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Conflicts don't destroy relationships

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4/28/2015 4:54:10 PM
Posted: 2 years ago
Unresolved conflicts do. Conflicts are normal in every relationship. It's how you resolve it that counts. Your girl/guy cheated on you, said something nasty, hit you, etc. Ok now what ya gonna do about it? Forgetting about it, stopping all contact, hoping the problem will fix itself isn't resolving conflict " it's avoidance. Resolving conflict is expressing hurt feelings and working with your partner to come up with win-win solutions. I'll admit i'm scared of that, but it's how you learn to love the person. You need to tackle your conflicts head on. If neither of you can do that: Expect a break-up.