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8/8/2014 4:28:02 PM
Posted: 2 years ago
throughout my Christian experience, I've come to learn that flirting, pick up lines, signals, etc. is unscriptural.I kind of used it only because the world was using it, not because the Bible actually says that it should be used. These things are immature and for those who want attraction rather than a real relationship. My position is that the Bible teaches us how a real relationship works rather than Hollywood.

disagree? Let's start a debate then
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8/8/2014 4:36:54 PM
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Yea just wait around till some dude sells his daughter to you as a sex slave.

Way to go bozo.
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8/8/2014 6:06:50 PM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 8/8/2014 4:28:02 PM, Truth_seeker wrote:
throughout my Christian experience, I've come to learn that flirting, pick up lines, signals, etc. is unscriptural.I kind of used it only because the world was using it, not because the Bible actually says that it should be used. These things are immature and for those who want attraction rather than a real relationship. My position is that the Bible teaches us how a real relationship works rather than Hollywood.

disagree? Let's start a debate then

I am unfamiliar with what the Bible says about this, but flirting and lines (when used in the right way) are not harmful. I'm not exactly sure what you mean by signals. As far as it being a sin, I wouldn't be surprised, since it is very easy to commit a sin according to the Bible.
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8/8/2014 6:08:51 PM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 8/8/2014 4:28:02 PM, Truth_seeker wrote:
throughout my Christian experience, I've come to learn that flirting, pick up lines, signals, etc. is unscriptural.I kind of used it only because the world was using it, not because the Bible actually says that it should be used. These things are immature and for those who want attraction rather than a real relationship. My position is that the Bible teaches us how a real relationship works rather than Hollywood.

disagree? Let's start a debate then

Letting someone know you think they're attractive/you want to go out with them isn't wrong.

Though I agree a lot of flirtation is immature in general.
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8/8/2014 6:19:59 PM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 8/8/2014 6:08:51 PM, Hematite12 wrote:
At 8/8/2014 4:28:02 PM, Truth_seeker wrote:
throughout my Christian experience, I've come to learn that flirting, pick up lines, signals, etc. is unscriptural.I kind of used it only because the world was using it, not because the Bible actually says that it should be used. These things are immature and for those who want attraction rather than a real relationship. My position is that the Bible teaches us how a real relationship works.rather than Hollywood.

disagree? Let's start a debate then

Letting someone know you think they're attractive/you want to go out with them isn't wrong.

Though I agree a lot of flirtation is immature in general.

It's not wrong, but its just not mature. I let people know that I like them straightforward, no guessing games, no signals, nothing. when people flirt, it's like they're having a casual fling. I don't roll that way, I'm serious from the start.I will work hard to get what I want and it's very insulting when people don't take me seriously.
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8/8/2014 6:22:05 PM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 8/8/2014 6:06:50 PM, Skepticalone wrote:
At 8/8/2014 4:28:02 PM, Truth_seeker wrote:
throughout my Christian experience, I've come to learn that flirting, pick up lines, signals, etc. is unscriptural.I kind of used it only because the world was using it, not because the Bible actually says that it should be used. These things are immature and for those who want attraction rather than a real relationship. My position is that the Bible teaches us how a real relationship works rather than Hollywood.

disagree? Let's start a debate then

I am unfamiliar with what the Bible says about this, but flirting and lines (when used in the right way) are not harmful. I'm not exactly sure what you mean by signals. As far as it being a sin, I wouldn't be surprised, since it is very easy to commit a sin according to the Bible.

not saying that it's a sin,it's just something that believers shouldn't take part in
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8/8/2014 6:24:50 PM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 8/8/2014 4:28:02 PM, Truth_seeker wrote:
throughout my Christian experience, I've come to learn that flirting, pick up lines, signals, etc. is unscriptural.I kind of used it only because the world was using it, not because the Bible actually says that it should be used. These things are immature and for those who want attraction rather than a real relationship. My position is that the Bible teaches us how a real relationship works rather than Hollywood.

disagree? Let's start a debate then

If a believer shouldn't do this, how in the world are they supposed to even start a relationship?(Thankfully, I'm not a believer)
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8/8/2014 6:40:44 PM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 8/8/2014 4:28:02 PM, Truth_seeker wrote:
throughout my Christian experience, I've come to learn that flirting, pick up lines, signals, etc. is unscriptural.I kind of used it only because the world was using it, not because the Bible actually says that it should be used. These things are immature and for those who want attraction rather than a real relationship. My position is that the Bible teaches us how a real relationship works rather than Hollywood.

