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  • I am one

    The majority of the opinions in the No category point out the scientific version of asexuality, saying they cannot reproduce by themselves. Congrats, you have stated the obvious, but missed the point of the debate.

    The debate is about if a person can have no sexual attraction to either sex. The answer is yes. Just as some are hyper sexual, some feel not a whisp. I have never been attracted to a man or a woman. I thought it was normal and that those who did think sexual thoughts were weird. It would not be until I found about asexuality that I knew it.

    Has anyone asked how you knew you were straight? I know that there is something you feel that I do not. I cannot explain it as you can't put it in terms that make sense to me anymore than a sighted person can describe color to a blind man. There will always be some disconnect in the explanation.

    I was not abused as a child. I am not repressing my biological needs in some misguided attempt to gain sympathy or to make myself a purer person. I am who I am. Being asexual does not mean that I shun society or the bonds that keep humanity together.

  • Of course they can!

    Asexuality is not referring to reproduction. The nomenclature also makes perfect sense; "a-" means not, so it literally means "not sexual." Asexuality does not refer to sex drive or libido; many asexuals do have a libido, they just don't have the urge to satisfy it with another person. Asexuality is about sexual attraction and not experiencing it. There's always someone you don't find sexually attractive; this just happens to apply to everyone for an asexual. Educate yourself about asexuality before deciding what someone else can identify as.

  • My Honest Opinion

    Of course they can be asexual! I am asexual and have neither experienced sexual attraction nor wanted to have sex in my life. Albeit, it isn't all that common unfortunately, but it is the way people are and an important part of identity.

    I feel like to deny asexuality would be like denying the existence of heterosexuality or homosexuality or any sexuality really.

  • Definitely yes, but also no.

    In the term of reproduction, of course not. Human beings cannot reproduce multiple versions of themselves. But, people who don't experience sexual attraction do exist. They don't feel sexual attraction and it's perfectly fine. It was once described as like the volume of a radio. Some people will go to certain stations and crank it loud and be happy. And some people will have it low and occasionally bring it up. However, asexual people have no need to use that dial, they're fine with it being silent.

  • Obviously they do!

    It's totally possible to not experience sexual attraction. Some people experience romantic attraction, which is exactly what it sounds like, and others don't - the same goes for sexuality. It's as simple as that. It doesn't mean that you're opposed to sex or had a bad experience with it, it just means you don't experience that sort of attraction.

  • Yes, because I'm not sexually attracted to anyone, which means I'm asexual.

    When looking at someone who's sexually appealing to others and turns people on, I get nothing. I've even tried to look at someone in a sexual way, and the only urge I got was an urge to be close to them. The urge to jump into bed with them wasn't there. It's like hearing TV static; no matter how hard I try to look closely at the picture through all of that white static, I still can't see it as clearly as everyone else can. I only seem to be attracted to people in non-sexual ways.

  • Yup, I'm an ace.

    I mean sure, sex feels good and all, but I really do not care. I have never thought to myself "I want to have sex with that girl". I have never had sex, and I don't care. I'm very apathetic about a lot of things, sex is most certainly one of them. I still feel romantically attracted to females, though. I'm asexual, hetero-romantic.

  • Self Described Asexual

    I am an asexual, which simply means I do not experience sexual attraction. I am 20 years old, and I have never fantasized about having sex with people, never seen a person and wanted to have sex with them, or been interested in porn involving sex between people. I have had sex, and it was fun, but I don't feel like I would miss much if I never had it again. I just don't care about sex.

  • People Can Be Asexual

    Yes, people can be asexual. Sexuality is a continuum. As such, a person can fall anywhere on that continuum, including a complete lack of sexual feeling, which is asexuality. This is not a bizarre or bad thing to be. It is simply one of the many types of sexualities or lack thereof that a person may have.

  • Yes of course!

    People can be whoever and whatever they want in my eyes everyone is equal and deserve equal human rights as everyone else. Being Asexual doesn't make you less of a person, it doesn't make you more of a person, you are equal to me and i think everyone should treat everyone equaly.

  • Read a Book

    How can you even expect to be taken seriously as a phenomenon or movement if you can't even apply proper nomenclature? "Asexual" has a very clear, precise, historical and well-known scientific meaning related to reproduction. You can't just co-opt a term a claim it means something else; the English language is flexible but this misappropriation just serves to further discredit any claims to this "orientation's" validity.

    Posted by: Fig
  • No, people can not be asexual. It is physically and biologically impossible.

    A single person can not reproduce itself on its own. Self-reproduction is the main requirement for being asexual. There a some people that are born with male and female sexual organs, however there has never been a person with both sexual organs that has been able to reproduce another human being.

  • Kids.

    No, people cannot be asexual. Yes, one may be able to fill their sexual needs on their own without a partner but to to truly be asexual, you have to be able to reproduce on your own and humans are not able to do that. It is one thing that is simply not possible.

  • Sure, there will always be people who do not want to have sex.

    However, just because you do not want to have sex with people or you aren't physically attracted to people doesn't make this a "sexuality". It is simply a character trait, or something about you and who you are and what you like and what you don't like. People who aren't interested in other people shouldn't need a new label. I do indeed know it is possible to be a bisexual, homosexual, or heterosexual who is simply not interested in other people, but giving yourself an entirely new name is ridiculous. Simply further classifications on titles that already exist, like we're apart of an animal kingdom chart of sexual orientation. You do not need the title of an "Asexual", because you can simply state "I am not interested in anyone right now."

  • There are better words than "Asexual" to use.

    Like previously stated, "Asexual" denotes reproduction by oneself, like a cell splitting apart. A human naturally can reproduce with two parents to form one offspring. The unnatural changing of gender roles cannot change the physical reproduction system. That being said, there are many other words to use instead of "asexual." Depending on the person there is gay/homosexual, lesbian, bisexual, heterosexual, transexual, and so forth.

  • No. Just no.

    Inherent asexuality would make absolutely no sense. A human's only biological task is to reproduce. However, a lack of sexual urges can be something that an individual makes a conscious decision to have, based on previous experiences with intimate relationships. Otherwise, it is an effective method of avoiding relationships you don't necessarily want.

  • Come on now.

    Asexuality does not refer to someone who lacks sexual desire. That is as stated: low sex drive. Asexuality can not exist among humans, due to the fact it is a reproductive term. I can't make humans with just myself. It is simple biology. It disappoints me to know that so many people are capable of misconstruing this simple fact.

  • They're just lying to themselves.

    It doesn't make sense that someone would be asexual. Our brains are built to want to reproduce. If anyone doesn't feel any sort of sexual attraction to anything, then I think there must be something wrong with them, either emotionally, psychologically, or physically. Maybe something traumatic happened to them that just makes them really afraid of sex. Or maybe they just want to feel "different".

  • It is necessary for people to be sexual.

    It is a part of human nature for a person to want another person. It is what keeps human civilizations from disintegrating. Nobody how much a person says they are asexual, somewhere inside that man or women, there is an emotion that makes him or her from wanting to be with someone else and reproduce children

  • Did you pass high school science?

    Read a motherfucking biology book. Pick up psychology and related neuroscience articles. The very concept of "asexuality" as you hipters call it is not even peer-reviewed. You can't just invent a damn sexuality and pretend that it exists.

    Sexuality is defined by the potential to have an attraction to an individual. Anything beyond that is a psychological problem. The fact that you don't feel attracted to a person at the moment does not mean that you will never.

    If your relativistic definition is true, then EVERYONE becomes asexual every time they get off and lose sexual appetite, an absurdity surely the unscientific regressives can see.


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