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12/14/2015 12:47:55 PM
Posted: 11 months ago
My ex girlfriend of 8 months and my current girlfriend have become friends and it makes me so uncomfortable I could snap. Is that like a normal thing? Exes and currents becoming close friends? What do I do about it.
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12/14/2015 1:04:57 PM
Posted: 11 months ago
At 12/14/2015 12:47:55 PM, ConnorSween16 wrote:
My ex girlfriend of 8 months and my current girlfriend have become friends and it makes me so uncomfortable I could snap. Is that like a normal thing? Exes and currents becoming close friends? What do I do about it.

Change your name and leave the country.
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12/14/2015 1:05:34 PM
Posted: 11 months ago
At 12/14/2015 1:04:57 PM, TheGreatAndPowerful wrote:
At 12/14/2015 12:47:55 PM, ConnorSween16 wrote:
My ex girlfriend of 8 months and my current girlfriend have become friends and it makes me so uncomfortable I could snap. Is that like a normal thing? Exes and currents becoming close friends? What do I do about it.

Change your name and leave the country.

This.
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12/14/2015 6:29:34 PM
Posted: 11 months ago
At 12/14/2015 1:04:57 PM, TheGreatAndPowerful wrote:
At 12/14/2015 12:47:55 PM, ConnorSween16 wrote:
My ex girlfriend of 8 months and my current girlfriend have become friends and it makes me so uncomfortable I could snap. Is that like a normal thing? Exes and currents becoming close friends? What do I do about it.

Change your name and leave the country.

Also, change your appearance and learn to speak another language.
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12/14/2015 7:24:44 PM
Posted: 11 months ago
At 12/14/2015 12:47:55 PM, ConnorSween16 wrote:
My ex girlfriend of 8 months and my current girlfriend have become friends and it makes me so uncomfortable I could snap. Is that like a normal thing? Exes and currents becoming close friends? What do I do about it.

Bro... that sucks. I've been in that situation before, and it's rough. They are most certainly talking about you, but they are also arch-enemies deep down. Please believe you could easily destroy that friendship if you desired, or you could let it play out naturally with no interference. One sure way to end their friendship would be to tell your current gf that the ex tried hitting you up on facebook or something. Watch how quickly their "friendship" will turn into a fist fight.

So, there, you have a way to end their friendship if you want.

Now, if you don't want to end the friendship you could do what I did and work them into having a threesome. All you need to do is go meet up with them both while they are already hanging out together, bring a bottle of liquor and get stupid with em. Eventually, the liquor will lead to hooking up and if it's just you three, you'll be able to convince the current gf to include the ex. As long as she doesn't feel threatened and you still give her the most attention - all will be well.

What I did was the threesome, and then after that I told the current gf that the ex was hitting me up. I got the best of both worlds, a threesome, and then the breakup between them.
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12/14/2015 7:30:33 PM
Posted: 11 months ago
At 12/14/2015 1:04:57 PM, TheGreatAndPowerful wrote:
At 12/14/2015 12:47:55 PM, ConnorSween16 wrote:
My ex girlfriend of 8 months and my current girlfriend have become friends and it makes me so uncomfortable I could snap. Is that like a normal thing? Exes and currents becoming close friends? What do I do about it.

Change your name and leave the country.

That is the only reasonable solution.
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12/14/2015 7:31:21 PM
Posted: 11 months ago
At 12/14/2015 12:47:55 PM, ConnorSween16 wrote:
My ex girlfriend of 8 months and my current girlfriend have become friends and it makes me so uncomfortable I could snap. Is that like a normal thing? Exes and currents becoming close friends? What do I do about it.

I think it's as normal for exes to become friends as it is not, after an appropriate "cooling off" period. But if it's not working for you, then that's fine too. You do you, bro.
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12/14/2015 8:09:38 PM
Posted: 11 months ago
At 12/14/2015 12:47:55 PM, ConnorSween16 wrote:
My ex girlfriend of 8 months and my current girlfriend have become friends and it makes me so uncomfortable I could snap. Is that like a normal thing? Exes and currents becoming close friends? What do I do about it.

