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BlazingRodent
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8/31/2016 9:07:57 PM
Posted: 3 months ago
Many members on DDO tend to hate me, that is a fact, but why? Is it because I am an @$$hole? Do I just bother you. What the hell is it?
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8/31/2016 9:08:37 PM
Posted: 3 months ago
At 8/31/2016 9:07:57 PM, BlazingRodent wrote:

I don't hate you! :)
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8/31/2016 9:11:48 PM
Posted: 3 months ago
At 8/31/2016 9:07:57 PM, BlazingRodent wrote:
Many members on DDO tend to hate me, that is a fact, but why? Is it because I am an @$$hole? Do I just bother you. What the hell is it?

Nobody hates you, and if they have a problem with you, refer them to me, and I'll deal with them.
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8/31/2016 9:13:52 PM
Posted: 3 months ago
At 8/31/2016 9:08:37 PM, ColeTrain wrote:
At 8/31/2016 9:07:57 PM, BlazingRodent wrote:

I don't hate you! :)

I know that, but why do you think others do?
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8/31/2016 9:14:09 PM
Posted: 3 months ago
At 8/31/2016 9:13:52 PM, BlazingRodent wrote:
At 8/31/2016 9:08:37 PM, ColeTrain wrote:
At 8/31/2016 9:07:57 PM, BlazingRodent wrote:

I don't hate you! :)

I know that, but why do you think others do?

No one hates you.
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8/31/2016 9:15:13 PM
Posted: 3 months ago
At 8/31/2016 9:14:09 PM, YYW wrote:
At 8/31/2016 9:13:52 PM, BlazingRodent wrote:
At 8/31/2016 9:08:37 PM, ColeTrain wrote:
At 8/31/2016 9:07:57 PM, BlazingRodent wrote:

I don't hate you! :)

I know that, but why do you think others do?

No one hates you.

How do you know?
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8/31/2016 9:20:44 PM
Posted: 3 months ago
At 8/31/2016 9:14:09 PM, YYW wrote:
At 8/31/2016 9:13:52 PM, BlazingRodent wrote:
At 8/31/2016 9:08:37 PM, ColeTrain wrote:
At 8/31/2016 9:07:57 PM, BlazingRodent wrote:

I don't hate you! :)

I know that, but why do you think others do?

No one hates you.

^ +1
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"So, to start off, I've never committed suicide." -- Vaarka
"I eat glue." -- brontoraptor
"I mean, at this rate, I'd argue for a ham sandwich presidency." -- ResponsiblyIrresponsible
"Overthrow Assad, heil jihad." -- 16kadams when trolling in hangout
"Hillary Clinton is not my favorite person ... and her campaign is as inspiring as a bowl of cottage cheese." -- YYW
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8/31/2016 9:21:02 PM
Posted: 3 months ago
At 8/31/2016 9:20:44 PM, ColeTrain wrote:
At 8/31/2016 9:14:09 PM, YYW wrote:
At 8/31/2016 9:13:52 PM, BlazingRodent wrote:
At 8/31/2016 9:08:37 PM, ColeTrain wrote:
At 8/31/2016 9:07:57 PM, BlazingRodent wrote:

I don't hate you! :)

I know that, but why do you think others do?

No one hates you.

^ +1

Not true
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8/31/2016 9:31:04 PM
Posted: 3 months ago
At 8/31/2016 9:21:02 PM, BlazingRodent wrote:
At 8/31/2016 9:20:44 PM, ColeTrain wrote:
At 8/31/2016 9:14:09 PM, YYW wrote:
At 8/31/2016 9:13:52 PM, BlazingRodent wrote:
At 8/31/2016 9:08:37 PM, ColeTrain wrote:
At 8/31/2016 9:07:57 PM, BlazingRodent wrote:

I don't hate you! :)

I know that, but why do you think others do?

No one hates you.

^ +1

Not true

Regardless, you don't need to worry about it :)
"The right to 360 noscope noobs shall not be infringed!!!" -- tajshar2k
"So, to start off, I've never committed suicide." -- Vaarka
"I eat glue." -- brontoraptor
"I mean, at this rate, I'd argue for a ham sandwich presidency." -- ResponsiblyIrresponsible
"Overthrow Assad, heil jihad." -- 16kadams when trolling in hangout
"Hillary Clinton is not my favorite person ... and her campaign is as inspiring as a bowl of cottage cheese." -- YYW
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8/31/2016 9:38:33 PM
Posted: 3 months ago
At 8/31/2016 9:07:57 PM, BlazingRodent wrote:
Many members on DDO tend to hate me, that is a fact, but why? Is it because I am an @$$hole? Do I just bother you. What the hell is it?

