I have had a taste and it is real. I lost my love but now that I know it, i know it. Love is amazing and can set the heart free. My love is lost because he had to do the right thing and be with his wife. But what I felt was very real.
I am positive that true love exists. I have experienced it myself. My husband and I met when we were nineteen. We fell in love with each other almost immediately, and were married two years later. There has never been a day in the almost 50 years that we have been married that I have not loved my husband, and known that he loved me also.
True love exists because the Bible says that God brings people together for the purpose of marrying one another. When God brings that perfect match into a persons life the opportunity for true love to occur becomes possible. One reason that people do not think true love exists is because they just marry anybody that comes into their lives without consulting God or even thinking whether this is the right person that He desires them to marry.
True love exists, but it is not the romantic garbage so often displayed on TV. That is not love, but lust. True love is when a person truly seeks what is best for another person. It is not destroyed by the loved one's actions. It forgives, understands and is patient. The definition of true love is found in the Bible, 1 Corinthians 13 for those who are interested. If it can be combined with romantic love in a married couple, then that makes it even better. True love is a choice. It is not selfish.
I recall when I didn't believe in true love, but when I met my dream and fell in love, it changed my viewpoint. What would you call it when you can't live without someone? When you want to give without expecting anything in return? Or, when you believe in someone in all circumstances and stand by him/her? If it's not true love, then what it is?
Whether love is a biochemical hormonal rush or a psychological state of bonding to a person, the state of love does exist. The word exists in every language, in every culture, and in every known civilization. Love exists except for very few psychopaths, making it one of the few true human norms. Because love is universal, it can be true for everyone. It may be between parents and children, spouses, friends, or other family, but it can be true for everyone.
For as many definitions of "true love" that I know of, I believe they are all possible. In terms of loving another person, I believe that true love is really the acceptance of another human being. This definition can be expanded to the rest of the world and to the self. True love and acceptance are almost the same thing. So, yes, I do believe that true love exists.
If you're just waiting for true love to show up and take care of you, you'll likely look for a long time. If you are looking for someone to love, then you may well have better luck. It's more likely that your love will be returned than that you will merit love without showing it first. None of us are deserving of love all the time and sometimes this love will be returned in kind for a while and then the other person will fail dismally and betray us. That doesn't mean the love was never real. It does mean that it wasn't enough. If both partners are willing to practice loving even when they don't feel like it, then true love can only grow.
True love exists and what's more, it only takes one! The truest love of all is often unrequited; it's true because it is pure and unadulterated by reality! True love exists between a mother and child, between an artist and art, between a child and his first puppy. Anywhere that passionate feeling is not tainted by selfish desire, true love exists and thrives.
When two people love each other, it is a wonderful thing. The longer you can sustain the initial romantic part of your young relationship, the better. When two people really have the chance to get to know each other and to consummate after a long drawn out romantic phase, this is a wonderful thing.
This serves as wonderful memories for you. For although life is bitter sweet, there is nothing like looking back over the ocean of your life and being able to see the beauty of the moments.
The important thing to realize is that different people get together for different reasons. A success in a marriage can serve as an example of success generally. In the same way someone might commit to mastering a skill in their life, a successful marriage is built on working out the daily process of having a successful marriage in the long term.
The yearning many of us have to be in love with someone else is indicative of a deeper yearning for a relationship and connection to 'life' and the mystery of eternity.
People have phases in life. If a young couple fall in love and commit, within a decade they both will be in a different phase within their lives. If they marry in their 20's, they are in a sense still adolescents working out how to live.
The important thing is not to worship your partner and not to make them the center of your life. This is particular important for the 16 - 21 year old's. If you can help it please do not spend this critical phase of your life fussing and worrying over a relationship. It is important for you to realize your personal life goals and to study for your adult life.
After kissing LOTS of frogs and married/divorced once already. It was when I turned 33 when fate placed my husband on my path. It has been 4 years together now and it still feels like our first date. True believers and open hearts are the most receiving of the gift of true love!
This experience can make you believe anything or make you the craziest person in the world. It does not matter whether you are pretty, smart or handsome and smart. Nothing would matter when your with the one that truly matters. When you have finally found who you are and who is the true love, it wont matter if you live in a cardboard box. Just as long as you are together it will be perfect!
True love does exist for those who want it to. My reason? I've seen it at work in many people. Are you happy to be who you're with? If so, true love exists for you. The most common place to find it is in the hearts of those you love. They share the power of true love, if they didn't they wouldn't be together.
