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SuperRobotWars
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9/16/2010 4:10:51 PM
Posted: 6 years ago
Premarital sex. I want your opinions.
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: ugly people should beat beautiful people ugly. simple! you'd be killing two birds with the one stone... women like violent men and you're making yourself more attractive, relatively. i met a blonde dude who was prettier than me not so long ago. he's not so pretty now! ha!
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9/16/2010 4:19:43 PM
Posted: 6 years ago
At 9/16/2010 4:10:51 PM, SuperRobotWars wrote:
Premarital sex. I want your opinions.:

Nothing inherently wrong with it, but it has the potential to cause problems with people too immature to handle the responsibility. But being married to have sex only ensures that people will be more likely to get in to a bad marriage because they want to finally have guilt-free sex.
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9/16/2010 4:24:58 PM
Posted: 6 years ago
At 9/16/2010 4:10:51 PM, SuperRobotWars wrote:
Premarital sex. I want your opinions.

Bad.

It usually sucks compared to sex in marriage. Many problems in mental areas. A marriage is what you make of it. If you allow it to be bad then it will be. If you work to make it good then it will be. Simple.

but over all sex before marriage only damages, I've been there and done that. Definitely better on the other side. But then again, I'm not selfish or immature either. Anymore.
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9/16/2010 4:31:47 PM
Posted: 6 years ago
At 9/16/2010 4:10:51 PM, SuperRobotWars wrote:
Premarital sex. I want your opinions.

Wonderful. Just make sure you don't get anyone pregnant.
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9/16/2010 4:35:02 PM
Posted: 6 years ago
At 9/16/2010 4:10:51 PM, SuperRobotWars wrote:
Premarital sex. I want your opinions.

Nothing wrong if your okay with the risks, and/or your in a marriage like serious relationship. Or if your into just for fun then that works I guess.
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9/16/2010 4:35:35 PM
Posted: 6 years ago
At 9/16/2010 4:31:47 PM, tvellalott wrote:
At 9/16/2010 4:10:51 PM, SuperRobotWars wrote:
Premarital sex. I want your opinions.

Wonderful. Just make sure you don't get anyone pregnant.

Take note Panda and lovelife...
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9/16/2010 4:39:31 PM
Posted: 6 years ago
At 9/16/2010 4:35:35 PM, Koopin wrote:
At 9/16/2010 4:31:47 PM, tvellalott wrote:
At 9/16/2010 4:10:51 PM, SuperRobotWars wrote:
Premarital sex. I want your opinions.

Wonderful. Just make sure you don't get anyone pregnant.

Take note Panda and lovelife...
I'll be careful not to get her pregnant.
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9/16/2010 4:47:16 PM
Posted: 6 years ago
At 9/16/2010 4:10:51 PM, SuperRobotWars wrote:
Premarital sex. I want your opinions.

Wonderful, absolutely nothing wrong with it IMO.

just...

don't be a fool, wrap your tool ;)
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9/16/2010 4:47:56 PM
Posted: 6 years ago
At 9/16/2010 4:39:31 PM, lovelife wrote:
At 9/16/2010 4:35:35 PM, Koopin wrote:
At 9/16/2010 4:31:47 PM, tvellalott wrote:
At 9/16/2010 4:10:51 PM, SuperRobotWars wrote:
Premarital sex. I want your opinions.

Wonderful. Just make sure you don't get anyone pregnant.

Take note Panda and lovelife...
I'll be careful not to get her pregnant.

LL is a man?!!???

should have known...
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9/16/2010 4:51:15 PM
Posted: 6 years ago
At 9/16/2010 4:47:56 PM, xxdarkxx wrote:
At 9/16/2010 4:39:31 PM, lovelife wrote:
At 9/16/2010 4:35:35 PM, Koopin wrote:
At 9/16/2010 4:31:47 PM, tvellalott wrote:
At 9/16/2010 4:10:51 PM, SuperRobotWars wrote:
Premarital sex. I want your opinions.

Wonderful. Just make sure you don't get anyone pregnant.

Take note Panda and lovelife...
I'll be careful not to get her pregnant.

LL is a man?!!???

should have known...

