Yes, nice guys finish last, because people often disregard their wishes. The saying is that the squeaky wheel gets the grease. The same is true with guys. The person who clamors the loudest for something is often the one that gets it. This is true even if they are annoying or not as competent as someone else.
Unfortunately, people who act nice all the time are usually taken advantage of. It is necessary to be selfish and ruthless sometimes. We are biological creatures, and our lives are governed by the idea of survival of the fittest. The strongest get ahead in life at the expense of the weak.
Nice guys are the trees with all their flowers bloomed bad guys have no flowers because they’re DEAD and the poor gardener has false hope to water these dead flowers in hope that they will grow, but in the end the nice guy is growing and eventually the bad guy will get ripped out of the ground because the gardener realizes that he is never going to become that beautifully blossomed nice guy. ‘Nice guys finish last’ how could anyone possibly agree with this adage? I mean how could a NICE guy possibly finish last? I guess to fully grasp this topic we must first know what a nice guy or a bad guy is. When people think of a nice guy they generally think of someone who is: intelligent, under appreciated, docile, respectful, trustworthy, innocent and rare may just be a few that come to mind, but what is the true definition of a nice guy.
A nice guy is an informal term for a teenage or adult male who is gentle, compassionate, and sensitive.
Whereas a bad guy is an unpleasant person or someone who is unwelcome. Even the definition states that this bad person is not wanted.
In no situation does a nice guy finish last, I mean seriously: In careers a nice guy will get hired over a bad guy, in social situations people prefer nice guys as their friend, in living arrangements nice guys earn respect. Could you imagine what would happen if you acted in an unacceptable manner in your parent’s house, you would not be tolerated. The list can go on and in every situation the nice guy wins.
You might be thinking of this wrong, there’s a difference between nice guys and pathetic guys. Pathetic guys are the ones who follow girls around, get used, those guys that don’t know when to stop. A nice guy, a genuine nice guy and not those fake nice guys. A genuine nice guy thinks about his actions before pursuing them, this guy knows when to hold on and to let go, he has it all figured out.