Why not just talk to your current girlfriend about it?
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12/14/2015 8:37:04 PM
Posted: 11 months ago
At 12/14/2015 12:47:55 PM, ConnorSween16 wrote:
My ex girlfriend of 8 months and my current girlfriend have become friends and it makes me so uncomfortable I could snap. Is that like a normal thing? Exes and currents becoming close friends? What do I do about it.

Mention a three way.....to both of them at the same time.
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12/14/2015 9:18:14 PM
Posted: 11 months ago
At 12/14/2015 8:37:04 PM, jharry wrote:
At 12/14/2015 12:47:55 PM, ConnorSween16 wrote:
My ex girlfriend of 8 months and my current girlfriend have become friends and it makes me so uncomfortable I could snap. Is that like a normal thing? Exes and currents becoming close friends? What do I do about it.

Mention a three way.....to both of them at the same time.

This^
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12/14/2015 9:27:36 PM
Posted: 11 months ago
At 12/14/2015 9:18:14 PM, Robkwoods wrote:
At 12/14/2015 8:37:04 PM, jharry wrote:
At 12/14/2015 12:47:55 PM, ConnorSween16 wrote:
My ex girlfriend of 8 months and my current girlfriend have become friends and it makes me so uncomfortable I could snap. Is that like a normal thing? Exes and currents becoming close friends? What do I do about it.

Mention a three way.....to both of them at the same time.

This^

No...someone would get STD's...I know it.
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12/14/2015 9:30:37 PM
Posted: 11 months ago
At 12/14/2015 9:27:36 PM, Rosalie wrote:
At 12/14/2015 9:18:14 PM, Robkwoods wrote:
At 12/14/2015 8:37:04 PM, jharry wrote:
At 12/14/2015 12:47:55 PM, ConnorSween16 wrote:
My ex girlfriend of 8 months and my current girlfriend have become friends and it makes me so uncomfortable I could snap. Is that like a normal thing? Exes and currents becoming close friends? What do I do about it.

Mention a three way.....to both of them at the same time.

This^

No...someone would get STD's...I know it.

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12/14/2015 9:31:44 PM
Posted: 11 months ago
At 12/14/2015 9:30:37 PM, Robkwoods wrote:
At 12/14/2015 9:27:36 PM, Rosalie wrote:
At 12/14/2015 9:18:14 PM, Robkwoods wrote:
At 12/14/2015 8:37:04 PM, jharry wrote:
At 12/14/2015 12:47:55 PM, ConnorSween16 wrote:
My ex girlfriend of 8 months and my current girlfriend have become friends and it makes me so uncomfortable I could snap. Is that like a normal thing? Exes and currents becoming close friends? What do I do about it.

Mention a three way.....to both of them at the same time.

This^

No...someone would get STD's...I know it.

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Just speaking the truth.
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12/14/2015 9:32:24 PM
Posted: 11 months ago
At 12/14/2015 9:27:36 PM, Rosalie wrote:
At 12/14/2015 9:18:14 PM, Robkwoods wrote:
At 12/14/2015 8:37:04 PM, jharry wrote:
At 12/14/2015 12:47:55 PM, ConnorSween16 wrote:
My ex girlfriend of 8 months and my current girlfriend have become friends and it makes me so uncomfortable I could snap. Is that like a normal thing? Exes and currents becoming close friends? What do I do about it.

Mention a three way.....to both of them at the same time.

This^

No...someone would get STD's...I know it.

