I tried these chatrooms but they're depressing and childish. Is there some free service I can avail? Online preferably.
IFLYHIGH
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7/2/2014 10:29:05 AM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 7/2/2014 10:25:09 AM, IFLYHIGH wrote:
Mope around and feel sorry for myself until I eventually get over it.

Seriously though, a positive mindset is the best way to deal with sadness/life problems. I don't know specifically what you're going through, but things will get better if you believe they will.
XLAV
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7/2/2014 10:34:41 AM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 7/2/2014 10:21:27 AM, Cermank wrote:
I know this seems attention whorey but I really don't care right now. I need somebody to talk to, who doesn't know me and thus can't judge. I tried these chatrooms but they're depressing and childish. Is there some free service I can avail? Online preferably.

Try talking with your friends and listen to good music.
Cermank
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7/2/2014 10:35:23 AM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 7/2/2014 10:34:41 AM, XLAV wrote:
At 7/2/2014 10:21:27 AM, Cermank wrote:
I know this seems attention whorey but I really don't care right now. I need somebody to talk to, who doesn't know me and thus can't judge. I tried these chatrooms but they're depressing and childish. Is there some free service I can avail? Online preferably.

Try talking with your friends and listen to good music.

can't talk to friends. will try music.
XLAV
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7/2/2014 10:39:16 AM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 7/2/2014 10:35:23 AM, Cermank wrote:
At 7/2/2014 10:34:41 AM, XLAV wrote:
At 7/2/2014 10:21:27 AM, Cermank wrote:
I know this seems attention whorey but I really don't care right now. I need somebody to talk to, who doesn't know me and thus can't judge. I tried these chatrooms but they're depressing and childish. Is there some free service I can avail? Online preferably.

Try talking with your friends and listen to good music.

can't talk to friends. will try music.
Try talking to GCL. She's good with this stuff.
Cermank
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7/2/2014 10:42:23 AM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 7/2/2014 10:39:16 AM, XLAV wrote:
At 7/2/2014 10:35:23 AM, Cermank wrote:
At 7/2/2014 10:34:41 AM, XLAV wrote:
At 7/2/2014 10:21:27 AM, Cermank wrote:
I know this seems attention whorey but I really don't care right now. I need somebody to talk to, who doesn't know me and thus can't judge. I tried these chatrooms but they're depressing and childish. Is there some free service I can avail? Online preferably.

Try talking with your friends and listen to good music.

can't talk to friends. will try music.
Try talking to GCL. She's good with this stuff.

I think music will help. Dunno why I didn't think of it b4
XLAV
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7/2/2014 10:43:47 AM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 7/2/2014 10:42:23 AM, Cermank wrote:
At 7/2/2014 10:39:16 AM, XLAV wrote:
At 7/2/2014 10:35:23 AM, Cermank wrote:
At 7/2/2014 10:34:41 AM, XLAV wrote:
At 7/2/2014 10:21:27 AM, Cermank wrote:
I know this seems attention whorey but I really don't care right now. I need somebody to talk to, who doesn't know me and thus can't judge. I tried these chatrooms but they're depressing and childish. Is there some free service I can avail? Online preferably.

Try talking with your friends and listen to good music.

can't talk to friends. will try music.
Try talking to GCL. She's good with this stuff.

I think music will help. Dunno why I didn't think of it b4

"One good thing about music, when it hits you, you feel no pain."
- Bob Marley
Khaos_Mage
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7/2/2014 12:11:11 PM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 7/2/2014 10:21:27 AM, Cermank wrote:
I know this seems attention whorey but I really don't care right now. I need somebody to talk to, who doesn't know me and thus can't judge. I tried these chatrooms but they're depressing and childish. Is there some free service I can avail? Online preferably.

I'm prone to judging, but you can PM me if you wish.
I'll try to bite my tongue.
My work here is, finally, done.
Cermank
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7/2/2014 12:16:29 PM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 7/2/2014 12:11:11 PM, Khaos_Mage wrote:
At 7/2/2014 10:21:27 AM, Cermank wrote:
I know this seems attention whorey but I really don't care right now. I need somebody to talk to, who doesn't know me and thus can't judge. I tried these chatrooms but they're depressing and childish. Is there some free service I can avail? Online preferably.

I'm prone to judging, but you can PM me if you wish.
I'll try to bite my tongue.

lol thanks. I kinda feel okayish right now, though I was a little scared back then. I'll think I'll feel better in the morning,

sorry for the thread, wasn't really thinking straight.
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7/2/2014 12:18:11 PM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 7/2/2014 12:16:29 PM, Cermank wrote:
At 7/2/2014 12:11:11 PM, Khaos_Mage wrote:
At 7/2/2014 10:21:27 AM, Cermank wrote:
I know this seems attention whorey but I really don't care right now. I need somebody to talk to, who doesn't know me and thus can't judge. I tried these chatrooms but they're depressing and childish. Is there some free service I can avail? Online preferably.

