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"The Healing Power of Sex Work"

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4/2/2012 7:56:32 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
Tis' a good read, I believe. Makes a liberating sentiment. It is shameful of how we look down upon sex workers.
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4/2/2012 9:49:48 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/2/2012 8:59:54 PM, darkkermit wrote:
i'd pay that girl not to strip

lol Kermy! didn't your mom teach you to respect sex workers!

....wait...
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4/2/2012 10:32:03 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/2/2012 9:49:48 PM, Oryus wrote:
At 4/2/2012 8:59:54 PM, darkkermit wrote:
i'd pay that girl not to strip

lol Kermy! didn't your mom teach you to respect sex workers!




....wait...

In 2008, I made a bill in model legislation that gave women the right to show their breasts in public. I was under the impression that only hot women would take advantage of this. I was greatly mistaken. I have failed my constituents and brought shame to my seat. I gravely apologize. I had no idea how many innocent lives were affected by this bill.
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4/3/2012 2:32:29 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/2/2012 10:32:03 PM, darkkermit wrote:
At 4/2/2012 9:49:48 PM, Oryus wrote:
At 4/2/2012 8:59:54 PM, darkkermit wrote:
i'd pay that girl not to strip

lol Kermy! didn't your mom teach you to respect sex workers!




....wait...

In 2008, I made a bill in model legislation that gave women the right to show their breasts in public. I was under the impression that only hot women would take advantage of this. I was greatly mistaken. I have failed my constituents and brought shame to my seat. I gravely apologize. I had no idea how many innocent lives were affected by this bill.

hey, freedom isn't free, right? I think this is what they mean.
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4/5/2012 5:03:20 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
Prostitutes....such despicable people.
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4/5/2012 5:10:17 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
If I were still single, I wouldn't mind taking a nice chunk of cash and spending it in a clean, high quality brothel like the ones in japan. You only live once, and $10,000 for a foursome in a luxury room with top-line escorts is definitely a life experience XD
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4/5/2012 5:22:13 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/5/2012 5:10:17 PM, Kleptin wrote:
If I were still single, I wouldn't mind taking a nice chunk of cash and spending it in a clean, high quality brothel like the ones in japan. You only live once, and $10,000 for a foursome in a luxury room with top-line escorts is definitely a life experience XD

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10,000 is a little high though...
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4/5/2012 5:24:30 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/5/2012 5:22:13 PM, FREEDO wrote:
At 4/5/2012 5:10:17 PM, Kleptin wrote:
If I were still single, I wouldn't mind taking a nice chunk of cash and spending it in a clean, high quality brothel like the ones in japan. You only live once, and $10,000 for a foursome in a luxury room with top-line escorts is definitely a life experience XD

+1

10,000 is a little high though...

10k seems to be about the right price.. and its probably worth every penny.
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4/5/2012 5:28:16 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/5/2012 5:22:13 PM, FREEDO wrote:
10,000 is a little high though...

For a foursome with legitimately beautiful women who do this professionally? Many people spend over $10,000 just trying to get sex out of ONE beautiful woman.
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4/5/2012 5:43:56 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/5/2012 5:28:16 PM, Kleptin wrote:
At 4/5/2012 5:22:13 PM, FREEDO wrote:
10,000 is a little high though...

For a foursome with legitimately beautiful women who do this professionally? Many people spend over $10,000 just trying to get sex out of ONE beautiful woman.

I feel sorry for you -_-)
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4/5/2012 5:45:07 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/5/2012 5:43:56 PM, Lasagna wrote:
For a foursome with legitimately beautiful women who do this professionally? Many people spend over $10,000 just trying to get sex out of ONE beautiful woman.

I feel sorry for you -_-)

Hey, it's not like I actually forked up the cash, what's there to feel sorry for o.O?
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It isn't about finding a theory, philosophy or doctrine and thinking it's the answer, but a practical application of one's experiences that is the answer.

: At 10/28/2010 2:40:07 PM, jharry wrote: I have already been given the greatest Gift that anyone could ever hope for [Life], I would consider myself selfish if I expected anything more.
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4/5/2012 5:59:21 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/5/2012 5:45:07 PM, Kleptin wrote:
At 4/5/2012 5:43:56 PM, Lasagna wrote:
For a foursome with legitimately beautiful women who do this professionally? Many people spend over $10,000 just trying to get sex out of ONE beautiful woman.

I feel sorry for you -_-)

Hey, it's not like I actually forked up the cash, what's there to feel sorry for o.O?