I was unaware that one could get a STD by the mere act of mentioning a threesome with both party's present.
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12/14/2015 9:33:58 PM
Posted: 11 months ago
At 12/14/2015 9:32:24 PM, Robkwoods wrote:
At 12/14/2015 9:27:36 PM, Rosalie wrote:
At 12/14/2015 9:18:14 PM, Robkwoods wrote:
At 12/14/2015 8:37:04 PM, jharry wrote:
At 12/14/2015 12:47:55 PM, ConnorSween16 wrote:
My ex girlfriend of 8 months and my current girlfriend have become friends and it makes me so uncomfortable I could snap. Is that like a normal thing? Exes and currents becoming close friends? What do I do about it.

Mention a three way.....to both of them at the same time.

This^

No...someone would get STD's...I know it.

I was unaware that one could get a STD by the mere act of mentioning a threesome with both party's present.

But you encouraged a 3 way.
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12/14/2015 9:44:12 PM
Posted: 11 months ago
At 12/14/2015 9:33:58 PM, Rosalie wrote:
At 12/14/2015 9:32:24 PM, Robkwoods wrote:
At 12/14/2015 9:27:36 PM, Rosalie wrote:
At 12/14/2015 9:18:14 PM, Robkwoods wrote:
At 12/14/2015 8:37:04 PM, jharry wrote:
At 12/14/2015 12:47:55 PM, ConnorSween16 wrote:
My ex girlfriend of 8 months and my current girlfriend have become friends and it makes me so uncomfortable I could snap. Is that like a normal thing? Exes and currents becoming close friends? What do I do about it.

Mention a three way.....to both of them at the same time.

This^

No...someone would get STD's...I know it.

I was unaware that one could get a STD by the mere act of mentioning a threesome with both party's present.

But you encouraged a 3 way.

I am a fan of personal responsibility. So I would hope as three consenting adults, all that would be discussed. If not, consequences be damned, "we are doing this!"
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12/14/2015 9:45:19 PM
Posted: 11 months ago
At 12/14/2015 9:44:12 PM, Robkwoods wrote:
At 12/14/2015 9:33:58 PM, Rosalie wrote:
At 12/14/2015 9:32:24 PM, Robkwoods wrote:
At 12/14/2015 9:27:36 PM, Rosalie wrote:
At 12/14/2015 9:18:14 PM, Robkwoods wrote:
At 12/14/2015 8:37:04 PM, jharry wrote:
At 12/14/2015 12:47:55 PM, ConnorSween16 wrote:
My ex girlfriend of 8 months and my current girlfriend have become friends and it makes me so uncomfortable I could snap. Is that like a normal thing? Exes and currents becoming close friends? What do I do about it.

Mention a three way.....to both of them at the same time.

This^

No...someone would get STD's...I know it.

I was unaware that one could get a STD by the mere act of mentioning a threesome with both party's present.

But you encouraged a 3 way.

I am a fan of personal responsibility. So I would hope as three consenting adults, all that would be discussed. If not, consequences be damned, "we are doing this!"

Well, if you look at the creators profile (the guy who made the thread) he is 16. Not an adult. And I would hope his girlfriend is below the age of 18 XD
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12/14/2015 9:57:44 PM
Posted: 11 months ago
At 12/14/2015 9:27:36 PM, Rosalie wrote:
At 12/14/2015 9:18:14 PM, Robkwoods wrote:
At 12/14/2015 8:37:04 PM, jharry wrote:
At 12/14/2015 12:47:55 PM, ConnorSween16 wrote:
My ex girlfriend of 8 months and my current girlfriend have become friends and it makes me so uncomfortable I could snap. Is that like a normal thing? Exes and currents becoming close friends? What do I do about it.

Mention a three way.....to both of them at the same time.

This^

No...someone would get STD's...I know it.

Thats an unfair assumption. Unfair in the fact that its the worst case scenario. Your statement implies that if they have a threesome, one or more would most definitely get an std which really is pretty far from the truth.