In the relationship of me and panda and me and sarah <I think her username is something like theygotstuff idk> I am definately the man. There are a few others where I'm the female tho.
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xxdarkxx
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9/16/2010 4:53:59 PM
Posted: 6 years ago
At 9/16/2010 4:51:15 PM, lovelife wrote:
At 9/16/2010 4:47:56 PM, xxdarkxx wrote:
At 9/16/2010 4:39:31 PM, lovelife wrote:
At 9/16/2010 4:35:35 PM, Koopin wrote:
At 9/16/2010 4:31:47 PM, tvellalott wrote:
At 9/16/2010 4:10:51 PM, SuperRobotWars wrote:
Premarital sex. I want your opinions.

Wonderful. Just make sure you don't get anyone pregnant.

Take note Panda and lovelife...
I'll be careful not to get her pregnant.

LL is a man?!!???

should have known...

In the relationship of me and panda and me and sarah <I think her username is something like theygotstuff idk> I am definately the man. There are a few others where I'm the female tho.

So this means panda is a woman...
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9/16/2010 4:54:20 PM
Posted: 6 years ago
So lemme get this straight, there's a cyber threesome going on in DDO pms?
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9/16/2010 4:55:10 PM
Posted: 6 years ago
and the terms LL is looking for are "top" and "bottom." The terms she's using only denote what kinda tackle yer fishin with.
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9/16/2010 4:56:15 PM
Posted: 6 years ago
At 9/16/2010 4:54:20 PM, Ragnar_Rahl wrote:
So lemme get this straight, there's a cyber threesome going on in DDO pms?

DDO has a love triangle?

oh no... now panda is going to fly to the US wearing a diaper so she never has to stop somewhere and kill lovelife...

it's that astronaut story all over again.
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9/16/2010 4:56:53 PM
Posted: 6 years ago
I'm personally against it, and think everybody should wait, but there's no sense trying to enforce something like that so meh. If you want to have sex then go ahead. Just be responsible and don't get STD's or get anybody pregnant.
lovelife
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9/16/2010 5:27:38 PM
Posted: 6 years ago
At 9/16/2010 4:56:15 PM, xxdarkxx wrote:
At 9/16/2010 4:54:20 PM, Ragnar_Rahl wrote:
So lemme get this straight, there's a cyber threesome going on in DDO pms?

DDO has a love triangle?

oh no... now panda is going to fly to the US wearing a diaper so she never has to stop somewhere and kill lovelife...

it's that astronaut story all over again.

Lol nah no love triangle. Panda isn't even included most of the time. She tries to sneak in cause she thinks she can get involved with the girl on girl but I keep my pimp hand strong, and I get her back in the kitchen soon after.
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SuperRobotWars
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9/21/2010 5:33:07 PM
Posted: 6 years ago
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: At 12/6/2011 2:21:41 PM, badger wrote:
: ugly people should beat beautiful people ugly. simple! you'd be killing two birds with the one stone... women like violent men and you're making yourself more attractive, relatively. i met a blonde dude who was prettier than me not so long ago. he's not so pretty now! ha!
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: ...and well, he wasn't really prettier than me. he just had nice hair.
Danielle
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9/21/2010 5:35:16 PM
Posted: 6 years ago
Sex is healthy and has many benefits as long as you're safe and emotionally prepared (mature). You don't need to be married to enjoy a rewarding sex life.
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9/21/2010 5:45:56 PM
Posted: 6 years ago
At 9/16/2010 4:47:56 PM, xxdarkxx wrote:
At 9/16/2010 4:39:31 PM, lovelife wrote:
At 9/16/2010 4:35:35 PM, Koopin wrote:
At 9/16/2010 4:31:47 PM, tvellalott wrote:
At 9/16/2010 4:10:51 PM, SuperRobotWars wrote:
Premarital sex. I want your opinions.

Wonderful. Just make sure you don't get anyone pregnant.

Take note Panda and lovelife...
I'll be careful not to get her pregnant.

LL is a man?!!???

should have known...