I'm prone to judging, but you can PM me if you wish.
I'll try to bite my tongue.

lol thanks. I kinda feel okayish right now, though I was a little scared back then. I'll think I'll feel better in the morning,

sorry for the thread, wasn't really thinking straight.

Time usually puts things in perspective....or at least helps with the shock of a situation.
That's my defense mechanism: "Holy drama Batman, I'm going to bed"
My work here is, finally, done.
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7/2/2014 12:18:30 PM
Posted: 2 years ago
I channel my sadness into some sort of inspiration/vigour.

Normally by debating about something I'm passionate about, or listening to cinematic/trailer music.

I mean, personally, I like a good laugh, but feeling jovial only seems to cover it up and sometimes feels wrong. I like to channel it into something productive. Then again, I sadness/anger is often confused for me.

But reading, listening to movies, and any hobby is good enough.
"Political language... is designed to make lies sound truthful and murder respectable, and to give an appearance of solidity to pure wind." - George Orwell
Cermank
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7/2/2014 12:21:06 PM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 7/2/2014 12:18:11 PM, Khaos_Mage wrote:
At 7/2/2014 12:16:29 PM, Cermank wrote:
At 7/2/2014 12:11:11 PM, Khaos_Mage wrote:
At 7/2/2014 10:21:27 AM, Cermank wrote:
I know this seems attention whorey but I really don't care right now. I need somebody to talk to, who doesn't know me and thus can't judge. I tried these chatrooms but they're depressing and childish. Is there some free service I can avail? Online preferably.

I'm prone to judging, but you can PM me if you wish.
I'll try to bite my tongue.

lol thanks. I kinda feel okayish right now, though I was a little scared back then. I'll think I'll feel better in the morning,

sorry for the thread, wasn't really thinking straight.

Time usually puts things in perspective....or at least helps with the shock of a situation.
That's my defense mechanism: "Holy drama Batman, I'm going to bed"

lol yeah. i'm the opposite, i'll probably stay up all night and and then crash in the morning. and flip through omegle people meanwhile.
Cermank
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7/2/2014 12:23:36 PM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 7/2/2014 12:18:30 PM, CJKAllstar wrote:
I channel my sadness into some sort of inspiration/vigour.

Normally by debating about something I'm passionate about, or listening to cinematic/trailer music.



I mean, personally, I like a good laugh, but feeling jovial only seems to cover it up and sometimes feels wrong. I like to channel it into something productive. Then again, I sadness/anger is often confused for me.

But reading, listening to movies, and any hobby is good enough.

i envy you. i can only read when I'm in a good mood.
Khaos_Mage
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7/2/2014 12:25:21 PM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 7/2/2014 12:21:06 PM, Cermank wrote:
At 7/2/2014 12:18:11 PM, Khaos_Mage wrote:
At 7/2/2014 12:16:29 PM, Cermank wrote:
At 7/2/2014 12:11:11 PM, Khaos_Mage wrote:
At 7/2/2014 10:21:27 AM, Cermank wrote:
I know this seems attention whorey but I really don't care right now. I need somebody to talk to, who doesn't know me and thus can't judge. I tried these chatrooms but they're depressing and childish. Is there some free service I can avail? Online preferably.

I'm prone to judging, but you can PM me if you wish.
I'll try to bite my tongue.

lol thanks. I kinda feel okayish right now, though I was a little scared back then. I'll think I'll feel better in the morning,

sorry for the thread, wasn't really thinking straight.

Time usually puts things in perspective....or at least helps with the shock of a situation.
That's my defense mechanism: "Holy drama Batman, I'm going to bed"

lol yeah. i'm the opposite, i'll probably stay up all night and and then crash in the morning. and flip through omegle people meanwhile.

Well, feel free to send me a PM if you need to.
I might not respond right away, but I usually pop on DDO every hour or so.
My work here is, finally, done.
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7/2/2014 12:30:24 PM
Posted: 2 years ago
Same with Khaos. You can PM if you want to talk. Some of my friends call me Therapist (in a positive way) since I'm usually good with their problems, and I'm always a great listener. If you need to talk, I'm here.
ESocialBookworm
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7/2/2014 12:37:47 PM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 7/2/2014 12:30:24 PM, EndarkenedRationalist wrote:
Same with Khaos. You can PM if you want to talk. Some of my friends call me Therapist (in a positive way) since I'm usually good with their problems, and I'm always a great listener. If you need to talk, I'm here.

XD Me too. I was actually elected by my class to be a *peer helper once.

*kind of like a student counselor.
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7/2/2014 12:44:45 PM
Posted: 2 years ago
I used to be good at helping people. But then I became more cynical, pragmatic and less sympathetic. I am still very empathetic, and know what is needed for helping people and how people feel, but I can't bring myself to for example ever share how I feel without logically trying to break down why that is, and the same applies for when I'm helping people.

So I'm good with problems, e.g. bullying, but not issues like sadness.
"Political language... is designed to make lies sound truthful and murder respectable, and to give an appearance of solidity to pure wind." - George Orwell