Why'd you switch accounts again?
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8/31/2016 9:41:35 PM
Posted: 3 months ago
At 8/31/2016 9:07:57 PM, BlazingRodent wrote:
Many members on DDO tend to hate me, that is a fact, but why? Is it because I am an @$$hole? Do I just bother you. What the hell is it?

I dont hate you either bby. And if three cool people like me YYw and coletrain dont hate you that means youre probably pretty cool. So dont worry about it
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8/31/2016 10:08:13 PM
Posted: 3 months ago
At 8/31/2016 9:38:33 PM, PetersSmith wrote:
At 8/31/2016 9:07:57 PM, BlazingRodent wrote:
Many members on DDO tend to hate me, that is a fact, but why? Is it because I am an @$$hole? Do I just bother you. What the hell is it?

Why'd you switch accounts again?

I don't want a specific someone one to know I am the same guy as the other account.
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8/31/2016 10:09:54 PM
Posted: 3 months ago
At 8/31/2016 9:41:35 PM, Hayd wrote:
At 8/31/2016 9:07:57 PM, BlazingRodent wrote:
Many members on DDO tend to hate me, that is a fact, but why? Is it because I am an @$$hole? Do I just bother you. What the hell is it?

I dont hate you either bby. And if three cool people like me YYw and coletrain dont hate you that means youre probably pretty cool. So dont worry about it

I at least want to know why I am socially shunned so I can at least improve on not leaving bad impressions on people. Perhaps that was unclear, but I am trying to improve on talking with others.
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8/31/2016 10:18:43 PM
Posted: 3 months ago
At 8/31/2016 10:09:54 PM, BlazingRodent wrote:
At 8/31/2016 9:41:35 PM, Hayd wrote:
At 8/31/2016 9:07:57 PM, BlazingRodent wrote:
Many members on DDO tend to hate me, that is a fact, but why? Is it because I am an @$$hole? Do I just bother you. What the hell is it?

I dont hate you either bby. And if three cool people like me YYw and coletrain dont hate you that means youre probably pretty cool. So dont worry about it

I at least want to know why I am socially shunned so I can at least improve on not leaving bad impressions on people. Perhaps that was unclear, but I am trying to improve on talking with others.

You're socially shunned?
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8/31/2016 10:47:54 PM
Posted: 3 months ago
At 8/31/2016 10:18:43 PM, Hayd wrote:
At 8/31/2016 10:09:54 PM, BlazingRodent wrote:
At 8/31/2016 9:41:35 PM, Hayd wrote:
At 8/31/2016 9:07:57 PM, BlazingRodent wrote:
Many members on DDO tend to hate me, that is a fact, but why? Is it because I am an @$$hole? Do I just bother you. What the hell is it?

I dont hate you either bby. And if three cool people like me YYw and coletrain dont hate you that means youre probably pretty cool. So dont worry about it

I at least want to know why I am socially shunned so I can at least improve on not leaving bad impressions on people. Perhaps that was unclear, but I am trying to improve on talking with others.

You're socially shunned?

Yeah here and real life and I want to know why.
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8/31/2016 10:59:54 PM
Posted: 3 months ago
At 8/31/2016 9:07:57 PM, BlazingRodent wrote:
Many members on DDO tend to hate me, that is a fact, but why? Is it because I am an @$$hole? Do I just bother you. What the hell is it?

Do they hate you, in your mind, because of your views or because you are in your mind a troll and a internet coward who says things to people that would not be said face to face.
It's not your views that divide us, it's what you think my views should be that divides us.

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8/31/2016 11:10:40 PM
Posted: 3 months ago
At 8/31/2016 10:59:54 PM, sadolite wrote:
At 8/31/2016 9:07:57 PM, BlazingRodent wrote:
Many members on DDO tend to hate me, that is a fact, but why? Is it because I am an @$$hole? Do I just bother you. What the hell is it?

