If bisexuals didn't exist then, where did you get that "bisexual" word? Why bother ask or post something like this if it doesn't exist. Of course it exists. I have a lots of friends who are bisexual. I guess they just love the life they live and deserved the things they have now.
Yes there are many bisexual posers and people who believe they're bisexual but would never date the same gender, but there are still true bisexuals out there. For me, as I am bisexual. I have the thought that gender is nothing should it really matter what gender a person is? Love shouldn't be stopped but such a silly thing. Bisexual people are usually (not always) very open for they usually (again not always) will listen to anyone about there problems. Sometimes a person may become bisexual because they find more comfort in both sexes instead of just the opposite sex.
I've met bisexual people, been friends with two bisexual people, read about people who happen to be bisexual, and social studies and statistics on demographics include information regarding bisexuals.
I believe some people doubt the existence of bisexuality either because it is less common than homosexuality, let alone heterosexuality, or because they find it easier to accept clear divisions into two groups (part of the same reason homosexuals are often stereotyped as so different from heterosexuals).
There are no certainties, and all people live their lives somewhere between being straight and gay to varying degrees. There is no question of this; it isn't some unknown question 'out there', it's a state of being that nobody chooses, and we're thrust at different positions. It is naive to dismiss large proportions of people who identify themselves in the middle of this spectrum.
I'm bisexual and I know I exist. I get constantly told that I'm a homosexual that's too scared to come out as gay and I'm using bisexuality as a shield, or that I'm heterosexual and trying to seem cool. I get told I'm a fence sitter, that I haven't "chosen" a side yet, that it's a phase I'll grow out of, that I must be a nymphomaniac, and a lot of other ridiculous sort of things. I don't understand why some people find it so hard to believe that a human being can be attracted to both genders, because I don't always understand how you cannot be attracted to a beautiful person.
I am bisexual, I was born bisexual, and I will die bisexual. Some days my sexuality leans more towards women, some days my sexuality leans more towards men, and some days it is a 50/50 split. The point, dear readers, it that I have the potential to be attracted to both.
Furthermore, I have known I'm bisexual for about 5-6 years; this is not a phase.
Yes, I do intend to get married one day and stay faithful and when that happens I will still be bisexual no matter what gender I end up with. My sexuality exists outside of who I am with. No, I am not a nymphomaniac and yes, I do have the ability to be in a committed, monogamous relationship.
You don't have to be exactly half "gay" and half "straight". I have a type for guys (just like most girls have) and a type for girls (it's slightly a rare type, but once I find it, I am attracted). I am more 70% heterosexual and 30% homosexual. We are not confused. So stop saying that.
The Kinsey scale exists for a reason. Sexuality isn't black and white. Straight and gay are convenient labels because humans are actually very primitive and like concrete organized answers.
Let's be clear about one thing, bisexuality does not mean you are equally attracted to both sexes. It means that you have some sort of sexual attraction for both.
I would venture to say that we are all bisexual to a certain extent. However, sexual labels are mostly a matter of comfort and identity. You can see from the "no" answers how important it is for a lot of people to not question the social norm.
If you are mainly attracted to women but have a homoerotic thought now and again, I don't think that you would be lying to yourself in stating that you're heterosexual. However, it wouldn't be incorrect to say you are bisexual either.
My point is, your sexual identity is up for you to decide, and you alone are the person who knows best.
If someone says they are bi, we should believe them.
The people who say that bisexual people don't exist just can't conceive the idea that someone can be attracted to both genders and that just baffles me. And people don't do it for attention, there are bisexual people I knew for years without knowing about their sexuality, and even then it briefly came up in conversation one time. And it isn't just a phase, if it was what about people who've been openly bi for decades, if that's just a phase then those people realising their sexuality is taking its sweet time.
Just because a bisexual has a preference for one gender over the other does not mean you are not bisexual. Bisexuality means bring attracted to two genders. Nothing in the definition implies that it must be equal. Having a preference doesn't change the fact that you are attracted to both.
True bisexuality would mean that a person has absolutely no preference to what gender they have sex with. This is untrue. "Bisexuals" have a bias, however so small, for one sex over the other. I think in most cases, a "bisexual" is a confused homosexual who has not determined which preference they will stick with.
These are my fifty words supporting the above statement. After meet thousands of people in my 26 years of existence, and hundreds of gay men, I have never met a bonafide, actual, bisexual man. Proof enough for me, and proof enough for my friends who have experience the exact same thing.
No one is 50/50 sexual. One leans toward one sexuality over the other, and therefore true bisexuality (50/50) does not exist.
True bisexuality would mean that a person has absolutely no preference as to what gender they have sex with. This is untrue. "Bisexuals" have a bias, however small, for one sex over the other. I think in most cases, a "bisexual" is a confused homosexual who has not determined which preference they will stick with.
Plus if we were meant to be bisexual then we would have both male and female parts. We are male and female. The two go together. Females have the eggs, and males have the sperm to fertilize the egg. It is meant to be either male or female.
I have nothing against anyone who identifies as bisexual, to be clear. However, I believe people who claim to be attracted to both men and women are just confused about their sexuality. To be sexually attracted to someone is a biologically hardwiring for us so that we have kids. That's the truth. When you're gay or lesbian, there is a psychological difference from the norm. (Though these differences aren't bad) However, how can it be possible that you are somehow psychologically hardwired to like both men and women? Feelings of sexual attraction to someone are caused by surges of hormones that cause arousal. (this sounds weird, but bear with me) In gay/lesbian people, the psychological difference means these surges happen in an opposite way. However, do you know how much of a psychological difference (and what a specific difference) would be needed to create someone who gets surges from both men and women? The thing is, the surge in a straight woman comes from a man. This psychological state exists already. That's why it is less farfetched for a man to be gay, because the psychological state already exists. I think people who identify as bisexual are confusing emotional attachment and sexual attraction.
"Bisexuals" are just 12 year old kids who fit in with the bandwagon of this nonexistant bisexual. It doesn't work with the world. Gggggggg g g g g g g gg g g g g g g g g g g g g g g g g g g g g
Even if given concrete proof that someone who claims a bisexual identity isn't just a sex addict in hiding, I still wouldn't believe it and never will. Let's remove the b from lgbt. It isn't a real identity. Nothing will ever convince me otherwise. 100& gay man here. The end.
It's become trendy to be bisexual. Actually being bi is very rare, fewer than 10% probably. U can sleep with men women but doent mean ur bi. Most bisexuals are either gays who are scared of coming out or straight girls who think being bi is sexy. Being attracted equally to men and women is very rare
It means your attracted to both, but the thing is, you can like both. If you lean towards men a little more then women, you can still like men same goes if you like men more. Its not going to erase the fact that you still like both. People have preferences and that goes for everything. We all have types and preferences we prefer sexually, bisexuals just apply it to both the same and opposite gender.
I'm bisexual. I don't like all females, nor do I like all males. I have a taste in men and a taste in woman, but I would never date two people at the same time. To me, I am slightly genderblind, meaning it doesn't matter to me if you are female or male, I'm going to fall inlove with you because I'm attracted to you physically, mentally and spiritually. I don't speak for all bisexuals though, some may be different but basically if you like two genders you are bisexual.
Bisexual is the reason why more and more people are getting divorced. Are you suggesting these people to marry both genders ? Because that's impossible and illegal unless you're a believer in Islam. Even in Islam, one can have many wives but that's it, it's also limited to one gender.