sex *18 years or older only*

Yes another sex thread. Right now my girlfriend is screaming at me to run to the store and grab condoms.. so ill be offline for a bit. My question to DDO is how often do you have sex? Me and my girl will maybe two 2-3 time a week tops, which we feel is a moderate amount. What do you consider average sex? I know this will vary on your age, but I am generally interested.

Had it once. Didn't really like it, but probably because he was not any good.

At 4/3/2012 11:06:34 PM, royalpaladin wrote:
Had it once. Didn't really like it, but probably because he was not any good.

http://drphil...

Perhaps sex for women is like marijuana, you can't get high/orgasm your first time.

At 4/3/2012 11:01:50 PM, TUF wrote:
Yes another sex thread. Right now my girlfriend is screaming at me to run to the store and grab condoms.. so ill be offline for a bit. My question to DDO is how often do you have sex? Me and my girl will maybe two 2-3 time a week tops, which we feel is a moderate amount. What do you consider average sex? I know this will vary on your age, but I am generally interested.

WTF are you doing on an internet forum when sex is that close?!

My wife and I are probably only a few times a month, we have friends that use to have it multiple times a day (and that was still after they were married). It really depends on the person. So long as both people are happy with the quantity and QUALITY of the sex, keep doing what you're doing.

At 4/3/2012 11:12:03 PM, Ore_Ele wrote:

At 4/3/2012 11:01:50 PM, TUF wrote:
Yes another sex thread. Right now my girlfriend is screaming at me to run to the store and grab condoms.. so ill be offline for a bit. My question to DDO is how often do you have sex? Me and my girl will maybe two 2-3 time a week tops, which we feel is a moderate amount. What do you consider average sex? I know this will vary on your age, but I am generally interested.

WTF are you doing on an internet forum when sex is that close?!

My wife and I are probably only a few times a month, we have friends that use to have it multiple times a day (and that was still after they were married). It really depends on the person. So long as both people are happy with the quantity and QUALITY of the sex, keep doing what you're doing.

This^

and @TUF- about the same amount as you. Depends on if we're on vacation or not :)

At 4/3/2012 11:06:34 PM, royalpaladin wrote:
Had it once. Didn't really like it, but probably because he was not any good.

I did not like my first time either.

At 4/3/2012 11:21:05 PM, Oryus wrote:

At 4/3/2012 11:06:34 PM, royalpaladin wrote:
Had it once. Didn't really like it, but probably because he was not any good.

I did not like my first time either.

What motivated you to try it again? Honestly, I think that it is definitely falsely made out to be completely awesome when it really is not . . .

At 4/3/2012 11:06:34 PM, royalpaladin wrote:
Had it once. Didn't really like it, but probably because he was not any good.

no worries. it's always better the second time. here's a few tips to make it better: 1. you have to learn what you like... through experience, and experimenting hehe 2. you have to tell your partner what you like. 3. your partner has to be willing to give you what you want.

anyway, to answer the question, it just depends on mood... sometimes a few times a week, sometimes a few times a day or a few times in a row... it's been a while now though for certain reasons and i'm kinda going crazy tbh O.o

what is up with ddo and the sex talks lately? not that i mind it.. :P

I should probably mention that when my wife and I were first going out (back in HS) we had sex probably as often as we could (about once a week). And before anyone says that marriage slowed down our sex drive, we actually started slowing down awhile before we got married. Heck, when I moved out of state for college, I'd come back for a weekend and spend the entire weekend with her, spending the nights at her house, not my parents (my parents knew from phone records, they were crafty). And over the entire weekend, we'd probably only have sex once.

At 4/3/2012 11:22:13 PM, royalpaladin wrote:

At 4/3/2012 11:21:05 PM, Oryus wrote:

At 4/3/2012 11:06:34 PM, royalpaladin wrote:
Had it once. Didn't really like it, but probably because he was not any good.

I did not like my first time either.

What motivated you to try it again? Honestly, I think that it is definitely falsely made out to be completely awesome when it really is not . . .

no, it really is awesome. dude, just find the right guy who knows what to do.... and once he learns your body, its butter.

Once a week.

At 4/3/2012 11:22:35 PM, Lickdafoot wrote:

At 4/3/2012 11:06:34 PM, royalpaladin wrote:
Had it once. Didn't really like it, but probably because he was not any good.

no worries. it's always better the second time. here's a few tips to make it better: 1. you have to learn what you like... through experience, and experimenting hehe 2. you have to tell your partner what you like. 3. your partner has to be willing to give you what you want.

Though, you should also remember to do the same for you partner (not saying anyone is being selfish or anything, just that it is easy while in the mood to forgot to do what they want).

