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9/25/2010 9:39:19 PM
Posted: 6 years ago
Since we're talking about sex, I may as well generate some new ideas.

Do you guys think a threesome experience would be beneficial in the realm of sex? Detrimental? Depends too much on a person's preferences and expectations?

If any of you have had a threesome, would you care to explain how you felt about it?
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9/25/2010 10:05:06 PM
Posted: 6 years ago
At 9/25/2010 9:46:51 PM, Cody_Franklin wrote:
I've always wanted to give it a shot. Two girls, obviously.

This.

However, I would never consider having a threesome while I was in a relationship. That would be a huge mistake.
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9/25/2010 10:05:45 PM
Posted: 6 years ago
At 9/25/2010 10:05:06 PM, tvellalott wrote:
At 9/25/2010 9:46:51 PM, Cody_Franklin wrote:
I've always wanted to give it a shot. Two girls, obviously.

This.

However, I would never consider having a threesome while I was in a relationship. That would be a huge mistake.
What if (s)he wants it?
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9/25/2010 10:07:03 PM
Posted: 6 years ago
At 9/25/2010 10:05:45 PM, Atheism wrote:
At 9/25/2010 10:05:06 PM, tvellalott wrote:
At 9/25/2010 9:46:51 PM, Cody_Franklin wrote:
I've always wanted to give it a shot. Two girls, obviously.

This.

However, I would never consider having a threesome while I was in a relationship. That would be a huge mistake.
What if (s)he wants it?

Then absolutely not.
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9/25/2010 10:08:04 PM
Posted: 6 years ago
At 9/25/2010 10:07:03 PM, Reasoning wrote:
At 9/25/2010 10:05:45 PM, Atheism wrote:
At 9/25/2010 10:05:06 PM, tvellalott wrote:
At 9/25/2010 9:46:51 PM, Cody_Franklin wrote:
I've always wanted to give it a shot. Two girls, obviously.

This.

However, I would never consider having a threesome while I was in a relationship. That would be a huge mistake.
What if (s)he wants it?

Then absolutely not.
So it only turns you on if you are disobeying her/his wishes?
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9/25/2010 10:10:48 PM
Posted: 6 years ago
At 9/25/2010 10:08:04 PM, Atheism wrote:
At 9/25/2010 10:07:03 PM, Reasoning wrote:
At 9/25/2010 10:05:45 PM, Atheism wrote:
At 9/25/2010 10:05:06 PM, tvellalott wrote:
At 9/25/2010 9:46:51 PM, Cody_Franklin wrote:
I've always wanted to give it a shot. Two girls, obviously.

This.

However, I would never consider having a threesome while I was in a relationship. That would be a huge mistake.
What if (s)he wants it?

Then absolutely not.
So it only turns you on if you are disobeying her/his wishes?

If I was in a relationship with a girl, and she was also into women, I would be her porn director, threesome assistant, you name it.

Why does it seem like a lot of men don't like their partners being bisexual? I would find nothing hotter than seeing my partner fvck another hot woman.
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9/25/2010 10:20:44 PM
Posted: 6 years ago
At 9/25/2010 10:10:48 PM, studentathletechristian8 wrote:
At 9/25/2010 10:08:04 PM, Atheism wrote:
At 9/25/2010 10:07:03 PM, Reasoning wrote:
At 9/25/2010 10:05:45 PM, Atheism wrote:
At 9/25/2010 10:05:06 PM, tvellalott wrote:
At 9/25/2010 9:46:51 PM, Cody_Franklin wrote:
I've always wanted to give it a shot. Two girls, obviously.

This.

However, I would never consider having a threesome while I was in a relationship. That would be a huge mistake.
What if (s)he wants it?

Then absolutely not.
So it only turns you on if you are disobeying her/his wishes?

If I was in a relationship with a girl, and she was also into women, I would be her porn director, threesome assistant, you name it.

Why does it seem like a lot of men don't like their partners being bisexual? I would find nothing hotter than seeing my partner fvck another hot woman.