disagree? Let's start a debate then

Uhh... I started a real relationship like this.
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8/8/2014 6:42:37 PM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 8/8/2014 6:22:05 PM, Truth_seeker wrote:
At 8/8/2014 6:06:50 PM, Skepticalone wrote:
At 8/8/2014 4:28:02 PM, Truth_seeker wrote:
throughout my Christian experience, I've come to learn that flirting, pick up lines, signals, etc. is unscriptural.I kind of used it only because the world was using it, not because the Bible actually says that it should be used. These things are immature and for those who want attraction rather than a real relationship. My position is that the Bible teaches us how a real relationship works rather than Hollywood.

disagree? Let's start a debate then

I am unfamiliar with what the Bible says about this, but flirting and lines (when used in the right way) are not harmful. I'm not exactly sure what you mean by signals. As far as it being a sin, I wouldn't be surprised, since it is very easy to commit a sin according to the Bible.

not saying that it's a sin,it's just something that believers shouldn't take part in

Why not?
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8/8/2014 6:46:43 PM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 8/8/2014 6:24:50 PM, KafkaF wrote:
At 8/8/2014 4:28:02 PM, Truth_seeker wrote:
throughout my Christian experience, I've come to learn that flirting, pick up lines, signals, etc. is unscriptural.I kind of used it only because the world was using it, not because the Bible actually says that it should be used. These things are immature and for those who want attraction rather than a real relationship. My position is that the Bible teaches us how a real relationship works rather than Hollywood.

disagree? Let's start a debate then

If a believer shouldn't do this, how in the world are they supposed to even start a relationship?(Thankfully, I'm not a believer)

there are other ways of doing it
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8/8/2014 6:51:13 PM
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At 8/8/2014 6:40:44 PM, YamaVonKarma wrote:
At 8/8/2014 4:28:02 PM, Truth_seeker wrote:
throughout my Christian experience, I've come to learn that flirting, pick up lines, signals, etc. is unscriptural.I kind of used it only because the world was using it, not because the Bible actually says that it should be used. These things are immature and for those who want attraction rather than a real relationship. My position is that the Bible teaches us how a real relationship works rather than Hollywood.

disagree? Let's start a debate then

Uhh... I started a real relationship like this.

yeah but how many start like that?yeah but how
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8/8/2014 7:06:44 PM
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At 8/8/2014 6:51:13 PM, Truth_seeker wrote:
At 8/8/2014 6:40:44 PM, YamaVonKarma wrote:
At 8/8/2014 4:28:02 PM, Truth_seeker wrote:
throughout my Christian experience, I've come to learn that flirting, pick up lines, signals, etc. is unscriptural.I kind of used it only because the world was using it, not because the Bible actually says that it should be used. These things are immature and for those who want attraction rather than a real relationship. My position is that the Bible teaches us how a real relationship works rather than Hollywood.

disagree? Let's start a debate then

Uhh... I started a real relationship like this.

yeah but how many start like that?yeah but how
Mine, my parent's, and my grand parent's.
People who I've called as mafia DP1:
TUF, and YYW
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8/8/2014 9:36:44 PM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 8/8/2014 4:28:02 PM, Truth_seeker wrote:
throughout my Christian experience, I've come to learn that flirting, pick up lines, signals, etc. is unscriptural.I kind of used it only because the world was using it, not because the Bible actually says that it should be used. These things are immature and for those who want attraction rather than a real relationship. My position is that the Bible teaches us how a real relationship works rather than Hollywood.

disagree? Let's start a debate then

You can't use the Bible for your Christian standards if you follow Jesus' teaching to know the truth. The Bible has been debunked now for all intellectuals by Israeli archeology as the authors of the Bible stories have been proven to be consummate liars and story-tellers without a shred of honesty in them as they cobbled together pagan religious ideas of ancient civilizations around them and created a whole mythological origin of Hebrews that never happened. Paul's doctrines are all based on Bible belief so they're all wrong and trying to use the Bible as a standard for Christian morality won't work. The Bible's too corrupted with too many man-made doctrines pretending to be Word of God.

I teach Celestial Torah Christianity which isn't Bible bound and actually reports the world's oldest religious tradition, the Messiah/Christ one that can be traced back in human religious iconic history 35,000 years.
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8/8/2014 9:44:06 PM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 8/8/2014 7:06:44 PM, YamaVonKarma wrote:
At 8/8/2014 6:51:13 PM, Truth_seeker wrote:
At 8/8/2014 6:40:44 PM, YamaVonKarma wrote:
At 8/8/2014 4:28:02 PM, Truth_seeker wrote:
throughout my Christian experience, I've come to learn that flirting, pick up lines, signals, etc. is unscriptural.I kind of used it only because the world was using it, not because the Bible actually says that it should be used. These things are immature and for those who want attraction rather t han a real relationship. My position is that the Bible teaches us how a real relationship works rather than Hollywood.

disagree? Let's start a debate then

Uhh... I started a real relationship like this.

yeah but how many start like that?yeah but how
Mine, my parent's, and my grand parent's.