I'm not encouraging a threesome however.
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12/14/2015 9:59:13 PM
Posted: 11 months ago
At 12/14/2015 9:57:44 PM, cybertron1998 wrote:
At 12/14/2015 9:27:36 PM, Rosalie wrote:
At 12/14/2015 9:18:14 PM, Robkwoods wrote:
At 12/14/2015 8:37:04 PM, jharry wrote:
At 12/14/2015 12:47:55 PM, ConnorSween16 wrote:
My ex girlfriend of 8 months and my current girlfriend have become friends and it makes me so uncomfortable I could snap. Is that like a normal thing? Exes and currents becoming close friends? What do I do about it.

Mention a three way.....to both of them at the same time.

This^

No...someone would get STD's...I know it.

Thats an unfair assumption. Unfair in the fact that its the worst case scenario. Your statement implies that if they have a threesome, one or more would most definitely get an std which really is pretty far from the truth.

I'm not encouraging a threesome however.

Like you know anything.
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12/14/2015 10:01:12 PM
Posted: 11 months ago
At 12/14/2015 9:59:13 PM, Rosalie wrote:
At 12/14/2015 9:57:44 PM, cybertron1998 wrote:
At 12/14/2015 9:27:36 PM, Rosalie wrote:
At 12/14/2015 9:18:14 PM, Robkwoods wrote:
At 12/14/2015 8:37:04 PM, jharry wrote:
At 12/14/2015 12:47:55 PM, ConnorSween16 wrote:
My ex girlfriend of 8 months and my current girlfriend have become friends and it makes me so uncomfortable I could snap. Is that like a normal thing? Exes and currents becoming close friends? What do I do about it.

Mention a three way.....to both of them at the same time.

This^

No...someone would get STD's...I know it.

Thats an unfair assumption. Unfair in the fact that its the worst case scenario. Your statement implies that if they have a threesome, one or more would most definitely get an std which really is pretty far from the truth.

I'm not encouraging a threesome however.

Like you know anything.

My answer didn't require me to have prior experience, your assumption on STD's is relatively unfair because of how broad it is
Epsilon: There are so many stories where some brave hero decides to give their life to save the day, and because of their sacrifice, the good guys win, the survivors all cheer, and everybody lives happily ever after. But the hero... never gets to see that ending. They'll never know if their sacrifice actually made a difference. They'll never know if the day was really saved. In the end, they just have to have faith.
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12/14/2015 10:02:39 PM
Posted: 11 months ago
At 12/14/2015 10:01:12 PM, cybertron1998 wrote:
At 12/14/2015 9:59:13 PM, Rosalie wrote:
At 12/14/2015 9:57:44 PM, cybertron1998 wrote:
At 12/14/2015 9:27:36 PM, Rosalie wrote:
At 12/14/2015 9:18:14 PM, Robkwoods wrote:
At 12/14/2015 8:37:04 PM, jharry wrote:
At 12/14/2015 12:47:55 PM, ConnorSween16 wrote:
My ex girlfriend of 8 months and my current girlfriend have become friends and it makes me so uncomfortable I could snap. Is that like a normal thing? Exes and currents becoming close friends? What do I do about it.

Mention a three way.....to both of them at the same time.

This^

No...someone would get STD's...I know it.

Thats an unfair assumption. Unfair in the fact that its the worst case scenario. Your statement implies that if they have a threesome, one or more would most definitely get an std which really is pretty far from the truth.

I'm not encouraging a threesome however.

Like you know anything.

My answer didn't require me to have prior experience, your assumption on STD's is relatively unfair because of how broad it is

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Sometimes I worry about you..lol
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12/14/2015 10:03:07 PM
Posted: 11 months ago
At 12/14/2015 10:02:39 PM, Rosalie wrote:
At 12/14/2015 10:01:12 PM, cybertron1998 wrote:
At 12/14/2015 9:59:13 PM, Rosalie wrote:
At 12/14/2015 9:57:44 PM, cybertron1998 wrote:
At 12/14/2015 9:27:36 PM, Rosalie wrote:
At 12/14/2015 9:18:14 PM, Robkwoods wrote:
At 12/14/2015 8:37:04 PM, jharry wrote:
At 12/14/2015 12:47:55 PM, ConnorSween16 wrote:
My ex girlfriend of 8 months and my current girlfriend have become friends and it makes me so uncomfortable I could snap. Is that like a normal thing? Exes and currents becoming close friends? What do I do about it.

