Lying is something that has to be done depending on the situation. Everyone lies or has lied. So what is the big deal about lying. I don't understand how people can say "Lying is never the right thing," because everyone lies ! I lie, you Lie, we all lie!
I do not condone lying, but there are times when a white lie is needed to get by. Working as a street medic, there are times when I have to tell a critical patient that they are OK and going to be alright to try and institute some sort of hope in them to keep going. Although I know it is wrong to do sometimes, I feel as though I have to give them something to hold on to, so that they don't throw themselves down the well.
It is morally acceptable to lie when a falsehood protects someone from physical or emotional harm. Moreover, little white lies are socially accepted when they do no harm. For instance, telling a child that their drawing is nice or that their story is clever, or telling new parents that their baby is the cutest ever are both examples of this.
We always lie and sometimes, we even make a lie SO big that sometimes you don't even know how to handle it. However, lying might be necessary sometimes. For example, it can stop your friend from being depressed or to even go more stronger, you can stop your friends from DEATH! Although I do not prefer lying lots of times but I believe sometimes you must lie in order to make others happy as known as 'White Lie'.
In some situations when a person lies to ensure another are not negatively affected by the truth. In events where ‘the liar’ refrains from harming another’s emotions, attempt to not allow a person to make a great mistake, or helping others, it is encouraged to lie for the greater good.
First of all, there are different types of lies. There are lies that can start wars, hatred and bloodshed, and there are also lies that can spare the feelings of loved ones. The definition of a lie is intentionally telling a false statement. However, I believe that this is a very shallow definition and that lying does not always have a negative outcome.
Honoring a code of conduct between loved ones is also another reason that lying is justifiable. For example, when you know that your friends feelings may be hurt when you tell them the truth
Then you would try as much as possible to tell them the truth as they are your friends and you would hate for them to feel hurt or to be offended by something that you had said.
Let's say your friend recently got in a fight with her husband and decided she felt safer spending the night at your place. Later, her husband shows up at your door holding a weapon, obviously very agitated, and asks if his wife is staying with you. Would you still tell the truth in this situation?
It is necessary in situations like dealing with someone who might mug you or rob you, or having someone in hiding from a killer, or not letting someone know about a surprise party or surprise outing. There are times that you have to lie. I think it's okay to lie.
I do not condone lying, but there are times when a white lie is needed to get by. Although I know it is wrong to do sometimes, I feel as though I have to give them something to hold on to, so that they don't throw themselves down the well.
It is okay to lie when you are protecting other peoples feelings. It could protect a friendship. Parents sometimes lie to protect their children, which is okay. Kids might need to lie to their parents so that they don't get screamed at (like when Chana hides candy under her pillow).
I understand the arguments made in favor of occasional lying, but lying is still a form of disrespect. Even if you have good intentions, you are still showing no respect by lying. For example, if someone asks if they re prettier than another person, don't lie. Say something wise such as "Don't compare yourself to others. Everyone is beautiful." I know is sounds cliche, but at least you are no lying and showing no respect for that person.
If a person gets himself into a spot where he feels lying is his only way out then he needs to come clean with the truth, take his lumps and learn from his mistakes. Otherwise he needs to keep his mouth shut and hope nobody asks him questions he will feel like lying about. Lying is morally wrong, it destroys one's credibility when the lie is found out and it is demeaning to the person/people being lied to. Man up and accept the consequences.
When we lie to others we are disrespecting their feelings, so if we feel disrespected when someone isn’t honest with us, then how can we justify those little white lies and carefully crafted exaggerations?
If we expect other people to have the courage to be honest with us, then wouldn’t anything but honesty from us be promoting a double standard?
If we do things that require justification we are already doing something we aren't supposed to be doing. Making excuses may sooth our logical mind temporarily, but it doesn’t do anything for the internal conflict that is created. When we deliberately do something that violates our core ethics, it sets in motion a destructive emotional conflict. The end result will be the slow erosion of our core values or the manifestation of some self-sabotaging behavior. Either way, we lose!
Most of us wouldn't go and say that you can steal when you need [the money]. We don't usually say stealing is allowed, and even correct, if the owner has too much [money], or you are stealing for a person who is helplessly poor. So why would lying ever be acceptable?