Well I would feel sorry for you if you did indulge in prostitution. You sound like you would if you could (but probably will actually never do it). You think too much like a DDO libertarian - just because you're technically single now doesn't mean that you aren't going to regret such despicable behavior later on if and when you meet an amazing woman. Having to either lie/hide that type of stuff or else explain it to her would cause her to lose faith/trust in you. Busting a nut or two is not worth it believe me.
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4/6/2012 12:41:31 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/5/2012 5:59:21 PM, Lasagna wrote:
At 4/5/2012 5:45:07 PM, Kleptin wrote:
At 4/5/2012 5:43:56 PM, Lasagna wrote:
For a foursome with legitimately beautiful women who do this professionally? Many people spend over $10,000 just trying to get sex out of ONE beautiful woman.

I feel sorry for you -_-)

Hey, it's not like I actually forked up the cash, what's there to feel sorry for o.O?

Well I would feel sorry for you if you did indulge in prostitution. You sound like you would if you could (but probably will actually never do it). You think too much like a DDO libertarian - just because you're technically single now doesn't mean that you aren't going to regret such despicable behavior later on if and when you meet an amazing woman. Having to either lie/hide that type of stuff or else explain it to her would cause her to lose faith/trust in you. Busting a nut or two is not worth it believe me.

Lol, are you trolling?
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4/6/2012 1:22:06 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/5/2012 5:59:21 PM, Lasagna wrote:
Well I would feel sorry for you if you did indulge in prostitution. You sound like you would if you could (but probably will actually never do it). You think too much like a DDO libertarian - just because you're technically single now doesn't mean that you aren't going to regret such despicable behavior later on if and when you meet an amazing woman. Having to either lie/hide that type of stuff or else explain it to her would cause her to lose faith/trust in you. Busting a nut or two is not worth it believe me.

First of all, I'm *not* technically single now. I wouldn't even consider this if something tragic happened to my significant other and I *became* single. If we're going to analyze whether or not I would have done it and whether or not it would impact my future, let's pretend that I currently have not met the woman I am with now and will eventually meet her sometime later.

I submit that I would have no qualms about doing any of this. Even if I were dating regularly and still had the great family life and social life I enjoy now, I'd still do it. I'd probably invite a few of my best friends along as well :P

While I do admit that sex is best when you have a deep, profound relationship with your partner, I also agree that it is definitely possible to detach yourself from a sexual encounter while fully enjoying it. We're not talking about women who are reluctant and who are doing it to pay for their drugs and medical bills. We're talking about high-priced escorts working with established firms who are used to having thousands of dollars in their pocket at a time, while wearing several thousand dollars worth of clothing and accessories. They're professionals, and they get to choose their clients to some degree :P

That takes care of whether or not I would have done it. Now, would it hurt my relationships later on?

The two main things I would be afraid of are:

A) My having been "spoiled".
B) My girlfriend's insecurities

A is out because of the point I made earlier about the difference between sex with a stranger and sex with someone you love.

B may be of concern, but it hinges on A and my personal understanding that it was a one-time thing I will never need to replicate again. Instead of getting married and spending the rest of my life wondering, I'll be more secure in my relationship and where I am with the person I love.

As for the significance of it, it doesn't even have to do with the orgasm itself. It's the entire situation that I'm paying for, the whole experience.
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It isn't about finding a theory, philosophy or doctrine and thinking it's the answer, but a practical application of one's experiences that is the answer.

: At 10/28/2010 2:40:07 PM, jharry wrote: I have already been given the greatest Gift that anyone could ever hope for [Life], I would consider myself selfish if I expected anything more.
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4/6/2012 2:06:54 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/6/2012 1:22:06 PM, Kleptin wrote:
At 4/5/2012 5:59:21 PM, Lasagna wrote:
Well I would feel sorry for you if you did indulge in prostitution. You sound like you would if you could (but probably will actually never do it). You think too much like a DDO libertarian - just because you're technically single now doesn't mean that you aren't going to regret such despicable behavior later on if and when you meet an amazing woman. Having to either lie/hide that type of stuff or else explain it to her would cause her to lose faith/trust in you. Busting a nut or two is not worth it believe me.

First of all, I'm *not* technically single now. I wouldn't even consider this if something tragic happened to my significant other and I *became* single. If we're going to analyze whether or not I would have done it and whether or not it would impact my future, let's pretend that I currently have not met the woman I am with now and will eventually meet her sometime later.

I submit that I would have no qualms about doing any of this. Even if I were dating regularly and still had the great family life and social life I enjoy now, I'd still do it. I'd probably invite a few of my best friends along as well :P

While I do admit that sex is best when you have a deep, profound relationship with your partner, I also agree that it is definitely possible to detach yourself from a sexual encounter while fully enjoying it. We're not talking about women who are reluctant and who are doing it to pay for their drugs and medical bills. We're talking about high-priced escorts working with established firms who are used to having thousands of dollars in their pocket at a time, while wearing several thousand dollars worth of clothing and accessories. They're professionals, and they get to choose their clients to some degree :P


Jesus. Even I would consider having sex with a woman like that if I could. Keywords: Professional, high-priced, established.