If my girlfriend wants to fvck other women, she shouldn't be in a relationship with me. I'm setting standards. I won't have sex with anyone else, man or women and she does the same. A threesome involving a couple can go wrong so many ways. I'm not going to pretend like I'm not going to be jealous of my partner getting her rocks off with someone else and I sure has hell wouldn't want to be in a relationship with someone who wouldn't get jealous watching me have sex with another women.
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9/25/2010 10:22:45 PM
Posted: 6 years ago
At 9/25/2010 10:20:44 PM, tvellalott wrote:
At 9/25/2010 10:10:48 PM, studentathletechristian8 wrote:
At 9/25/2010 10:08:04 PM, Atheism wrote:
At 9/25/2010 10:07:03 PM, Reasoning wrote:
At 9/25/2010 10:05:45 PM, Atheism wrote:
At 9/25/2010 10:05:06 PM, tvellalott wrote:
At 9/25/2010 9:46:51 PM, Cody_Franklin wrote:
I've always wanted to give it a shot. Two girls, obviously.

This.

However, I would never consider having a threesome while I was in a relationship. That would be a huge mistake.
What if (s)he wants it?

Then absolutely not.
So it only turns you on if you are disobeying her/his wishes?

If I was in a relationship with a girl, and she was also into women, I would be her porn director, threesome assistant, you name it.

Why does it seem like a lot of men don't like their partners being bisexual? I would find nothing hotter than seeing my partner fvck another hot woman.

If my girlfriend wants to fvck other women, she shouldn't be in a relationship with me. I'm setting standards. I won't have sex with anyone else, man or women and she does the same. A threesome involving a couple can go wrong so many ways. I'm not going to pretend like I'm not going to be jealous of my partner getting her rocks off with someone else and I sure has hell wouldn't want to be in a relationship with someone who wouldn't get jealous watching me have sex with another women.

I agree completely with ^^^^

same reason why I never have understood the concept of swinging

further

threesome = not all it's cracked up to be
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9/25/2010 10:53:06 PM
Posted: 6 years ago
I don't see it as cheating if its two girls and I get to watch, that's just a rule I think I'll set up to be used or not used by anyone I'm involved with at their leisure. But people can agree on different standards with their SO here.

As for the original topic, well yeah, there's no way I'd pass it up. It's not a deal killer if it doesn't happen, but there's at least 8 things I'd like to try off the top of my head that require three participants.
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9/25/2010 10:54:22 PM
Posted: 6 years ago
At 9/25/2010 10:53:06 PM, Ragnar_Rahl wrote:
I don't see it as cheating if its two girls and I get to watch, that's just a rule I think I'll set up to be used or not used by anyone I'm involved with at their leisure. But people can agree on different standards with their SO here.

As for the original topic, well yeah, there's no way I'd pass it up. It's not a deal killer if it doesn't happen, but there's at least 8 things I'd like to try off the top of my head that require three participants.

Like I said, I'd love to try it, but not with a girlfriend.
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9/25/2010 10:58:03 PM
Posted: 6 years ago
At 9/25/2010 10:54:22 PM, tvellalott wrote:
At 9/25/2010 10:53:06 PM, Ragnar_Rahl wrote:
I don't see it as cheating if its two girls and I get to watch, that's just a rule I think I'll set up to be used or not used by anyone I'm involved with at their leisure. But people can agree on different standards with their SO here.

As for the original topic, well yeah, there's no way I'd pass it up. It's not a deal killer if it doesn't happen, but there's at least 8 things I'd like to try off the top of my head that require three participants.

Like I said, I'd love to try it, but not with a girlfriend.

It all depends on what kind of girlfriend really. Is it the sort who will go crazy and make life suck if she has a jealousy freakout, or the sort who will decide I have to be punished and then we forgot the issue, or some other sort? Unfortunately, all these variables can only be hypothetically evaluated at the present time :P.