Do they hate you, in your mind, because of your views or because you are in your mind a troll and a internet coward who says things to people that would not be said face to face.

Both
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8/31/2016 11:13:54 PM
Posted: 3 months ago
At 8/31/2016 9:07:57 PM, BlazingRodent wrote:
Many members on DDO tend to hate me, that is a fact, but why? Is it because I am an @$$hole? Do I just bother you. What the hell is it?

If anyone hates anyone its probs me

You don't have to worry ive taken your burden :D
Im not a Nazi
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8/31/2016 11:19:52 PM
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At 8/31/2016 9:07:57 PM, BlazingRodent wrote:
Many members on DDO tend to hate me, that is a fact, but why? Is it because I am an @$$hole? Do I just bother you. What the hell is it?

Where does this even come from? I've yet to see people say they hate you.
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8/31/2016 11:21:34 PM
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At 8/31/2016 11:13:54 PM, Capital wrote:
At 8/31/2016 9:07:57 PM, BlazingRodent wrote:
Many members on DDO tend to hate me, that is a fact, but why? Is it because I am an @$$hole? Do I just bother you. What the hell is it?

If anyone hates anyone its probs me

You don't have to worry ive taken your burden :D

lol
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Underlying most arguments against the free market is a lack of belief in freedom itself. -Friedman

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8/31/2016 11:39:17 PM
Posted: 3 months ago
At 8/31/2016 9:07:57 PM, BlazingRodent wrote:
Many members on DDO tend to hate me, that is a fact, but why? Is it because I am an @$$hole? Do I just bother you. What the hell is it?

I seriously can't think of one member who hates you, Blaze
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9/1/2016 3:53:36 AM
Posted: 3 months ago
At 8/31/2016 9:07:57 PM, BlazingRodent wrote:
Many members on DDO tend to hate me, that is a fact, but why? Is it because I am an @$$hole? Do I just bother you. What the hell is it?

They don't.

Glad to see you're still alive.
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9/1/2016 4:34:03 AM
Posted: 3 months ago
At 8/31/2016 11:39:17 PM, Vaarka wrote:
At 8/31/2016 9:07:57 PM, BlazingRodent wrote:
Many members on DDO tend to hate me, that is a fact, but why? Is it because I am an @$$hole? Do I just bother you. What the hell is it?

I seriously can't think of one member who hates you, Blaze

There's a few instances that I'm aware of, but I think Joey knows who they are if my memory serves me right.
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9/1/2016 4:47:59 AM
Posted: 3 months ago
At 8/31/2016 9:07:57 PM, BlazingRodent wrote:
Many members on DDO tend to hate me, that is a fact, but why? Is it because I am an @$$hole? Do I just bother you. What the hell is it?

I don't hate you and after all this time I'm quite sure you know that. I know you puzzling this wasn't directed at me, but there is still the statement. You are really none of these things. Every user has their own thing and you really can't please everyone. You just can't let those members get you down as they don't matter, nor should they. YOu should only care about your friends and be yourself. If you went around trying to please people then you will only become a stranger that not even yourself can recognize.

Be yourself man, God made you special and others will never be able to be like you as you have potential like that you've never dreamed of it. You are on your way to achieving your dreams and these haters are trying to keep you from it. If you keep pushing past them, then they won't be able to stop you.
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9/1/2016 5:10:51 AM
Posted: 3 months ago
At 9/1/2016 4:47:59 AM, lannan13 wrote:
At 8/31/2016 9:07:57 PM, BlazingRodent wrote:
Many members on DDO tend to hate me, that is a fact, but why? Is it because I am an @$$hole? Do I just bother you. What the hell is it?

I don't hate you and after all this time I'm quite sure you know that. I know you puzzling this wasn't directed at me, but there is still the statement. You are really none of these things. Every user has their own thing and you really can't please everyone. You just can't let those members get you down as they don't matter, nor should they. YOu should only care about your friends and be yourself. If you went around trying to please people then you will only become a stranger that not even yourself can recognize.

Be yourself man, God made you special and others will never be able to be like you as you have potential like that you've never dreamed of it. You are on your way to achieving your dreams and these haters are trying to keep you from it. If you keep pushing past them, then they won't be able to stop you.

