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How do l make new friends?

Jonbonbon
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9/29/2015 3:41:09 AM
Posted: 1 year ago
At 9/28/2015 7:50:10 PM, Karan_m wrote:
How do l make new friends?Give your suggestions.

Jonbonbon's 7 steps to making new friends:

1st step: don't listen to grey parrot
2nd step: introduce yourself in conversations civilly and respectfully
3rd step: learn the humor of the group
4th step: find out everything about them
5th step: people please for a little bit.
6th step: exploit their weaknesses and destroy them.
7th step: join their rival group with the victory in hand and tell them your stories of battle. Be welcomed as a hero, and live the rest of your days in happiness.
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Sunnyallday
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9/29/2015 9:06:45 PM
Posted: 1 year ago
At 9/28/2015 7:50:10 PM, Karan_m wrote:
How do l make new friends?Give your suggestions.

I think making friends often is about finding equal minded people. Join a group or start up a hobby where you are more likely to meet people who will have the same interests as you. The fact that you both like the same thing gives you a good starting point for a conversation that you can build upon.

Personally I often find that I've made friends when I've joined a group or assigned myself to a task that requires cooperation. I like joining a smaller group where I can focus more directly on each individual. However I think this also depends on personality type.
If you are more extroverted you might have an easier time striking up a conversation in class or at work during lunch or going to an event where there is a larger number of people for you to potentially become friends with.

Small talk is unavoidable, which you'll either enjoy or endure. Basic information like what they do for a living, what they want to be when they grow up ( depending on age), what their hobbies are etc. can trail into deeper conversations about a topic.
I also find that remaining positive and open is really important. Judgement needs to be checked at the door in order to get to know a person properly.

at the very en I'd like to add that I know social graces and ways of making friends can vary from country to country. What is considered polite and socially acceptable one Place may not be acceptable in another. ( hopefully I have made some very neutral suggestions though :) )

Hope you find good and true friends ! :)
Haroush
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10/16/2015 2:23:21 AM
Posted: 1 year ago
At 9/28/2015 7:50:10 PM, Karan_m wrote:
How do l make new friends?Give your suggestions.

Perhaps you should ask yourself the opposite but equal question?
Haroush
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10/16/2015 2:25:05 AM
Posted: 1 year ago
At 9/28/2015 7:50:10 PM, Karan_m wrote:
How do l make new friends?Give your suggestions.

If you don't want to make friends just watch me.. because I don't care if someone likes me or not.