The idea and the concept stems from an understanding from a story unwritten from ages ago that exonerates the meaning of the phrase. We don't know it because we don't know it, we don't see it because we haven't seen it, but it is there and it is good. The reason that we seek it is because we are designed to do so, as well as many would say, to procreate, but I believe we look to find true love because our true happiness comes from a great care and understanding of oneself as well as another. We seek in this world to find both ourselves and the answers, and when we find true love we have found both. We need it like water, and much like a hidden well, we never find it until we have found it, and will not feel is waters until we have unwittingly and unintentionally submerged ourselves within it.
Some people have a negative experience during a bad relationship. This just means they need to find a better match. Don't let one bad experience make you believe otherwise. There are 7 billion people on this planet, I'm sure there's a match for everyone. Each experience gets your closer to finding someone better for you.
I know that true love exists, because I have found it for myself, and am lucky enough to share it with my wife. Of course, my anecdotal experience proves nothing. I see it in others, however. Every day you see people doing things and making sacrifices that can be explained by nothing other than love. True love exists. You can see it every day, if you're willing to look.
Evidence of the true love of God is made evident through grace. Grace is evident in nature, in love received without expectation, and in receipt of any unexpected gift.
It is easy to become jaded, based on past romantic relationships that did not work out as planned. But, people should not give up on the hope of finding true love. Like many things that are easier to find when you're not looking, unexpectedly, you may meet the right person for you. Love is a connection between two people, and you know when it is there. To make it last, you must add respect, honesty, and trust. These things, mixed together, make up true love.
Everything in this word, at least most things, are abstract concepts which don't really exist. However, true love does exist. Love is a feeling, and feelings are there, regardless of the institutions we have set up. Without this love, one wouldn't find a partner to mate with. And, without mating, we won't reproduce and perpetuate this species forward. True love is a key in the breeding process of humans.
When you have a greater desire to please and provide for someone else, rather than yourself, that is true love. When you wake up in the morning and you are happier to see someone than you are to be alive, that is true love. While there may be virtually limitless ways of defining true love, it very much exists. I believe that the mere fact that there are so many ways to define it proves its existence.
Yes, I believe true love exists and that people are really meant to be with a certain person. Some people find that person more quickly than others and remain married for 50 or more years. Some have several marriages before finding their true love. I think the fact that some people can remain married for so long and feel alone, broken, and saddened at the passing of their spouse, are signs that true love is real.
There are so many people that are truly in love, you cannot deny that it exists. The misfortune of some people not willing to wait for true love is astounding, because then they are stuck in a relationship that they should not be in. Sometimes you don't know who your true love is for awhile, and think that just because you are friends, then there cannot be anything else, which is a total farce.
There are many examples of couples who have survived depression, raising children, and other hardships. That is the best example of true love. True love must exist because there has to be someone a person can depend on for support and encouragement. True love makes the world a more welcoming place to live.
I have to share my testimony to the world because i dont know who it might be helpful to. I know my comment is not related to the discussion here but i only want to use this opportunity to share the testimony to friends here too.
My name is Mrs Elizabeth Peters from chicago am 25 years old i got married at the age of 23 i have only one child and i was living happily .After one year of my marriage my husband behavior became so strange and i don’t really understand what was going on, he packed out of the house to another woman i love him so much that i never dream’s of losing him, i try my possible best to make sure that my husband get back to me but all to no avail, i cry and cry seeking for help, i discussed it with my best friend Allix and she promise to help me. She told me of a man called DR KOBOKO YYA, she told me he is a very great man and a real man that can be trusted and there is nothing concerning love issues he cannot solve and she told me how he has help countless number of people in restoring their relationship. I was really convince, I quickly contacted his email address at dr.Koboko@gmail.Com . I explain all my problem to him, he told me that i should not worry that all my problems will be solved immediately. He told me what to do to get my husband back and i did, he said after 3days my husband will come back to me and start begging, and it really happen as he said, i was very surprise, this is so amazing.
To God be the glory our relationship is now very tight and we both live happily again. If you having similar problem, Contact him now (dr.Koboko@gmail.Com) and get your problem solve once and for all.
Love in terms of lust will never last forever, and it is not a true love, like what is shown in movies, I don't believe in so called "true love " they mention. But true love is like how your parents love you, true love means loving someone in way you want to make him/her happy even if s(he) has to be with someone else to be happy. True love never asks but gives. True love isn't shown by kissing/hugging, but shown in way a person want to make his/her love happy.
True love won't cling, true love isn't blind. You're blinded by lust, but when you find a true one you won't be blinded. You understand relationships my be ended, your loved ones will leave you ( either they die or leave you in every other ways), your loved ones will changed.
It's sad that people here talk they believe in true love when they are in love and they don't believe it while their hearts are broken.