Whatever and some people online have wished what I would commit suicide.
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9/1/2016 5:11:59 AM
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At 9/1/2016 3:53:36 AM, triangle.128k wrote:
At 8/31/2016 9:07:57 PM, BlazingRodent wrote:
Many members on DDO tend to hate me, that is a fact, but why? Is it because I am an @$$hole? Do I just bother you. What the hell is it?

They don't.

Glad to see you're still alive.

Oh yeah you did not know I was Omniscient_Debater?
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9/1/2016 5:19:16 AM
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Can everyone stop beating around the bush and help me with the problem? Just tell me why some ddo members hate me so I can stop being this hated person. It was unclear from the title. Please tell me and help.
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9/1/2016 5:27:39 AM
Posted: 3 months ago
At 8/31/2016 9:07:57 PM, BlazingRodent wrote:
Many members on DDO tend to hate me, that is a fact, but why? Is it because I am an @$$hole? Do I just bother you. What the hell is it?

Blazing, even if people hate you, I can confidently say that they're outnumbered by the people who care about you on the site. I know this sounds awfully clinche, but 'hate' is a very strong word when describing others who possibly have any problem with you. I can guarantee that a mass majority of people on here don't want to see you suffer. Even if there is just one person on the site that dislikes you to the point where they'd want to see you hurt, they shouldn't matter to you.

However, this doesn't mean that you should let it bother you. You can't and shouldn't be defined by how others think of you. They don't matter. You're one of the sweetest members on this site, and the mere thought of someone disliking you is so strange to me.

Whether you realize it or not, you're special, and others should acknowledge that too. I'm going to sound like an after school special for saying this, but I don't care: you should just keep being you, no matter what anybody says. You aren't any of the negative things you said you are in the OP. You're your own person, and I greatly admire that. Whatever you do, don't stop shining that special light of yours.

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9/1/2016 5:30:51 AM
Posted: 3 months ago
At 9/1/2016 5:10:51 AM, BlazingRodent wrote:
At 9/1/2016 4:47:59 AM, lannan13 wrote:
At 8/31/2016 9:07:57 PM, BlazingRodent wrote:
Many members on DDO tend to hate me, that is a fact, but why? Is it because I am an @$$hole? Do I just bother you. What the hell is it?

I don't hate you and after all this time I'm quite sure you know that. I know you puzzling this wasn't directed at me, but there is still the statement. You are really none of these things. Every user has their own thing and you really can't please everyone. You just can't let those members get you down as they don't matter, nor should they. YOu should only care about your friends and be yourself. If you went around trying to please people then you will only become a stranger that not even yourself can recognize.

Be yourself man, God made you special and others will never be able to be like you as you have potential like that you've never dreamed of it. You are on your way to achieving your dreams and these haters are trying to keep you from it. If you keep pushing past them, then they won't be able to stop you.

Whatever and some people online have wished what I would commit suicide.
They shouldn't matter to you. If they wanted you to take your own life, they shouldn't be acknowledged.
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9/1/2016 5:37:57 AM
Posted: 3 months ago
At 9/1/2016 5:27:39 AM, missbailey8 wrote:
At 8/31/2016 9:07:57 PM, BlazingRodent wrote:
Many members on DDO tend to hate me, that is a fact, but why? Is it because I am an @$$hole? Do I just bother you. What the hell is it?

Blazing, even if people hate you, I can confidently say that they're outnumbered by the people who care about you on the site. I know this sounds awfully clinche, but 'hate' is a very strong word when describing others who possibly have any problem with you. I can guarantee that a mass majority of people on here don't want to see you suffer. Even if there is just one person on the site that dislikes you to the point where they'd want to see you hurt, they shouldn't matter to you.

However, this doesn't mean that you should let it bother you. You can't and shouldn't be defined by how others think of you. They don't matter. You're one of the sweetest members on this site, and the mere thought of someone disliking you is so strange to me.

Whether you realize it or not, you're special, and others should acknowledge that too. I'm going to sound like an after school special for saying this, but I don't care: you should just keep being you, no matter what anybody says. You aren't any of the negative things you said you are in the OP. You're your own person, and I greatly admire that. Whatever you do, don't stop shining that special light of yours.

"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind."
- Bernard M. Baruch

I appreciate that but I came here for advice so I won't be hated as much.