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poehlerfan
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3/23/2016 4:36:08 PM
Posted: 8 months ago
I am so upset, a friend from church blocked me and I don't know why. All I know is it happened after he tagged everyone*that was at this church event I went to except me saying if youre not here youre missing out, to which I commented I was there and the next thing I know he blocked me wth?? And this is a leader in my small group too!
I just asked him at church if I had done anything to offend him because I noticed he blocked me and he said no so I was like why did you block me and he said some of my comments were unnecessary (I only made one commennt saying I was there at the event on the post he tagged everyone in)and said dont worry about it when I started to ask what comments. Then this girl I was talking to about it said you need to not be offended or upset that he tagged everyone but you or that he blocked you and maybe thats the reason people dont tag me or include me because I get upset when they exclude me and they are tired of me acting like I think they are rejecting and excluding me , well maybe if you didnt reject and exclude me all the time I wouldn't be upset or think youre excluding me
Rosalie
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3/23/2016 4:51:32 PM
Posted: 8 months ago
At 3/23/2016 4:36:08 PM, poehlerfan wrote:
I am so upset, a friend from church blocked me and I don't know why. All I know is it happened after he tagged everyone*that was at this church event I went to except me saying if youre not here youre missing out, to which I commented I was there and the next thing I know he blocked me wth?? And this is a leader in my small group too!
I just asked him at church if I had done anything to offend him because I noticed he blocked me and he said no so I was like why did you block me and he said some of my comments were unnecessary (I only made one commennt saying I was there at the event on the post he tagged everyone in)and said dont worry about it when I started to ask what comments. Then this girl I was talking to about it said you need to not be offended or upset that he tagged everyone but you or that he blocked you and maybe thats the reason people dont tag me or include me because I get upset when they exclude me and they are tired of me acting like I think they are rejecting and excluding me , well maybe if you didnt reject and exclude me all the time I wouldn't be upset or think youre excluding me

Well that's pretty messed up. He doesn't sound like a good youth leader. Really, just ignore it. Hopefully someone will see through him, and realize that what he has, and is doing is not kind, at all.
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5/30/2016 3:01:13 PM
Posted: 6 months ago
At 3/23/2016 4:36:08 PM, poehlerfan wrote:
I am so upset, a friend from church blocked me and I don't know why. All I know is it happened after he tagged everyone*that was at this church event I went to except me saying if youre not here youre missing out, to which I commented I was there and the next thing I know he blocked me wth?? And this is a leader in my small group too!
I just asked him at church if I had done anything to offend him because I noticed he blocked me and he said no so I was like why did you block me and he said some of my comments were unnecessary (I only made one commennt saying I was there at the event on the post he tagged everyone in)and said dont worry about it when I started to ask what comments. Then this girl I was talking to about it said you need to not be offended or upset that he tagged everyone but you or that he blocked you and maybe thats the reason people dont tag me or include me because I get upset when they exclude me and they are tired of me acting like I think they are rejecting and excluding me , well maybe if you didnt reject and exclude me all the time I wouldn't be upset or think youre excluding me

I have no idea. I can't get through a sentence without saying something that would upset "church leader" so... Point is, it could be anything.
illegalcombat
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5/31/2016 7:37:47 AM
Posted: 6 months ago
At 3/23/2016 4:36:08 PM, poehlerfan wrote:
I am so upset, a friend from church blocked me and I don't know why. All I know is it happened after he tagged everyone*that was at this church event I went to except me saying if youre not here youre missing out, to which I commented I was there and the next thing I know he blocked me wth?? And this is a leader in my small group too!
I just asked him at church if I had done anything to offend him because I noticed he blocked me and he said no so I was like why did you block me and he said some of my comments were unnecessary (I only made one commennt saying I was there at the event on the post he tagged everyone in)and said dont worry about it when I started to ask what comments. Then this girl I was talking to about it said you need to not be offended or upset that he tagged everyone but you or that he blocked you and maybe thats the reason people dont tag me or include me because I get upset when they exclude me and they are tired of me acting like I think they are rejecting and excluding me , well maybe if you didnt reject and exclude me all the time I wouldn't be upset or think youre excluding me

I think it's clear what you need to do.

1) Stalk them, you need to know WHY, follow them where every they go, make sure to take pictures.

2) At their next get together turn up unannounced. Clearly you need to show these people that this kind of behavior is unacceptable.

3) Make approaches to their children, they have all the info you need to know, again take pictures.

4) Make constant phone calls late a night demanding an explanation, you won't get an answer unless you persist, don't be a quitter.

5) Find Jesus, realize they are the unsaved sons of satan destined for hell fire, as such you have the Godly duty of wiping these sinful reprobates from Gods green earth via mass arson, fire will cleans them of their sins.

6) Enjoy the quiet time that is solitary confinement for the rest of your life.