That said, I can't see myself ever PROPOSING that such an event takes place.
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9/25/2010 11:00:36 PM
Posted: 6 years ago
At 9/25/2010 10:58:03 PM, Ragnar_Rahl wrote:
At 9/25/2010 10:54:22 PM, tvellalott wrote:
At 9/25/2010 10:53:06 PM, Ragnar_Rahl wrote:
I don't see it as cheating if its two girls and I get to watch, that's just a rule I think I'll set up to be used or not used by anyone I'm involved with at their leisure. But people can agree on different standards with their SO here.

As for the original topic, well yeah, there's no way I'd pass it up. It's not a deal killer if it doesn't happen, but there's at least 8 things I'd like to try off the top of my head that require three participants.

Like I said, I'd love to try it, but not with a girlfriend.

It all depends on what kind of girlfriend really. Is it the sort who will go crazy and make life suck if she has a jealousy freakout, or the sort who will decide I have to be punished and then we forgot the issue, or some other sort? Unfortunately, all these variables can only be hypothetically evaluated at the present time :P.

That said, I can't see myself ever PROPOSING that such an event takes place.

Yeah, I've only been in one long-term relationship and I sure as hell wouldn't have wanted to bring another women into that.
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9/26/2010 8:56:56 AM
Posted: 6 years ago
At 9/25/2010 9:39:19 PM, studentathletechristian8 wrote:
Since we're talking about sex, I may as well generate some new ideas.

Do you guys think a threesome experience would be beneficial in the realm of sex? Detrimental? Depends too much on a person's preferences and expectations?

If any of you have had a threesome, would you care to explain how you felt about it?:

Overrated.
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9/27/2010 7:35:26 AM
Posted: 6 years ago
At 9/25/2010 10:10:48 PM, studentathletechristian8 wrote:
At 9/25/2010 10:08:04 PM, Atheism wrote:
At 9/25/2010 10:07:03 PM, Reasoning wrote:
At 9/25/2010 10:05:45 PM, Atheism wrote:
At 9/25/2010 10:05:06 PM, tvellalott wrote:
At 9/25/2010 9:46:51 PM, Cody_Franklin wrote:
I've always wanted to give it a shot. Two girls, obviously.

This.

However, I would never consider having a threesome while I was in a relationship. That would be a huge mistake.
What if (s)he wants it?

Then absolutely not.
So it only turns you on if you are disobeying her/his wishes?

If I was in a relationship with a girl, and she was also into women, I would be her porn director, threesome assistant, you name it.

Why does it seem like a lot of men don't like their partners being bisexual? I would find nothing hotter than seeing my partner fvck another hot woman.

Exactly.
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9/27/2010 4:09:59 PM
Posted: 6 years ago
At 9/27/2010 7:35:26 AM, lovelife wrote:
At 9/25/2010 10:10:48 PM, studentathletechristian8 wrote:
At 9/25/2010 10:08:04 PM, Atheism wrote:
At 9/25/2010 10:07:03 PM, Reasoning wrote:
At 9/25/2010 10:05:45 PM, Atheism wrote:
At 9/25/2010 10:05:06 PM, tvellalott wrote:
At 9/25/2010 9:46:51 PM, Cody_Franklin wrote:
I've always wanted to give it a shot. Two girls, obviously.

This.

However, I would never consider having a threesome while I was in a relationship. That would be a huge mistake.
What if (s)he wants it?

Then absolutely not.
So it only turns you on if you are disobeying her/his wishes?

If I was in a relationship with a girl, and she was also into women, I would be her porn director, threesome assistant, you name it.

Why does it seem like a lot of men don't like their partners being bisexual? I would find nothing hotter than seeing my partner fvck another hot woman.

Exactly.

You say that now. I doubt you'd feel the same way if you were faced with the situation. Would you want to watch your boyfriend fvck this other women? Skilled as some of us are, it is still only possible to have sex with one person at a time.
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9/27/2010 4:52:28 PM
Posted: 6 years ago
Skilled as some of us are, it is still only possible to have sex with one person at a time.