Well, it's up in the air given her pictures. Plus, she is a huge dick.
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9/21/2010 8:29:37 PM
Posted: 6 years ago
At 9/16/2010 4:24:58 PM, jharry wrote:
At 9/16/2010 4:10:51 PM, SuperRobotWars wrote:
Premarital sex. I want your opinions.

Bad.

It usually sucks compared to sex in marriage. Many problems in mental areas. A marriage is what you make of it. If you allow it to be bad then it will be. If you work to make it good then it will be. Simple.

but over all sex before marriage only damages, I've been there and done that. Definitely better on the other side. But then again, I'm not selfish or immature either. Anymore.

Sources?
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9/21/2010 10:25:55 PM
Posted: 6 years ago
At 9/16/2010 4:24:58 PM, jharry wrote:
But then again, I'm not selfish or immature either. Anymore.

People who have sex before marriage are not selfish or immature on the basis of that act alone. Please.
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jharry
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9/22/2010 7:36:49 AM
Posted: 6 years ago
At 9/21/2010 10:25:55 PM, theLwerd wrote:
At 9/16/2010 4:24:58 PM, jharry wrote:
But then again, I'm not selfish or immature either. Anymore.

People who have sex before marriage are not selfish or immature on the basis of that act alone. Please.

And I was referring to myself in that out of context quote. :)

I believe it destroys the bonds that are formed during sex. Tends to emotionally detach people from others.
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9/22/2010 8:35:28 AM
Posted: 6 years ago
At 9/16/2010 4:24:58 PM, jharry wrote:
Bad.

It usually sucks compared to sex in marriage. Many problems in mental areas. A marriage is what you make of it. If you allow it to be bad then it will be. If you work to make it good then it will be. Simple.

but over all sex before marriage only damages, I've been there and done that. Definitely better on the other side. But then again, I'm not selfish or immature either. Anymore.

Marriage can just be on paper. Given that a couple is committed, devoted, and mature enough, there should be no difference between sex before or after the ceremony and the legal issues.

Marriage is a long process and getting married isn't simply an issue between two people. It's a big deal to the families involved as well. It's also a huge chunk of time and for people finishing up college or just starting their careers, it can be a huge hassle.

Premarital sex is taboo to the religious community because they view it as an abuse of nature for meaningless pleasure, I can understand that. However, two people who have committed to each other and who are essentially married in spirit shouldn't have to go through all the hassle and formality if they want to share in the intimacy of sex. It actually improves the bond and cements them together even better.

Premarital sex is NOT always the same as casual or loveless sex.
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9/22/2010 10:11:51 AM
Posted: 6 years ago
At 9/22/2010 7:36:49 AM, jharry wrote:
At 9/21/2010 10:25:55 PM, theLwerd wrote:
At 9/16/2010 4:24:58 PM, jharry wrote:
But then again, I'm not selfish or immature either. Anymore.

People who have sex before marriage are not selfish or immature on the basis of that act alone. Please.

And I was referring to myself in that out of context quote. :)

I believe it destroys the bonds that are formed during sex. Tends to emotionally detach people from others.
Destroys the bonds formed during sex... How is this different from marital sex at all? Sex is sex, the only difference is how you go about doing it.
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9/22/2010 11:37:12 AM
Posted: 6 years ago
At 9/22/2010 8:35:28 AM, Kleptin wrote:
At 9/16/2010 4:24:58 PM, jharry wrote:
Bad.

It usually sucks compared to sex in marriage. Many problems in mental areas. A marriage is what you make of it. If you allow it to be bad then it will be. If you work to make it good then it will be. Simple.

but over all sex before marriage only damages, I've been there and done that. Definitely better on the other side. But then again, I'm not selfish or immature either. Anymore.

Marriage can just be on paper. Given that a couple is committed, devoted, and mature enough, there should be no difference between sex before or after the ceremony and the legal issues.
It is a very important piece of part. It is just a piece of paper but I think it is the significance behind the paper that is important. I've learned the importance of the piece of paper in my experiences in marriage. That piece of paper is supposed to mean that I am willingly dedicating my life to another person. People seem to take that for granted now a days. It wasn't until after living it does it become so important. The statistics show that even as divorce rates grow they are still more likely to remain together then in a non-married relationship. I know that doesn't prove anything because there are exceptions. But overall there is a difference.

