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  • Yes, in some cases

    If you are two people who care about each other, you will still want to know if the other person is doing well in life. For friendship, its not necessary to share a beer every other day. Just being there for each other, discussing your views about things going on around you, sharing your experiences (not all experiences are romance related) creates a strong bond of friendship. Yes, it totally depends on both the people and it is their responsibility to not make things awkward for sustaining the friendship. I believe that our love-life only goes till one limit, while friendship is something more natural, which is needed throughout our life. And by cutting off all bonds, you might just lose a great friend in your life, someone who cares about you a lot.

    Of course, all this only holds true if your relationship did not end on a bitter note.

  • Yep! It just depends on how or why you broke up in the first place.

    I was seeing someone recently for about 2 weeks, and it wasn't great. We just didn't connect in the right ways. No arguments, we just didn't work out. We called it off before it went any further and were still friends! In that example, there was not reason whatsoever why we shouldn't be friends.

    If one of us had wronged the other (i.E. Cheated) then that would be a situation where I couldn't be friends with my partner anymore.

    It also depends on the length of time you're with your partner. Too long a relationship might leave you feeling upset round your ex and it may be best to cut ties altogether to help you both move on.

  • You Two Ended For A Reason

    Even if you two have called it off, feelings may still arise. You will never get over him or her. Starting other relationships will be hard and how would your new partner feel about keeping in contact with previous feelings. So, no... It is not okay to keep in touch with your ex.

  • Of course! Why not?

    Just because you broke up doesn't mean you have to be a jerk to your ex! Speaking from experience, it works best to treat them like a friend, nothing more. =) Makes life more enjoyable, not having to spend time planning how you will avoid him/her or thinking of sarcastic remarks that will just make your ex feel like you threw them into a gutter and left 'em there!

  • Why would you?

    Why would you make a friendship difficult if you were with them for an allotted time? It makes no sense. Even if you tried to be friends one of you could still have feelings for the other person. You would not know what to say because the reason you broke up with the other person is because you did not know what they were really like.
    So, in conclusion you do not really know the person you went out with if you do not understand them.

  • You Two Ended For A Reason

    Even if you two have called it off, feelings may still arise. You will never get over him or her. Starting other relationships will be hard and how would your new partner feel about keeping in contact with previous feelings. So, no... It is not okay to keep in touch with your ex.


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TrustmeImlying says2014-03-25T15:44:20.020
Depends on which one...