That's mostly a matter of definition.
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9/27/2010 9:47:45 PM
Posted: 6 years ago
At 9/27/2010 4:09:59 PM, tvellalott wrote:
At 9/27/2010 7:35:26 AM, lovelife wrote:
At 9/25/2010 10:10:48 PM, studentathletechristian8 wrote:
At 9/25/2010 10:08:04 PM, Atheism wrote:
At 9/25/2010 10:07:03 PM, Reasoning wrote:
At 9/25/2010 10:05:45 PM, Atheism wrote:
At 9/25/2010 10:05:06 PM, tvellalott wrote:
At 9/25/2010 9:46:51 PM, Cody_Franklin wrote:
I've always wanted to give it a shot. Two girls, obviously.

This.

However, I would never consider having a threesome while I was in a relationship. That would be a huge mistake.
What if (s)he wants it?

Then absolutely not.
So it only turns you on if you are disobeying her/his wishes?

If I was in a relationship with a girl, and she was also into women, I would be her porn director, threesome assistant, you name it.

Why does it seem like a lot of men don't like their partners being bisexual? I would find nothing hotter than seeing my partner fvck another hot woman.

Exactly.

You say that now. I doubt you'd feel the same way if you were faced with the situation. Would you want to watch your boyfriend fvck this other women? Skilled as some of us are, it is still only possible to have sex with one person at a time.

Well it depends on the situation. He was actually dating this other girl and I didn't mind at all until I talked to her and she thought she was his gf and she was "just going to let me come over cause I was a poor depressed and lonely friend of his that was obsessed with him." then I started minding. turns out he dumped her <cause she cheated on him, before they were going out, lmao> so thats better and his current gf-ish person knows that its just a cover. I've talked to her and she's cool even tho she just knows me as his gf <hey she knows me as his gf, thats an improvement over some random pyscho american crazy chick> I don't mnd that he slept at her house, saw her getting undressed, wants to fvck her etc, I just mind any lies that are involved.
As far as the sex part goes I honestly have no clue how that will play out cause I have 0 sex experience, 0 porn expiernce (except for a sh^tty @ss lez porn that couldn't get me turned on at all) so reallyit is a see as you go thing but I don't think I would mind.

I guess women are just better on that since they can just keeo having sex and <straight> guys are sorta limited.
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10/9/2010 1:00:44 PM
Posted: 6 years ago
A threesome sounds like it would be fun and i'd be willing to give it a try if my partner wanted to try it as well.
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10/9/2010 1:02:04 PM
Posted: 6 years ago
At 10/9/2010 1:00:44 PM, Kangetsu wrote:
A threesome sounds like it would be fun and i'd be willing to give it a try if my partner wanted to try it as well.

Can I book a reservation?
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10/9/2010 1:12:30 PM
Posted: 6 years ago
At 10/9/2010 1:07:00 PM, Kangetsu wrote:
Can I book a reservation?
Haha, maybe later.

Now's later.
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10/9/2010 1:21:23 PM
Posted: 6 years ago
Okay, how about when you're legal and I now you A LOT better.
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10/9/2010 3:51:47 PM
Posted: 6 years ago
At 10/9/2010 1:21:23 PM, Kangetsu wrote:
Okay, how about when you're legal and I now you A LOT better.

I think this conversation has moved from sarcasm to a type of perverted realistic ordeal.
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10/9/2010 7:58:46 PM
Posted: 6 years ago
: At 10/9/2010 3:51:47 PM, studentathletechristian8 wrote:
At 10/9/2010 1:21:23 PM, Kangetsu wrote:
Okay, how about when you're legal and I now you A LOT better.

I think this conversation has moved from sarcasm to a type of perverted realistic ordeal.


Really didn't mean for it to.
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10/9/2010 8:47:00 PM
Posted: 6 years ago
At 10/9/2010 7:58:46 PM, Kangetsu wrote:
: At 10/9/2010 3:51:47 PM, studentathletechristian8 wrote:
At 10/9/2010 1:21:23 PM, Kangetsu wrote:
Okay, how about when you're legal and I now you A LOT better.

I think this conversation has moved from sarcasm to a type of perverted realistic ordeal.


Really didn't mean for it to.

It's fine. The more conversation the better.