Lying is stealing relationships, trust and self-confidence. It inflicts pain and can place the giver and receiver in bad situations. And even a small lie can get us tangled and leads on; it can easily cause a 'career' out of lying.
Let us say it is okay to lie when we are protecting a person from harm, for example telling someone you love them when you hate them. This too, however, is not acceptable- by keeping such a thing away from the person, if you think about it, causes more harm. How would you feel if you found out the person you really want to be best friends with, and had even started to accept you a little, really detests you heartily? Shattering! And people do find out- you can't hide such feeling for an extended period of time.
Let us call upon each other to do what is right and prevent pain. Never lie, nor cheat nor deceive. We shall not let society loose it morals. Stand up, brave friends, and choose to make a difference by teaching and practicing the importance of no lies. Together, we can defeat evil!
In my opinion, telling a lie can lead you to another lie. By telling a lie, you waste parts of your brain's energy and destroy a section of your brain. As you know, any negative energy can affect on your personality and prestige. Destroyed brain is ready for another lie and even another crime. So, in my opinion, I strongly believe that telling the truth is the best policy in any situation.
Lying is the same as giving inaccurate information = wrong. Although telling the truth (= giving the right information) isn't always the most practical solution. Everyone lies once in a while, and it sure makes life easier to some extent. But it still doesn't mean that it is the right thing to do.
Telling the truth is always the right thing to do. People lie for different reasons. Some lie to avoid facing the consequences of something they have done, or because it seems more convenient than telling the truth. Others lie in the hope of sparing someones feelings. No matter what the reason for lie, these people do not understand what the long term effect of their actions have on the person being lied to may be. When you lie you are damaging the trust between you and the person you are lying to. Although there are some exceptions, like if it is a personal matter. But lying can also create a false image about you, and ruin potential relationships.
Telling the truth is important. It helps build strong relationships, but can also help damage a relationship. It ruins the trust that someone has in you and it is hard to regain trust. Some people may say that by keeping the truth from someone it will save them from getting hurt. But eventually they will find out and be hurt about what you have done. It is better if they find out sooner than later. By finding out about it, and the fact that you lied, can give them a reason not to trust you.
There are exceptions to when you can lie and when it is not alright. Some exceptions may be like telling a kid about Santa Claus, Easter bunny, tooth fairy, and so on. It’s not particularly harmful because a child needs something to believe in and to have fun on religious holidays. Kids need some sort of fantasy. But other times, let’s say, when someone finds out a secret or something personal about you and confront you with it and you don’t want them to know, you could even just say to them that’s not true. Because personal stuff should just be kept to you.
Lying can also cause loss of identity. Because if you meet a person and you decide to make up all this stuff about yourself to look ‘cool’ and decide to build more of a relationship with this person and the find out they aren’t going to think your that ‘cool’. Then that relationship is ruined, unless they can come to trust you, which not many people today can. Then that person will no longer know who you truly are.
So in the end lying is not a good thing. It can break the trust in a relationship and create a false image about you. If you stick to telling the truth when it comes to small or important things, and keep to those exceptions, you shouldn’t have any problems.
"If we expect other people to have the courage to be honest with us, then wouldn’t anything but honesty from us be promoting a double standard?" I strongly believe that lying is not a good thing and even if you are in a really bad situation and need to lie, you shouldn't.
Lying is wrong, bottom line. But, sometimes a person feels as if they have to do something wrong in order to achieve a greater good. If someone is dishonest and steals a loaf of bread, they have committed a crime. But, they may have felt like the wrong was justified because they needed to feed their hungry children. They still have committed a crime, which is punishable by law. Stealing is still wrong. But, they felt like it was better to do the wrong than to let their child starve. The same thing goes for a lie. Even if a person feels like they have a really good reason to do so, lying is wrong. However, it can be understandable why, in certain circumstances, it might seem like the better option.
It is never morally right to lie. People are constantly try to get out of doing things, or saying things by lying and this never helps it only makes matters worst. It's better to be honest because people deserve to hear how you truly feel. Many people lie for personal gain, jealousy, etc, which is always wrong. If people practiced telling the truth perhaps this world would be a better place. There is so much deception in the world that people compromise their principals and lying is common place, which is very sad. We are imperfect beings but we can always practice living in the light. That's all God ask of us.