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XLAV
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9/4/2015 5:05:39 PM
Posted: 1 year ago
So I'm already on my 2nd week in college and I got some friends. However I'm facing a dilemma. I actually hang out with 2 groups of friends. One group I can relate with, but I don't like them too much. The other is I can't relate with, but I like them.

I really just want to hang out with 1 group, and not two. So I need some tips and advice to find other new friends or find a way to deal with these friends that I'm already hanging out with.
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9/4/2015 9:09:56 PM
Posted: 1 year ago
At 9/4/2015 5:05:39 PM, XLAV wrote:
So I'm already on my 2nd week in college and I got some friends. However I'm facing a dilemma. I actually hang out with 2 groups of friends. One group I can relate with, but I don't like them too much. The other is I can't relate with, but I like them.

I really just want to hang out with 1 group, and not two. So I need some tips and advice to find other new friends or find a way to deal with these friends that I'm already hanging out with.

What differs these two groups appart?
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9/4/2015 9:10:11 PM
Posted: 1 year ago
At 9/4/2015 9:09:56 PM, lannan13 wrote:
At 9/4/2015 5:05:39 PM, XLAV wrote:
So I'm already on my 2nd week in college and I got some friends. However I'm facing a dilemma. I actually hang out with 2 groups of friends. One group I can relate with, but I don't like them too much. The other is I can't relate with, but I like them.

I really just want to hang out with 1 group, and not two. So I need some tips and advice to find other new friends or find a way to deal with these friends that I'm already hanging out with.

What differs these two groups appart?

*apart
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9/7/2015 6:12:34 AM
Posted: 1 year ago
You don't have to relate. I know a really awesome bada** who is sensible and humorous. I don't relate to her personality well but we're pretty good friends. My BFF is relatable 50% and we're different the other 50%. So I would hang out with the peeps you like best and get along with best.

P.S- most my friends don't relate well
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9/7/2015 6:18:12 AM
Posted: 1 year ago
At 9/4/2015 5:05:39 PM, XLAV wrote:
So I'm already on my 2nd week in college and I got some friends. However I'm facing a dilemma. I actually hang out with 2 groups of friends. One group I can relate with, but I don't like them too much. The other is I can't relate with, but I like them.

I really just want to hang out with 1 group, and not two. So I need some tips and advice to find other new friends or find a way to deal with these friends that I'm already hanging out with.

How about you friend them individually and not collectively as groups?
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9/7/2015 3:01:38 PM
Posted: 1 year ago
At 9/4/2015 9:09:56 PM, lannan13 wrote:
At 9/4/2015 5:05:39 PM, XLAV wrote:
So I'm already on my 2nd week in college and I got some friends. However I'm facing a dilemma. I actually hang out with 2 groups of friends. One group I can relate with, but I don't like them too much. The other is I can't relate with, but I like them.

I really just want to hang out with 1 group, and not two. So I need some tips and advice to find other new friends or find a way to deal with these friends that I'm already hanging out with.

What differs these two groups appart?

one is more sociable and the other is more queit, which I relate with.
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9/7/2015 3:02:09 PM
Posted: 1 year ago
At 9/7/2015 6:18:12 AM, PetersSmith wrote:
At 9/4/2015 5:05:39 PM, XLAV wrote:
So I'm already on my 2nd week in college and I got some friends. However I'm facing a dilemma. I actually hang out with 2 groups of friends. One group I can relate with, but I don't like them too much. The other is I can't relate with, but I like them.

I really just want to hang out with 1 group, and not two. So I need some tips and advice to find other new friends or find a way to deal with these friends that I'm already hanging out with.

How about you friend them individually and not collectively as groups?

I do, but sometimes they move around in groups.
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9/7/2015 3:04:52 PM
Posted: 1 year ago
My advice is to stop asking people if they're white and calling them naughty words if they aren't.

Also, I'm not sure if you can have a friend whom you don't relate to...depending on what you mean by relate. As long as you have common interests, you can relate to them.
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9/7/2015 5:20:07 PM
Posted: 1 year ago
I generally find it hard to be friends with people I don't like.
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9/7/2015 5:26:52 PM
Posted: 1 year ago
Yama's flawless (usually aside from with weird people) advice for making new acquantences:

- Wear something nice
- Greet people you see by themselves
- Chat up people in your class
- Pick random groups of people to introduce yourself to/eat with
- GO TO EVENTS WITH OTHER PEOPLE
- Flirt with nice girls you meet (I can teach you how I do it but usually let my voice and appearance work to my advantage)
- AND DON'T BE AN A**HOLE
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9/8/2015 5:54:25 AM
Posted: 1 year ago
The advice I am going to give you may seem to philosophical and illogical but it definitely will work.
Take a coin and keep heads for one group and tails foe the other.Now toss the coin.Main thing comes here.Don't look at the result whether its heads or tails.The thing you need to do is close your eyes when you are about to toss the coin and hear to your heart whether it wants heads or tails as a results and go with your heart.If you feel confused choosing the two of them then I will suggest you to make new friends.
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9/8/2015 3:04:53 PM
Posted: 1 year ago
At 9/7/2015 3:04:52 PM, EndarkenedRationalist wrote:
My advice is to stop asking people if they're white and calling them naughty words if they aren't.
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