Lol y'all are exceptions then
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8/9/2014 1:58:45 AM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 8/8/2014 6:46:43 PM, Truth_seeker wrote:
At 8/8/2014 6:24:50 PM, KafkaF wrote:
At 8/8/2014 4:28:02 PM, Truth_seeker wrote:
throughout my Christian experience, I've come to learn that flirting, pick up lines, signals, etc. is unscriptural.I kind of used it only because the world was using it, not because the Bible actually says that it should be used. These things are immature and for those who want attraction rather than a real relationship. My position is that the Bible teaches us how a real relationship works rather than Hollywood.

disagree? Let's start a debate then

If a believer shouldn't do this, how in the world are they supposed to even start a relationship?(Thankfully, I'm not a believer)

there are other ways of doing it

Have you completed your puberty yet?
Religion is just mind control. George Carlin
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8/9/2014 5:08:33 AM
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At 8/8/2014 9:44:06 PM, Truth_seeker wrote:
At 8/8/2014 7:06:44 PM, YamaVonKarma wrote:
At 8/8/2014 6:51:13 PM, Truth_seeker wrote:
At 8/8/2014 6:40:44 PM, YamaVonKarma wrote:
At 8/8/2014 4:28:02 PM, Truth_seeker wrote:
throughout my Christian experience, I've come to learn that flirting, pick up lines, signals, etc. is unscriptural.I kind of used it only because the world was using it, not because the Bible actually says that it should be used. These things are immature and for those who want attraction rather t han a real relationship. My position is that the Bible teaches us how a real relationship works rather than Hollywood.

disagree? Let's start a debate then

Uhh... I started a real relationship like this.

yeah but how many start like that?yeah but how
Mine, my parent's, and my grand parent's.

Lol y'all are exceptions then

Exceptions?

You do realise that the majority of the people of the civilized world start a relationship this way?
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8/9/2014 7:45:30 AM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 8/9/2014 5:08:33 AM, KafkaF wrote:
At 8/8/2014 9:44:06 PM, Truth_seeker wrote:
At 8/8/2014 7:06:44 PM, YamaVonKarma wrote:
At 8/8/2014 6:51:13 PM, Truth_seeker wrote:
At 8/8/2014 6:40:44 PM, YamaVonKarma wrote:
At 8/8/2014 4:28:02 PM, Truth_seeker wrote:
throughout my Christian experience, I've come to learn that flirting, pick up lines, signals, etc. is unscriptural.I kind of used it only because the world was using it, not because the Bible actually says that it should be used. These things are immature and for those who want attraction rather t han a real relationship. My position is that the Bible teaches us how a real relationship works rather than Hollywood.

disagree? Let's start a debate then

Uhh... I started a real relationship like this.

yeah but how many start like that?yeah but how
Mine, my parent's, and my grand parent's.

Lol y'all are exceptions then

Exceptions?

You do realise that the majority of the people of the civilized world start a relationship this way?

Yea and how many of them ended before they had to find the right one?
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8/9/2014 8:16:14 AM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 8/9/2014 7:45:30 AM, Truth_seeker wrote:
At 8/9/2014 5:08:33 AM, KafkaF wrote:
At 8/8/2014 9:44:06 PM, Truth_seeker wrote:
At 8/8/2014 7:06:44 PM, YamaVonKarma wrote:
At 8/8/2014 6:51:13 PM, Truth_seeker wrote:
At 8/8/2014 6:40:44 PM, YamaVonKarma wrote:
At 8/8/2014 4:28:02 PM, Truth_seeker wrote:
throughout my Christian experience, I've come to learn that flirting, pick up lines, signals, etc. is unscriptural.I kind of used it only because the world was using it, not because the Bible actually says that it should be used. These things are immature and for those who want attraction rather t han a real relationship. My position is that the Bible teaches us how a real relationship works rather than Hollywood.

disagree? Let's start a debate then

Uhh... I started a real relationship like this.

yeah but how many start like that?yeah but how
Mine, my parent's, and my grand parent's.

Lol y'all are exceptions then

Exceptions?

You do realise that the majority of the people of the civilized world start a relationship this way?

Yea and how many of them ended before they had to find the right one?