Mention a three way.....to both of them at the same time.

This^

No...someone would get STD's...I know it.

Thats an unfair assumption. Unfair in the fact that its the worst case scenario. Your statement implies that if they have a threesome, one or more would most definitely get an std which really is pretty far from the truth.

I'm not encouraging a threesome however.

Like you know anything.

My answer didn't require me to have prior experience, your assumption on STD's is relatively unfair because of how broad it is

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Sometimes I worry about you..lol

why?
Epsilon: There are so many stories where some brave hero decides to give their life to save the day, and because of their sacrifice, the good guys win, the survivors all cheer, and everybody lives happily ever after. But the hero... never gets to see that ending. They'll never know if their sacrifice actually made a difference. They'll never know if the day was really saved. In the end, they just have to have faith.
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12/15/2015 1:40:33 PM
Posted: 11 months ago
At 12/14/2015 7:24:44 PM, Blade-of-Truth wrote:
At 12/14/2015 12:47:55 PM, ConnorSween16 wrote:
My ex girlfriend of 8 months and my current girlfriend have become friends and it makes me so uncomfortable I could snap. Is that like a normal thing? Exes and currents becoming close friends? What do I do about it.

Bro... that sucks. I've been in that situation before, and it's rough. They are most certainly talking about you, but they are also arch-enemies deep down. Please believe you could easily destroy that friendship if you desired, or you could let it play out naturally with no interference. One sure way to end their friendship would be to tell your current gf that the ex tried hitting you up on facebook or something. Watch how quickly their "friendship" will turn into a fist fight.

So, there, you have a way to end their friendship if you want.

Now, if you don't want to end the friendship you could do what I did and work them into having a threesome. All you need to do is go meet up with them both while they are already hanging out together, bring a bottle of liquor and get stupid with em. Eventually, the liquor will lead to hooking up and if it's just you three, you'll be able to convince the current gf to include the ex. As long as she doesn't feel threatened and you still give her the most attention - all will be well.

What I did was the threesome, and then after that I told the current gf that the ex was hitting me up. I got the best of both worlds, a threesome, and then the breakup between them.

I hope this is trolling. Otherwise, this is actually terrible.
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12/15/2015 5:29:33 PM
Posted: 11 months ago
At 12/15/2015 1:40:33 PM, EndarkenedRationalist wrote:
At 12/14/2015 7:24:44 PM, Blade-of-Truth wrote:
At 12/14/2015 12:47:55 PM, ConnorSween16 wrote:
My ex girlfriend of 8 months and my current girlfriend have become friends and it makes me so uncomfortable I could snap. Is that like a normal thing? Exes and currents becoming close friends? What do I do about it.

Bro... that sucks. I've been in that situation before, and it's rough. They are most certainly talking about you, but they are also arch-enemies deep down. Please believe you could easily destroy that friendship if you desired, or you could let it play out naturally with no interference. One sure way to end their friendship would be to tell your current gf that the ex tried hitting you up on facebook or something. Watch how quickly their "friendship" will turn into a fist fight.

So, there, you have a way to end their friendship if you want.

Now, if you don't want to end the friendship you could do what I did and work them into having a threesome. All you need to do is go meet up with them both while they are already hanging out together, bring a bottle of liquor and get stupid with em. Eventually, the liquor will lead to hooking up and if it's just you three, you'll be able to convince the current gf to include the ex. As long as she doesn't feel threatened and you still give her the most attention - all will be well.

What I did was the threesome, and then after that I told the current gf that the ex was hitting me up. I got the best of both worlds, a threesome, and then the breakup between them.

