If you are struggling with same sex feelings, be honest with your life: one of these tragic events, or something similar, has caused these feelings in your soul—maybe even more than one of these incidents. Don’t discount the cause of your homosexual feelings. To do so will only postpone or completely cancel the healing you need.
We are born with a certain type of sexual attraction and orientation that cannot be changed. Trying to change some ones sexual orientation long term is not possible in my opinion. We can possibly change some ones thoughts, but deep down inside your sexual orientation is already decided and cannot be changed at all.
No, sexual orientation cannot be changed. Behavior can be abstained from or modified but sexual orientation cannot be changed. A straight man could be forced to engage in homosexual behavior or he could choose to engage in homosexual behavior but this would not make him a homosexual. It is the same with homosexuality; forcing gays to engage in heterosexual behavior would not make them heterosexual.