Have you ever had a girlfriend/boyfriend?
Religion is just mind control. George Carlin
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8/9/2014 8:22:27 AM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 8/9/2014 8:16:14 AM, bulproof wrote:
At 8/9/2014 7:45:30 AM, Truth_seeker wrote:
At 8/9/2014 5:08:33 AM, KafkaF wrote:
At 8/8/2014 9:44:06 PM, Truth_seeker wrote:
At 8/8/2014 7:06:44 PM, YamaVonKarma wrote:
At 8/8/2014 6:51:13 PM, Truth_seeker wrote:
At 8/8/2014 6:40:44 PM, YamaVonKarma wrote:
At 8/8/2014 4:28:02 PM, Truth_seeker wrote:
throughout my Christian experience, I've come to learn that flirting, pick up lines, signals, etc. is unscriptural.I kind of used it only because the world was using it, not because the Bible actually says that it should be used. These things are immature and for those who want attraction rather t han a real relationship. My position is that the Bible teaches us how a real relationship works rather than Hollywood.

disagree? Let's start a debate then

Uhh... I started a real relationship like this.

yeah but how many start like that?yeah but how
Mine, my parent's, and my grand parent's.

Lol y'all are exceptions then

Exceptions?

You do realise that the majority of the people of the civilized world start a relationship this way?

Yea and how many of them ended before they had to find the right one?

Have you ever had a girlfriend/boyfriend?

Some and had girls like me, but they never worked out. I was young and didn't know any better, so i had her as an object on the side of me to flirt and what not. Other girls just flirted with me and it went nowhere. I been led on and i think flirting was one of the problems. If i had been careful with how i approach people, it wouldn't have been as bad.
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8/9/2014 8:25:44 AM
Posted: 2 years ago
At 8/9/2014 8:22:27 AM, Truth_seeker wrote:
At 8/9/2014 8:16:14 AM, bulproof wrote:
At 8/9/2014 7:45:30 AM, Truth_seeker wrote:
At 8/9/2014 5:08:33 AM, KafkaF wrote:
At 8/8/2014 9:44:06 PM, Truth_seeker wrote:
At 8/8/2014 7:06:44 PM, YamaVonKarma wrote:
At 8/8/2014 6:51:13 PM, Truth_seeker wrote:
At 8/8/2014 6:40:44 PM, YamaVonKarma wrote:
At 8/8/2014 4:28:02 PM, Truth_seeker wrote:
throughout my Christian experience, I've come to learn that flirting, pick up lines, signals, etc. is unscriptural.I kind of used it only because the world was using it, not because the Bible actually says that it should be used. These things are immature and for those who want attraction rather t han a real relationship. My position is that the Bible teaches us how a real relationship works rather than Hollywood.

disagree? Let's start a debate then

Uhh... I started a real relationship like this.

yeah but how many start like that?yeah but how
Mine, my parent's, and my grand parent's.

Lol y'all are exceptions then

Exceptions?

You do realise that the majority of the people of the civilized world start a relationship this way?

Yea and how many of them ended before they had to find the right one?

Have you ever had a girlfriend/boyfriend?

Some and had girls like me, but they never worked out. I was young and didn't know any better, so i had her as an object on the side of me to flirt and what not. Other girls just flirted with me and it went nowhere. I been led on and i think flirting was one of the problems. If i had been careful with how i approach people, it wouldn't have been as bad.

I asked you in an earlier post if you have completed puberty. Because you don't seem to have.
Religion is just mind control. George Carlin
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8/9/2014 10:45:17 AM
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At 8/8/2014 4:28:02 PM, Truth_seeker wrote:
throughout my Christian experience, I've come to learn that flirting, pick up lines, signals, etc. is unscriptural.I kind of used it only because the world was using it, not because the Bible actually says that it should be used. These things are immature and for those who want attraction rather than a real relationship. My position is that the Bible teaches us how a real relationship works rather than Hollywood.

disagree? Let's start a debate then

The Bible doesn't teach man how to have intercourse with a woman or how to approach her. If you got this out of the Bible, you were using your imagination and false interpretations.

God gave man an incredible urge to mate and no matter how this is done, it was planned by God. There is no appropriate way to have intercourse with someone. If there was an appropriate way to have intercourse, then God would have had His prophets write about it.

Besides, this website http://www.christianmingle.com...= is a great pick-up place for anyone to find a partner to have sex with.
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8/9/2014 10:46:54 AM
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At 8/8/2014 6:22:05 PM, Truth_seeker wrote:
At 8/8/2014 6:06:50 PM, Skepticalone wrote:
At 8/8/2014 4:28:02 PM, Truth_seeker wrote:
throughout my Christian experience, I've come to learn that flirting, pick up lines, signals, etc. is unscriptural.I kind of used it only because the world was using it, not because the Bible actually says that it should be used. These things are immature and for those who want attraction rather than a real relationship. My position is that the Bible teaches us how a real relationship works rather than Hollywood.

disagree? Let's start a debate then

I am unfamiliar with what the Bible says about this, but flirting and lines (when used in the right way) are not harmful. I'm not exactly sure what you mean by signals. As far as it being a sin, I wouldn't be surprised, since it is very easy to commit a sin according to the Bible.

not saying that it's a sin,it's just something that believers shouldn't take part in

Christians love to play god on this earth with their rules that are contrary to God's laws.