See, love can be lust and also turns into commitment. If you talk about those imaginary happily ever after movies, I will say those kind of loves never exist.
But if you can accept and see the reality, there you go, find your true love.
I myself dated once, he had an affair, but I later realized how I hoped for his happiness with his new gf.
And yes I believe I can find other love, see true love is not about fate, but it's about your choice. My ex chose to leave me and didn't hv any commitment, so our relationships ended because we didn't have commitment.
Now I just have to find my other loves and choose my own true love. Oh yes we can fall in love as many as we want, but doesn't mean true love doesn't exist. :)
True love has to be REAL!
Most people don't know what love is anymore. They lost interest in it. But I believe in true love. I'm still 17 years old and I know I don't have any experience in love nor did I every have a boyfriend, but there has to be a person out there for whom I would die! To be honest, I also have my doubts, because couple's break up easily and forget everything like nothing happened.... But then there are moments when I see people who have been together for many years and I start to believe again. I think if you believe in love than true love exists, if not then there will be never true love in your life. You just have to change your thoughts and see what will happen (:
I love it when I see old people together...
Coz it makes me believe that true love really exist ..!!
True love is about two true hearts!!
We see many others out side and think that we should have one who is afraid of loosing us.
What ever it may be, if you love someone express it.
Don't bother about other things!!
It's hurtful, it's painful, it's terrible, it's sad......But admit it, life would be a total bore without it! It hurts a lot but it's worth the try. Life tests you, it is hard but never stop believing, show that you are strong enough, try to be strong enough and you'll reach it, it is worth it! I'm saying this, even though today that I got my heart messed up
It depends on what you believe, if you love yourself you sure will find the one for you, but if you think you're not that deserving than there's a big chance you're not a believer in true love.
Finding true love is not an aim for life, give love and you'll sure find it in return.
In this era there aren't many people that believes in "Love", in fact they are lost the maze of their hearts and minds. Humanities these days get confused with their feelings due to hopelessness, and trust. Usually and eventually turns into selfish desires and conflicts. Love cannot be explained by calculations, or science to understand it, but it can be expressed in the heart of a human's heart.
When we are in love we can do anything.. Specially in love, we are free from our tired hopeless life... If you really love someone He/She will definitely fall in love with you because its a rule of nature. I hope sooner you and I find true love in real life.
I am 17 years old. I am agree that I am pretty young, but since I was born I have never seen true love. People do date and they do marry each other , but they do that because of their selfish reasons. I have been in relationships a few times, but that was enough for me to understand that true love doesn't exist. Once I loved a man older than I am, and I was desperate about him, I allowed him to be really close to me, but all he wanted was sex so he left me in a year. He said he loved me more than life itself but would he go away if it was truth? I don't believe in love; my parents never loved each other, they never told each other they love one another, never hugged or kissed. I tried to love someone too, but I am not capable, I am not capable to get attached to a person, I never loved someone first, I really tried..... But I wish love existed.
In the context of 'romantic' true love, I believe that two people will feel highly attracted to each other based on a combination of hormones (e.g. oxytocin) and neurotransmitters that activate their 'reward' centers of their brain, leading to feelings of attachment to each other. The level of oxytocin released is proportional to the levels of attachment they have for each other.
That said, I'm happy to be proved wrong. I would love to fall in love with someone and grow old with them. I admire people that sit next to their partner when they are ill/going through a tough time, and give them the support, love and encouragement.
These days all guys just want quick sex nothing else. I mean all guys are players. They use a girl and throw her away like used tissue. Now I am not against the idea of love. Yes, there was love 50 years ago. But its the 21st century. Men just need objects to satisfy their needs. They want pleasure not love. They'll use the sexy women and then not remember their names. Kids and teens are losing their virginity so young. This world has come to greed and lust only. It is impossible to find love. In the end there will be heartbreak. I mean even if they say they love you, put a sexy woman in front of him and he will jump her. They will cheat. Go to clubs and see people making out or just hooking up and one night stands is all there is today. I so hope to be proved wrong in the future but sadly that is not possible.
Sorry, but it is all a fight for dominance and power! Seduction is the strongest weapon ever invented! Cleopatra used it and succeeded! I dont think there is true love in this world! Only lust combined with insecurity, both of which we interpret as "love." Maybe there is only instinct and we act in love just to satisfy it.
You think you love someone? You can't love someone for who they are, because people can never know each other 100%. When you think you're in love, it's your mind who plays with reality, and makes your "lover" perfect for you (perfect does not exist, nor does love). Maybe you think you love someone, but I bet that one of you will love the other one more, and the one who loves most, will be used in this evil game called love. BE with someone you trust, respect and admire. Not love like a fool.