Marriage is a long process and getting married isn't simply an issue between two people. It's a big deal to the families involved as well. It's also a huge chunk of time and for people finishing up college or just starting their careers, it can be a huge hassle.
I can only speak of this personally. The hassle is nothing when compared to the love and commitment I have for my wife. I have come to realize there are things that matter, and far more that don't. Just my opinion though, I'm sure others probably have different values. It was a huge hassle to get married, we were broke with a child on the way. But like I said, some things matter to us that may not to others.

Premarital sex is taboo to the religious community because they view it as an abuse of nature for meaningless pleasure, I can understand that. However, two people who have committed to each other and who are essentially married in spirit shouldn't have to go through all the hassle and formality if they want to share in the intimacy of sex. It actually improves the bond and cements them together even better.
True. But it still seems that without the commitment that marriage brings there may be something just not right. Just speculation.

Premarital sex is NOT always the same as casual or loveless sex.
No it is not. But I have a hard time understanding why two people that are fully committed to each other won't want to show their love and commitment for each other.
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9/22/2010 1:45:29 PM
Posted: 6 years ago
At 9/22/2010 10:11:51 AM, Atheism wrote:
At 9/22/2010 7:36:49 AM, jharry wrote:
At 9/21/2010 10:25:55 PM, theLwerd wrote:
At 9/16/2010 4:24:58 PM, jharry wrote:
But then again, I'm not selfish or immature either. Anymore.

People who have sex before marriage are not selfish or immature on the basis of that act alone. Please.

And I was referring to myself in that out of context quote. :)

I believe it destroys the bonds that are formed during sex. Tends to emotionally detach people from others.
Destroys the bonds formed during sex... How is this different from marital sex at all? Sex is sex, the only difference is how you go about doing it.
Another thing, there are no bonds formed during sex, it is a physical activity that requires literally no mental thinking at all. Unless you two are talking to each other during which (which would be very awkward), there would be no bonds formed.
Sex when not married=DESTROYS BONDS!
Sex when married=Somehow strengthens them.
What?
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9/22/2010 1:48:44 PM
Posted: 6 years ago
At 9/22/2010 1:45:29 PM, Atheism wrote:
Sex when not married=DESTROYS BONDS!
Sex when married=Somehow strengthens them.
What?
If you never eat anything besides an apple in your life, you may not desire anything else because it may not be good for you. If, however, you taste an orange and grape, then it might be hard to settle on one fruit only, even though it may be the safest choice for you.

I hope you understand what I mean.
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9/22/2010 1:51:34 PM
Posted: 6 years ago
At 9/22/2010 1:48:44 PM, Mirza wrote:
If you never eat anything besides an apple in your life, you may not desire anything else because it may not be good for you. If, however, you taste an orange and grape, then it might be hard to settle on one fruit only, even though it may be the safest choice for you.

I hope you understand what I mean.

Or you could eat the apple, not like it, and never enjoy the fruits of life ever again.
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9/22/2010 1:52:06 PM
Posted: 6 years ago
At 9/22/2010 1:48:44 PM, Mirza wrote:
At 9/22/2010 1:45:29 PM, Atheism wrote:
Sex when not married=DESTROYS BONDS!
Sex when married=Somehow strengthens them.
What?
If you never eat anything besides an apple in your life, you may not desire anything else because it may not be good for you. If, however, you taste an orange and grape, then it might be hard to settle on one fruit only, even though it may be the safest choice for you.

I hope you understand what I mean.

So we should arrest people who consensually choose to eat these oranges and grapes, causing no harm but harm to themselves simply because grapes and oranges aren't as healthy.
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9/22/2010 2:09:18 PM
Posted: 6 years ago
At 9/22/2010 1:52:06 PM, I-am-a-panda wrote:
So we should arrest people who consensually choose to eat these oranges and grapes, causing no harm but harm to themselves simply because grapes and oranges aren't as healthy.

Crazy libertarians think every statement ever made involves the government.

Mirza said nothing about "arresting" anyone lol. He's against it for moral (religious) reasons.
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