That takes care of whether or not I would have done it. Now, would it hurt my relationships later on?

The two main things I would be afraid of are:

A) My having been "spoiled".
B) My girlfriend's insecurities

A is out because of the point I made earlier about the difference between sex with a stranger and sex with someone you love.

B may be of concern, but it hinges on A and my personal understanding that it was a one-time thing I will never need to replicate again. Instead of getting married and spending the rest of my life wondering, I'll be more secure in my relationship and where I am with the person I love.

As for the significance of it, it doesn't even have to do with the orgasm itself. It's the entire situation that I'm paying for, the whole experience.
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4/8/2012 8:48:34 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/2/2012 7:56:32 PM, FREEDO wrote:
It is shameful of how we look down upon sex workers.

I don't see how society can look down upon sex workers when nearly all of our relationships are nothing but prolonged mating rituals. Our culture definitely looks at sex with cognitive dissonance and that's obvious through so many double standards - the dichotomy between wanting women to be simultaneously slutty and chaste, for instance. It's also kinda like how prostitution (being paid for sex) is illegal, yet if we FILM someone being paid for sex (like a porn star) then somehow it is legal. Obviously there is no moral or especially practical justification for this discrepancy.
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4/8/2012 9:51:28 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/5/2012 5:10:17 PM, Kleptin wrote:
If I were still single, I wouldn't mind taking a nice chunk of cash and spending it in a clean, high quality brothel like the ones in japan. You only live once, and $10,000 for a foursome in a luxury room with top-line escorts is definitely a life experience XD

?

With ten grand to just blow, I can probably end up with four girls in my bed after spending most of it on myself. :\
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4/8/2012 9:57:57 AM
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Sex workers are frowned upon by society (though, not hated, notably), because they trivialize some of the most important aspects of society (creating and establishing a familial unit), while in its latter day, also increasing the number of children born in unstable situations as well as proliferating disease.

This is not to mention the fact that the women are destroying themselves physically, mentally, and emotionally on top of the fact that most of them are kept in the industry through abuse and forced/induced addiction.

If women were considered equal and weren't disenfranchised in this country, there would be no sex industry (although there'd likely be porn). There's easier ways for girls to subside and most sex is free.
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4/8/2012 10:11:03 AM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/5/2012 5:03:20 PM, 1dustpelt wrote:
Prostitutes....such despicable people.

Dude, it's just sex it's not like it really means anything! :P
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4/8/2012 10:19:00 AM
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At 4/8/2012 10:13:29 AM, royalpaladin wrote:
No, actually the people who visit them are the despicable ones.
thats not always true. Lol
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4/8/2012 10:24:58 AM
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At 4/5/2012 5:03:20 PM, 1dustpelt wrote:
Prostitutes....such despicable people.

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4/8/2012 10:29:44 AM
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At 4/8/2012 10:24:58 AM, 16kadams wrote:
At 4/5/2012 5:03:20 PM, 1dustpelt wrote:
Prostitutes....such despicable people.

+1

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4/8/2012 4:48:37 PM
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At 4/8/2012 10:29:44 AM, Deathbeforedishonour wrote:
At 4/8/2012 10:24:58 AM, 16kadams wrote:
At 4/5/2012 5:03:20 PM, 1dustpelt wrote:
Prostitutes....such despicable people.

+1

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4/8/2012 4:55:21 PM
Posted: 4 years ago
At 4/8/2012 4:48:37 PM, 1dustpelt wrote:
At 4/8/2012 10:29:44 AM, Deathbeforedishonour wrote:
At 4/8/2012 10:24:58 AM, 16kadams wrote:
At 4/5/2012 5:03:20 PM, 1dustpelt wrote:
Prostitutes....such despicable people.

+1

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4/8/2012 4:59:43 PM
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At 4/8/2012 10:13:29 AM, royalpaladin wrote:
No, actually the people who visit them are the despicable ones.

+1
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4/8/2012 6:19:54 PM
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At 4/8/2012 4:48:37 PM, 1dustpelt wrote:
At 4/8/2012 10:29:44 AM, Deathbeforedishonour wrote:
At 4/8/2012 10:24:58 AM, 16kadams wrote:
At 4/5/2012 5:03:20 PM, 1dustpelt wrote:
Prostitutes....such despicable people.

+1

Fascist

Idiot

I could say the same about you. However, the title I have given you matched exactly what you believe in a government. You and Adams are Authoritarians therefore, you are fascists. :P
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