To also be honest, you have to be willing to try what you think you might like (or what they might like) without judging. My wife and I have tried a number of things that we've realized that we don't really care for.

anyway, to answer the question, it just depends on mood... sometimes a few times a week, sometimes a few times a day or a few times in a row... it's been a while now though for certain reasons and i'm kinda going crazy tbh O.o

You should totally give me a call, jk

what is up with ddo and the sex talks lately? not that i mind it.. :P

By the way, how did this, over the course of a single page, go from "how often you have sex" to "sex tips 101"?

I'm just going to put this out there....

I am the world's most cunning linguist, performing such spectacles of oral gymnastics as the Venus butterfly and the Saturday night special.

Every ten minutes

At 4/3/2012 11:22:13 PM, royalpaladin wrote:

At 4/3/2012 11:21:05 PM, Oryus wrote:

At 4/3/2012 11:06:34 PM, royalpaladin wrote:
Had it once. Didn't really like it, but probably because he was not any good.

I did not like my first time either.

What motivated you to try it again? Honestly, I think that it is definitely falsely made out to be completely awesome when it really is not . . .

Well, I certainly was aware that I could have orgasms. And I knew that it is a process. Nobody's a porn star the first time out. You have to learn what you like, what the other person likes, etc. Experiment- within reason and with what you're comfortable with and want, of course. I knew it had the potential to be awesome. It's usually awesome if both people know what they like and are willing/able to share that info and work with what the other person likes. A sort of sexy compromise, if you will. If someone isn't willing to work with you- it's probably going to be a waste of time and not be fun or feel good.

I've been with my boyfriend for about four years now and we're still getting better at it.

At 4/3/2012 11:29:31 PM, Ore_Ele wrote:
By the way, how did this, over the course of a single page, go from "how often you have sex" to "sex tips 101"?

royals comment

At 4/3/2012 11:30:44 PM, thett3 wrote:
Every ten minutes

Let me guess...with your cat?

At 4/3/2012 11:30:44 PM, thett3 wrote:
Every ten minutes

Ooooh ;)

At 4/3/2012 11:32:36 PM, Deathbeforedishonour wrote:

At 4/3/2012 11:30:44 PM, thett3 wrote:
Every ten minutes

Let me guess...with your cat?

Nope. With me.

http://www.memecenter.com/fun/182499/hot-date

7 times a day.

At 4/3/2012 11:33:03 PM, royalpaladin wrote:

At 4/3/2012 11:32:36 PM, Deathbeforedishonour wrote:

At 4/3/2012 11:30:44 PM, thett3 wrote:
Every ten minutes

Let me guess...with your cat?

Nope. With me.

At 4/3/2012 11:06:34 PM, royalpaladin wrote:
Had it once. Didn't really like it, but probably because he was not any good.

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lol I just noticed LDF and I gave basically the same exact advice.

HIGH-FIVE!

At 4/3/2012 11:33:03 PM, royalpaladin wrote:

At 4/3/2012 11:32:36 PM, Deathbeforedishonour wrote:

At 4/3/2012 11:30:44 PM, thett3 wrote:
Every ten minutes

Let me guess...with your cat?

Nope. With me.

I doubt it.

O: At 4/3/2012 11:33:47 PM, Koopin wrote:

http://www.memecenter...

7 times a minute.

Fixed.

At 4/3/2012 11:30:44 PM, thett3 wrote:
Every ten minutes

Teeeen minutes... pshaww

I came here for the lolz. And instead I got a serious thread about sex. >:(

At 4/3/2012 11:35:35 PM, Koopin wrote:
I came here for the lolz. And instead I got a serious thread about sex. >:(

Sex is a serious thing. :P

At 4/3/2012 11:34:02 PM, Deathbeforedishonour wrote:

At 4/3/2012 11:33:03 PM, royalpaladin wrote:

At 4/3/2012 11:32:36 PM, Deathbeforedishonour wrote:

At 4/3/2012 11:30:44 PM, thett3 wrote:
Every ten minutes

Let me guess...with your cat?

Nope. With me.

I doubt it.

I would totally make some snarky remark if your avatar didnt prove that you're probably bigger, tougher, and stronger than me :)

Oh right, OP had a question.

I have sex as often as I possibly can, but it comes down to my girlfriend. When she's horny... it gets messy (herr herr). 3 times in 2 hours is not unusual for us. At least once a night is a given, but we don't live together so it averages out to a couple of times a week.

To put it in retrospect, when we house sat for my cousin we had sex 13 times in 4 days. I was quite sore by the end. ;) We're looking to get our own place in the next couple of months, so I'm sure it will be 5+ times a week.