The definition of love is having a deep affection for someone. I believe that true love occurs over time. You invest your time into someone which causes you to love them. When people say "It was love at first sight", it causes me to wonder if it was really a deep affection sparked by looking at each other. In my opinion, it was "lust at first sight". The relationship was based solely on looks, and not on any character traits. If you look at the story of Romeo and Juliet, Romeo was madly in love with Rosaline in the beginning because she was so beautiful. He became dangerously depressed when he found he couldn't be with her. When he saw Juliet at a party one night, he completely forgot about Rosaline because Juliet was the most beautiful woman he had ever laid eyes on. This goes to show that you can not truly love someone because of how pretty they are, you fall in love based on their personality.
Because I love one person but he is younger than me so only I feel that love is not true. I love him truly but I cant able to marry him. Because he is younger than how it possible to marry him if god makes me marry him I will be the happiest person in the world.
Love is an over rated feeling. You would meet someone, like him, talk for hours, have fun, plan your future ahead but a few months or years down the line if things don't fall as per our convenience you will call it off. Is that love..No..True love does not exists.
All around me I only see people being together for something they perceive as the future. Nobody actually seems to care about the person they are with. Only if the person has a pretty good future lying ahead that is. I think our society is only focused about money. If I, for instance, wouldn't have a good career lying ahead of me, I probably wouldn't find someone willing to date me, love me, etc. It's not about ''love'', nobody gives a rats ass about these emotions, as long as they can see a stable future. Marriage and relationships are not about love or emotions, but solely about money. Money rules everything around me.
I have seen a lot of relationships in my lifetime, and ALL have failed. Even if it did last all your life, eventually it would end, because people die, you know. I also have never experienced true love, not even toward family, friends, lovers, no one. Love is just a lie people tell themselves so they aren't lonely, but sooner or later, you will be FORCED to accept it.
People are becoming increasingly self centered and distracted. Everyone has choices. The internet and flight has interconnected everyone. Today's generation realizes there are X billion people on the Earth. We have a better grasp on the immensity of humans. We also have been brought up to live to our full potential. We have an immense amount of choices and control in our lives and that is the tragedy of our generation. We have this idea that oh stick with xyz til we find someone who looks better, understands us better, or is a better lover. In our capitalist society we have become consumers of people. With that kind of mentality prevalent in society it is hard for true love to flourish
What does love really mean? Does it mean a 'deep affection' for someone that 'lasts forever'? Or does it mean a fantasy where you have a 'deep affection' for someone, tell them you 'love' them, be with them for 10 years, 5 years or even a month, then break apart. Then months or years later, find a man who you have deep affection to, tell them you 'love' them and repeat all of the same process you did on the first man who you assumed you 'love'. But then you think about that other man you loved and you question yourself, did you even ever love him? Because if you did, why is it that now you 'love' this other man? So you think about your future with this other man. Will you be with him for another 10 years or so?, or will it end sooner than you think? Is it worth it to be with him even though somehow someday you two will break apart. Maybe. Is this love that you feel for him the real meaning of 'true love'? No one knows. Will you wait and find out? Is it worth it? I know that I'm a negative person but will someone experience the true meaning of love that will last forever someday? I hope so. The meaning of love has been muddled over the years, that it has become so complicated for everyone to really know what the true meaning of love is. For me true love never ends, you can never love someone as much as you loved the 'one'. You can't ever replace him with someone else because if you did, the way you think you felt about him is not the 'real love'. I think couples love is only a one time deal and is only meant for one person. You don't love someone if you or he will just replace each other for someone better. You don't love someone if you don't trust him. You love someone because of who he/she is.Does true love exist nowadays? I don't know but deep inside me, I don't think so.
People think it exists but the truth is later they, all of them will realize that again its been proved that it does not exist. If it does i wont be a lonely person for almost 27 years. I would be with a man. I don't know if anyone at least knows what true love is. Unfortunately all are living in a facade and a false dream. Once you come in to reality u will understand what true love is and that u have never really met it. I'm talking about love between a man and a woman. But i truly believe that Mothers love is true! :)
all the supporting opinions are for pcychological status reached by certain hormones and chemical reaction. sure we customarily say mother loves her son. but it is nothing but human expression of biological reaction whatever caused it. we' re using such expression to make things look great not because such entity exists in real. love is so poorly defined and i wouldn't rather use it at all.
If Hitler loved god and said that god said to him to eliminate human madness by killing people, is this acceptable?
If the cannibal loved his wife and they tried to become one body forever by eating it. is this love?
Love is an attachment.
Many people have an attachment but they call it love instead of what it really is.