I hope this is trolling. Otherwise, this is actually terrible.

No it isn't trolling. This happened. I was a very different person in highschool, one who didn't believe in love, trusting others, none of it. I simply played the game, and played it well.

It wasn't until I actually fell in love with someone in college, and had my own heart broken, that I changed. It took me having to experience the pain of a broken heart myself to fully understand just how much of a jack@ss I was towards girls in HS.

Ironically, I'm now really good friends with both of those girls and usually will grab lunch with one or the other while visiting my home-town during holidays.
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12/17/2015 1:20:41 AM
Posted: 11 months ago
At 12/14/2015 12:47:55 PM, ConnorSween16 wrote:
My ex girlfriend of 8 months and my current girlfriend have become friends and it makes me so uncomfortable I could snap. Is that like a normal thing? Exes and currents becoming close friends? What do I do about it.
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12/17/2015 8:22:12 AM
Posted: 11 months ago
At 12/14/2015 12:47:55 PM, ConnorSween16 wrote:
My ex girlfriend of 8 months and my current girlfriend have become friends and it makes me so uncomfortable I could snap. Is that like a normal thing? Exes and currents becoming close friends? What do I do about it.

It won't end well...................for you.
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12/20/2015 12:49:31 PM
Posted: 11 months ago
At 12/14/2015 12:47:55 PM, ConnorSween16 wrote:
My ex girlfriend of 8 months and my current girlfriend have become friends and it makes me so uncomfortable I could snap. Is that like a normal thing? Exes and currents becoming close friends? What do I do about it.

It's not normal or appropriate. How did they meet? If you're still going around your ex a lot or run in a small circle, this is your fault and you must live with the consequences, but I couldn't imagine my fianc" becoming friends with any of my exes, let alone even meeting them
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12/20/2015 12:50:49 PM
Posted: 11 months ago
You could also get a threesome if the ex is still into you, and after you see your girls emotional reactions to just doing that, their friendship will end
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12/21/2015 1:26:25 AM
Posted: 11 months ago
At 12/15/2015 1:40:33 PM, EndarkenedRationalist wrote:
At 12/14/2015 7:24:44 PM, Blade-of-Truth wrote:
At 12/14/2015 12:47:55 PM, ConnorSween16 wrote:
My ex girlfriend of 8 months and my current girlfriend have become friends and it makes me so uncomfortable I could snap. Is that like a normal thing? Exes and currents becoming close friends? What do I do about it.

Bro... that sucks. I've been in that situation before, and it's rough. They are most certainly talking about you, but they are also arch-enemies deep down. Please believe you could easily destroy that friendship if you desired, or you could let it play out naturally with no interference. One sure way to end their friendship would be to tell your current gf that the ex tried hitting you up on facebook or something. Watch how quickly their "friendship" will turn into a fist fight.

So, there, you have a way to end their friendship if you want.

Now, if you don't want to end the friendship you could do what I did and work them into having a threesome. All you need to do is go meet up with them both while they are already hanging out together, bring a bottle of liquor and get stupid with em. Eventually, the liquor will lead to hooking up and if it's just you three, you'll be able to convince the current gf to include the ex. As long as she doesn't feel threatened and you still give her the most attention - all will be well.

What I did was the threesome, and then after that I told the current gf that the ex was hitting me up. I got the best of both worlds, a threesome, and then the breakup between them.

I hope this is trolling. Otherwise, this is actually terrible.

Do that to me and you'll never see another guy again.
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12/24/2015 1:51:56 PM
Posted: 11 months ago
At 12/14/2015 12:47:55 PM, ConnorSween16 wrote:
My ex girlfriend of 8 months and my current girlfriend have become friends and it makes me so uncomfortable I could snap. Is that like a normal thing? Exes and currents becoming close friends? What do I do about it.

My answer? No. Not normal. Exes and Current GFs are supposed to hate each other and if they don't? There is something wrong.

Good luck =)
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